How to Be a Landlord’s Dream Tenant — and Get into Any Rental You Choose

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If you are a renter, you have many obstacles ahead of you. Landlords are full of horror stories, and you are just another potential horror story. You want and need to be the best renter the new landlord has ever seen.   No landlord really wants you, but they need you. They need you to help them pay their rental mortgage; they need you to help them pay their personal mortgage, they need you to help them retire early. But they do not need you to come around and damage the premise or cause them a lot of extra work. Here is how to be the best renter you can possibly be.

My rentals are multifamily, but much of this advice translates to all rentals. Much of it I have seen firsthand.

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How to Be a Landlord’s Dream Tenant — and Get into Any Rental You Choose

Prepare for the Apartment Viewing Process

When you set up a showing for a rental property, it is really an interview. You are interviewing the landlord or property management company, and they are interviewing you. Make a critical mistake in this process, and you will have to move on to the next property. You do not have to be dressed for church, but do not come looking like you are homeless.

Get A Solid Credit Score

Anyone can have a decent credit score at 18 years old. Apply for a secured pre-paid Visa card, use it for a small charge once a month, and pay the bill when it comes due. Just like that, you will have a 700+ credit score. If you already have bad credit, you are starting behind the 8-ball and may have more difficulties. Clean up your credit report as soon as possible to increase your credit score.

Related: The Top 14 Tips Landlords Wish Their Tenants Knew

Knowing approximately what your credit score is will help immensely, in case there are credit score requirements for the rental. There is no sense in applying for a place you will not get. Bring in your proof of a credit score to help, but know that any decent landlord will also run your application through a credit check process and verify that your version closely matches theirs.

Come Prepared to Rent

You should be ready to rent any place you are looking at; otherwise, why waste your time or the landlord’s? Bring along proof of employment and income, along with your W2, tax forms, or a pay stub. Bring a pen to fill out an application and a checkbook to write out a check for the application fees. If you like the rental, you should also put down a holding fee to hold the rental. If you do not like the place or the landlord, keep the information in your pocket for the next place.

Control Your Viewing Group

Bring everyone along who will be renting — and no one else. A landlord will assume that your friend who arrives with you and is “living somewhere else” will be moving in as soon as you sign a lease. If your fiance who has just gotten out of prison stays in the car, I will also assume he looks so rough no one will rent to him, and I will also assume he will be moving in. Do not be offended if the landlord wants to keep criminals out of their multifamily rental.

If you have kids, do not let them run wild in the rental. It is not your place yet. If you are viewing an occupied unit, remember that it is someone else’s house. The current tenants do not even want you there, but they know the landlord needs to show it. If your kid steals a toy from the current renter and you have to come back from your car to return it, please do not be offended when you are politely declined for the rental.

Clean Up Your Pet Situation

Get rid of your “lab mix” dog that looks and acts like a purebred pit bull. Landlords do not like pit bulls, insurance companies do not like pit bulls, and many cities do not like pit bulls. If you have a 200 lb. bull mastiff, expect to be declined as a renter in any places that do not also allow horses. If you have six cats, get rid of at least four of them. Do not even apply if you have an intact male cat.

If you have a fish tank, keep it under 55 gallons. I have had renters with 200+ gallon saltwater fish tanks, and while they are impressive, they are way too big. Do not think for a minute that large or poisonous snakes are a great pet in an apartment, even though they are quiet. If your dog barks, get a bark collar for it.

If you have more than two pets, in any combination of dogs and cats, you are going to have a problem, especially if you can barely afford the rent.

Learn Move-In Etiquette

Once you have been approved, plan on moving in during the day. You can start as early as 7 a.m. during the week — or even 8 a.m. on the weekends — but do not start moving in after 8 p.m. Wait until the next day. Do not block the other tenants’ cars with all of your mover’s cars. If you have to temporarily block driveways and garages, be prepared to quickly move out of the way in short notice. Other tenants need to go about their day and do not want to be inconvenienced by you.

Watch for the walls and ceilings when you move. Do not scrape the walls and break ceiling light fixtures. If you drop trash in the hallways or common areas, pick it up. If you see a neighbor, introduce yourself if they do not do so first. Your neighbor is your ally. They are the ones who will tolerate your noise — or call the cops on you. It’s your choice: be a neighborly neighbor or be the “strange person across the hall.” A simple handshake is all it takes.

