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Posted almost 9 years ago

YOUR greatest advice of All TIme

This post is inspired by Joel Owens's response on Bigger Pockets to someone letting their J-O-B get in the way of their FUTURE....

ENTER JOEL-

Originally posted by @Joel Owens:

At some point like Bon Jovi's song " Living on a Prayer " you have to go for it.

When I first started out 12 years ago in real estate I had a friend that started out just like me. When the rubber hit the road he always had things get in the way ( job, kids, etc. ).

I went out and made things happen with no excuses. Today I am living my dream life with commercial real estate and he is still at a restaurant being a part time agent doing residential. A lot of people say they want to break free but very few have what it takes to make it happen. They keep saying I will try to make it happen around this and this and 5,10,15 years go by and things are still the same.

We can all make excuses for why we can't do something. If you want something bad enough you will make a way for it to happen. The dreamers and the doer's. Which one will you be?

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Back to Todd-

Joel's EPIC response made me think of something Andy Stanley has said time and time again over the years....

For everyone out there....myself included.... there is a FUTURE you!

There is the BEST version of the FUTURE you... and the MEDIOCRE version on the future you.

THINK about the BEST version of the FUTURE you writing yourself a postcard....

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What would the BEST version of the FUTURE you tell you to DO TODAY or STOP DOING TODAY to get where you want to go TOMORROW?

What EXCUSES would the BEST version of the FUTURE you tell you to STOP making?

I'll go first...

BEST version of FUTURE Todd to current Todd-

- DELEGATE! DELEGATE! DELEGATE!

- STOP the B.S. busy work, manage outcomes NOT processes

- Drink Less, Exercise More

- Take a TIME OUT...Set Goals... Plan Your Work and Work your Plan!

- You have SO MUCH potential.... but you WASTE it because you LACK DIRECTION... FOCUS DUDE.... FOCUS!!

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I could keep going but I'll stop for now, biggest thing I realized from this exercise of the mind was I need set some goal / priorities and then make a PLAN to achieve them.

It's kinda funny, "I am where I am" in Real Estate by happenstance. 

I just started doing it one day to make some extra money, it went well so I kept doing it, and some may say I have achieved some level of "success" along the way. FUTURE me says look at what you have done, but IMAGINE what you COULD do if you had a PLAN!

When other's ask me for advice, I ALWAYS tell them to MAKE A PLAN.... but I have a hard time taking my own advice. I make EXCUSES as to why TOMORROW is a GREAT day to make a plan.

I know the BEST version of the FUTURE me wants ME to stop making excuses, get a friend, find a business coach, or SOMETHING to put some DIRECTION in front of all my time, talent, and resources.  

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I look forward to seeing what other's BEST versions of their FUTURE self have to say to.....themselves! Let me know in the comments below!


Comments (5)

  1. Nice post Todd, especially the postcard from future. We all have read so many times about the one activity that sets industry leaders on top of everything. They are able to handle pressure, they fight challenges, and come out winning every single time. Reason: They envision the best version of themselves and put in their best efforts to achieve it. 

    Thanks for sharing!


  2. Like Jordan said:
    Some people want it to happen

    Some wish it to happen

    Others make it happen

    Enough said (mic drop)

    Great post!


  3. Really enjoyed your post, Todd.  Great psychology and insight.


    1. Thanks Sam!  


      1. This was awesome,..actually screams at me at what I need to work on. Focus, delegate, actually work the plan. Actually, it all makes since in my world. Thanks for the insight..much needed!!