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Homeowner · Trenton, New Jersey


Hello all,

If anyone could share their thoughts/experiences with evicting tenants for non payment of rent, I would be most grateful. I file for an eviction hearing which I will need to attend in 2 weeks and I am having a lot of anxiety. Just to give some back ground information, I tried my best to do the right thing as a landlord, but I'm sure I have been mistakes during the process. This one if truly a drama story, so read on and hopefully you won't be so upset at my decisions :
We signed the lease on 12/27/2010 for one year. After a credit check was done, etcetera, on the day we met to sign the lease, I was soo STUPID to agree to allow them to give the security deposit in January (when income tax was received - which of course I never got). We bartered and since they needed to move, we agreed that they would pay ½ of the first months rent and in return they would complete the rest of the painting that needed to be done in the home and a few other minor things that needed to be taken care of. ALL of the above was documented on the lease however. They had the option to pay the rent via a check, money order or to deposit directly into my account and they chose to deposit directly into my account because we have the same bank. I would send them a receipt and I have my bank statements to prove exactly what they deposited and on which date. They have never disputed my receipts. On the second month after they moved in (February 2010), they were short $190 on the rent. Not to mention that I wasn't even renting the home to make money, they rent is JUST for me to be able to pay the mortgage!!! So I am always in the negative with repairs, etc. Anyway, we got passed that, but they still have not paid that. Then they call me in April telling me that they will be $110 short, we get past that (of course I still have not been paid for that). They call me in May to say the same thing and that his unemployment check finished and that he didn't even have $ to make it to football practice. I told him that I just can not accept that any more. The tenant also had the nerve to tell me that he knows that the reason why I have bad credit is because I can't pay my mortgage on time, so he would help me get my mortgage rate reduced (mind you doesn't know how much mortgage I pay and it's none of his business)! I told him my credit is none of his business and it has nothing to do with the rent and that the reason why I can't pay my mortgage is because THEY are not paying their full rent!!! (my credit was perfect at the point, who does he think he is??? Unbelievable, he's not worried about getting a roof over his head for his fiancés, 2 kids and future baby because I find out she is pregnant), he's worried about $ for football practice!!! Despite his nonsense, during that conversation I offered for them to purchase the home and even offered to help them find a lesser expensive rent (the rent they are paying is only $890 and that money goes directly to pay the mortgage!!!). I told them that I've seen places that had more rooms for lesser money and that I would even pay for a rental truck AND put up the security for them to move IF they come up with the rent to move in some place more affordable. They made it seem as if I was trying to hustle them, I'm like listen, if you can't pay the rent, then something has to give, I can't accept this any more, I was working on getting some repairs done in the home and they were sucking me dry with this rent business, so they paid the rent in full that month. In May I hire a contractor to do the following repairs in the home: fix a window that would not stay up, fix some missing soffit on side of house above their bedroom window, install a new bathroom sink, replace the bathroom shower head and re-tile, installed missing pieces of the backyard fencing, and I even threw in a new front door (because I knew it would make them feel more secure than the wood door that was there). They had requested a new front door after they moved in but I told them that it would not something I could promise them. I got a decent deal so I was able to do it. Then they call me telling me that they are getting bit by "spiders". I'm calling all around town to shop around for exterminators and all who I spoke to said its bedbugs!!! I told the tenants about what I found out and they insisted that it was "spiders". So I told them that it was going to be costly to get rid of "bed bugs" and that I would need the past due amounts of back rent to help me pay for this, so to date this has never been cleared out. After the repairs were done, they contractor called me to tell me what exactly he did and the tenants confirmed the work that was done and said they liked the work, the only problem was that the contractor needed a longer ladder for the soffit and certain pieces for the window that needed to be ordered, so he said he would go back to finish that off. Of course I paid him in full (because he was rather affordable) and did everything in 1 day, but to date he never went back to finish those two items. After trying to get in contact with him numerous times, I realized that I would just need to move on, what ever… so now I get a call from tenants indicating that