What's one deal you passed on that you still think about?

What's one deal you passed on that you still think about?

Frankie VozziBusiness Member
Member since 2025 路 392 posts 路 99 votes

Something I've been thinking about lately is how investors decide when to walk away from a deal.

Sometimes the numbers look good, the location makes sense, and there's real potential. But something just doesn't feel right.

Maybe the inspection revealed more than expected, the seller wouldn't negotiate, the financing didn't line up, or the timeline was too tight.

And then there are those properties you pass on, only to see someone else buy them and make the deal work.

I think knowing when to walk away is just as important as knowing when to make an offer.

Curious to hear from investors who've been doing this for a while.

What's a deal you walked away from, and looking back, are you glad you did or do you wish you'd taken the risk?

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Joe VilleneuvePro Member
Plymouth, MI 路 Member since 2013 路 13k+ posts 路 19k+ votes
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None. That's not to say that I might have passed on a deal that I could have made money on. I just don't look back. I see know point. If I passed on a deal that would have worked and someone else made it work,...good for them. There are a lot of deals out there, and a lot of REI looking for them. I don't worry or even think back on any deals I might have missed since I'm only working forward.

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  • Joe VilleneuvePro Member
    Plymouth, MI 路 Member since 2013 路 13k+ posts 路 19k+ votes
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    None. That's not to say that I might have passed on a deal that I could have made money on. I just don't look back. I see know point. If I passed on a deal that would have worked and someone else made it work,...good for them. There are a lot of deals out there, and a lot of REI looking for them. I don't worry or even think back on any deals I might have missed since I'm only working forward.

    • Frankie VozziBusiness Member
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      Joe, that's actually a great mindset to have, especially after so many years in real estate. There's always another opportunity, and spending too much time thinking about the ones that got away probably doesn't help.

      I'm curious though, has experience made it easier for you to walk away from deals, or have you always approached investing that way?

    • Joe VilleneuvePro Member
      Plymouth, MI 路 Member since 2013 路 13k+ posts 路 19k+ votes
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      Experience. The more you have, the more you are able to recognize the difference between a bad deal and a good one. Hopefully, you also develop the mindset that there's always more deals around the corner. You just have to find that corner.

      You have to learn three things in detail: 1) Market Analysis, 2) How money works, 3) How to build and stick with a REI Plan. All three play into and depend on the other 2 for success. Once you develop that knowledge, the mindset that follows is what allows you to easily "walk away."

      Sometimes the best deals you make, are the ones you don't".

    • Frankie VozziBusiness Member
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      Joe, that last line says it all. I especially agree with your point about understanding how money works alongside having a solid investment plan. A deal can look great on paper, but if it doesn't fit your strategy or financial position, walking away might be the smartest move. Appreciate you sharing that perspective.

  • Mechanicsburg, PA 路 Member since 2013 路 3k+ posts 路 2k+ votes
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    @Frankie Vozzi I never lose sleep on the deals I didn't do. The reason... Deals are like buses, you miss one another one comes by soon enough and if you wait long enough the same deals comes back!

    • Frankie VozziBusiness Member
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      David, I like the bus analogy, especially the part about the same deal coming back around. Sometimes a seller needs a little time to realize where the market actually is. Have you had a deal come back to you months later at a better price than your original offer?

    • Mechanicsburg, PA 路 Member since 2013 路 3k+ posts 路 2k+ votes
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      @Frankie Vozzi There was a property that was right next to one I already owned. Three times I tried to buy it, the first 2 somebody else bought it, the third time I bought it for a price I was comfortable with. And I was som comfortable that at the same time I bought the property on the other side, so that I had 3 properties in a row.

    • Frankie VozziBusiness Member
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      David, now that's a great example of patience paying off! You went from trying to buy one neighboring property to eventually owning three in a row, all at prices you were comfortable with. That's a pretty good outcome. I'm curious, did you end up holding all three as rentals, or did you have a different strategy in mind?

  • Joe VilleneuvePro Member
    Plymouth, MI 路 Member since 2013 路 13k+ posts 路 19k+ votes
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    "...the same deal comes back"

    I had to laugh at that one...it's so true. Sometimes, when you don't negotiate against yourself, you win when you let the sellers negotiate against them selves.

    • Frankie VozziBusiness Member
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      That's a good point, Joe. Sometimes being willing to walk away is what gives you the strongest negotiating position. Especially when the seller realizes you're not going to chase the deal at any price.

  • Matthew MorrowBusiness Member
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    @Frankie Vozzi I don't lose much sleep over the ones I passed on. Sometimes the best deal is the one you walk away from. The ones I'd worry about are the deals where you get attached and stretch the numbers to make it work. If you passed because it didn't pencil at a conservative value, that's usually the right call, even if someone else makes it look good later.

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    • Frankie VozziBusiness Member
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      Matthew, exactly. Getting emotionally attached to a property is probably one of the easiest ways to turn a good opportunity into a bad investment. If you have to keep adjusting the numbers just to justify buying it, that's usually your answer right there. Appreciate you jumping into another discussion!

  • Member since 2020 路 168 posts 路 50 votes
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    Many cash deals on the 2008 financial crisis 馃ぃ

    • Frankie VozziBusiness Member
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      Jimmy, haha, I bet those 2008 prices are hard to forget! Looking back, there were some incredible opportunities for anyone who had cash ready. Were you actively investing back then, or is that something you wish you'd gotten into sooner?

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