However, we decided to buy a SFH instead, because we felt like it would be the healthiest for our marriage.A couple years later, we moved out of our starter home and rented it out with a positive $800/month cashflow.

After all, to each their own, we should celebrate each other's success.

@Joe S.I'm still open to ideas well.But, celebrate the small stuff.

Also, after the marriage celebration, have the locks chabged .  

It will definitely be an added expense that would come out of my commission in the end, but for families that are already struggling, that extra $250 after they have just gotten out from under a bad situation might be a big help (groceries, catch up on a bill, maybe do something fun to celebrate).  

Celebrate if you exceed your pro forma. 

Brings tears to me eyes when I see them celebrate.

Generally, trusts work best.In the last year, lots of celebrities were outed for having offshore trusts own their properties.The reason they used that method is because it is pretty much top of the line. 

When bills came out showing a REDUCTION in the tax rates everyone basically celebrated.

Celebrating with you!!!