they will be short $390 on the rent for August and it's just enough for me. So at this point, the fiancé is taking an early leave due to complications with her pregnancy & supposedly he is still not working, but he DOES attend football practice and they are coming at me from the following angle: they can't pay the rent, however there are things I still haven't fixed and they add on a new issue: the central air unit does not work all of a sudden at all! So it's August, they have not paid their $365 water bill (which is under my name BUT it there responsibility to pay according to the lease agreement), they are short on rent and they still have bedbugs, window that hasn't been repaired, soffit not fixed and the new central air issue. I told her/them to sue the two AC units I had left in the attic and that I would look into it, but HOW can I do that if YOU don't pay rent??? I need that money you owe to help me with these repairs. Now they call me in September indicating that they will not be able to pay the rent at all and that they were planning on moving with the help of a friend. So we agreed that they would move at the end of September and I followed that conversation up with a certified letter to convey what we discussed. The next thing you know she sends me an email stating that she has an appointment with emergency assistance and she can't find her copy of the lease so that she may be able to apply. I'm thinking, ok so now AFTER we agreed that you were moving out, now you are trying to stay??? You just switched up on the agreement, so I reply to tell her that I will send the lease, however if that does not work out for them, I will need them to move. Two weeks pass (almost end of September now) and she gets back to me to tell me that they could not assist her because she did not get the lease on time… Sooo, I tell her that I could extend the move out date to 10/15/2010 (her appointment was for 10/7/2010). At this point all I believe that I am doing is extending an agreement she created. If she had just told me in September "we don't have the rent", I could have gone to court right away, instead she said they would be moving, so I didn't begin proceedings. Now I feel as though I am just extending it, but it turns out that after 10/7 she doesn't get back to me, so I
send a certified letter stating "as previously agreed…" they would need to move out by 10/15 (they NEVER disputing the extension on the agreement), they never get back to me when they should, they try to avoid me, so now things have dragged out wayyy tooo long and I go over the home on 10/15 (as previously agreed) to change the locks (of course I KNOW I can't lock them out), but if they haven't gotten back to me, am I to assume they didn't move out? So I go over and of course they are not moving, so we have a discussion and he does the talking, and states the following things (not in this exactly order, but long story short): "I've been doing research on the internet and you can't kick us out, you need to take us to court, we're going to get an inspector in here and we're going to stay here for six months rent free, you haven't done repairs you were suppose to do, we were suppose to pay you by check or money order, not cash into your account, when the contractor did repairs, it is the LANDLORD that is suppose to take care of getting rid of the debris they left behind not the TENANTS, why are you sending us all of these certified letters & I've been talking to people and they say that the last tenants you had did what ever they wanted to!". I was like what???!!! These were my responses: "I'm not kicking you folks out, your fiancés stated you folks were moving and I followed it up with a certified letter, if you feel you need to get an inspector in the home, please do so, in order for me to take care of repairs, you need to come up to speed with the rent you owe, where do you think the money is going to come from??? (although I understand that when the contractor did not finish his work - soffit and window) that would just be my lost and I would need to take care of that again), I didn't force anyone to pay in cash, your fiancé decided that it was more convenient for her to deposit into my account, when the contractor did repairs, I spoke with you on the phone and not once did you mention that there was debris in the back yard, all you had to do was SAY SOMETHING (I'm not a mind reader) and I didn't debris was there, I'm sending you certified letters to ensure we are all on the same page about what was agreed, not to mention that the letter outlines what you have paid in rent since you moved in, and lastly this discussion is about US HERE NOW, NOT about a previous tenant!!! (my previous tenant paid rent on time and passed my home inspection! But that's none of his business!!!). Sooo folks, I had to go down to civil court and file for an eviction, court date in November. And I feel like I'm the worst landlord in the world! Why??? Any thoughts? I obviously made some MAJOR mistakes in dealing with so much and allowing to drag out, but dang… Did I really mistreat them??? Thanks for reading my drama unit series… I look forward to ANY responses, it doesn't matter, tell me off if you want to… but I'm more concerned about the ruling… I don't know what to expect Many thanks…


