What to pay friend for help with Interior Design?

What to pay friend for help with Interior Design?

Member since 2024 · 48 posts · 23 votes

I have a neighbor I am friendly with who does an amazing job with decorating and interior design. She works for a builder but in a different capacity. I have told her she is easily talented enough to get paid to do it. I have a small house LTR that will be converted to an STR later this year and asked if she would be willing to help me with how to decorate it. She is excited to do and doesn't want to get paid since we're friends, but ofc I will give her $ for her time and expertise. Any thoughts on what I should offer/pay? It will just be for decorating ideas and helping find reasonably priced items online with her experience. We aren't re-designing the home itself. And what would this typically cost in a normal situation? I think she is really good at it and could make money with her own business if she ever made the leap.

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Investor · Akron, OH · Member since 2016 · 2k+ posts · 4k+ votes
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Don't pay if she requested not to be paid. Take her out for a lovely dinner and treat for a girls night out at something she loves to do in appreciation.

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  • Cliff BennerBusiness Member
    Accountant · Denver, CO · Member since 2020 · 394 posts · 183 votes
    1y

    Just a thought here, anything over $600,unless paid with a Credit Card, and you will have to send a 1099. 

    You could look at other designers in the area and see if their websites have any rate information and match that. 

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  • Investor · Akron, OH · Member since 2016 · 2k+ posts · 4k+ votes
    1y

    Don't pay if she requested not to be paid. Take her out for a lovely dinner and treat for a girls night out at something she loves to do in appreciation.

    • John UnderwoodPro Member
      Investor · Greer, SC · Member since 2014 · 13k+ posts · 17k+ votes
      1y
      Quote from @Jill F.:

      Don't pay if she requested not to be paid. Take her out for a lovely dinner and treat for a girls night out at something she loves to do in appreciation.


       I like this idea. She can use your design to show other people to grow her business. Win Win.

  • Andrew SteffensBusiness Member
    Tampa, FL · Member since 2022 · 4k+ posts · 3k+ votes
    1y

    Just an FYI typically $2/3 a foot is what I pay designers for selections.  More for labor and set up.

  • Michael BaumPro Member
    Olympia, WA · Member since 2016 · 8k+ posts · 7k+ votes
    1y

    Exactly what @John Underwood said.

    She will get some solid cred for designing a space and be able to use it in her portfolio.

    • JD MartinBusiness Member
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      Rock Star Extraordinaire · Northeast, TN · Member since 2015 · 10k+ posts · 17k+ votes
      1y
      Quote from @Michael Baum:

      Exactly what @John Underwood said.

      She will get some solid cred for designing a space and be able to use it in her portfolio.

      🤣 This is what club owners and promoters used to tell bands I was in way back in the day "Oh, there won't be any pay but the exposure will be spectacular!" 🤣 Yeah, people die of exposure all the time 🤪

      I agree with both you and John, though - you should not pay. You should graciously accept her offer to help, encourage her if she wants to jump into something like this full time (she might just be trying it out with you), let her use whatever she helped you with as part of her portfolio starting out, and if she's amenable to it give out her contact info to others looking for the same service and offer to be an excellent reference. 

      Money is important but it's not everything. She said she doesn't want any money, so don't run the risk of possibly offending her by offering what might be peanuts for the actual work. Besides, sometimes people don't want money because they don't want responsibility for the project. If she helps you out with the project and it turns out to be a bust, well she was just offering opinions, not professional expertise that you expected by paying. I've helped out plenty of people with all kinds of things RE for free - sometimes just out of my good graces, and sometimes because I didn't want to be responsible for the ultimate outcome so I could always recommend that they continue to do more research or employ someone for whatever it is they were doing (especially important when it comes to friends/family). 
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  • Property Manager · USA · Member since 2018 · 87 posts · 50 votes
    1y

    Rates typically range from $60 to $125 per hour, depending on the complexity of the project and the client’s budget. For those looking for a cost-effective option, we offer a flat-rate design package for up to a 5-bedroom home at just $750. This includes a full layout and design plan using easily sourced items online.

    Alternatively, for clients who prefer a more personalized touch, I can connect you with a local designer who can shop in nearby stores and isn’t limited to online sourcing—perfect for creating a space that feels both stylish and regionally authentic.

    I truly believe she has a great eye for design and would excel in this space. She should absolutely brand herself as an Airbnb decorator—there’s a clear niche in the market, and very few designers are positioning themselves that way right now!

    Rates tend to be anywhere from $60-$125 an hour. Depending on how complex the job is and how much my clients are willing to spend, we can either do a low cost design that covers up to a 5 bedroom home for a flat low fee of $750 or I will source a local designer hat can shop for items in the local stores and not be limited to online purchasing.  

    I am sure she can do well wiht her deisng and she should advertise herslf as an Airbnb decoratr as there does not seem to be too much deisgners descrbing themselves that way!

  • Interior Decorator · Chicago, IL · Member since 2025 · 31 posts · 40 votes
    1y

    That’s awesome you have someone in your circle with such a great eye and even better that she’s excited to help!

    Since she’s a friend and isn’t asking for payment, maybe offer a modest flat fee like $500–$800 as a thank-you for her time, energy, and taste. As most have already said, you could simplify it by offering a  gift card to her favorite store, dinner, or something personal if that feels more natural between friends.

    I would also encourage getting professional photos done  while you use them for your listing, she can use them to kick start her side hustle interior design business!

  • Houston, TX · Member since 2015 · 261 posts · 170 votes
    1y

    Offer her some sort of monetary compensation, she may decline anyway but you made the effort. If she declines, offer dinner.

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