Ibrahim,
I kinda agree and kinda disagree. I use to think that everyone wanted more. Have more do more. I use to ask why settle. Then as I become more aware of both my achievements and failures I realize I too have a layaway plan. It may not be at target however is still vivid.
Certainly we all could achieve both better and more. I imagine that there are more people than I want to realize that have a target layaway plan AND much more success than I will ever achieve. I use to think success was defined by zeros.
As for giving. I don't think there is a better way to define ourself. From catering school lunches to buying groceries for everyone in the store on thanksgiving to giving yellow letters away. From cars to the needing to cash to single moms trying to cover life. helping certainly isn't reserved for a holiday however a holiday is a great justification.