Sooner or later if you do this long enough with enough volume you are likely to experience it.  

Later on, they see what great things you are doing and want to be part.

He even wrote QD to my second husband.Almost 10 years later I went to court, quiet title. (2008?)

You don't want to mix friendship/family relationships and cause bad blood later if the deal does not work.

If they cannot tell you how much they have in reserves then don't buy into their building (I made this mistake and only found out later that the state of the association was a total mess).

So most likely it would cashflow more if I take on the load myself, either way the cashflow was not the reason I purchased this property even though I will come out net positive every month but rather the equity to be had that I can pull out later and use for the next property.

So most likely it would cashflow more if I take on the management myself, either way the cashflow was not the reason I purchased this property even though I will come out net positive every month, but rather the equity to be had that I can pull out later and use for the next property.

They do that to be safe with you and not surprise you with fees later on. 

Right around the time I was about to start looking for something to house hack I met my husband and now it’s 2 1/2 years later we’re married with a 5 month old.

Appraised 5yr later for $490k.Long Term NNN Tenants at $5k monthly (with increases) How did you finance this deal?