{"id":44679,"date":"2013-06-16T11:00:29","date_gmt":"2013-06-16T17:00:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.biggerpockets.com\/renewsblog\/?p=44679"},"modified":"2021-03-16T10:07:57","modified_gmt":"2021-03-16T16:07:57","slug":"2013-06-16-never-work-a-day-in-your-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.biggerpockets.com\/blog\/2013-06-16-never-work-a-day-in-your-life","title":{"rendered":"How to Never &#8220;Work&#8221; Another Day In Your Life&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I had just hit the snooze button for the third time&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Although I had a busy day ahead of me which I knew would be good for my business, I dreaded the thought of even getting out of bed and going to work.<\/p>\n<p>For some reason that particular morning, I just couldn&#8217;t stand the thought of getting up out of bed going through my normal morning routine, kissing the wife and kids goodbye and heading off to a job that I had over the course of the previous few months had very little interest in doing.<\/p>\n<p>I hated the thought of telling my kids to &#8220;follow their dreams&#8221; and here I was not even doing it. Frankly, I felt like a fraud for not pursuing what I really wanted in life and could be totally passionate about.<\/p>\n<p>For some reason that day, I just hated the thought of getting in my van and making another pitch for a product and service I no longer had passion for.<\/p>\n<p>I was just burnt out.<\/p>\n<p>Something had to change.<\/p>\n<h2>Big Changes on The Way to The Same Thing<\/h2>\n<p>Rewind a few years prior, I had just departed my family&#8217;s flooring business, moved to a new town and started looking for work. I actually started interviewing for jobs with flooring manufacturers after running my family&#8217;s business!<\/p>\n<p>I soon found that I was actually over-qualified for some of the jobs I was interviewing for. Needless to say, I didn&#8217;t get any job offers.<\/p>\n<p>After the fourth interviewer had told me I was over qualified for working for them, I thought to myself: &#8220;Why the hell am I trying to go work for someone else? I should just start up my own flooring business!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>After all, I was a flooring guy, right?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So I did start my own franchised flooring business and made it pretty darned successful.<\/p>\n<p>But two years later, there I was lying in bed, feeling completely trapped and unfulfilled. I was right back to doing the same thing I was doing before.<\/p>\n<p>Worst of all, I was lying to myself. I was back to doing a &#8220;job&#8221; even though that job was my own business, it was still a J-O-B because I had no passion and no enthusiasm for it whatsoever.<\/p>\n<h2>Do What You Love and You&#8217;ll Never Work a Day the Rest of Your Life<\/h2>\n<p>I had always been fascinated by real estate though&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I had tried to sweep it under the carpet&#8230;because <em>I was a flooring guy.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>But was I?<\/p>\n<p>Deep down, <em>I knew I wasn&#8217;t really a flooring guy<\/em>, it&#8217;s just what I did for work. But after that first little taste back in the late 90s, I had gotten a glimpse of what it was all about.<\/p>\n<p>And that little taste had convinced me that what I really wanted was to be a real estate investor. But for some reason something for the last year or two I had stifled it.<\/p>\n<p>But here it was coming back again&#8230;.<\/p>\n<h2>&#8220;What Are You Gonna Do, It&#8217;s All You Know&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p>It&#8217;s not like I hated my job \u2013 it was just that I was tired of doing something that I didn&#8217;t really love to do anymore. The only reason I had done it is because up until that point, it was all I knew.<\/p>\n<p>But just because people kept telling me I should stay in flooring because it was <em>&#8220;all I knew&#8221;<\/em> &#8211; I knew that was no reason to not do what you love.<\/p>\n<p>Deep down, I knew I could do it &#8211; I just had no idea HOW to do it.<\/p>\n<p>Plus, I had just turned 40 and I was at the point in my life where I was about halfway through my work life. And I thought to myself: <em><strong>is this all there is?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>It wasn&#8217;t about the money at all. It was about <strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline\">passion<\/span><\/strong>. I am confident I could have made that business into a million dollar business &#8211; I&#8217;m convinced of it. In fact, I was already <em>halfway there<\/em>. I just had zero interest in doing that.<\/p>\n<p>I knew what I wanted to do &#8211; and it had nothing to do with money. Sure, I knew plenty of people <em>&#8220;making a killing&#8221;<\/em> in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biggerpockets.com\/real-estate-investing\" target=\"_blank\">real estate investing<\/a>. But that wasn&#8217;t it. It wasn&#8217;t about the money, <strong>it was all about doing what you love to do<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<h2>Passion and Hard Work Beats Cluelessness Every Time<\/h2>\n<p>I knew what I wanted, but there was just one problem. I had no idea how to get there and how to do it while supporting my family. After all, I was completely switching careers and taking this flyer in the real estate investing business without a real safety net &#8211; which quite honestly, scared the crap out of me&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Later that day, after a long talk with my wife &#8211; <em>&#8220;the day of the alarm clock&#8221;<\/em>, I made the decision to wind down my flooring business and make plans to go headlong into the real estate investing business.<\/p>\n<p>And although success did not happen immediately, I could actually say I was a full-time <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biggerpockets.com\/blog\/2013\/06\/08\/demographics-of-a-real-estate-investor\/\" title=\"Demographics of a Real Estate Investor\" target=\"_blank\">real estate investor<\/a> &#8211; and best of all, I was doing what I loved to do&#8230;and still do to this day.<\/p>\n<p><em>Not too shabby for &#8220;a flooring guy&#8221;.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Are you doing what you really love to do?<\/strong> Are you not listening to that inner voice that&#8217;s been telling you to follow your passion?<\/em> <strong><em>Or have you done it, made the scary leap and never looked back?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline\"><strong>Please leave a comment below and share YOUR story<\/strong><\/span> of how you did it or if you haven&#8217;t done it yet, leave a comment as well. Perhaps together, we can get you to follow that inner voice and pursue your dream too&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><font size=\"-2\">Photo: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/9284496@N07\/2674610197\/in\/photolist-55m5qV-56x5og-57rULv-593hjP-593YyG-59nHuc-5b97CZ-5buQaf-5bJTEY-5d197R-5d7ofA-5e9zg9-5fpqrz-5fy97n-5fLwot-5h4MBV-5hfabp-5hqCgu-5hxUQ5-5jJRzB-5mpNqi-5mBRDL-5n4uSf-5pFa1P-5pJE2t-5quJY8-5r2fAc-5rrHfY-5rGfni-5rRpXQ-5s2AbF-5saz3A-5so4B2-5sXbrS-5t1d4F-5tnSi9-5tUaCt-5tZ35T-5uaH8b-5uQ8VW-5uQWVA-5va9Yy-5wak2R-5wYNgk-5xsYg4-5ynJhf-5yDHPb-5zg12N-5zMnad-5A2La9-5AXtkS\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Indy Kethdy<\/a><\/font><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I had just hit the snooze button for the third time&#8230; Although I had a busy day ahead of me which I knew would be good for my business, I [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":749,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[20],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-44679","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-personal-development"],"acf":[],"comment_count":0,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biggerpockets.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44679","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biggerpockets.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biggerpockets.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biggerpockets.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/749"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biggerpockets.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=44679"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.biggerpockets.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44679\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biggerpockets.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=44679"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biggerpockets.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=44679"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biggerpockets.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=44679"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}