Terry Portier I am a contractor, agent and we develop commercial property. From what I have read in your thread, I can tell you that I think it's great that you are trying to learn and are trying to find out as much as you can about every conceivable potential project, and are thinking outside the box. Believe me, I do that too.
The problem I see is that you have too many different ideas, and projects you are looking at. You need to narrow it down to one, THEN find out everything that you need to know about that one project.
A hard money lender is not going to loan money on a project you can't prove to them is marketable. A spec, commercial, retail, project, being built by an inexperienced developer, is probably THE hardest project on which to get funding. Unless you can PROVE there is a huge demand for such space and people are beating down your doors, it's going to be a tough nut to crack.
I'm not trying to discourage you, but to give you my advice from many years experience. What you lack in money, and experience has to be made up 100% by the strength of the project.
HML's that are experienced KNOW every question and detail. They know if a project is good or not. They get their fees for the risk they take, but they do limit their risk, every aspect of a deal can't be a huge risk (the developer, the project, etc.)
I hope you understand what I'm saying, because I do have the experience specific to what you are wanting to do. Good luck.