Why I Don’t Regret Saying “Yes” to Opportunity & Quitting My 9-5 (Despite Challenges)

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I’m continually amazed at people who seem to achieve great things seemingly against all odds. And I’m equally amazed at people who seem to achieve none of their goals.

Is it that opportunity knocks only on some people’s doors and not others? Is it perhaps luck?

The more I interview people on my podcast and work with students who want to invest in apartment buildings, the more I’m coming to the conclusion that the answer is “no” and “no.”

Opportunity is all around every one of us, and it’s always knocking.

The difference? Our response.

Some people don’t hear it. Or refuse to hear it. Others hear it just fine but dismiss it because they’re busy. Or afraid. Or unworthy. Or not ready. Or too old. Too young. Too poor.

But I’m convinced that the universe (or whatever you want to call the higher power of which I speak) is constantly encouraging us to become a better version of ourselves. Constantly presenting opportunities. Constantly opening doors.

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I love this quote from Richard Branson: “If somebody offers you an amazing opportunity but you are not sure you can do it, say yes – then learn how to do it later!”

The question is, how do we handle an open door? Do we walk through it, or do we say, “Nah, I’m good. Thanks anyway.”

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Following Opportunity

My experience has been that whenever I don’t walk through an open door, nothing happens. But whenever I DO walk through a door, exciting things happen. The more I walk through open doors, the more adventure comes into my life and the more alive I feel.

I also find that things become easier. Fun. I struggle less. Things just happen.

I think that’s because our higher purpose is like the jet stream, a strong and constant flow of energy in a particular direction. When we resist this flow, we work harder, are more frustrated and tend to struggle. On the other hand, when we go with the flow, things become easier. Enjoyable.

I think open doors point into the direction of our jet stream (but beware of Shiny-Object-itis; see my article here!). Not walking through them is saying NO to the jet stream, saying NO to opportunity, and saying NO to a more fulfilled life.

The catch? (Yes, there’s always a catch …)

You have to have some kind of FAITH to walk through open doors. I’m not saying you have to find God or join some kind of religion. You’re an entrepreneur, so you already know what I’m talking about.

As entrepreneurs, we have to believe that if we step out onto the ledge, it will all work out somehow. But we don’t know that up front. We just make the next move.

For some inexplicable reason, things “magically” begin to happen when we take that first step through the door. But the magic doesn’t happen before then, but only after we take that first step.

Leaving My 9-5 Job

I remember when I first left the confines of my 9-5 job in 2005. I knew it was my open door, but I was extremely anxious about going out on my own. Since then, I’ve had ups and downs, but one thing I can say for sure: It’s been one heck of an adventure! I wouldn’t trade the experiences (even the pain!) for anything. I’ve grown as a person. And I believe these experiences have allowed me to help others with their entrepreneurial journey.

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But I wouldn’t have experienced any of that had I not walked through that open door ten years ago. And there have been many other doors since then. I’m sure I missed some, but I’ve made it a habit to try to recognize an open door and to go with the flow.

Look back on your life. Whenever something propelled you forward in a meaningful way, it probably resulted from you walking through an open door but not sure of the outcome.

Try it. Put the universe to the test. See what happens. I think you’ll be amazed.

So I ask you: What opportunity is knocking right now? Are you going to go with the flow are you going to say no?

Let me know your thoughts with a comment!

About Author

Michael Blank

Michael Blank’s passion is being an entrepreneur and helping others become (better) entrepreneurs. His focus is buying apartment buildings by raising money from private individuals. He’s been investing in residential and multifamily real estate since 2005. He is the creator of the Syndicated Deal Analyzer and the eBook “The Secret to Raising Money to Buy Your First Apartment Building”.


  1. Amy Braden

    Thank you for this article. I really needed to read it! I am a realtor and I just made a decision to switch to another brokerage with a much larger marketing footprint in our area. Your article just validated the fact that you need to take opportunities when they present themselves!

  2. Derrick Atkinson

    This was a great article, I really identified with this article because I stepped out on faith this past March 2015 and went full time building my Real Estate Business, that I co-own with a relative and I must say it’s a lot of work but we now have two triplexes and a duplex that we’re looking to convert into a triplex. If I hadn’t believed in God and stepped out on what he has put in front of me, I would never be able to experience and accomplish my dreams.

  3. Theresa Sanford

    This blog post and your comments about stepping out in faith are well timed! My husband just quit a 6 figure job to manage our rental properties full time. We bought 3 duplexes (6 units total) last year and we just closed on 2 single family homes this past month. We are planning on buying 4-5 more properties. It was hard to make the decision to give up a hefty paycheck for the uncertainty. Praying that it pays off for us in the long run!

  4. Victor Jimenez

    Great article! I just purchased a Duplex a month ago. First time purchase of any kind. And let me tell you…it’s been a wild ride. From insurance trying to cancel on me for a host of reasons to messy tenants. Mind you I’ve had no landlord experience whatsoever or any RE transactions done ever. But you know what? I’m super happy i made the leap. I was able to beat my goal of buying my first investment property by 24 years old.

  5. John Murray

    Entrepreneurs are like Jedi Knights, a solution will present itself. The other side of the spectrum is the woulda, shoulda, coulda crowd. We are the ones that spun around a took off on a 30 foot wave while the rest watched from the beach. We are the ones that risk all and come out on the other side, no matter how many times we wipe out.

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