Hi! I could type out 10 pages of my story but ill get to the point. I want to buy a multi family house. I know that for sure. With the advice and encouragement from a lifeling friend and now invester herself, i began listening to podcasts 5/6 hours a day wile cleaning houses. Retaining info is difficult and sometimes i listen to the same pods over. Ive identified with sooo many stories. I made the first step by calling a loan officer. That is in the air. Lots of hoops to jump thru. I dont know what i should do now. It was suggested to look around banks for a Heloc. I am not a numbers person at all but i am motivated, determined, and ready to make something happe. Again, lots of obstacles in the way. Should i be looking for a deal? Ive heard of the mls, off market, ? Honestly i dont know what to do. I need to be around or connect with like minded ppl. I have a very big family, middle class, younger generation entitled. I heard someone say in  podcast that he wanted to break that middle class cycle. So dont i! For my 4 children and 2 grandchildren. These are 4 adult children who could do so much more with their lives but know nothing better  Again, middle class   entitled, live the good life on others expenses (just 2 oft them) Always struggling. Im hopin to connect with more ppl whose goals i have heard match mine. Whos stories i identified with from bits and peices of info. 50yr old grandmother of 2 mother of 4. Born and raised in the same  house fir 50 yrs which i now live in. Just need some guidance. Although i have my friend, im lookin for more 👋🤜🤛💪🙌