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Hello all my name is felicia, 23, from charlotte,nc Looking for someone to teach me he wholesale business. A Mentor willing to take me under your wings and show me some things pro bono if your interested and your in the charlotte area please contact me via email [REMOVED] :D


SFR Investor · Scottsdale, Arizona


Felicia, let me make a few suggestions to you to increase your chances of finding a mentor.

first, click here : http://www.biggerpockets.com/forumrules.html and read the forum posting rules about email addys in the body of your post.

second, consider properly and fully filling out and completing your profile here on BiggerPockets

Third, consider going here : http://www.biggerpockets.com/forums/55-new-member-introductions and properly introducing yourself

lastly, consider telling us a little about yourself, your experience, what you have to bring to the table for the mentor, what you expect from a/the mentor and what they should expect from you.

I hope this helps.


Residential Real Estate Agent · Burtonsville, Maryland


Hi Felicia,

Your best bet is to go to your local REIA meeting to find a mentor. Check out www.nationalreia.com to find the chapters near you. There's usually a nominal fee to attend as a non-member. Just tell everyone that you meet that you're a new investor looking for a mentor and ask who they would recommend. Or better yet, when it comes time for announcements stand up and tell the whole group. It's best to find a mentor that that works in your market when you're first starting out. I'll caution you that there are a lot of "mentors" out there that will want to charge you thousands of dollars up front or take half of your profits for a specific period of time...you should avoid them.

Good luck!
Sanford


SFR Investor · Scottsdale, Arizona


Originally posted by Sanford Collins
I'll caution you that there are a lot of "mentors" out there that will want to charge you thousands of dollars up front or take half of your profits for a specific period of time...you should avoid them.

Good luck!
Sanford

Whats wrong with taking 50% of profits for the first couple of deals?


Real Estate Investor · Lakeview, New York


I agree Nick. Most won't do it. They want money up-front. I know personally. I think it's a great idea. This way BOTH parties have a vested interest. Not just the one paying.


Rehabber · Santa Clarita, California


I agree with you Norm, but what does the mentor get if the "student" learns the business model and never shares or completes a deal? Then the mentor is out all that time and effort. That does not seem fair to me.

I strongly agree that both parties should have a "vested interest", but in the real world, it just does not always work that way. I have taught several people specific strategies in the past with the promise that they would share the profits in their first deal or two. Do you know how many checks I cashed from that? If you guessed higher than 0, you are incorrect.

Small_barnardenterprisesWill Barnard, Barnard Enterprises, Inc.
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Real Estate Investor · Atlanta, Georgia


Originally posted by nationwidepi

I strongly agree that both parties should have a "vested interest", but in the real world, it just does not always work that way. I have taught several people specific strategies in the past with the promise that they would share the profits in their first deal or two. Do you know how many checks I cashed from that? If you guessed higher than 0, you are incorrect.


I've had very similar experiences. I'll always accept a lunch request from someone who is interested in speaking with me and getting feedback on their investing strategies. In many cases, people ask me to be their "mentor," and I will tell them, "I'm happy to keep working with you as long as you continue to do your homework and continue to make progress towards your first deal."

Then, at the end of lunch, I will tell them that their first homework assignment is to put together their Business Plan. I tell them that if they have any questions, if they want ot see my plans, if they want to discuss the plan, just shoot me an email or give me a call. And they all walk away excited, and tell me they'll call me when they have their plan ready.

Invariably, I never receive another call (or if I do, it has nothing to do with the BP and the BP hasn't been completed).

Basically, people are looking for an easy road to wealth, and they think a mentor is someone who will just drag them around and make them lots of money. If I ever find someone who is willing to put in the effort, I'm happy to mentor...I just haven't found anyone that fits that profile yet...


Rehabber · Santa Clarita, California


I couldn't agree more J!

Furthermore, why is it that people who charge a fee seem to get slammed by others? Why is it that the newbie should get to have free education with no "skin in the game" either?

A few people on this site always seem to argue that people can get their questions answered and have mentors for Free by simply going to their investment clubs. While that may be possible, I just don't agree it is common. In fact, I find it hard to believe that any successful investor would be willing to spend time and effort on someone without any financial consideration and the promise to get paid via a deal split rarely ever happens.

So what really is the answer? I recently developed a program in which I charge an upfront fee (although it is very small compared to what others would charge, let alone the gurus) and my students are doing well. Not only that, they will have paid me so much less in the upfront fee than 1/2 of the profits from a deal split.

I guess my question really is, as a newbie investor looking to get into the biz and succeed, why would you ever have a problem paying for your one on one education upfront (assuming it was viable and reasonable in price) if you TRUELY were committed to success and had every intention on putting forth the effort to make it happen rather than get the education and then do nothing with it? I am not sure I see a viable argument on the other side. (By the way, by this question, I am certainly not inferring that ANYONE in this thread feels one way or the other or that they are newbies who would NOT follow through, it is just a generalized question)

Small_barnardenterprisesWill Barnard, Barnard Enterprises, Inc.
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Real Estate Investor · sioux falls, South Dakota


A few people on this site always seem to argue that people can get their questions answered and have mentors for Free by simply going to their investment clubs. While that may be possible, I just don't agree it is common. In fact, I find it hard to believe that any successful investor would be willing to spend time and effort on someone without any financial consideration and the promise to get paid via a deal split rarely ever happens.