Requirements of a Great Renter

Pay rent. It is impossible to be a great renter if you do not pay rent. You could be a personal friend of Gandhi or a guest of the Pope on a regular basis, but if you do not pay rent, you are a terrible renter by definition. Pay your rent on time; it is due on midnight the evening BEFORE the first of the month. Not on the first, not on the fifth. Set up an auto-pay system so you do not forget; it will save your renter reputation.  If you need to pay rent in two installments, pay half in advance, and the rest when it is due.

Do Not Force Other Tenants to Leave. If you have weirdo habits that creep other tenants out, it is a bad deal. Do not deal drugs in the apartment area, or even look like you might be a drug dealer. If you want to be a drug dealer, go do it at work, not at home. If you have a habit of hanging laundry on the deck or using a sheet for a curtain, think twice about it. You do not want to bring down the appearance of the complex because you are too cheap to live like a normal human being.

Do Not Bring in Pests. Stay away from the free furniture on the curbs. It is there for a reason; no one wants it. It is likely to be full of bedbugs. Stay away from bringing home boxes from stores and restaurants that are full of cockroaches. If you bring in cockroaches or bed bugs, do not be surprised if you are eventually asked to leave. It is easier to rid an apartment of pests when it is empty. Pests are non-discriminatory in terms of income level, but low income habits seem to attract them.

Do Not Invite Your Criminal Friends Over. Many criminals who have been to jail or prison have a different mentality when it comes to resolving issues. It typically becomes a fight waiting to happen.  Combine criminals, alcohol, and a card game, and it is only a matter of time before someone gets offended and a fight breaks out. When someone gets into a fight and they are hit with a 1.5L brandy bottle, they can fall against the stairway railing and lose half of their ear. I have seen it happen. If you have criminal friends, go play at their house, not yours.

Do Not Just Hang Around. Do not loiter around the outside of the building or allow your friends to do so. When you come home or your friends come over, go into your apartment. Hanging around looks bad — it looks like you are looking for trouble to get into. And especially do not hang around the building or parking lot around after dark. Hanging around and drinking is even worse; do not drink outside your apartment. If you are grilling alone, a beer to pass the time might be OK. Never drink outside when you have friends over.

Disclose Your Extra Guests. Do not expect that because you have paid the rent, you can have extra people living there. There is a reason why tenants get screened; one reason is to make sure you will likely pay the rent. The other reason is to screen out potential troublemakers. If you want a guest, get them approved by the landlord. Maybe there will be slight increase in rent, maybe not. And extra guests also include extra pets.

Do Not Be Crazy. If you think it is a great idea to come home drunk at 2 a.m. and start a fight with your roommates, think again. The other neighbors do not want to hear you wrestling around like a bunch of wild bears upstairs. If you then think you are invincible and want to go out and find another party but decide to punch the ceiling light on your way out, it will not wind up good. The light fixture is cheap to replace, but I will be charging a much greater amount against your damage deposit for my time and trouble.

Be Quiet After 9 p.m. Most tenants work a typical day job. They expect it to be quiet when they go to bed or start to get ready for bed. If you like parties, loud TVs, shoot-em-up video games, or even loud card games, you need to think twice about whether a multifamily rental is for you. You share walls, ceilings and floors.  Your music and sound effects become their noise. If you already met the neighbors, they might come over and help you realize you are making too much noise. If not, they may just call the cops.

Related: How to Find a Tenant in Any Market: A Comprehensive Guide

Do Not Attract Police Calls. Call the cops as often as you need to, but never get them called on you. One call and you could be evicted. If you committed a cardinal sin, like domestic abuse or drugs, expect to be shown the door. If your live in roommate gets arrested for having a vehicle chop-shop in the garage, do not expect you will have until your lease ends to move out; you will be lucky to get until the weekend to move. When bad behaviors are noticed and one gets kicked out, everyone gets kicked out.

After the Move-In

Remember that the hurdle you had to overcome to move in, your neighbors also have experienced. The reason why your rental is nice is directly related to that tenant screening hurdle. You should want to keep it nice and get a great landlord reference.

Your home is your castle, but it is not going to be yours forever. Give proper notice to move out. Keep it clean and mostly presentable. Clean up after your pets and control your guests. Enjoy the time you are there.

