Hi Kathy,
I'm a fairly new landlord - 18 months and counting. I just had my first eviction (I have 2 rentals). The house had taken 3 months to rent after I bought it. And that was after the furnace died, a few pipes burst, etc. And yes, the place had been inspected, but these things happen.
The tenant lasted 5 months on rental assistance then was kicked out of the program when he started collecting disability and refused to pay his own rent. Unlike Section 8, rental assistance doesn't sign a contract with the landlord, so it was up to me to evict him. I started the process on the 5th day of the month, the earliest allowed by law. He was a single father with 3 kids and he would have been out in 6 weeks except the judge went on summer vacation and it took 8 weeks.
The tenant didn't vandalize the house, but he was filthy and it needed to be completely repainted, exterminated, cleaned, and landscaped. The tenant left me with a $1200 water/sewer bill. The legal fees were only $300 but everything else was about $4000. His deposit was $1350.
My other tenant has a few issues too, but she is on Section 8 so no worries about the rent, and she keeps the house spotless. But now she wants to move at the end of her lease, which could mean a prolonged vacancy in January. These are professional tenants and transient by nature.
If you have a "helpful" personality, you may end up getting helped right into insolvency. Your tenants will accuse you of being money hungry or worse (while sticking you with bills that *they* racked up) and they will always put themselves first. I've learned never to feel sorry for my tenants, because they will never feel sorry for me.
I'm still looking for more rental properties, because I believe it's a viable business, but it's a business, plain and simple.