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Rented a small two bedroom to a young unmarried couple, never one of the most reliable renter groups, but it was November, and within two months the boyfriend has moved out.

Of course no comment to us, rent was not late in January, but that looks like stormy weather ahead.

Thinking about sending the boyfriend a letter reminding him he signed a year lease and is legally responsible for the lease's responsibilities.


Real Estate Lender · Philadelphia, Pennsylvania


If the rent is on time, then I don't see what the problem is. Maybe he will be back, maybe he won't, but if they continue to pay rent, it really shouldn't make any difference. It is possible that he will continue to pay his share... or maybe they will talk to you about the girl finding another roommate to take his spot.

I made this mistake myself once. Moved into a place with my girlfriend after graduating college. Obviously, in hindsight, it was a bad idea. However, we did continue to meet our obligations to the lease agreement.

While I agree that it is most likely not a good situation, I don't think that there is a need to take action until rent is late.


Real Estate Investor · Amarillo, Texas


Theres no reason to send any letter, there has not been any late payments or anything to justify doing so, and doing so would just piss me off if i was him.
Also, unsure if you know, both Lucia Waibel and Lucia Weial show up in your signature..



Unfortunately, I am not sure what the legal eagles will make of this.

If the young man has moved out and I do not react, is there any implicit acceptance of this which could negate any legal claims of the lease?

Thanks for the tip on the profile mistake, it is fixed.


Real Estate Investor · ten mile, Tennessee


Did they both sign the lease? Or just the one?
How did you find out that he has moved out?

That will most likely have an impact on the answer when the rent is late (stormy weather). But the answer is best gotten from an legal eagle (attorney) in your area that deals with the tennant landlord isuues.


Real Estate Investor · Springfield, Missouri


Hi, the only requirement for a tenant to occupy a unit that I have ever heard of is in connection with Setion 8. Unless you have terms in the lease, I don't see any event of default here. Even if it were in your lease, you have the option to terminate the agreement and not doing so under one event should not preclude your option in the future for any other default. What could be the outcome if acceptance was implied? That one tenant did not have to live there, so long as rent is paid, so what. As far as you know, really know, he could be on vacation, staying with an ill relaitive, joined the military. I just don't see a problem here. Now if reant is not paid and you go through eviction, don't forget to name him as well, even if he is not there. IMO Bill


Real Estate Investor · Lincoln, Nebraska


Originally posted by Lucia Waibel
Unfortunately, I am not sure what the legal eagles will make of this.

If the young man has moved out and I do not react, is there any implicit acceptance of this which could negate any legal claims of the lease?

Thanks for the tip on the profile mistake, it is fixed.


Lucia, You need to talk to the lawyer who would usually handle your evictions. Depending on your state laws ... you might be required to proceed one way or another. Where I live...as long as the rent is coming in...I would not worry about sending a letter to anybody.... until rent is late, then I would proceed to make all the signers of the contract to pay...I know that here in Ne. the law backs up the landlord. Good luck.

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Just a note here to the newbies (I know that Lucia doesn't need my advice).

When I have roommates apply, I will not accept them unless each and every one of them qualifies as an individual. Roommates come and go, and when one moves out, I want the one who is remaining to be capable of paying the rent.

Know your state law. One or two states require that you consider the total income and not individual income of unrelated groups.


Real Estate Investor · Springfield, Missouri


Hi again, Ask yourself this, if one tenant was killed in a car crash last week, what would you do? Would you continue with the lease? If there is no default in payment or any other lease provision, why is the glass half empty? If rent is not paid, evict her as you normally would, she has no other rights because her boyfriend left her. If you evict, name everyone on the lease, as if they were there. If you seek a judgement, name both of them. Notice should be to their last know address for both issues. If you can't find him for any deficiency judgement, collect it from her, that's what you'd have to do if he died, unless you filed against his estate and if your judgement was after his estate had been settled, you have no recourse with him. Implied acceptance of what? That people get divorced, break up, die, become incapacitated, if these issues are not covered in your lease, they are in law. Acceptance of a contractual relationship is one thing, if you have control over the matter or if you can object. How are you going to object to someone leaving or dropping dead?
Even if you did qualify both parties for the rent and they no longer have the capacity, in your opinion, to pay rent, you can't terminate a lease based on your opinion of their financial capacity, you must wait for an event of default under the terms you agreed to. The only time income becomes an issue for a tenant is when they can't pay or if their income increases and they no longer qualify for rental assistance, as with Section 8. The idea of making such concerns an issue with the existing tenant is almost a violation of quiet enjoyment! That includes an obligation on your part not to harass your tanant(s). Or, make an appointment with your attorney and make his car payment for him next month, LOL

If this matter is a real issue for you see your attorney before you bring such concerns up with the tenant, they may be young, but it's likely they have parents or other adult friends that may become a part of the issue. I'd leave sleeping dogs lie on this issue. Bill



Bill, Looks like you are online, sent you a colleague request, can you check for it? THX,


Real Estate Investor · Ohio


Excellent comments and explanation Bill. Nothing else I could say would add much to what you said as I see it the same way you do. It isn't a problem until it becomes a problem.

Good investing.

Mike C



The young lady notified us today that she will be breaking the lease and moving out in February as she can no longer afford the place and the boyfriend has moved out and is not contributing.

They both signed the lease, they wouldn't have gotten the place otherwise.

She said she will pay the February rent but then she is moving out, so now the letter will go.

It will inform them they are both that they are still on the hook for the rent until new tenants are found and their security deposit will also be forfeited, a clause in their lease for this very reason.

Chalk up another problem with first time young couples. Too many times it ends like this with legal headaches, credit damage, and everyone angry.

At least it is tax return time, so it should not be vacant for too long. Back onto CraigsList it goes.




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