What have you had for either a great rental experience or a bad one? What have your tenants (or landlords) done that got you upset?

Leave a comment below, and let’s talk!

About Author

Eric D.

Eric is a 55 year old, soon to be former, computer professional. He started several years ago to replace his “work income”, with other alternate streams. He is well on his way to retirement at age 56, and is currently making more money at extracurricular activities, than he is working at his full time job. Whether that is Financially Independent, or just old fashioned entrepreneurial spirit, is in the eyes of the beholder.


  1. If you are looking to rent a place, my recommendation is:
    Deal directly with the owner. Have get credit and the ability to prepay rent. Negotiate!

    We just rented a place and talked the owner down from $2150/month to $2000 by having great credit and paying rent in quarterly instalments. It turned out to be win-win because she needed the cash and fiscally responsible tenants and we got a good deal on rent!

  2. margaret smith on

    Eric, you made me laugh out loud, over and over! I am going to copy and print- regale my investor friends, yes, but also hand out with application! Let everyone know, in a fun, tongue-in-cheek way, what is expected of them. The problem guys will know right off the bat– We have your number!

    All the best to you, and a very find landlord you must be!

    • Deanna Opgenort

      The funny part is that NO ONE sees themselves as a “bad renter” — it’s always someone else’s fault, and of course “kids will be kids”, so it is SO unreasonable to expect that they won’t spill bong water on the bedroom carpet, or that their boyfriends won’t deal drugs out the bedroom window — it is SOOO unreasonable to be expected to move! Why didn’t someone TELL them their was a problem! The drug bust didn’t find anything, and really, that thing with the friend threatening breaking down the neighbor’s fence, calling them the “n” word and threatening to kill them…well, that could happen to anyone! The young man had “accidently” stumbled and hit his head against the tail-gate when the youngters were out at a bonfire (not drinking, of course). And no, he wasn’t staying at the house, he just

      • Deanna Opgenort

        … was staying really, really close by, so that’s why he was able to meet the police officer at the back door so quickly the next morning….
        If only this were fiction instead of my first tenants!!!!
        Sad thing is she always paid her rent PROMPTLY, nothing was deliberately damaged, and the house was reasonably clean and tidy. I would have been glad to keep her as a tenant if she’d been able to say “no” to the kids & grandkids.

    • Eric D.

      Thank you for the comment!

      Excellent point. Most tenants see the humor in my response to them for the same thing, and would never be a drug dealer in the first place. Drug dealers do not have solid credit sore either…

  3. Mindy Jensen

    Eric, I wish I had rentals so I could put your sage advice into play immediately. Working on getting some, and will absolutely print out all your columns and show them to potential renters with a note – this is how I operate, too.

  4. Nature B.

    I’m a landlord of 2 properties and the tenants that pay on-time (and I mean those that pay on the 1ST not the 5TH), keep the house clean enough for me to show new tenants, minimize maintenance calls and have enough sense to notify me of potential issues are keepers! These are the tenants that I don’t mind working with. For example I didn’t increase rent one year for one of my tenants and I agreed to paint the living room one year for another tenant. These tenants make my life easier so I try to make them happy.

  5. This is the most ridiculous thing I have read all week. I understand the noise and things like that. But honestly quiet after 9? Really? No one is like this anymore, and the pit bull thing i’m sorry your wrong. So many landlords will let you have your pit. You sir are biased beyond belief. My rental said they would rather have pits, mastiffs, and dogs of that nature over small dogs that do nothing but bark and are more aggressive. And we are not “poor people” either. You need to learn some actual facts about renting and if you’re moving to a place that you need or wan to act like this with ridiculous regulations try a gated community or senior center. You need to be an individual an I’m sorry kids will be kids they are loud and like to play. You don’t like it don’t rent an apartment. I think people need to stop being so stuck up and realize that other people are individuals and have friends and lives.

    • Thank you for reading.

      Lucky for you, there are places that will rent to you if you have a pit bull, and like to be noisy after 9 PM. It will not be my place.