Real Estate Investor · Wheat Ridge, Colorado


I'm sorry, I only made it through about the first 40 lines of that. Paragraphs really are your friend.

What's your reason for evicting? It will go smoother if its because of non-payment of rent. Can you possibly boil that down to just the facts of the eviction? I'm pretty sure you're going to make a judge's eyes glaze over if you try to tell all that.

Nothing wrong with feeling anxiety in a situation like this.

Small_flying-phoenixJon Holdman, Flying Phoenix LLC


Real Estate Investor · Mountain View, California


Wow - that is some post! I won't go into the fact that your message is unreadable as that's stating the obvious. But I would advise that if you want help, be succinct. Nobody wants to read a 3-page stream-of consciousness with no structure.

Like Jon, I got through part of your post and I think that's all I needed to see. His advice as always is spot on - state the simple facts and you will easily get an eviction. 95% of what you wrote is immaterial. Just present to the judge the lease, all payments received, and let that do the talking. Bedbugs, a/c units, etc are not relevant. Don't create drama - which is really what you've done with this post - but just stick to why you want to evict. I might suggest that you have an attorney represent you since they will be well versed in how to act in court. Based on your post, I'm afraid you might ramble and take the focus away from the pertinent facts.

A few thoughts:

1. Unless you change your mindset, you are not cut out to be a landlord. You have been letting your tenant take advantage of you for almost a year now! They should have been evicted 9 months ago. To be blunt, you're not a bad landlord because you neglected to take care of the property or were unresponsive (which seems to be your concern), you're a bad landlord because you let tenants walk all over you.
2. Not only should you be filing for eviction, you should be filing to get a judgment as well. The tenants owe you an amount of money and you can garnish their wages to get that money. I won't go into collectability here as I have yet to collect on any of my judgments but nevertheless, you should do this to show them that you also know the rules and that you mean business.
3. Now this may be reading into your post too much but based on the vivid detail you provided, you are way too emotionally invested. Take a step back and remember that this is a business venture and a business relationship. Deal with each issue independently as it arises and move on. Don't let things build up and make each issue dependent on another. Your ability to make a repair should not be based on the timeliness of a rent payment or the nature of the last conversation you had with your tenant. Fix what *needs* to be fixed, when it needs to be fixed. Ignore the fluff. For example, my tenant would never get a new door.
4. Personally, I'm not a fan of buying/owning rental property without a nice rainy day fund to help take care of repairs, evictions, vacancies, etc. It sounds like you might not have the financial resources to handle the ups and downs of owning a rental property. Only you can judge if you're positioned financially to weather unexpected expenses.
5. If rent on this unit is barely paying the mortgage, it's a losing investment and you should sell it anyway.

I hope I wasn't too harsh. I've been in your shoes too - to an extent. I've let people stay too long, or at I've given incompetent property managers too much autonomy. After a couple evictions, I don't do that anymore. Rent is late on the 5th and notice is posted on the 6th to start the eviction proceeding. No excuses - I don't care about your disability, pregnancy, or any other issue. If your unit requires maintenance, I have that taken care of immediately and it has no connection to you needing to pay rent on time.

Good luck.


Lien Investor · Fayetteville, Arkansas


Warning: I didn't read the entire post. It's simply too long.

You are not a charity case, just evict them and move on. If you think it will be cheaper to offer them cash to leave the place clean and keys and parking passes or whatever else, then do it.


Landlord · Columbia, South Carolina


I'm sorry, I only made it through about the first 40 lines of that. Paragraphs really are your friend....

Wow - that is some post! I won't go into the fact that your message is unreadable as that's stating the obvious. But I would advise that if you want help, be succinct. Nobody wants to read a 3-page stream-of consciousness with no structure...

Warning: I didn't read the entire post. It's simply too long...

I'm still laughing as I type this. The damn post just keeps going. I've gone back to it three times now and picked up in different spots and had to stop each time. Lol I'm sorry Focus please don't get offended. As a landlord I feel your pain.

The best part is this: "So I go over and of course they are not moving, so we have a discussion and he does the talking, and states the following things (not in this exactly order, but long story short)....

Really? How long is the long story?

The short story is that education is not cheap. If the buyer/renter has no skin in the game you will get burnt. With the next people get a security deposit and a pet deposit and a kid deposit if you have to but don't let these people ruin your credit. Good credit is going to be more important then ever over the next 5 years.

Good Luck!


Real Estate Investor · Wheat Ridge, Colorado


I've gone back and made it through most of that.

You need to 1) get them evicted and 2) sell this house.

They had you from the start. When you agreed to let them move in for half a month's rent and no deposit they knew you were a weak landlord. Then when they were short in Feb and you did nothing, they really knew they had it made.

Security deposit plus the first month's rent, in cash or money order, BEFORE they get the keys.

Rent is on time every month or they pay the late fee. My lease allows me to collect a partial payment. I have one tenant who was short the first couple months. I take the partial payment and we agree on a date for the rest of it. But they pay the late fees until the day its paid in full. They did this the first two months, and grumbled about the late fees, but since then have always paid on time.

If the rent isn't paid as agreed a "pay or quit" notice goes up on the first day it can go up. Eviction paperwork gets filed the first day it can get filed. I'd certainly use a lawyer if you're never done this before. Once technical error can restart the whole process. And your tenant has indicated they're going to work the system for all its worth.

