A Trashy Situation featuring my next door neighbor

A Trashy Situation featuring my next door neighbor

Member since 2020 · 16 posts · 5 votes

We purchased a triplex about a month ago. We will be owner occupants and have been slowly moving in. I took the time to engage as many of my surrounding neighbors as I could and exchanged info and phone numbers with them. In setting up the utilities, I had the city come out and replaced our trash bins since we as owners are responsible. We had two 90gallon bins which I thought would not be enough for three units. I do not like to see overflowing trash bins. I had them replace the two 90gallon bins with the smallest commercial grade (400gal) they add available since it was only $0.77 more per month. The inspector said there was only two spot we could put the dumpster in order for the truck to be able to pick it up. One of those spot would be right in front and blocking my tenants garage door: that was a no go. So we were left with one option.
Though the dumpster is on our property the neighbor right next door sent me a text saying, "Hey Bud this is your neighbor, can you have the city move that dumpster, they probably won't like it if I move it". Mind you this is after numerous run ins with this guy, because I made it a point to go introduce myself as well as made it a point to say hello every single time I see him outside. I thought the text sounded like a threat. As well as he chose to send a text after he has seen me around and never said anything all the times I said hello. I explained to him the situation of that being the only place I could put it according to the city. That it was on our property. And that I would contact the city and ask for a second opinion on a placement that would work better. After holding my anger back and explaining the situation, I tried to let him know that I would do my best to get something worked out, but ultimately I was not going to just move it cause he said so. And that if he were to move the bin, then he would be trespassing. After the back and forth, the last text he sent was, "Well I appreciate that, and I probably will move it if they don't, no fault of yours, just a different spot would be better, and there are plenty of spots over there where they can get to it, I apologize if it is ant inconvenience, I consider it rude that the city recommended putting a dumpster so close to somebody's door." I chose to not respond to this text because I was pretty much over this guy at this point. However the trash guys came early that next morning and I stopped them to inquire about it and the reiterated that was the only spot. As I was out there talking with them, he came out and they told him to call the city if he has an issue because that is the only spot they can pick it up. He called the city they told him the same thing. Then the city called me and told me about his complaint, but said there is nothing they can do since the dumpster is on my property and that's the only place the could get to it. As well as telling me the only option would be to get a smaller bin where the side loader on the trucks would be able to pick it up and therefore it could be placed anywhere along the street. I told them that would not work for us. 

His reason for the complaint he said is that the wind blows in the direction of his house. And he doesn't want to smell garbage. Which he mention has that he has yet to smell it, but it could be an issue. And also he "just doesn't like it there".

In essence, the options are a pissed off neighbor or overflowing trash bin. Since nothing can be done about this garbage situation, what should I do if he moves the dumpster and the city does not pick it up?

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Nathan GesnerBusiness Member
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Real Estate Broker · Cody, WY · Member since 2010 · 28k+ posts · 41k+ votes
5y

I think your plan is garbage. You're acting as though there's a trash problem before there's even a problem, which is now creating a problem with your neighbor. You are the bad neighbor for putting these over-sized garbage cans next to his entrance. If I were him, I would be upset, too.

Go back to the original garbage cans and educate your tenants to not overfill them with cardboard or other bulky items and you should be fine.

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  • Nathan GesnerBusiness Member
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    Real Estate Broker · Cody, WY · Member since 2010 · 28k+ posts · 41k+ votes
    5y

    I think your plan is garbage. You're acting as though there's a trash problem before there's even a problem, which is now creating a problem with your neighbor. You are the bad neighbor for putting these over-sized garbage cans next to his entrance. If I were him, I would be upset, too.

    Go back to the original garbage cans and educate your tenants to not overfill them with cardboard or other bulky items and you should be fine.

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  • Member since 2020 · 16 posts · 5 votes
    5y

    Thank you Nathan

  • Baltimore, MD · Member since 2018 · 432 posts · 281 votes
    5y

    A picture is worth a thousand words. If it is actually near his door, that's kinda horrible. And yes, it'll smell after a while. 