      I understand how civilized people want to live, and I create an environment that fosters that. Most normal people have a job, and they put their younger kids to bed at an early hour, so the kid can get plenty of sleep. After all, they care about their children and want to give them the best start they can in life. If the kid has school in the AM, the kids needs a proper rest, If the kid is older, it should be controlled enough to know that being noisy after 9 PM may be disturbing to other neighbors. The kid should know how to be considerate.

      Pit Bulls are not allowed in many cities, and many insurance companies do not like them. There are studies about the types of people that own pit bulls. If you are going to be killed by a dog, there is about a 75% chance it will be a pit bull. No thanks, I will take a different renter. What kind of renter gets an animal that may make it difficult for them to find a place to live? Does the renter not think ahead? Or do they just want to be rebellious? Neither attitude is a good one for a landlord to have in their renter.

      You do bring up great points. If a renter wants these things, they should buy their own house.

      • marianne l Finkel on

        … when a tenant applicant has a ‘restricted’ dog breed , we will inform that our insurance requires the tenant to buy dog liability insurance in the minimum of half a million.
        any thoughts?

        • Eric D.

          Contact your insurance company FIRST. Before you even get a vacancy and see what they require – IF you take one of these restricted breeds.

          They may say they will drop you. And a half-million is not enough. A minimum coverage that you could even buy would be $1M. And is the tenant drops the coverage right after they get it, are you still covered?

          Stay away from people that are not smart enough to know their life will be more difficult with a restricted breed as a renter.

  6. This post was supposed to be hepful but it’s just plain rude and discriminating. Obviously the writer I biased and ignorant. People live by the ways which he shuts down based on his opnion. And I’m thinking it’ll be a professional opnion. This is a more of how to be a tenant of a douche bag landlord.

    • Eric D.

      Thank you for reading!

      You definitely help illustrate the difference between a quality tenant and a tenant to avoid at all costs.

      Nothing is discriminatory about wanting to create a decent environment for an existing multifamily tenant. Of course, for a person that has criminal friends, low credit scores and an entitlement attitude, trying to keep those traits away from their rental may seem discriminatory.

      • Eric D.

        Thank you for reading!

        Brianna is obviously a tenant to avoid. She likely has a low credit score, brings in a pit-bull without disclosing it, and has a felon boyfriend move in after the lease is signed. Then, she and her boyfriend annoys all the other occupants in neighboring units so that they want to move out,

        Tenants that think they own a rental, and can do anything that they want to do. Then, they leave the landlord with a big mess at the end.

  7. Great post and funny. When I see “deal with landlord directly”, I think of “deal” in another sense as in drugs. I didn’t see anything about being courteous with your home workouts. You know those people who do jumping jacks at home.

  8. I like how your article mentioned about keeping considerations for your neighbors is an essential part when renting a multifamily apartment for they wouldn’t appreciate the noise, especially after bedtime. That is a great advice to keep in mind as I personally would hate to have a loud or scandalous neighbor when I start to move into my an apartment. Being able to have peace and silence is a fundamental part of relaxing for people who are hard at work all day. Hopefully, I wouldn’t cause any problem with my potential neighbors once I do find the perfect apartment for me. Thanks, Eric!

  9. I’ve been looking for a good property for rent, and I think that some ideas would be good. I’m glad you talked about the dream tenant to look for, and how they should avoid police calls. I’m going to have to look for a good property for rent, and I think that being able to get some help finding good tenants would be great! Thanks!

  10. marianne finkel on

    I wonder if some tenant applicants are ‘fishing’ to find an inexperienced landlady, or are they just inexperienced tenants themselves, but just today i received an inquiry to my rental ad, where they ask me to call them so they can ‘explain’ their situation. My ad clearly states ‘sorry no phone calls.’
    what makes them think that i would want to rent to a person who ignores my ad’s terms? I mean, where else they will act as the rules don’t apply to them.
    any thoughts? thanks.

    • Eric D.

      Thank you for reading. Many tenants need to look far and wide to find a landlord that will accept them. They are probably under the gun to move, as they are facing an eviction. They maybe trying a Hail Mary play to get an apartment before the eviction is filed.

      • Thank you, Excellent Advice for both of my comments!
        I’m thinking of adding a requirement for tenant to obtain renter’s insurance. If I have them show me proof of their policy, and have me added to their contacts to notify in event the policy gets cancelled.
        It seems like another hassle, but if it helps to avoid costly lawsuit, maybe it’s worth it.

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