Rules of the Business Game

Rules of the Business Game

Real Estate Investor · Englewood, CO · Member since 2013 · 988 posts · 258 votes

Rules of the Business Game

There are no rules set in concrete.

Let me share an experience I once had that may help you with all future negotiations and business dealings.

In the 1980s, I was seeking professional investors for a major multi-use real estate development. One of the investors I approached gave me the name of a former global bank CFO to contact.

The former CFO was contacted and an appointment set. As I sat in his tiny office that was part of a shared office group, I noticed the computer screen on his desk. It was scrolling the stock market ticker tape just like the ones downstairs in the Merrill Lynch office. Keep in mind; this was the early-1980s before anyone had a personal computer. He told me Merrill Lynch provided him with computer and paid for the access to the stock market information. Later in the conversation, I learned he did not deal with any brokers in the downstairs Merrill Lynch office. Instead, he dealt with a broker in New York City. I asked him why. He replied the NYC broker charged less in trading commissions.

Interesting, my experience with buying and selling stocks was the broker referred to a book supplied by the brokerage firm to determine the commission amount. I thought the commission amount was pre-determined and the same for all traders.

So, I asked the CFO why he did not pay the commission amounts in the book. He replied with a statement that he told me to never forget:

Everything is negotiable.

Powerful words and consideration that I have applied every day of my live ever since.

I am sharing an experience. Your comments are welcomed.

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  • Real Estate Investor · Chicago, IL · Member since 2013 · 57 posts · 17 votes
    13y

    Hello Tom, I am a Newbie here on Bigger Pockets. I follow your advise and I must say this one here on Rules of the Business Game is spot on Sir. A closed mouth won't get fed. You have Great advise that I and I'm sure most adhere to so keep the comments coming. Thank you

  • Residential Real Estate Broker · Bremerton, WA · Member since 2013 · 494 posts · 142 votes
    13y

    Enjoying these. Thanks, Tom.

  • Real Estate Investor · Englewood, CO · Member since 2013 · 988 posts · 258 votes
    13y

    I failed to mention, this was the toughest person I have ever approached. He scheduled 3 meetings. The second meeting I noticed he was using a different colored pen to make notes. He asked the very same questions. The same is true for the third meeting. I finally realized he was tacking my answers to see if they were always similar.

    I was in my 20s. Sweating bullets does not begin to describe my nervous condition.

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    Investor · Sarasota, FL · Member since 2008 · 17k+ posts · 17k+ votes
    13y

    Great advice. People tend to think that negotiating for a few bucks doesn't really make a difference. But, if you can negotiate a $10 savings on random things a few times a week, over 40 years, that's six-figures in "free" money. Invest all those $10 savings and there's your retirement...

  • Lexington, KY · Member since 2009 · 2k+ posts · 1k+ votes
    13y

    Free mentorship! Isn't that what a lot of people are coming to BP for? I could listen to stories like this all day!

  • Investor, Entrepreneur, Educator · Springfield, MO · Member since 2009 · 21k+ posts · 12k+ votes
    13y

    Enjoyed Tom's story too, I agree that what you can negotiate in your best interest will usually serve you well, but to say there are no rules or nothing is cast in concrete..... let's keep in mind, at least to some degree, that golden rule, the first one.

    The second golden rule is he who has the gold makes the rules.

    Then you have the issues of acting legally, ethically and from a moral standpoint as I guarantee you that your success will be anchored in more than your ability to talk a one legged man out of his crutch. :)

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