Tyler,
A homeowner can do on their own what any consultant can do and charge them for. Most banks don't like consultants because 99.9% of them don't know their head from a whole in the ground. This is the sad truth.
Noe,
You cannot pick what options you want based on what is best for you the homeowner. The bank goes down a checklist and does workout options in a certain order. You either qualify or you don't. Calling back and talking to someone else is not going to work because the system will be documented about what happened and why so the chances of getting another rep and them doing something outside the box is essentially nil in my book. Of course anything can happen and I have seen some crazy things but I wouldn't count on this type of thing helping you.
Christopher,
Their was someone on this forum who posted that they did a work out without being delinquent so I don't want to say it is impossible. But I have never seem it happen in all my years in loss mit and remain skeptical of it happening. Granted, being delinquent before being eligible for a workout seems crazy from the homeowner's view but from the bank view, as stated, why would they lower their revenue stream to be a nice guy? Their job is to lend money. Period.
The reason you didn't qualify is because the numbers say you can't afford the home on your reduced income. Going from 40k to 15k in income that shouldn't be much of a surprise. Before you are eligible for any workout option to stay in the home, you have to show continued affordability of the home. If you can't, then you don't have any realistic options to stay in the home. I know that is not what you want to hear but that is the way it is.
Having said that, I do feel for your situation. I would recommend trying to sell and if that doesn't work, your only options are probably a short sale or DIL.
Good luck
Mike C