The challenging part with New York is that most buildings in the areas I want to live in are older so while I would be house hacking, I worry there will be more maintenance issues along with the higher fees / taxes / etc that make me hesitant to do this method.

Like anything, it's just a series of properly ordered steps that need to be followed. 

Asking the selling agent is the easiest first step which was done.Next, check with the city for permits as mentioned above.

Looking to use hard money loans to purchase properties,  using the fix and  flip method for the 1st few properties to build cash reserves. 

Your method sounds compelling; however, I really try to minimize my variables in marketing to ensure my KPIs stay consistent.

Sure enough, that is critical, but getting to those numbers is the first step.

That is a solid step, and more people should take their education and credentials seriously in this business.

A Roth Solo 401(k) can absolutely be powerful in the right situation.That said, having worked through this structure with real estate investors, I’d encourage readers to view it as a trade-off rather than a clear upgrade.Even in a Roth, you’re giving up depreciation strategies, cost seg, 1031 flexibility, refinancing access, and step-up in basis.

So far, I have done the following methods to try and network:- gone to realtor offices around my town and letting them know I'm an investor and gave them my buy box.

The best approach is to connect with experienced investors who are open to guiding new buyers, reviewing deals, and walking you through the analysis, financing, and property management steps.