    Can you have 2 regular trash bins per unit? I know some people produce crazy amounts of garbage, and I'd rather them do that than leave the garbage in the house....

  • Member since 2020 · 16 posts · 5 votes
    5y

    I appreciate the reply @Nathan Gesner

  • Colleen F.Pro Member
    Investor · Narragansett, RI · Member since 2013 · 8k+ posts · 4k+ votes
    5y

    @Marshall Henry  How often does the city pick up?  How big are the units?  Is there recycling?   I don't think that a dumpster for a triplex is usual and may be too much.  I am thinking that this is probably not a neighborhood look and having a dumpster I can tell you even when they are emptied they can still smell because peoples trash breaks open and gets on the container. The other thing about dumpsters is they attract other people trash.   If it is borderline I think I would lose the dumpster.  The neighbor may be confrontational about it but that doesn't meant he doesn't have a point.

  • Member since 2020 · 16 posts · 5 votes
    5y

    @Genny Li thanks for your reply. I’ll post a picture ASAP.

    I could do two per unit. That would be $100 more in cost.

    Some context: I disagreed with this logic because it is not any closer to his house than it is to mine. Also this is a back ally way (behind the properties on our street and behind the properties on the next street over if that makes sense) dedicated for trash pick up. There are dumpsters and trash bin all over this ally way (including his) because this is the ally the trucks use. 
    I assume the reason for this is so that people do not have their trash bins in the front of their properties. 
    Also if this is considered next to his property, then the bins are going to be next to the other neighbors’ property and off of my property completely because that’s where they were when I moved in. The trash was over flowing our first day in. That’s just from both tenants. I couldn’t imagine what it would look like with our trash added. 

    However most of all, and probably my biggest frustration, he saw me earlier that day, we had a conversation. I saw him the day before, I said hello. Neither time did he bring up the issue with me. He chose to send a threatening texts. I think that’s absolute lack of respect. 

  • Baltimore, MD · Member since 2018 · 432 posts · 281 votes
    5y
    Originally posted by @Marshall Henry:

    @Genny Li thanks for your reply. I’ll post a picture ASAP.

    I could do two per unit. That would be $100 more in cost.

    Some context: I disagreed with this logic because it is not any closer to his house than it is to mine. Also this is a back ally way (behind the properties on our street and behind the properties on the next street over if that makes sense) dedicated for trash pick up. There are dumpsters and trash bin all over this ally way (including his) because this is the ally the trucks use. 
    I assume the reason for this is so that people do not have their trash bins in the front of their properties. 
    Also if this is considered next to his property, then the bins are going to be next to the other neighbors’ property and off of my property completely because that’s where they were when I moved in. The trash was over flowing our first day in. That’s just from both tenants. I couldn’t imagine what it would look like with our trash added. 

    However most of all, and probably my biggest frustration, he saw me earlier that day, we had a conversation. I saw him the day before, I said hello. Neither time did he bring up the issue with me. He chose to send a threatening texts. I think that’s absolute lack of respect. 

    Some people don't communicate in person that well.  But that's why I said a picture is worth 1000 words. I can't tell how reasonable he is being just from the description!

  • Member since 2020 · 16 posts · 5 votes
    5y

    @Colleen F. I appreciate your thoughts on the matter. The city picks up once a week. $10 for an extra pick up. The units are (2) 950 sqft. 2bed 1bath And 1bed 1bath that we I live in. There is also no recycling available. This dumpster is the smallest commercial grade. It’s 400gal. It is not massive by any means. And takes up less space than (4) 90 gal bins. This is not the only dumpster of its kind on the street. There are several. Because of that, I didn’t think it would be out of place. I understand what you said about attracting other people’s trash. That could definitely happen. I don’t think the chances are high because everyone on that street has at least (2) 90gal bins and some (1) 300gal with (1) 90gal and like I’ve mentioned, a  few dumpsters just like mine. 
    I am not without understanding of his complaints. The issue is I do not believe a smaller bin would work. I’ve contacted the city about getting it moved to a different location and they said that’s about the only place it would work. 
    I do not agree with telling my tenants that they need to produce less trash. So that is a non starter for me 

