Jason,
You are well ahead of 90+% of the investors out there, yes, even the experienced ones.
Since you already have a relationship with private lenders you have a lot more options open to you and many of those will be very profitable.
As to the approach, I am a buy and hold but still do opportunistic flips. The best return from the current market will be to buy and hold until the market turns around. It might take awhile, but if you buy right you can easily rent it, cover all expenses and turn some positive cash flow. Many areas are already seeing some upward pressure on rents and most areas will follow as the subprime mess sorts itself out.
From what you have posted here, I'd say you are very well positioned to take advantage of the current market.