Am I a fool for quitting wholesaling?

Am I a fool for quitting wholesaling?

Kannapolis, NC · Member since 2016 · 18 posts · 9 votes

Hi Everyone, so 5 months ago I delved into learning about real estate investing. Professionally I've had a successful career as a fundraiser for 501(c)(3) organizations, but I've always known that I wanted to get involved in holding and/or flipping properties someday (my initial thought was in the distant future when I receive some type of inheritance- being that I have young kids we don't exactly have thousands of dollars laying around to invest these days!) But anyways, I found out about wholesaling 5 months ago and jumped right in, literally making offers on properties the week I discovered that wholesaling existed. I thought it would be a great way to make seed money for my first rental property without having to wait for a large sum of money to fall into my lap (I don't exactly want to be looking forward for family members dying and I want to kick *** and make money on my own!) and I started working with a coach who has been trying to help me build my business from the ground up and work with me through closing my first deal (which still hasn't happened yet but I am only able to work on this 8-10 hours a week so I don't know if that's too abnormal). But here's the thing I've realized in the past 5 months. I hate wholesaling. At least some of the methods I've been using with the person I'm working with. Telling people I have money I don't have, making what I feel are insultingly low offers to people on their homes, telling people I have great deals when I really don't know how great they are or aren't, having my phone ring off the hook with prospective buyers when I'm trying to take care of 2 toddlers all day and managing my other business- I just don't feel like this is the niche for me. I have really felt discouraged about it the past few weeks- I KNOW I want to be an investor and I don't have a ton of money to get started in my first rental (about $6,000-$9000 to put down if I bought in the next few months- it'd take me a while longer to come up with more than that), but I really just am uncomfortable with wholesaling. I've invested a few thousand into my education on the topic, and invested a ton of time over the past 5 months- would it be a really bad decision to stop wholesaling and just try to save up for my first rental? What do you think?

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Real Estate Broker · Cleveland Dayton Cincinnati Toledo Columbus & Akron, OH · Member since 2013 · 31k+ posts · 20k+ votes
10y

Wholesaling is a poor business plan.

Try selling properties as a real estate agent. You will have many more opportunities to earn money that way.

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  • Ian WalshBusiness Member
    Lender · Philadelphia, PA · Member since 2016 · 2k+ posts · 1k+ votes
    10y

    Wholesaling is one of the easier investment strategies on the stomach.  We are in the business of low offers but that is a mind set and perception that can be overcome.  If you are making offers on the right houses, it won't be an insult or taken as one too often.  

    1. If you don't know if you have a great deal, you don't know your market.  Learn your market because you have to know if you have a great deal.  This would take this concern away.

    2.  Telling people you have money that you don't have?  You don't have to do this.  It is in the words.  If you simply offer a price for a property, it doesn't mean you do or don't have the money.  It is just an agreement to buy at that price.  If it makes you more comfortable, contact a local hard money lender and they will have plenty of money.

    3. Getting into rentals without knowing a good deal opens itself to a lot more problems.  Learn #1 first.

  • Ephrata, PA · Member since 2016 · 1 post · 1 vote
    10y

    This is a great discussion and there are definitely some interesting - and strong - points of view. And the lines of morality, ethics, and legality seem to blur.

    Now I'm new to this RE thing. But I've been applying many of these same concepts to cars for years. Mostly as a hobby, but I've bought & sold over 40 cars. I do not have a dealer license or a car lot. It's just a hobby. (So I pay the sales taxes on every purchase! And I honestly report the purchase & sale prices and report profit as income in spite of all that!) But I learned a few things that I believe apply here:

    First - I never made an offer on a car that I was not fully prepared to follow up on. This notion of building in "backout" clauses in the purchase contract rubs me wrong. Legal? Sure. Ethical? Eh. Do the research up front, prepare an accurate offer, find the funding, and you will not need an out.

    Second - realize and accept that you are providing a service. Using cars - a car with issues is typically harder to sell and will sell normally only at a severely discounted price. I know what that car should be worth if perfect and adjust accordingly. But at that adjusted price, I can help that seller to get rid of something that they see as a problem. There is a value or service that you are providing to the seller. That is worth something - ie a discounted price.

    Third - let's be honest - dealing with the general public sucks. It does. But I have found that being honest and open has consistently been a good practice. In those 40+ car flips, I only had one person accuse me of "taking them" with a bad car. That's another story, but it was car that I had put nearly 2000 miles on and I did not have issues before selling it. 

    In the end and like so many have already shared, it's up to you to decide how to move forward. It is also up to you to represent yourself with integrity in all dealings. (That applies whether you wholesale, are a landlord, a rehabber, an agent, or whatever.) 

    Believe that within your market, that integrity will eventually stand out and put you ahead of the competition.

  • Rental Property Investor · Denver, CO · Member since 2015 · 109 posts · 34 votes
    10y

    @James Wise Love your most recent input. As a young man, I too have been incredibly enticed by the promises of wholesaling. (I believe understandably so). As such, I have recently made the decision to get my CO License.

    What is your opinion on an individual Brokering AND Wholesaling? I.e, do most deals in the conventional form as an agent, while wholesaling deals that don't fit the traditional mold of finding a seller who wants to list their home and wait for top dollar etc...

    I should note that I am still pursuing the wholesaling route in the meantime as I acquire my license, AND I am of the mindset that @Jay Hinrichs has expressed in a multitude of posts; which is that wholesaling is inherently immoral unless you operate with complete and utter transparency in all aspects of the deal, from seller to buyer and intent to closing etc...

    Would love your input as well, Jay.

