2025 was easily the hardest year in terms of damage/missing stuff in our history.
Almost all our silverware is gone. Forks, spoons, knives etc. People also replaced our nice silverware with weird stuff from 1975.
All the 16oz glasses were gone. About 6 plates, 3 bowls.
Missing trim here and there. Just gone, pulled off the wall. Who knows.
Blankets. Missing. All our queen and king extra blankets are gone. No idea who took them as our cleaner was phoning it in the last few cleanings.
Towels destroyed.
I have to say, this week will be interesting. Lots to fix. At least the last guest gave us 5 stars even though there were only 3 forks in the whole place
I agree. In fact I finally tossed in the towel and decided to sell this week. I use the place myself when I'm making repairs & improvements, so it's not a pure investment, and I can afford to keep it even without renting it out, but it's also been a tax shelter for me and I don't want to unnecessarily invite tax scrutiny by unilaterally taking it off the docket or reporting my deductions with no income to back it up, so I'm going to sell and repurchase and not STR any more. Just got tired of all of it. I just got home from going down and getting everything staged to sell and all the things like what you posted reminded me why I didn't want to do it any more. Walls stained blue from cleaners using too much Windex and not cleaning it up. Dripped bleach on carpets. Guests broke one of the doors on a game room cabinet, no one caught it until I got down there so no idea which guest did it. Coffee scoop gone. Pool not cleaned properly. ETC. Add all that to our depressed STR market the last 2+ years and I had my fill.
Personally, I found running a short-term rental far more work than any of my long term rentals. Some people may love it but I didn't care for it at all, especially in a place that I would stay myself.
I agree. In fact I finally tossed in the towel and decided to sell this week. I use the place myself when I'm making repairs & improvements, so it's not a pure investment, and I can afford to keep it even without renting it out, but it's also been a tax shelter for me and I don't want to unnecessarily invite tax scrutiny by unilaterally taking it off the docket or reporting my deductions with no income to back it up, so I'm going to sell and repurchase and not STR any more. Just got tired of all of it. I just got home from going down and getting everything staged to sell and all the things like what you posted reminded me why I didn't want to do it any more. Walls stained blue from cleaners using too much Windex and not cleaning it up. Dripped bleach on carpets. Guests broke one of the doors on a game room cabinet, no one caught it until I got down there so no idea which guest did it. Coffee scoop gone. Pool not cleaned properly. ETC. Add all that to our depressed STR market the last 2+ years and I had my fill.
Personally, I found running a short-term rental far more work than any of my long term rentals. Some people may love it but I didn't care for it at all, especially in a place that I would stay myself.
I agree. In fact I finally tossed in the towel and decided to sell this week. I use the place myself when I'm making repairs & improvements, so it's not a pure investment, and I can afford to keep it even without renting it out, but it's also been a tax shelter for me and I don't want to unnecessarily invite tax scrutiny by unilaterally taking it off the docket or reporting my deductions with no income to back it up, so I'm going to sell and repurchase and not STR any more. Just got tired of all of it. I just got home from going down and getting everything staged to sell and all the things like what you posted reminded me why I didn't want to do it any more. Walls stained blue from cleaners using too much Windex and not cleaning it up. Dripped bleach on carpets. Guests broke one of the doors on a game room cabinet, no one caught it until I got down there so no idea which guest did it. Coffee scoop gone. Pool not cleaned properly. ETC. Add all that to our depressed STR market the last 2+ years and I had my fill.
Personally, I found running a short-term rental far more work than any of my long term rentals. Some people may love it but I didn't care for it at all, especially in a place that I would stay myself.
I agree. In fact I finally tossed in the towel and decided to sell this week. I use the place myself when I'm making repairs & improvements, so it's not a pure investment, and I can afford to keep it even without renting it out, but it's also been a tax shelter for me and I don't want to unnecessarily invite tax scrutiny by unilaterally taking it off the docket or reporting my deductions with no income to back it up, so I'm going to sell and repurchase and not STR any more. Just got tired of all of it. I just got home from going down and getting everything staged to sell and all the things like what you posted reminded me why I didn't want to do it any more. Walls stained blue from cleaners using too much Windex and not cleaning it up. Dripped bleach on carpets. Guests broke one of the doors on a game room cabinet, no one caught it until I got down there so no idea which guest did it. Coffee scoop gone. Pool not cleaned properly. ETC. Add all that to our depressed STR market the last 2+ years and I had my fill.
Personally, I found running a short-term rental far more work than any of my long term rentals. Some people may love it but I didn't care for it at all, especially in a place that I would stay myself.
Hate to hear that. What was the final straw for you JD?
