Realtor, General Contractor, and Developer · Redding, CA · Member since 2009 · 7k+ posts · 4k+ votes
This is mostly for the women on BP, but, it is wise for men too. There's an Arkansas Realtor that went to show a property and hasn't been heard from since. Missing Realtor
As an agent over the years I have heard these stories before, and they are always horrific. Here's some advice especially for those in rural areas or rough neighborhoods:
1. NEVER go meet someone at a property if you haven't met them in person before.
2. ALWAYS have someone else go with you to meet people at a property.
3. Don't hold Open Houses alone.
4. Have some type of GPS tracking device, OTHER THAN YOUR PHONE!! It's a complicated process for Police to be able to track your phone without permission from YOU, not your spouse, parent, etc. There are many options that are inexpensive GPS TILE
5. If you're not opposed to it, get a concealed weapons permit and carry a gun! If not a gun, carry taser or ?
6. If nothing else is available, make sure you have your keys with you, press the faub and set off an alarm, maybe someone will hear it!
7. If you MUST go alone, let someone know where you are going, and check in (from your car) when you arrive safely maybe text a license plate number of the person you are meeting with.
Real Estate Broker · Canton, GA · Member since 2010 · 15k+ posts · 11k+ votes
11y
Number 5 ONLY if you are going to practice diligently with the weapon so it becomes second nature like tying your shoes.
If you buy stuff thinking it will save you and it collects dust without practice then forget it. Actually the criminal will have more practice then you and use it against you.
Weapons are NOT just knives and guns.
Your belt, jewelry, keys, pens etc. can all be deadly weapons if you know how to use them. Hard spots on the ground, corners of buildings, rail bannisters, etc. Make use of your environment and what you have to survive.
Regular items such as guns and knives are classified as weapons and as such are not allowed in many venues around where you live. Learn how to use your body first as it never leaves you. Then unconventional weapons that you are still likely to have with you at all times. Last the weapons you can't use or train with as often that are not allowed in most venues.
Decades in street self defense and the martial arts.
Professional · Columbia, SC · Member since 2016 · 26 posts · 12 votes
8y
Also, if you have office space, just like when you buy a car, have them to provide two forms of id such as one would be their driver's license. That way you have it on track.
Lender · Raleigh, NC · Member since 2019 · 27 posts · 14 votes
7y
You should always have the client meet you at the office first. Tell a colleague about the make/model of car and what property you are headed to. Your office should have a code phrase if you need help and/or don't feel comfortable with the person you are showing a house to.
I met a male at the office and alerted my co-worker that I didn't feel 100%. I also called my husband while I was en-route to please meet me there since he was available. The guy gave me the creeps and carried a large pointed umbrella. Did I mention it wasn't raining and was not in the forecast? I wouldn't even go into the house with him. I let him walk around and met him back outside. Never heard from him again, thank goodness. I did not want to work with anyone that gave me such an unsettling feeling.
Realtor · Atlanta, GA · Member since 2011 · 45 posts · 15 votes
7y
Thank you for posting this! It is so sad but it is a reality in our profession, and sometimes we put ourselves in very bad situations. We have to be very diligent when we are either showing property or holding open houses. I have shown homes in rough areas or any area for that matter, I let my go to person where I am going, the address and the time I am going in and out, and he does the same with me, we keep each other accountable.
In our office it is encourage to have a buddy system when showing properties, and we must meet clients at the office first. If they are not willing to come down, then it is not worth it. Life is more precious than any check.
Manassas, VA · Member since 2019 · 56 posts · 29 votes
7y
I remember the first time I ever went to buy a house. The agent I had was a beautiful lady and I thought, this is the first time we've met... does she really feel safe? I did notice the .380 hiding under her cardigan, but I don't feel like that's enough considering she was leading me through the house and from behind, I had the advantage. Man. This must be a nerve-wracking profession, and one where you must get REALLY good at reading people.
In the Phoenix area we used to have groups that would scam solo Realtors at open houses by having one pre-occupy the Realtor while the others took any valuables in the house including the Realtor's Laptop they left in the kitchen.
Rental Property Investor · Navarre, FL · Member since 2019 · 913 posts · 640 votes
6y
So sad this lady lost her life. @Angelique F. thank you for sharing the link; I was wondering how it ended. :(
A couple of times we've sold our personal homes, after a viewing appointment we've come home to find our drawers had been opened and sometimes items placed on top of the dresser/cabinet...we never noticed anything missing. Makes me really hate people sometimes.
Investor · Searcy, AR · Member since 2018 · 52 posts · 39 votes
6y
I sell a GPS tracker that works off of AT&T cell coverage. It is 34.99 a month and can be used by several people if an office would like to have 1 or 8. It is the size of a small deck of cards and can be turned on to mute so no one can here the responder talking but the responder can hear you. It is designed for the elderly population but I have sold it to a few real estate agents and home health nurses. I live in Searcy AR and this took place in Cabot which is 30 miles south from where I live. There is more to the story than what came out on the national media but yes I agree you can never be to careful. Lots of crazy people out there.
Rental Property Investor · Dallas, TX · Member since 2018 · 64 posts · 12 votes
6y
@Eileen Mazza I think using the buddy system is an awesome plan. Asking a co worker to meet you at the location because it could prevent something from happening rather than reacting to a situation.
Attorney · New York, NY · Member since 2019 · 72 posts · 27 votes
6y
That is terrible to hear. I think all agents should be accompanied by the buyer, seller, and one other colleague if inspecting or reviewing a home that may be iffy. Its better to travel in a group rather than by yourself anywhere you go.
Real Estate Agent · Killeen, TX · Member since 2018 · 6 posts · 1 vote
6y
It is crazy that this is the first post I saw. An agent in out office emailed us this morning about a "strange encounter" she had with a potential buyer. Luckily she took her husband with her because she felt something was off. This is why screening your leads is so important. No amount of commission is worth your life!
Real Estate Agent · Salt Lake City, UT · Member since 2017 · 22 posts · 13 votes
6y
These are very good tips. I just recently enrolled into school to get my license and first thought I had was how I need to protect myself when I do start working in the field. Thanks for the post!