Thinking about working with a private lender to fund your next real estate deal?

Thinking about working with a private lender to fund your next real estate deal?

Lender · Member since 2025 · 19 posts · 20 votes

Here’s how to do it the right way:

* Build trust first. Private lenders fund people, not just properties. Share your track record, deals, and strategy.
* Show the numbers. Present a clear, realistic plan with purchase price, rehab costs, ARV, and exit strategy.
* Protect their capital. Outline how they’re secured (first lien, insurance, promissory note, etc.).
* Communicate like a pro. Be transparent about timelines, risks, and updates throughout the deal.

Private money isn’t just about funding, it’s about creating partnerships.

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Mike GrudzienPro Member
Lender · Eugene, OR · Member since 2019 · 2k+ posts · 1k+ votes
11mo

That's how you build long term relationships and repeat funding!

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  • Jaycee GreenePro Member
    Real Estate Consultant · St. Louis MSA · Member since 2024 · 3k+ posts · 727 votes
    11mo
    Quote from @Dawn Hryshko:

    Here’s how to do it the right way:

    * Build trust first. Private lenders fund people, not just properties. Share your track record, deals, and strategy.
    * Show the numbers. Present a clear, realistic plan with purchase price, rehab costs, ARV, and exit strategy.
    * Protect their capital. Outline how they’re secured (first lien, insurance, promissory note, etc.).
    * Communicate like a pro. Be transparent about timelines, risks, and updates throughout the deal.

    Private money isn’t just about funding, it’s about creating partnerships.

    Hi @Dawn Hryshko, welcome to the BP Forum! Doesn't EVERYONE do it that way? ;-)

  • Mike GrudzienPro Member
    Lender · Eugene, OR · Member since 2019 · 2k+ posts · 1k+ votes
    11mo

    That's how you build long term relationships and repeat funding!

  • Investor · Austin, TX · Member since 2021 · 497 posts · 127 votes
    6mo

    Well said. Private money works best when it’s positioned as a partnership, not just a funding request.

    The borrowers who get repeat capital are usually the ones who present clean numbers, realistic exits, solid communication, and make lenders feel protected from day one.

    I help investors structure deals this way often, whether it's bridge, rehab, DSCR, or private capital stacks. Are you currently using private money mostly for flips, rentals, or larger projects?

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