  • Joe SplitrockPro Member
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    Rental Property Investor · Sioux Falls, SD · Member since 2015 · 9k+ posts · 18k+ votes
    5y

    @Marshall Henry although it wasn't your intent, you created this problem. You took something the previous owner had done and changed it. You also handed out your phone number to use as a complaint line. I think you have three options:

    1. Go back to the 90 gallon cans and train your tenants to bring out trash before garbage day. 

    2. Tell him, sorry bud that dumpster isn't going anywhere. If you see it moved, move it back. 

    3. Look for some option to help like putting up a small section of fence to obscure view.

    My best advice is don't keep texting. Ask to talk about it face to face. People like to hide behind texting. If you can get face to face, maybe you can work it out. For what it is worth, I didn't consider his texts threatening. You may be overreacting a little bit. I wouldn't want a dumpster by my door either. Unfortunately if you are within code and city says it can be there, then there is nothing he can do. Tell him to contact the city if he has an issue. That won't do anything, but it pushes the problem to someone else.

    When I purchase my first properties, I introduced myself to the neighbors. I thought it was smart, but half the time it just leads to complaints. Now I don't initiate any type of introduction. 

  • Baltimore, MD · Member since 2018 · 432 posts · 281 votes
    5y
    Originally posted by @Joe Splitrock:

    @Marshall Henry although it wasn't your intent, you created this problem. You took something the previous owner had done and changed it. You also handed out your phone number to use as a complaint line. I think you have three options:

    1. Go back to the 90 gallon cans and train your tenants to bring out trash before garbage day. 

    2. Tell him, sorry bud that dumpster isn't going anywhere. If you see it moved, move it back. 

    3. Look for some option to help like putting up a small section of fence to obscure view.

    My best advice is don't keep texting. Ask to talk about it face to face. People like to hide behind texting. If you can get face to face, maybe you can work it out. For what it is worth, I didn't consider his texts threatening. You may be overreacting a little bit. I wouldn't want a dumpster by my door either. Unfortunately if you are within code and city says it can be there, then there is nothing he can do. Tell him to contact the city if he has an issue. That won't do anything, but it pushes the problem to someone else.

    When I purchase my first properties, I introduced myself to the neighbors. I thought it was smart, but half the time it just leads to complaints. Now I don't initiate any type of introduction. 

     I introduced myself to the other LANDLORDS. loool.  (It's all investor-owned.)

  • Member since 2020 · 16 posts · 5 votes
    5y
    Originally posted by @Joe Splitrock:

    @Marshall Henry although it wasn't your intent, you created this problem. You took something the previous owner had done and changed it. You also handed out your phone number to use as a complaint line. I think you have three options:

    1. Go back to the 90 gallon cans and train your tenants to bring out trash before garbage day. 

    2. Tell him, sorry bud that dumpster isn't going anywhere. If you see it moved, move it back. 

    3. Look for some option to help like putting up a small section of fence to obscure view.

    My best advice is don't keep texting. Ask to talk about it face to face. People like to hide behind texting. If you can get face to face, maybe you can work it out. For what it is worth, I didn't consider his texts threatening. You may be overreacting a little bit. I wouldn't want a dumpster by my door either. Unfortunately if you are within code and city says it can be there, then there is nothing he can do. Tell him to contact the city if he has an issue. That won't do anything, but it pushes the problem to someone else.

    When I purchase my first properties, I introduced myself to the neighbors. I thought it was smart, but half the time it just leads to complaints. Now I don't initiate any type of introduction.
     

    I had told him to contact the city. Which he did. 
    I also decided not to message him back after a couple text messages. 