Sorry Will,
This might be the first time I have disagreed with you !! There are successful investors willing to share their info with others for free. I'm one of them. I've always tried to give input, answer specific questions on areas I'm familiar with, and even PM or meet privately with those that have asked- never suggesting a single penney in return. I've even sent my book to many on BP and elsewhere for free and have even ALWAYS paid the shipping!! The book doesn't attempt to "upsell", just gives actual examples I used 30 years ago to REALLY create wealth.

I have found that most that ask for the info will never use it, just as most that buy seminar tapes and books will let them gather dust while the person goes and buys MORE tapes etc.

I'm grateful for real estate knowledge has done for me financially and will share that info with those that ask, freely, just as many others will. This is not meant to crucify those that do charge a fee, just to contradict your statement outlined above. Good luck always. Rich.


Real Estate Investor · Charlotte, North Carolina


Rich

As stated so well. I am one of those that has mentored 100's, not asked for a fee when sometimes I questioned should I after they never did nothing with the teaching. I mean hands on teaching going to rehabs, talking to the contractors, taking pictures and seeing homes gutted and rebuilt from bottom to top. There can never be a better experience than hands on. I have been BLESSED and all I enjoy doing is seeing others be successful. But, Will and many of you others that charge a fee I have no problem with it, because if you are doing what you know to do it is well deserved. I am just one that believes that I have been blessed so I have to give back as part of my committment to SUCCESS.

All of you continue the good work and those that want to learn it is there for them. But, remember it is BETTER TO GIVE THAN RECEIVE.

I think you all are doing a FANTASTIC job keep up the good work and remember TO WHOM MUCH IS GIVEN MUCH IS REQUIRED.

SUCCESS BREEDS SUCCESS


Real Estate Investor · Charlotte, North Carolina


Also, wanted to say that Felicia I am also in Charlotte. Very busy, but if you call me we can schedule an outing so see what you are trying to accomplish and see where I can help you. All my info is in my signature block.

SUCCESS BREEDS SUCCESS


Real Estate Investor · Lakeview, New York


My comment to Nick was not "slamming" others. Just a case in point.

If newbies do decide to take on this challenge/endeavor, their skin will be in the game. If their REALLY doing this, it will require money (mailings, buy lists for those mailings, business cards, paper, ink...not to mention additional gas to look at properties, and drive for dollars). Also time is money, so there is skin in the game. It comes in different fashions, not just writing a check or pulling out the plastic.

Mr Scott mentioned "he hasn't found anyone who fits that profile yet". Just like we screen for tenants, maybe potential "students" should be screened throughly too. Have a couple phone calls with them, give them assigned tasks, and follow up do see if they're getting done, if not, out the door you go! There are some ; ) that are REALLY getting down to business, or at least trying to. So all "newbies" shouldn't be put into one catagory. There are those that are looking for the easy road to wealth, while others realize that road doesn't exist.

Will mentions "why would a newbie have a problem paying up-front if they were truly committed to success"..uh...um, becasue they didn't have the money? Putting it on a credit card?? Ridiculous. The CC is for the expenses to get started.

Like Mr. Weese, I'm not ridiculing, or bashing anyone whose charging for their services. I hope EVERY one of your students do very well. But if I ever acquire the knowledge, be successful, make RE my full time job (ultimate goal) and really feel I can help someone getting started, I will do that free of charge, because I know first hand how difficult it is to started. If they do nothing with it, that's their problem. At least I know I tried to do my part to help someone. Me personally? I'm a giver, always have been, always will be. That's just me. It's good Karma.

Again no offense what meant to anyone here...just my opinion.

Humbly,

Norm


Rehabber · Chandler, Arizona


As many of you know, Nick Johnson was my mentor for my first deals. He did not charge me anything upfront, but we split our first two deals. We each made $25K. I personally think it was well worth the money. Nick literally answered over a 1000 emails from me, had a 2-4 hours per week of coaching, and also let me listen in on his phone calls with potential leads. I struggled for 6 months before that, and then did two deals after meeting Nick. Would the mentors who say they don't charge really do all that for free?

Giving the $25K for the first two deals was absolutely fine with me and easy. Nick and I still talk (he doesn't charge me) and we have a few business ventures together on the horizon. Nick introduced me to Will whose given a property that should close in a few weeks. I picked up 4 properties last week, signed 3 properties yesterday, signing two more this week, and have two more referrals (the best kind) to call today. My agent knows "I'm for real" now and is giving me leads.

Getting your first deal out the way, is a huge relief and benefit. If a mentor fast tracks that for you, then they should be rewarded.

