5 Ways to Teach Your Kids About Finance & Investing

by | BiggerPockets.com

After I completed my formal college education and entered the “real world,” I went on to work in real estate, insurance, housing, and eventually mortgages and private equity management. Through each of these work experiences, I learned more about financial and investing topics that directly relate to everyday life.

Surprisingly, even for an accounting major like me, “real world” financial management hadn’t come up much very often in school. Where were discussions or lessons on budgeting, taxes, financial planning, insurance, investing, etc.?

Personally, it worries me. If some of these topics aren’t covered early on, especially those related to personal finance, what negative habits will our youth form by the time they’re adults?

As I mentioned in my last article, “My 3 Favorite Real Estate Investing Strategies (and a Plug for Old-Fashioned Discipline),” I also owe a lot to my mom, who instilled certain principles in me at a very young age and taught me to be disciplined and prepared.

And so, my approach with my own children was to try to engage them with these subjects as early as possible in hopes that some of it would be retained into their adult lives. It’s tough, though. As parents, we’re often busy, overwhelmed, and downright exhausted.

Here are a few ways I’ve tried to teach my sons (and now my grandson) about real estate investing and personal finance.


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5 Strategies for Teaching Your Kids About Finance & Investing

1. Learn by doing together.

As a real estate investor, I’m continually pursuing education. In fact, after 30 years in the business, I’m still learning every day.

Over the years, I’ve tried to involve my kids in what I was learning or what I was doing. For example, when my youngest son was in high school, I was taking a class online on how to trade options, and I asked him to take the class alongside me. I even had him invest some of his money alongside me, and he was able to see firsthand how to trade.

2. Hire your kids.

I also employed my youngest son to help me do my taxes, mainly by sorting receipts and assisting with bookkeeping (paid labor, of course!). He would often ask questions like, “Is all this work worth it?” and I would then proceed to show him how much money was saved through legal deductions.

As you can imagine, he became even more curious as to how I invested that money from the tax savings to increase my passive cash flow. Luckily, by the time I was 42, I was able to show my kids the real path to financial freedom since I no longer needed earned income to get by.

3. Relate games to real life.

When my eldest son was younger, I was running my own painting business and would often take him with me on job sites and to renovate my flips and rentals. So, he was no stranger to the construction world, and today, he runs his own construction business.

Now, when I get to babysit my grandson, I’ll sometimes take him over to visit his dad at work. Sometimes, this is after we’ve just played Robert Kiyosaki’s Cash Flow for Kids game, which models things like how to invest in  rental properties. He’ll ask me questions like, “Pop Pop, is this a good deal? Will this make me money?” Needless to say, I love those conversations.

When we visit his Dad, I’ll tell him, “See, your dad fixes up houses just like in the game.” Or maybe I’ll take him by one of my rentals and say, “Look, I bought this house as an investment. The money I make from those who pay rent to live there is more than what I pay the bank.”

In all of this, I’m showing my grandson that the rules of the game he enjoys are also real.

4. Encourage good habits.

I don’t think it’s ever too early to start encouraging good saving habits. For example, I’ll even pay my grandson to do certain chores for me, and then I’ll follow up with him to see if he paid himself first.

I’ll be asking how much he saved or invested, how much he donated at church or to charity, and what he did with the remaining balance. He may have spent some of it on video games, but then I ask him how much all those used video games are worth, and more importantly, were they really a good investment? At least it gets him thinking about it.

5. Invest on their behalf.

When my youngest son was entering college, he asked my wife and I to cover the cost. We could have easily done so, but I thought that maybe it was another learning opportunity. Instead, I told my son that I would help him pay his student loan back. To do that, after graduation we bought a mortgage note with a payment that was equal to the payment amount of his student loan, but we paid a fraction of the total balance, and he used the passive income to cover his monthly payments.

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The other great thing about this note investment is that the loan term is much longer than that of his student loan, so he’ll continue to receive payments even after his student loan is paid off in full. In turn, he’s also learned more about how to use investments to cover expenses.

How About You?

We’re republishing this article to help out our newer readers.

So what strategies have you employed to teach your kids about personal finance and investing? If you haven’t yet, maybe it’s time to start thinking about it.  

Please share your experiences below!

About Author

Dave Van Horn

Since 2007, Dave Van Horn has served as president and CEO of PPR The Note Co., a holding company that manages several funds that buy, sell, and hold residential mortgages nationwide. Dave’s expertise is derived from over 30 years of residential and commercial real estate experience as a licensed Realtor, a real estate investor, and a fundraiser. As the latter, Dave has raised over $100 million in both notes and commercial real estate. In addition to his investments and role as CEO, Dave’s biggest passion is to teach others how to share, build, and preserve wealth. He authored Real Estate Note Investing, an introduction to the note investing business, helping investors enter the “other side” of the real estate business.


  1. Jerry W.

    I love your articles. You have a lot of experience and knowledge. I was not doing real estate nearly as much as now when my kids were home, but it’s not too late to start with my grandchildren.

  2. Megan Greathouse

    I’m still new to parenting (my daughter is 1), so I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately. Should I keep putting away money each month for her college education, or should I add that money to my funds for real estate investing to help pay another way? How do I teach her about personal finance early and reinforce often? Great article to help me think through some of these questions. Thank you!