    I love your idea about the fence. And that is something we have considered.   And is the mostly likely solution. He has a bunch of junk in his yard that we don’t care to see either 

    There is nothing he can do as I got permission from the city and it’s on my property. He would be trespassing. 
    However I do want to do my best to alleviate his concerns. 

  • Joe SplitrockPro Member
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    Rental Property Investor · Sioux Falls, SD · Member since 2015 · 9k+ posts · 18k+ votes
    5y
    Originally posted by @Marshall Henry:
    Originally posted by @Joe Splitrock:

    @Marshall Henry although it wasn't your intent, you created this problem. You took something the previous owner had done and changed it. You also handed out your phone number to use as a complaint line. I think you have three options:

    1. Go back to the 90 gallon cans and train your tenants to bring out trash before garbage day. 

    2. Tell him, sorry bud that dumpster isn't going anywhere. If you see it moved, move it back. 

    3. Look for some option to help like putting up a small section of fence to obscure view.

    My best advice is don't keep texting. Ask to talk about it face to face. People like to hide behind texting. If you can get face to face, maybe you can work it out. For what it is worth, I didn't consider his texts threatening. You may be overreacting a little bit. I wouldn't want a dumpster by my door either. Unfortunately if you are within code and city says it can be there, then there is nothing he can do. Tell him to contact the city if he has an issue. That won't do anything, but it pushes the problem to someone else.

    When I purchase my first properties, I introduced myself to the neighbors. I thought it was smart, but half the time it just leads to complaints. Now I don't initiate any type of introduction.
     

    I had told him to contact the city. Which he did. 
    I also decided not to message him back after a couple text messages. 

    I love your idea about the fence. And that is something we have considered.   And is the mostly likely solution. He has a bunch of junk in his yard that we don’t care to see either 

    There is nothing he can do as I got permission from the city and it’s on my property. He would be trespassing. 
    However I do want to do my best to alleviate his concerns. 

     You will learn as a landlord, you can't make everyone happy. Try your best to be fair, follow ordinances and follow the law. You are being reasonable and it sounds like removing the dumpster is not an option. As the saying goes, it is what it is. He will get used to it.

  • Colleen F.Pro Member
    Investor · Narragansett, RI · Member since 2013 · 8k+ posts · 4k+ votes
    5y

    @Marshall Henry  We don't have trash alleys so it was a front of the house picture in my mind. I did not envision an alley with other dumpsters so might not as big a problem if you aren't the only on.   I didn't say tell tenants to produce less trash so you may have read that in to my reply or were responding to someone else.  I can tell you we would not fill 90 gallons in a week. A fence might be a first option if you want to keep the dumpster. A dumpster does solve who takes out the bins.

  • Member since 2020 · 16 posts · 5 votes
    5y
    That’s the neighbor’s backyard on the Right. Starting at the wooden fence or at the Grey tarp That’s one of my units on the left
  • Rental Property Investor · Milford, CT · Member since 2021 · 9 posts · 5 votes
    5y

    @Marshall Henry we have a triplex and use 2 garbage bins and 2 recycling bins. Works out fine. I do agree with some of the other comments about education. Some people just don't know how to break down boxes and other bulky items. I go to the dump sometimes but mainly due to projects.

  • Member since 2020 · 16 posts · 5 votes
    5y
    Originally posted by @Paul Bunton:

    @Marshall Henry we have a triplex and use 2 garbage bins and 2 recycling bins. Works out fine. I do agree with some of the other comments about education. Some people just don't know how to break down boxes and other bulky items. I go to the dump sometimes but mainly due to projects.

     Thank you for your response! Unfortunately we do not have the option of recycling currently. Therefore everything goes in the same bins. I’ll investigate that though. I’ll double check with the city on the recycling and perhaps that could be a good solution. 