Small_wh_logo_full_1600_350_black_cJustin S., Wheelhouse Properties
E-Mail: wheelhouseproperties@gmail.com
Telephone: 4806780446
Website: http://www.wheelhouseproperties.com
Realtor, Re-modeler, Cash Buyer


Real Estate Investor · Altus, Oklahoma


I believe those who get flack because they charge a fee for mentoring is because we are in a tight economy and there are a bunch of us who can't afford expensive mentoring.

If you have $1000 to burn for a mentor than why not learn the basics here and than use that money for an EMD for an REO or another property.


Real Estate Investor · Studio City, California


It all depends where are in life. If you accomplished everything you set yourself up to, and you are financially secured, is there anything else left but giving back? That what I don't understand about "The Donald" and his "University". He basically doesn't have to accumulate more wealth, why not help people on a voluntary basis? I guess greed is some type of blood that runs in your veins...


Real Estate Investor · Altus, Oklahoma


Originally posted by Eddie Ziv
It all depends where are in life. If you accomplished everything you set yourself up to, and you are financially secured, is there anything else left but giving back? That what I don't understand about "The Donald" and his "University". He basically doesn't have to accumulate more wealth, why not help people on a voluntary basis? I guess greed is some type of blood that runs in your veins...


I don't think Donald has anything directly to do with his university. He just licenses his name and lets whoever sell whatever they want as long as he gets a nice big hefty paycheck for using his name.

Rehabber · Santa Clarita, California


Originally posted by Rich
Sorry Will,
This might be the first time I have disagreed with you !! There are successful investors willing to share their info with others for free. I'm one of them. I've always tried to give input, answer specific questions on areas I'm familiar with, and even PM or meet privately with those that have asked- never suggesting a single penney in return. I've even sent my book to many on BP and elsewhere for free and have even ALWAYS paid the shipping!! The book doesn't attempt to "upsell", just gives actual examples I used 30 years ago to REALLY create wealth.
You are not really disagreeing with me here Rich. I don't disagree taht an investor can go to their local club, strike up a conversation with a successful investor, and get their questions answered, perhaps even have them mentor them for Free. What I am saying is that successful investors there have limited time in many cases and doing pro-bono work (while rewarding) can not possibly happen too often. Furthermore, I TOO have given FREE advice and answered thousands of questions here on BP (much more than most) and never charged a dime for it. I have spent countless hours on the phone with BP Members, answered their emails, and their PM's responding to their questions. (All of you hundreds of receipients are more than welcome to chime in here and confirm that!)
My current program (I feel) is different than all of that and it does not have any upsell either.

Originally posted by Justin
As many of you know, Nick Johnson was my mentor for my first deals. He did not charge me anything upfront, but we split our first two deals. We each made $25K
Justin, that is commendable and I especially congratulate YOU on YOUR ability to actually do the work and get a deal to split with Nick. I think Nick is a great educator and in this case, it worked out for you both. Keep in mind that the total amount you did actually pay (1/2 split to Nick was $25k) so you basically paid $25k for your education, although well worth it it appears. In the case of my program, that is more than 10 times the amount. So going back to my question, why is it that several feel strongly as to not pay upfront and that they only want to do a profit split if and when they complete a transaction? I am still waiting for a reasonable argument to that.

Small_barnardenterprisesWill Barnard, Barnard Enterprises, Inc.
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SFR Investor · Scottsdale, Arizona


Originally posted by Eddie Ziv
I guess greed is some type of blood that runs in your veins...



Greed is the blood that runs in my veins. I'm not ashamed to admit it or beat around the bush about it.


Real Estate Investor · Ohio


While that may be possible, I just don't agree it is common. In fact, I find it hard to believe that any successful investor would be willing to spend time and effort on someone without any financial consideration and the promise to get paid via a deal split rarely ever happens.

That is the purpose of REIA - to freely share information and help each other. Like Rich and Douglas said, I have also helped people at my local REIA without any kind of re-imbursement. If I didn't want to help people, I wouldn't belong to our local REIA. Many other successful investors at my REIA will help newbies for free also.

There are literally hundreds of these REIAS and thousands of people that will help newbies for free.

Mike


Rehabber · Santa Clarita, California


Originally posted by MikeOH
That is the purpose of REIA - to freely share information and help each other.
Mike, while I agree that SHOULD be the purpose, it is not. The pourpose is for the club owner(s) to make money. How else could you explain why they often bring in some guru to upsell some ridiculously expensive program or porduct? Because they get 1/2 of the split, thats why! It is all about money. It is true there are some non-profit clubs out there, and if anyone has access to that, great! Take advantage.

I too have also helped out countless newbie investors from RE club meetings I attend and never received a dime from them. I enjoy doing it as well and while I am there, it costs me nothing. On the other hand, providing extensive training over a long period of time (in the case of my new program - 8-16 weeks) time is money and it is necessary for me to compensate for that financially.

Small_barnardenterprisesWill Barnard, Barnard Enterprises, Inc.
E-Mail: info@barnardenterprises.com
Website: http://www.barnardenterprises.com
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