    • Dave Van Horn

      Hi Megan,

      All good questions.

      To answer your first question, a little of both if possible. Obviously you don’t want your college fund to be stagnant if it could be making a reasonable return, but at the same time, you wouldn’t want it all tied up in investments because nothing is completely risk free. So I think it’s all about finding the property balance that works for you.

      Secondly, I had mentioned the board game “Cash flow for Kids” in the article and I think that’s a great first exposure for children to begin to understand money. More than anything though, I think leading by example and getting to the “why” of spending the money we give our children is important for them to understand.

      Thanks for reading!


  3. Natasha Keck

    Thanks Pop Pop for the tips 🙂 My two daughters do my QuickBooks for our real estate portfolio, and get paid to do. It brings up all kinds of interesting conversations! I’d love to hear more about your strategy to take advantage of your son’s student loan mentioned in #5.

  4. Stacy Eisenberg

    Wonderful article. I am passionate about teaching my son how to budget, invest and plan for the future. He is only 13 and still learning, but I have no doubt that when he is ready to go out on his own, he will be ready.

    I concur with the other responses. Write another article about how you used a mortgage note to pay for your son’s tuition loan payments. That is brilliant!

    Thanks for the great ideas.

  5. John C.

    More great ideas and reminders, Dave.

    We mainly try to set a good example. And when there’s a learning situation, we’ll take the time to explain it.

    My kids are 9 and 12. So we have no problems telling them how much we spend on vacations, groceries, books, games, etc. they have become quite conscious of whether something is worth their money.

  6. Carolyn Lorence

    So spot on! Love the lessons here. We need more financial education in our school systems. As a 50 something who grew up learning to rely on a job for a living and a 401k for retirement, rather than learning how to invest, I understand the importance of teaching our children and young adults the fundamentals of managing their own finances. We were never taught these critical skills in high school – not to say that typing class and home ec didn’t get me anywhere . . . 🙂 We have no children of our own, but with plenty of nieces and nephews and siblings who could benefit from this knowledge, I now have the opportunity to teach them the power of real estate.

  7. Adam D.

    We use delayed gratification with my oldest daughter (3) using snacks and treats. We’ll start with the next one soon. She can have 1 of the treat now but if she can wait to eat it, she will get 2. We started out with about 5 seconds of waiting and she did well, then we increased the wait time every week or so. She’s always so happy when she gets more after waiting a minute or two.

  8. Erika G.

    Love this post. I have a three-year-old son and I feel like it is the right time to teach him the value of money, saving and investing. I want him to learn at an early age because I don’t want him to grow up not knowing how important it is to always have the security.

  9. Spot on article Dave! This very much describes what must be done with today’s kids! It’s where we have them join the real deal, making it enjoyable for them, but at the same time, learning a lot along the process. This is where we come in to instill in their young minds that an investment is something that pays off in the future.

  10. Kenny Durrant

    Great article Dave! I’m learning how to invest, and the main motivation for me to figure it out is my wife and kids. I really want to be able to teach my kids how to be financially responsible at an early age. I am interested to learn more about the strategy you mentioned in #5. I bookmarked the article you mentioned in a few other comments above, and look forward to reading that. I have played the Cash Flow game myself, and will have to look into the kids version and get that out at our next game night. We have a “family council” every Sunday night and one of the things we have started discussing is our family budget. We are hoping to teach our kids more about managing finances, and want this to be a more open subject in our home. I appreciate all of the tips in this article, and will definitely be implementing them in our home.

    • Dave Van Horn

      Hey Kenny,

      Thanks for reading. And glad to see the game has been helpful to you and your family.

      I talk more in-depth about strategy number 5 in my new book coming out for BiggerPockets Publishing in April!

      Happy investing!


  11. Ashley Wilson

    As always, great article!!! Our kids are 3 and under, so just laying the foundation now by taking them to our jobs, and teaching them about working together to complete tasks, but we will be deploying these great tips in the immediate future!!! Can’t wait to encourage the next generation of investors!

  12. Steve Vaughan

    Thanks for this article, Dave. I never considered hiring my 2 boys to do/help with admin and receipts. They have only been hired by us to mow, weed, shampoo carpets, clean and paint only so far. Great tips!
    Mine have been LLC members in 2 apt buildings since they were very little. They understand the difference between contributions as owners like picking up the parking lot and paid labor. Their k-1 income flows to their mutual funds. Talk abo8t competition and questions!
    Great topic!

  13. Sarah Pursell

    My kids have all invested their birthday money and savings in bullion. My daughter (11) recently pulled some out, and invested it with the investor her dad works with who flips houses. All my big kids earn money by cleaning our Airbnb. And most recently I’ve been taking classes on Cryptocurrency, and their interests have been piqued. I didn’t think I was doing very well in teaching them, but when I stopped and thought about it after reading your article, I felt encouraged. I wasn’t taught any of this stuff, and had to figure out so much as an adult (I still am!).

  14. Ellamarie Taylor

    This was A really great read! At some point I’ll learn how to same these articles so I can easily get back to them.

    I have 4 children 12 being the oldest and the youngest is 4, all the tips Solly to the rich education I need to instill.

    Thank you

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