It makes you look weak/soft/afraid/responsive to this sort of demand.

I also had to understand some of my weaknesses like design and people skills.  

If you're too weak and small to be able to hold on to it, join when you're in the right position.

I think the go getters and the strong are influenced by the doubt from others, while the weak give in and believe the doubters. 

Extreme Ownership is something I reread in times of weakness.

Alternatively I knew all my strengths, and definitely my weaknesses.

Your greatest strength is your greatest weakness!

Ask them if it is ok that a person with chronic cancer, has no money, has been physically threatened, can't even live in their own home for at least another 6 months. 

As someone else said, YOU ARE THE PROBLEM.You want everyone to believe that you are so busy, yet, all your time is spent here... insulting and scaring folks off away from BP so you can turn around and call them "weak" and F R A G I L E.