All this drama is just irrelevant. All the he said, they said stuff just doesn't matter. At this point you just want them out. Disengage. Don't talk to them. Don't go over. Follow the proper procedure. If you've not posted the pay or quit, start there. You need a lawyer to get you through this process.

I say sell because you say "I wasn't even renting the home to make money, they rent is JUST for me to be able to pay the mortgage!!!" The ONLY reason to own rental property is to make money. As you now realize, its easy to get into a deep hole. If you're underwater on this property, find the money somewhere else or negotiate a short sale. You don't need the stress and anxiety that comes from owning a rental that is sucking money out of your pocket.

Small_flying-phoenixJon Holdman, Flying Phoenix LLC


Residential Real Estate Agent · Southfield, Michigan


Agreed with all of the other replies-

Evicting can be VERY stressful and it's compounded by trying to make concessions with tennants that are simply "Bad Tennants"

The anxiety you're feeling is compounded every time you agreed to let them slide on rent and now you have a monster you feel is out of control. If offering them cash to move out will work DO IT!! If you have to evict, try to be as polite and concise as possible. Don't get further involved with any more of the drama and just get the property vacated. You may even tell them you need to evict and have the home vacant to do the repairs required by the city- shift the blame on the city as the badguy and that may help get them out.

In the future, make sure you get 1st+Last Month Rent AND a security deposit (3x Monthly rent amount) If a tennant can't come up that, they're probably not going to be able to pay regularly.

Good Luck!

Patrick K.


Accountant · Garden Grove, California


Maybe I am the only one to read your post from beginning to end. I kept waiting for the part where you brought them groceries and Christmas Presents, but that did not show up.

Remember the rules of being a landlord:
1. Tenants are NOT your friends. Therefore, there is no reason to get emotionally involved with them. If you are the kind of personality that gets very involved with people, Real Estate Investing is nor for you.

2. Not paying rent is STEALING from you. If the rent due is $890.00 and they don't pay, it is NO DIFFERENT than you having $890.00 in your purse and a mugger snatching it from you.

3. Tenants are liars, whether it is when they are going to pay, what they will fix or what is broken. Never let a tenant "finish" or perform repairs, have a reputable company do it. As a side note, no pay till job is done!

Here is a good allegory. Let's say you work and get paid every other Friday. So here comes payday and your boss said the company doesn't have the money to pay you but will next week. Next week comes and they only give you half your pay, because the company is financially struggling. Would you keep going to work for that company?

This was an expensive lesson but also a valuable lesson. Evict them at the FIRST SIGN of trouble! You said you rented it to them at the end of December and in February they were short of rent by $190. I would have had them OUT by March 1. Look at all the heartache and hassle you could have avoided.

Someone else posted that if you need the rent to make the mortgage, you should get rid of it. Rent should ALWAYS be at least TWICE the amount of the mortgage payment.


Commercial Real Estate Broker · Canton, Georgia


Congratulations you have rented to a PROFESSIONAL TENANT. (scammer)

At the first sight of anything you should have filed for eviction.They would have either came in line or you would have gotten them out much sooner than now.

I hope you didn't use an Office Max type lease with holes you can drive a Hummer through.

Welcome to land lording ! No legal advice.


Real Estate Investor · Indiana, Indiana


Get an attorney. Get the eviction done. Dump them. You're in an abusive relationship with your tenant. Time to dump them and move on sister!

You can decide later to either become a better landlord in the future or do something else - no harm, no foul in either decision.


Real Estate Investor · Middletown, New Jersey


I never made it through the entire post either, but I'm a Trenton landlord and I can recommend an experienced eviction attorney in Trenton and he only charges about $300. He does 40 - 60 evictions a week there. Let a professional handle this.

I evicted a single parent with 3 kids last year. The rent wasn't received on the 1st, and the eviction was filed on the 5th, as soon as legally possible.

Tenant and family were evicted in 8 weeks. It would have been 6 weeks but the judge went on a 2 week vacation (it was August). In any case, the tenant had given me a few excuses...was going to try to get assistance from Catholic Charities, would voluntarily leave the property, etc.

I said that's all well and good, and if things work out before the court date, fine. If not, you can tell it to the judge. Yes, it was very stressful, not because I was evicting someone per se, but because as Mike M. said, they were stealing from me. Not paying the rent, AND not having paid the water/sewer bill which they stuck me with. Not to mention the damages.

