Dan Inc, I'm still waiting for an email:), per my 04/22/2011 post. I'm still looking for low LTV investments for my SDIRA.
Regarding solicitation, I provided my opinion (prior posts) for the SEC and the state. We (meaning others in the BP nation) are clearly not all on the same page. I'm just reading the SEC's own text about exemptions like Rule 504, which says:
"Rule 504 provides an exemption for the offer and sale of up to $1,000,000 of securities in a 12-month period... in general you may not use public solicitation or advertising to market the securities... However, you can use this exemption for a public offering of your securities and investors will receive freely tradable securities under the following circumstances:
* You register the offering exclusively in one or more states that require a publicly filed registration statement and delivery of a substantive disclosure document to investors;
* You register and sell in a state that requires registration and disclosure delivery and also sell in a state without those requirements, so long as you deliver the disclosure documents mandated by the state in which you registered to all purchasers; or,
* You sell exclusively according to state law exemptions that permit general solicitation and advertising, so long as you sell only to "accredited investors," a term we describe in more detail below in connection with Rule 505 and Rule 506 offerings."
(Note, I added the emphasis above.)
Bullet 1: NC doesn't require publicly filed registration statement for exempt transactions
Bullet 2: Disclosure in NC not applicable for exempt transactions
Bullet 3: Sell to accredited investors, as permitted by NCGS 78A-49.(d) for exempt transactions
For those who don't know, an accredited investor == high net worth investors.
The short answer to "...does anyone actually actively solicit and feel confident that they are in full compliance?" is Yes. Until I see case law or a document from an SEC page showing otherwise, I've outlined my view. I like Zion's approach to luncheons and password protecting pages. I already to the latter. The former is a technique Allen Cogwell and others use. Probably a good idea if your "sell" is impeccable. Helps if you are also an accredited investor or have an incredible (and verifiable) track record.
And yes, I think you should be careful in your ads. Seek you own legal guidance if you feel compelled because I am not an attorney. For sure the "safe" routes are do nothing or do a full registration. I believe both are not ideal ideas given your context... but I'm not you.