If a person is reinvesting at a HIGH rate of speed then they typically will not feel or act like a millionaire till they have past the One millionaire status. ( I know from experience of what I speak and this is not recycled verbiage.)One thing to remember is have a happy fulfilled life with your family now.  

No longer wanting to work to fulfill someone else's dream.

So from what I read the online applications does not fulfill the requirements for an ESA?

But  these programs genesis is all based on MLM that came before it.. the sales techniques the pulling at the heart strings its all MLM.. and the fulfillment companies still do both.. 

This was in addition to fulfilling ALL warranty obligations.  

"Winners focus on winning, losers focus on winners" - Conor McGregor"The graveyard is the richest place on earth, because it is here that you will find all the hopes and dreams that were never fulfilled, the books that were never written, the songs that were never sung, the inventions that were never shared, the cures that were never discovered, all because someone was too afraid to take that first step, keep with the problem, or determined to carry out their dream." - Les Brown 

They sent me cabinets that were in different boxes, different construction, door sizes were off a half an inch, a pinstripe was a different color, they couldn't fulfill the order with the cabinets I ordered so they gave me different cabinets and said that they would work?

Giving is equally addictive and much more fulfilling.

I'm beginning to find that our problem is more with the fact that we are both fresh out of college (and i'm still in grad school) and she's still looking for a fulfilling job.

If tenants see that you mean it, they might realize that an eviction on their record will reduce the chance for further tenancy therefore it is better for them to fulfill the contract.