I have another tenant in Florida that somehow thought that they had until the 3rd to *mail* the rent to NJ, although they understood it was due on the 1st, per the lease. The first month that I didn't have it on the 3rd, I told them they had to include the late fee. The rent was deposited that night into my account. Same thing the next month. Finally they understood it was DUE on the 1st.

Be nice to your tenants, treat them professionally, but remember - this is a business. They'll pay every other bill before the rent if you let them.


Real Estate Investor · Baltimore, Maryland


WOW...

Focus... your problems and issues demonstrate that some people might not be the best landlords. Nothing personal... but landlording can be a tough business.

As mentioned above... tenants should never be your friends... and if you don't manage them wiht purpose from the beginning they will just take more and more.

The best advice you received in the responses is to hire a lawyer and then sell the property.

Best of luck!


Real Estate Investor · Springfield, Missouri


Focus, I had to give you a point, not for the content, but for the longest original post I have ever seen on BP!


Homeowner · Trenton, New Jersey


I would like to thank every single one that helped me (I know this was TMI, I wanted to point out things that I thought could affect the outcome if they counter). I REALLY appreciate the time everyone took out to give me their insight. Here is what is all balls down to:
They owe some money for Feb, April, August, Sept & Oct and I plan only to present that information along with the lease. I will prepared for what ever will be asked of me, but I won't present any of it, only will focus on the money they owe. I have learned such an EXPENSIVE LESSON!!! But it certainly will NEVER leave my mind! Jon, Tom Gabriel, Patrick, Mike, Joel, Tim & Aly, THANK YOU, thank you, thank you all so very much for your candor about this situation. I am quite desperate to sell the house at this point, i don't even care if it's a short sale!!! I have to admit that now I am nervous about what my mortage company will say about having tenants in there, but I guess I just have to deal with that... Aly, could you send me a message with your contact's info (the lawyer you spoke of)? All, thank you once again! I can't wait to get past this and HOPE I can get past the whole short sale issue as well. I'm DONE!!!!


Homeowner · Trenton, New Jersey


Peter & Examine, thank you as well for your time. This really helps me to focu on what I have to do now. Get a lawyer & then sell!!!


Homeowner · Trenton, New Jersey


Acutally, could I just ask you all what you think about the whole situation with me trying to sell the house? I know it will be a short sale, but what are your thoughts on what the mortgage company might said surrounding me having a tenant in there. This house is a friggin HEADACHE at this point, I don't even care about the difference I would need to pay subsequent to the short sale, I would rather have that debt than this trauma I am experiencing everyday :( thanks again all!!!


Real Estate Investor · Audubon, Pennsylvania


Originally posted by Peter Giardini
... tenants should never be your friends...

Be friendly with tenants, but do not be friends with them.

Focus,

Seems that you will be gaining experience with going through this. My guess is that you had not really learned about all the ins and outs of landlording beforehand. But it's never too late to start your education - and I suggest you just start reading lots of the threads already posted here on BP.

Not all tenants are bad - you just have to learn how to identify the bad ones, and to act swiftly to avoid the bad ones or get rid of the bad ones should you find that one somehow slipped through a thorough screening. And if one slips through the screening, try to identify some change that you would need in your screening practices to prevent that in the future.


Homeowner · Trenton, New Jersey


Hi Steve, thank you very much for your post. I agree with you and everyone else 100%!!!! This is a complete NIGHTMARE!!! Ughhh, I hope this will be over soon!!! Do you have any thoughts on the selling process? My mortgage co does not know I have tenants in there. I know that I would need to do a short sale. Do you have any idea what they might tell me? (of course a short sale after I can hopefully get the tenants out... Their lease is up on 1/1/2011


Residential Real Estate Agent · Camden, New Jersey


in nj, going to court for non payment, first they try a mediator , if you can't work out the situation, then you go in to see the judge. simply tell the judge every month they did not pay their rent, he will want to see their receipts FROM THEM first! very rarely will they(the judge) entertain that "house is horrible crap". they will have til the end of day to pay rent or face eviction(2 more weeks) i never needed a lawyer, and never lost!


Real Estate Investor · -, Illinois


All I can say is WOW!!!

I am pretty new to the game also, but that is one thing I learned from spending hours on this site, do not take any excuses. You are running a business, not a charity.

I just recently had to give the boot to a family with two young children and one on the way. As a human being I did feel bad for them, but from a business standpoint it had to be done. Anytime a tenant does not pay rent, that is money they are taking from my family. It was really bad since they were only $100 short on an $850 rent, but the house was extremely easy to rent out again almost immediately.

Just consider it a lesson learned. Good luck!!!!




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