I understand the earnest money issue, and there's not really any way around that. The very first house that I put an offer on was a HUD, and I put $500 earnest money down on it. At the time $500 was A LOT of money to me. It was pretty much all the extra money I had at the time. I ended up chickening out and backing out of the contract, and I lost my $500. :cry:
If you can get over putting up earnest money then the title company/agent is the key to a double closing. There's a couple different options here. Some lenders will let you pick the title company if you pay for title policy. This would depend on which lender it is.
On a side note, technically, by RESPA laws the buyer has the right to pick the title company, but I've never pushed it much. I talked with an investor once that said that after he had a contract he demanded in writing to pick the title company, citing RESPA 2608??? I think, and the lender let him and still paid for the title policy. I've never done that though.
The other option is to see if the predetermined title agent would be open to a double closing. With many REO's they will have a central title company do the actual title work and then have a " courtesy" closing at a local title company. The agent who is doing the " courtesy" closing is the one that needs to be open to the double closing. Many times on the listing page on the MLS the listing agent will reference what title agent/company they want to use. Go ahead and call that title agent and ask them if they are willing to do a double closing. Yes, many agents are not open to it, but many agents ARE open to it.
Two of the REO's that I can think of that I double closed were with agents that I had never done any business with, but when I asked if they were open to doing a double closing they said yes.
I would recommend that you have your financing set up if you're looking at REO's. Losing $1000 earnest money and a good deal because you can't find a buyer quick enough is a shame. I've always been of the mentality that if its a good deal, I'm going to buy it whether I can find a buyer before I close or not. Obviously with that mentality you need to know for sure that its a good deal or you're likely to get stuck with a lemon.
I always recommend to beginning wholesalers to never buy a property. Use contingencies in your contracts and if you can't resell it before you close, back out. The last thing you need to do is get stuck with something you think is a deal but is really far from it.
Now when you've gained some experience and you know for sure its a deal, you need to be able to purchase the property even if you can't get it resold before you close. If you don't, you are leaving a lot of money on the table with lost deals, and you are also jeopardizing your reputation.