I agree. In fact I finally tossed in the towel and decided to sell this week. I use the place myself when I'm making repairs & improvements, so it's not a pure investment, and I can afford to keep it even without renting it out, but it's also been a tax shelter for me and I don't want to unnecessarily invite tax scrutiny by unilaterally taking it off the docket or reporting my deductions with no income to back it up, so I'm going to sell and repurchase and not STR any more. Just got tired of all of it. I just got home from going down and getting everything staged to sell and all the things like what you posted reminded me why I didn't want to do it any more. Walls stained blue from cleaners using too much Windex and not cleaning it up. Dripped bleach on carpets. Guests broke one of the doors on a game room cabinet, no one caught it until I got down there so no idea which guest did it. Coffee scoop gone. Pool not cleaned properly. ETC. Add all that to our depressed STR market the last 2+ years and I had my fill.
Personally, I found running a short-term rental far more work than any of my long term rentals. Some people may love it but I didn't care for it at all, especially in a place that I would stay myself.
Hate to hear that. What was the final straw for you JD?
Kind of a perfect storm before we arrived - two-week stay guests from overseas (Britain) that come every year told me they loved the house but wouldn't stay again because my next door neighbor plays music and movies loudly (probably the 10th complaint I've had and maybe 3rd/4th regular I've lost); grass guy was skipping the backyard altogether I guess because he figured I was gone for the season; pool cleaning got skipped because there were guests there (what?) so the pool was filthy when I arrived; cleaners (I presume) dripped bleach on another area of carpet; unknown guest broke a console cabinet door and no one reported it. Most of these things by themselves aren't deal breakers and some of it goes with the territory (some guest stole the coffee scoop, or threw it away), but we're going on the 3rd straight year of depressed nightly rates and depressed occupancy, and I use this house myself and put up with a lot of things I wouldn't otherwise if I was just closing it up when I went home - such as heavy traffic, annoying HOA stuff, neighbors too close to me, a two-story house (I only want ranches as I'm getting older), etc. I had thought about selling last year but things picked up very nicely in February and were just slamming right up to August and then it went off a cliff. Last year was the first time I was vacant on Thanksgiving.
I still plan on having my own house (my wife thinks we should just be renters ourselves when we go in the winter) but something further from traffic and tourists, and something more manageable in size (I have a 3000 sf house now) for just two people, on a bigger lot in a real neighborhood with neighbors further away and (preferably) no HOA. The house I have now was bought purposely because it was in a development that permits STRs and it's right down the street from Disney but yet still pretty close to my father, and was big enough to hold all of my family. But as everyone's getting older and busier we just don't have the kind of family coming down and staying now and if it's just going to be us and I'm going to close it down after the winter, we don't need a house this big in a tourist area.
Of course the market's so soft I might just have to keep it anyway 🤣
I hear ya @JD Martin. I still enjoy doing it and we have a lot of bookings for this year so far so I am going to soldier on.
Plus we will be moving into the lake house when my wife decides to retire. Next year is the plan. Finish the remodel on our primary, sell then move into it.
Start looking for a nice piece of rural property. River or lakefront. 5-15 acres. No neighbors preferably. I am planning a off grid system that will still be tied to the grid for winter, huge shop. Like 3500 sqft. A monster with 16' walls. :)
We started our silverware journey with 24 of everything. None went missing for 8 years. Now all gone. Crazy.
I hear ya @JD Martin. I still enjoy doing it and we have a lot of bookings for this year so far so I am going to soldier on.
Plus we will be moving into the lake house when my wife decides to retire. Next year is the plan. Finish the remodel on our primary, sell then move into it.
Start looking for a nice piece of rural property. River or lakefront. 5-15 acres. No neighbors preferably. I am planning a off grid system that will still be tied to the grid for winter, huge shop. Like 3500 sqft. A monster with 16' walls. :)
We started our silverware journey with 24 of everything. None went missing for 8 years. Now all gone. Crazy.
If I don't get mine sold I will just keep it and leave it empty when I'm done for the winter, but I prefer to be in a different neighborhood for a house I'm just going to use for ourselves. I'm pretty close to Disney and so I put up with a lot of unnecessary traffic & noise, and the neighbors are right on top of you which is not how I like to live and not how I live in Tennessee. I also prefer no neighbors. Your place sounds awesome, that many acres on a lake or river is my idea of heaven.
I hear ya @JD Martin. I still enjoy doing it and we have a lot of bookings for this year so far so I am going to soldier on.
Plus we will be moving into the lake house when my wife decides to retire. Next year is the plan. Finish the remodel on our primary, sell then move into it.
Start looking for a nice piece of rural property. River or lakefront. 5-15 acres. No neighbors preferably. I am planning a off grid system that will still be tied to the grid for winter, huge shop. Like 3500 sqft. A monster with 16' walls. :)
We started our silverware journey with 24 of everything. None went missing for 8 years. Now all gone. Crazy.