  • Bruce WoodruffPro Member
    Contractor/Investor/Consultant · San Diego / Phoenix · Member since 2021 · 12k+ posts · 15k+ votes
    5y

    I was going to suggest going back to the 90gals and adding a couple. So its $100 mo extra, better than a POed neighbor...

  • Rental Property Investor · Beavercreek OH · Member since 2018 · 422 posts · 970 votes
    5y

    Can you build a three sided enclosure? Perhaps PVC fencing.  It is pretty unsightly. I'm with the neighbor on this one. Sorry.

    Gary

  • Rental Property Investor · Culver City, CA · Member since 2014 · 222 posts · 79 votes
    5y

    @Marshall Henry

    Since you are living there and you are stuck with your neighbor, I personally would consider it more important to get along with the neighbor than a nominal amount of money for trash containers.

    If it was me I would probably go back to the 90 gallon and let the neighbor know that I get that he doesn’t want a dumpster next his house.

    Neighbor disputes can get ugly and unless you sell you are stuck.

    I know someone who got a good deal on their house because everyone else backed out because of a neighbor dispute was so bad it had to be disclosed by the seller.

    Anyhow, good luck. I hope you can get it sorted out.

  • San Antonio, TX · Member since 2019 · 930 posts · 836 votes
    5y

    @Marshall Henry

    I’d really look into building a fence or other enclosure to block line of sight to your dumpster. Heck, if you approach it right, he might even be willing to chip in a couple bucks for it. You never know.

  • Handyman · Pittsburgh, PA · Member since 2018 · 5k+ posts · 13k+ votes
    5y

    I'm definitely seconding @Gary L Wallman's idea.

  • Daniel SmythPro Member
    Rental Property Investor · Rockford, IL · Member since 2019 · 471 posts · 342 votes
    5y

    @Marshall Henry

    The option not addressed, is to use the normal sized bins and let tenants know that trash goes inside only. That should also be in the lease agreement.

    If you MUST get a dumpster, it's your job to keep it clean and not overflowing.

    Living there, you can better monitor others and get them trained.

    A dumpster can sometimes have wheels or castors installed. This way the dumpster can be stored in one place, and then wheeled to another on trash day.

    Posturing never works. We need to take the high-school attitudes out of play, and understand that every problem does have a solution, even if everyone is not happy.

    However, depending on the attitude of the complainer, I can get nasty too. I sometimes go to that high-school mentality, so to make the bigger pockets people happier, I offered a more business option or two..

    If you find a solution and your neighbor smirks at you or rubs it in, I might try to forgive and move on with life.

    Good luck!

  • MI · Member since 2019 · 8 posts · 7 votes
    5y

    Have you offered to buy his house?

  • Real Estate Investor · Madison, WI · Member since 2013 · 18 posts · 5 votes
    5y

    @Marshall Henry set up a camera now! The property was for sale to anyone when you bought it, he wasn't so concerned about controlling the environment until now, let him know when your ready to sell so he can buy, also let him know you bought to make money and his is as good as anyone else's, make me an offer. The lesson is free, but F with my property and it will get expensive.

  • Michael K GallagherBusiness Member
    Real Estate Agent · Columbus OH · Member since 2018 · 1k+ posts · 1k+ votes
    5y

     Maybe its the libertarian in me.... but if its on your property and the city gave you the OK and was who place it there, It's fair game to me.  I do like the idea of moving it away except for on days its being picked up....but trash, especially in highly populated areas, is always an issue, if its not the dumpster its going to be illegal dumping or something else.  

    People don't like change, sounds like the neighbor feels entitled to "how things were", I think you handled it pretty well personally.  If its a benefit to you and your tenants great keep it.  Its on your property you're good to go in my opinion.  I'd consider putting up a camera looking at the dumpster though, if its the only on around it will likely attract people doing renovations and such illegally dumping in it, or this guy trying to move it.  And the city can't do anything unless you have evidence...so a camera would be a good investment. If the neighbor continues to be an issue consider a fence on that side of the property, or like mentioned above some kind of movable solution.  

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