George,
I'm not asking you to defend yourself. I am suggesting you look at what you are doing and how, you asked for help.
I have NCND's up the wazoo - that has not prevented some from shopping offerings to others. Two from this forum alone have done it - both of those claimed to be buyers - One had the gaul to shop it back on this same forum at a higher price. If you shopped any product publicly in the past, how can anyone trust you won't do it again?
The last thing a seller wants is his product shopped - it makes the offering totally worthless and impossible to sell. That is why intermediaries, "mandates" (yet to see a real one) and buyers are thoroughly vetted these days.
As regards to your buyers criteria - you have still left that info out. I have seen many more "buyers" with unrealistic expectations than I have seen sellers that can't perform. Likely what you are getting back is someone taking that info and shopping it with the hopes they can find something close and/or take your buyer away. This is why the plus 3 game doesn't work - it's all greedy people, most of which don't even know what REO stands for!
If I or anyone else, offered your buyer assets at plus zero - what would you do?
Tell me what they are looking for and me and/or some others here can tell you if it even has a prayer of getting done. If it is realistic and you and your buyers don't know where to go to get it, you will need an intro from someone - but be assured, you and your buyers will be vetted first.
Custom orders - as I mentioned, this is not Burger King - the whole custom order, compiler thing is all internet BS! I have been in this field for over 2 years and have never seen one get done at plus anything. Yes, large deals do get done - principal to principal, but those guys don't need you or me or the internet - they know how to reach each other.
I will make this challenge here again to anyone - show me a contract and a fee agreement (names wiped out) and a supporting bank deposit of the matching fee (again names and account #'s wiped out) and I will retract my statement. I'm not talking about small pools - we all do them regularly - I am talking about a deal size of over 10 million with plus anything for fee's. Any intermediaries or "mandates" making any money that can prove it?
Good Luck,
Greg