Same. I had a guest report that there were only four forks in the house that accommodated ten.
Had to send a quick Walmart delivery to the house to restock the forks…
2025 was easily the hardest year in terms of damage/missing stuff in our history.
Almost all our silverware is gone. Forks, spoons, knives etc. People also replaced our nice silverware with weird stuff from 1975.
All the 16oz glasses were gone. About 6 plates, 3 bowls.
Missing trim here and there. Just gone, pulled off the wall. Who knows.
Blankets. Missing. All our queen and king extra blankets are gone. No idea who took them as our cleaner was phoning it in the last few cleanings.
Towels destroyed.
I have to say, this week will be interesting. Lots to fix. At least the last guest gave us 5 stars even though there were only 3 forks in the whole place
2025 was easily the hardest year in terms of damage/missing stuff in our history.
Almost all our silverware is gone. Forks, spoons, knives etc. People also replaced our nice silverware with weird stuff from 1975.
All the 16oz glasses were gone. About 6 plates, 3 bowls.
Missing trim here and there. Just gone, pulled off the wall. Who knows.
Blankets. Missing. All our queen and king extra blankets are gone. No idea who took them as our cleaner was phoning it in the last few cleanings.
Towels destroyed.
I have to say, this week will be interesting. Lots to fix. At least the last guest gave us 5 stars even though there were only 3 forks in the whole place
Michael,
I have 2 things to say:
1) OUCH!
2) I feel for you.
Sending good luck vibes your way!
maybe beach market, but i typically see that when i check in late fall. last property i took on as a cohost, sleeps 17, and had 2 forks and 5 glasses. i do use walmart for silverware and glasses. choose stuff that looks nice but isnt expensive as i know i will have to replace a lot every year.
Did your cleaners start to notice some of this over time?
Our cleaners are my wife's cousin and they notice everything and report back.
My wife is OCD. When she is there checking on things she rearranges the kitchen back to "how its supposed to be".
We haven't had any damage or things that are missing lately.
We have good enough silverware with plenty of spares in the owners closet, so Id be surprised if anyone wanted to take any of it.
I do need to find some more "Lake House" coffee cups as well have had breakage over the years. We still have standard coffee cups.
It seems my biggest repair item has been the.screens on the back porch. People push on them around the screen door for some reason.
Did your cleaners start to notice some of this over time?
Our cleaners are my wife's cousin and they notice everything and report back.
My wife is OCD. When she is there checking on things she rearranges the kitchen back to "how its supposed to be".
We haven't had any damage or things that are missing lately.
We have good enough silverware with plenty of spares in the owners closet, so Id be surprised if anyone wanted to take any of it.
I do need to find some more "Lake House" coffee cups as well have had breakage over the years. We still have standard coffee cups.
It seems my biggest repair item has been the.screens on the back porch. People push on them around the screen door for some reason.
Did your cleaners start to notice some of this over time?
Our cleaners are my wife's cousin and they notice everything and report back.
My wife is OCD. When she is there checking on things she rearranges the kitchen back to "how its supposed to be".
We haven't had any damage or things that are missing lately.
We have good enough silverware with plenty of spares in the owners closet, so Id be surprised if anyone wanted to take any of it.
I do need to find some more "Lake House" coffee cups as well have had breakage over the years. We still have standard coffee cups.
It seems my biggest repair item has been the.screens on the back porch. People push on them around the screen door for some reason.
I started to use Turno at one time and found the prices quoted were all over the place. They came in super high to start then I got some more reasonable ones with a little time.
I remember one STR guest that requested new pans and better silverware😤
Haven't been able to create a standardized, efficient & cost-effective system of monitoring EVERYTHING at an STR.
- You can only require pics & videos of X amount of stuff before it really eats into your budget, let alone keeping cleaners onboard.
So, all the little stuff is a gamble and a cost of doing business.
Im not sure this is a 2025 thing, we have to replace these items at least 2x a year
Another good reason to stay at your STR's, it's the only way I can keep up with what needs replacing. I have not had much go missing except food storage containers and hangers.
We run a continuous "fitness" audit on each of our properties. We have 30 cabins under management, with 2 inspections per week, so every 15 weeks, a cabin is getting inspected all over again. We have a form created on Google Sheets that covers things such as missing dishes, utensils, etc. Of course we still miss things, but that catches probably 90 percent.
I had to look up Lake Pend Oreille. Wow, I am glad that I did! What an amazing place! A lake so deep that the IS Navy uses it for sonar testing! If you could see that lake from your property, then I wouldn’t want to leave!
Found a nice place in the water with a pool. Asking price is only $9 million 🤣
It’s honest posts like these that are like group therapy on the hard days we all face in highly hands on sectors like STRs. Still in it myself, but significantly altered my expectations given endless regulation, excessive taxation, and continued competition across small town New England.
