Your relationship and your future together is what really matters, so consider what matters most to you both, and go with that.If you want to talk about real estate in Southern California, I'd love to chat about that with you.

Happy to chat.  

I’d love to set up a video call to chat and get to know each other better—let me know a time that works for you.

Consistency, written communication, and clear processes create authority naturally.This first interaction is about professionalism and structure — not control.

Happy to chat more!

Happy to chat one-on-one if it would be helpful.

Happy to connect and chat further  

Happy to chat further about this and being an OOS investor. 

Cons: I would have to pay interests on the hard money loan (at ~10 interest rate).I chatted with 3 lenders (brokers), and they suggested using the path C (I.e. not using my own funds and going through the hard-money route instead) claiming that would help me get more money out of the deal through the DSCR cash-out refinance.

I have no interactions with them.