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The One Question You Need To Answer FIRST In Order To Be Successful In Real Estate

Michael Blank
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The One Question You Need To Answer FIRST In Order To Be Successful In Real Estate

People often ask me what they should do to get started.

My response is that they need to answer one question first, and if they can’t answer that question sufficiently, there’s no point in getting started with anything else.

The question that we all have to answer first is “why?”. Why do we want to invest in real estate? Why do we want to learn something new, step outside our comfort zone, take a bunch of risk, and work hard at something that may or not pay off several years down the road?

Sure, we want to invest in real estate to make money. But money is only a means to an end. We need to dig deeper. If we could achieve our financial goals with real estate, what would that enable us to do? What would it look like? What would it feel like?

OK, I’ll Go First.

For me, my financial goal with investing specifically in apartment buildings is to generate enough income to replace the income from the pizza restaurants I own that I’ll eventually need to get out of.

But I can’t do that until I can replace the income. So I feel a sense of urgency because I know this will take time.

I also really enjoy the “art of the deal”, i.e. finding deals, negotiating them, raising the money, hiring a property manager, and orchestrating the whole thing.

I LOVE that, and syndicating apartment buildings are a perfect outlet for me. I also see commercial real estate as a financial PLATFORM, meaning with enough time and persistence I can build long-term wealth that I can pass on to my children and use to make a difference in the world.

If I’m available to achieve those financial goals, what would that allow me to do that I currently can’t do? In my case, the pizza restaurants take up an enormous amount of time and the activity is more of an operational nature.

Of course I’d like to work less and I don’t enjoy the activity that much. Less work and more flexibility would allow me to spend  3 months in Mexico with my family to learn Spanish. I would also like to write and teach more because I really enjoy that. And I’d like to be able to support my non-profit causes with more time and money.

What I Desire with Real Estate is FREEDOM!

Freedom to do whatever I’m called to do and being able to do it without having to worry about money.

Once you can articulate WHY you want to invest in real estate, you have to ask yourself “how badly do you want it?”.

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You may want a million dollars and all these things, but if you don’t want it really badly you’re not going to get up early in the morning to put out your WE BUY HOUSES signs, stuff your envelopes, call a bunch of potential investors, or do any of those things that are hard to do. If you don’t want it badly enough, and you can’t remind yourself why you’re doing what you’re doing, you’re not going to make it through the delays, setbacks, and challenges that you’re inevitably face.

Let’s say you want to quit your job and you feel like real estate investing is the answer. That’s fine. I then ask you what you’ve done so far and you say that you’ve read a few books and blogs so far this year and want to get started with wholesaling.

I then ask if you’ve started marketing and looking for deals, and you say “not yet” because you’ve been too busy with your job blah blah blah. I then start to question your “WHY” because you don’t seem that motivated to make a change in your life. You say you want to quit your job but the truth is, you actually don’t mind your job that much, and keeping it is a very acceptable option to you. When you think about it, there’s really no compelling reason to change anything.

At Least That’s an Honest Answer!

That answer might save you thousands of dollars you’d otherwise waste on a course or seminar.

Or it might cause you to reflect deeper and come up with a more compelling answer to the question that might propel you into action.

It’s critical to answer the question “WHY?” honestly and with much reflection. Only when we can answer this question in a meaningful and convicted way will we be able to affect change and live into our purpose rather than just drifting through life.

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OK, now it’s your turn: Why do you invest or want to get started with real estate investing?

Be as specific as you can be. Put it out there in the universe.

Be sure to leave your comments below!

Note By BiggerPockets: These are opinions written by the author and do not necessarily represent the opinions of BiggerPockets.