Continuing the original theme here, my favorite routinely missing items included:
Flower vases that look too nice.
Coffee beans left in any coffee bag ever.
Condiments in fridge, but never ice cream in freezer.
Teaspoons, never soup spoons, forks, or knives.
Firestarters, which I’m convinced some guests use as the actual firewood.
Any board game that appeal to twenty-somethings.
And while we’re at it: any monopoly piece ever.
We have been here for 2 days now basically surveying and more things come to light.
One, I have hairdryers hanging in the bathroom cabinets on 3M Command hooks.
They have all been removed and the hairdryers are sitting in the bottom of the cabinet.
For some reason, this year was the best year for beach towels. It appears they are all accounted for! WOOT!
We have been here for 2 days now basically surveying and more things come to light.
One, I have hairdryers hanging in the bathroom cabinets on 3M Command hooks.
They have all been removed and the hairdryers are sitting in the bottom of the cabinet.
For some reason, this year was the best year for beach towels. It appears they are all accounted for! WOOT!
We have been here for 2 days now basically surveying and more things come to light.
One, I have hairdryers hanging in the bathroom cabinets on 3M Command hooks.
They have all been removed and the hairdryers are sitting in the bottom of the cabinet.
For some reason, this year was the best year for beach towels. It appears they are all accounted for! WOOT!
Thanks for sharing. I found out quickly anything I had in the house that was unique or cute last a guest or two. Usually glasses, coffee mugs, spoons, forks and knives go missing. The numerous towels either missing or stained beyond bleaching them back.
Still enjoy my beach property. It’s really great to have family visit and have a great place to stay. Have 10 brothers and sisters someone is always visiting which makes it so much fun here in Florida.
Started buying properties and went the MTR route to add to my LTR's and STR's. Way easier to manage and revenue has been fantastic. Mostly rent to active military on TDY training sessions.
Best of luck on future property search.
Man, this thread hits home. I manage properties in Nashville and the damage/attrition side of STR is something most investors massively underestimate when they run their pro formas.
Here's what I've learned the hard way: you need a dedicated line item for what I call "guest attrition" — not just your standard CapEx reserve, but a separate monthly set-aside specifically for the silverware-goes-missing, towels-get-destroyed, blankets-walk-out-the-door stuff Michael is describing. I budget roughly 3-5% of gross revenue for this depending on the property type. Studio or 1BR? Closer to 3%. Large group house sleeping 10+? Budget 5% minimum because the wear compounds with headcount.
The cleaner accountability piece is huge too. In Nashville I've seen operators lose thousands before they realized their cleaning crew was either missing damage between turns or straight up not reporting it. The fix that worked for me: photo documentation protocol. Cleaners photograph every room at checkout before they start cleaning. Takes them an extra 5 minutes but it creates an audit trail so you can actually tie damage to specific guests and file Airbnb claims within the window.
On the broader "is STR still worth it" question — I think the answer depends entirely on your local regulatory environment. In Nashville, the city caps non-owner-occupied permits at 3% of residential units per census tract. That means if you already hold a permit, the regulation is actually working in your favor because it limits new supply from entering your market. The hosts who are getting crushed are typically in unregulated markets where anyone can list tomorrow and race you to the bottom on price.
The burnout JD mentioned is real though. The operators I see thriving right now all have one thing in common: they stopped trying to do everything themselves. Even if you self-manage, systematizing the repetitive stuff (guest communication templates, dynamic pricing rules, maintenance ticketing) buys back 10+ hours a week. That's the difference between "I hate this" and "this is a solid business."
2025 was rough in a lot of markets but I'd argue it was also the year that separated the operators running real businesses from the ones treating STR like a passive side hustle. The passive crowd is exiting — which is actually bullish for everyone still in the game.
Whew, 5%? Man that is a ton. We have mostly had pretty good years and I have never had, even this year, spent 5% of our gross to replace stuff.
As many know, I find deals and post them here so I gots me a nose for bargains. There are ways to lower costs and grabbing spares when they are on clearance and storing them is a way to mitigate the costs.
For example, grabbing up beach towels at the end of the season. I get mine for about 3 bucks each. They are one of the things that grow legs most often. I think that kids just toss them in their bags when mom & dad are trying to hustle them up to head home.
I have 3 waffle irons ready to go! We have lost 3 in the last 9 years. I got them for $5 each. Towels from Costco, the Grandeur Hospitality stuff. Buy a set when they go on sale. Great towels that really hold up. You can get the washcloths for less than 50 cents each in the 24 pack.
BTW, more stuff I just found yesterday. Need to replace the interior pane of glass. Not a standard piece either. It is a large piece that is domed at the top so it will be more costly.

Found another thing missing. A Krups espresso machine. Another thread prompted me to go look for it and, nope, gone.