Negotiations Part III
Wednesday, December 10
Negotiations, Part III
Negotiating tips:* Find out what the other party wants and help them get it.*Don't get defensive. Stay positive and confident.* You will have better negotiations if the other party knows you have other options and with those other options, they will lose the deal.* Blame Someone Else. If you do not want to give a concession, blame your spouse, partner, attorney, etc. etc. This way, it appears that you want to give the concession, but can not due to the other blamed party.* Perception - Make it appear that you do not want the deal, or that you don't need them as much as they need you.* Refer to a third party or bring in an expert to back up your position.* Work ONLY on issues that can be resolved. If you are stuck on an item, then move on to something else and come back to it.* Question the other party's statements with your research. Example: Question their appraisal with a statement of, "based on my reasearch," then show them actual comps.* Challenge the written word. If you do not like what you see in a contract, then cross it out. Just because it is written, does not mean you have to agree to it. Everything is negotiable.* Give positive verbal and non-verbal feedback.* Ask permission to take notes. If there is ever a discrepancy down the road, you can refer back to your notes and show them.* Never respond to hostility with hostility.* Only issue an ultimatum when you are willing to force their hand and if need be, walk from the deal.* Never leave the offer open ended. Be sure there is a deadline which creates urgency on their part.In the final post, Negotiations Part IV, I will discuss concessions. Stay tuned.
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