{"id":98893,"date":"2020-11-29T10:00:52","date_gmt":"2020-11-29T17:00:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.biggerpockets.com\/renewsblog\/?p=98893"},"modified":"2021-03-16T13:54:33","modified_gmt":"2021-03-16T19:54:33","slug":"millionaire-overrated","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.biggerpockets.com\/blog\/millionaire-overrated","title":{"rendered":"Why I Think Being a Millionaire Might Be Overrated"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Today I\u2019m talking to you about why being a millionaire is overrated.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m truly humbled to say that my partner in crime and I unofficially retired last year. This means we have enough money to last us a couple of lifetimes, unless our kids screw it up. Isn\u2019t that how it goes? The first generation builds it, the second one expands it \u2014 or you hope they do \u2014 and the third one loses it all, right?<\/p>\n<h2>Being Successful All Around<\/h2>\n<p>That aside, I want to share something with you that I think is really important. Everyone is always dreaming of becoming a millionaire. You can ask anyone if they would want a million dollars and they would all say yes. They think it\u2019s going to solve all of their problems. But then if you ask another question \u2014 what are you doing to get to a million dollars? A lot of them won\u2019t be able to tell you that answer. A lot of them will say, well, I\u2019m working a nine-to-five job. Yes, I get it guys. But I don\u2019t think you\u2019re going to get to where you want to be working a nine-to-five job. I truly believe success comes before nine and after five.<\/p>\n<p>For example, I\u2019m not the smartest person out there. I quit school at the age of 14. I can\u2019t write or read too well. Despite that, one thing that I have done for many, many years is work extremely hard. Whatever I say I\u2019m going to do, I do it. That, over time, has helped me to figure things out and become successful.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Related:<\/strong>\u00a0<a href=\"\/renewsblog\/2015\/03\/19\/wanna-rich-quick-real-estatestay-broke-long-possible\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">The True \u201cGet Rich Quick\u201d Scheme: How Being Broke Allowed Me to Succeed in Real Estate<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<h2>A Word About Responsibility<\/h2>\n<p>Being a millionaire gives you the option to do what you want, when you want, and where you want. It also gives you responsibility. I\u2019ve built a few great companies, and with that comes a responsibility to my investors and a responsibility to my employees. And that is something that can be a double-edged sword. You can\u2019t just take a four-week vacation unless you\u2019ve really structured your business in a way where it can be self-sufficient without your presence, which is hard to do.<\/p>\n<p>I just want to share a message with you guys that having a million dollars, or being a millionaire, isn&#8217;t all that great. It\u2019s not all fairy tales and butterflies. It does give you options. And it\u2019s a great feeling knowing that you have that financial stability and security. But still, it gives you responsibility. That responsibility can sometimes be a burden. You have to show up every single day and get the job done, because if you don\u2019t, you are letting people down. If you\u2019re like me, you can\u2019t let people down. It bothers me.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/F5BXyTxhwHY\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Another thing that I want to share with you is that along my path to financial freedom and success in real estate, I\u2019ve come across a lot of other successful people with millions of dollars in net wealth. And they are the most miserable, disgusting people I\u2019ve ever met in my life.<\/p>\n<p>Can you believe that? I kid you not. I would never want to be anything close to them. I don\u2019t even know how they can look in the mirror. If I was them, I wouldn&#8217;t be able to look in the mirror.<\/p>\n<p>All these people care about is the next transaction. All they care about is adding another zero to the end of their bank accounts. Guys, when you\u2019re on your deathbed, you\u2019re not going to ask to see your bank statement before you die. You want to be with family. You want to be able to look back on your life and cherish the moments and memories that you shared with the people you love. As corny as this sounds guys, I am still chasing certain financial targets to help my family, employees, and investors. That is my fulfillment.<\/p>\n<p>I love the quote by Tony Robbins, \u201cSuccess without fulfillment is the ultimate failure.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I guarantee you this. I was very hungry once upon a time, eating peanut butter for breakfast and drinking $1 gas station coffees. So I know what it\u2019s like to be at the bottom of the barrel.<\/p>\n<p>Now, I\u2019m at a different stage in my life where I have all of the luxuries that I wanted. There comes a time when you stop thinking about money. You stop thinking about doing the next deal to make that next profit, because it just doesn\u2019t give you fulfillment. Buying a watch, buying a car, buying a mansion \u2014 you get it and then you\u2019re like crap, now what?<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Related:<\/strong>\u00a0<a href=\"\/renewsblog\/millionaire-through-real-estate-at-31\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">How I Went From Broke Poker Player at 25 to Millionaire at 31<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I was very fortunate to achieve my childhood dream at a very young age. And I unofficially retired at the ripe age of 29. But that is still not fulfillment. Adding another zero to your bank account is not going to give you that inner peace and happiness. I promise you that.<\/p>\n<h2>Give Back What You Get Out<\/h2>\n<p>Personally, I love giving back. When you give something to someone in need, and you see the smile on their face and how much they cherish that because they \u00a0it need badly, it\u2019s something that you never forget. When I\u2019m on my deathbed, that is when I\u2019m going to think about how many people I touched throughout my life.<\/p>\n<p>There is another quote, \u201cYou don\u2019t want to be the king of diamonds, you want to be the king of hearts.\u201d So that is my dream. That is my passion and my desire.<\/p>\n<p>I want to build a huge company and it\u2019s in the works now. And when I get to a $100 million valuation or even bigger, I\u2019m giving it all away.<\/p>\n<p>How? I don\u2019t know yet. But when I\u2019m gone and everything is said and done, I want whatever I have created and left behind to continue helping hundreds or thousands \u2014 if not millions \u2014 of people. That is my purpose.<\/p>\n<p>T&#8217;s my fulfillment. That is why I do what I do. Even though I am looking at hitting certain financial targets, you have to help yourself before you can help everyone else. And the more money I make now, the more I will be able to help in the future. I don\u2019t really care if you believe me or not, because I know that is what\u2019s inside of me, and that\u2019s all that matters to me.<\/p>\n<h2>Conclusion<\/h2>\n<p>To summarize, making a lot of money, being successful, having the millions is great but it comes with responsibilities and could be a burden at times. Just make sure when you succeed and set yourself and your loved ones up that you give back. That is all I can say because that will truly be fulfilled. Do not be like those miserable people who I have met with $70, $80, $90, or $100 million in their bank accounts but probably can\u2019t sleep at night or look at their face when they look in the mirror.<\/p>\n<p>So, guys, that is it. I hope you enjoyed this blog post.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.biggerpockets.com\/real-estate-investment-calculator?utm_source=renewsblog\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-91220\" src=\"https:\/\/www.biggerpockets.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/blog_ads-02.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"85\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.biggerpockets.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/blog_ads-02.jpg 700w, https:\/\/www.biggerpockets.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/blog_ads-02-300x36.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>How are you giving back? What was your path to financial freedom?\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>I\u2019d love to hear your comments below \u2014 share with me!<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Simply having a million dollars won&#8217;t make you happy and fulfilled. Family, giving back, and staying true to myself are the real measures of success.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1672,"featured_media":130106,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[20],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-98893","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-personal-development"],"acf":[],"comment_count":0,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biggerpockets.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/98893","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biggerpockets.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biggerpockets.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biggerpockets.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1672"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biggerpockets.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=98893"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.biggerpockets.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/98893\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biggerpockets.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/130106"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.biggerpockets.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=98893"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biggerpockets.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=98893"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.biggerpockets.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=98893"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}