Losing everything and starting over was one of the greatest gifts to my investing career that I could ever imagine. You learn how to live on dollar amounts smaller than you could imagine so that when opportunities arise that need cash - you can afford to invest.
Similar situation occurred in my life. I basically got ripped off by someone I trusted. It IS a gift. For me it was a clean slate, inspiration to think creatively, and to THINK in general about what I wanted out of life and where I wanted to end up.
I put down Napoleon Hill, and picked up books by Henry David Thoreau and took up a new motto: " We are happy in proportion to the things we can do without" .
I also put down Robert Kiyosaki and started reading Timothy Ferriss-- his book, The Four Hour Work Week is a neo-American-minimalist manifesto. In a nutshell the premise of the whole book is that TIME is the real treasure, that work is a means to an end, and that your career " what you do" isn't as important as " who you are" .
He correctly points out that most people don't actually want to be millionaires, but rather they want what they think only a million dollars can provide.
Way too many " gurus" make a pretty nice living convincing people they've got to make millions and while people have $ signs in their eyes and are looking at the yachts, and sports cars, and big houses in their inspired dreams, they miss the fact that the gurus are taking them for the few thousand bucks they've got.
Why is the genius that can teach you to make $500K a year investing in real estate flying to Chicago in the middle of February and trying to extract $2K from you? Seems to me if I was making $500K a year- I wouldn't be hanging out at some REIA in Chicago in the dead of winter...