  • Real Estate Broker · Cleveland Dayton Cincinnati Toledo Columbus & Akron, OH · Member since 2013 · 31k+ posts · 20k+ votes
    10y
    Originally posted by @Account Closed:

    @James Wise Love your most recent input. As a young man, I too have been incredibly enticed by the promises of wholesaling. (I believe understandably so). As such, I have recently made the decision to get my CO License.

    What is your opinion on an individual Brokering AND Wholesaling? I.e, do most deals in the conventional form as an agent, while wholesaling deals that don't fit the traditional mold of finding a seller who wants to list their home and wait for top dollar etc...

    I should note that I am still pursuing the wholesaling route in the meantime as I acquire my license, AND I am of the mindset that @Jay Hinrichs has expressed in a multitude of posts; which is that wholesaling is inherently immoral unless you operate with complete and utter transparency in all aspects of the deal, from seller to buyer and intent to closing etc...

    Would love your input as well, Jay.

     I do not wholesale nor do I allow any of the agents who work at my brokerage to participate in the activity.

    As a licensed agent you have a duty to give the seller of a property an accurate representation of the value of their property. If you put a property under contract for X amount then sold the paper to someone else for X amount + $20,000 one could come back and make the argument that the only way you put it under contract for X is because you used your superior real estate knowledge gained by being a licensee to misrepresent to the seller the value of their home for your personal game. In no way do I want to be involved with that.

    There is never a reason a person would benefit by working with a wholesaler as opposed to a real estate agent. If a client wants to sell a home in 24 hours or less an agent can price the home appropriately do accomplish that goal. If you ad up the "buyers list" of every agent on an MLS and all of their contacts I am pretty sure that is a lot more exposure then that seller would get on a craigslist type site.

  • Rental Property Investor · Denver, CO · Member since 2015 · 109 posts · 34 votes
    10y

    @James Wise Interesting, I can definitely see you're passionate about wholesaling being obsolete as a method of ammassing capital in Real Estate. 

  • Don KonipolBusiness Member
    Investor · The Woodlands TX / Avon, CT · Member since 2009 · 6k+ posts · 10k+ votes
    10y

    Aaron Mazrillo, Didn't quite understand why your post sounds just like a guru's pitch for his wholesaling program; 

    I wholesale. I guarantee you I work less than any broker who brings in what I bring in every year. GUARANTEE it. GUA-RAN-TEE it. (say that last one slowly in a deep voice.) Do I want to deal with the mounds of absolutely stupid and pointless paperwork involved in traditional sales? Hell no. That's the number one reason I got of rehabbing. That and flaky buyers who fall out of escrow. That and the 45 day escrow it takes to close a loan these days. And the home inspection. And the termite inspection. And the appraisal.. And the going back and forth between the two.. And the... Like my good friends back in NY say, fah-gettaboutit!! Sounds like drudgery to me. Sounds like just another crappy J.O.B.

    I don't own a suit. Or a dress shirt. Or a tie. Or a single pair of dress shoes. But I cash lots of 5 figure checks. And I'm home all day EVERY day watching my daughter grow. You might not think it is heaven, but I think it's maybe the next best thing.

    After all you're a wholesaler, not a guru/mentor/coach right?

    So, I look at your profile and find this

    I also offer 1 and 3 hour consulting sessions as well as a full day in the field drive along. I've helped other investors build their business, discover new ways to chase deals, and structure offers that close. If you're interested in booking a consulting sessions, please visit my site at 

    You should disclose that you sell mentoring services; that way readers can discount the biased drivel that you write for the crap that it is!

    Private Mortgage Financing Partners, LLC
  • Investor · Riverside, CA · Member since 2011 · 2k+ posts · 3k+ votes
    10y
    Originally posted by @Don Konipol:

    Aaron Mazrillo, Didn't quite understand why your post sounds just like a guru's pitch for his wholesaling program; 


    You should disclose that you sell mentoring services; that way readers can discount the biased drivel that you write for the crap that it is!

    Mentoring services? That's probably a stretch. Yes, I offer private consulting sessions to investors who actually have a business, but want to make their business better. I hope to improve people's lives. Do I need to disclose that before every post? If I were actively seeking people to sign up I might do that, but I'm not and could care less if anyone ever signs up because I prefer to eat lunch at home. It was the best way I could think of to mitigate the constant, "Can I pick your brain over coffee and/or lunch?" requests. Sure, I'll have coffee or lunch with you. But you're going to pay for it. How's that for disclosure?!

    Now, why are you here? Get your hands on other people's money so you can lend it out and make points/interest? So, you're just another pretender lender. You put everyone else at risk and pocket a slice of other people's pie. Maybe you should disclose that before all your posts. 

    Not everyone buys into the lie that getting up at 7am, putting on an off the rack suit, driving in traffic to a crappy office all day just to suck up to clients hoping to make chicken scratch, then heading home and maybe, maybe spending a few hours with the wife... alone in front of the TV is a life worth living. But being married to the job is probably pretty sweet. At least you have that look forward to every day.

    Crap that I post? My contributions to this site speak for themselves.

    And you spelled my name wrong Don. Attention to details.

  • Investor, Entrepreneur, Educator · Springfield, MO · Member since 2009 · 21k+ posts · 12k+ votes
    10y
    Originally posted by @Heather M.:

    Hi Everyone, so 5 months ago I delved into learning about real estate investing. Professionally I've had a successful career as a fundraiser for 501(c)(3) organizations, but I've always known that I wanted to get involved in holding and/or flipping properties someday (my initial thought was in the distant future when I receive some type of inheritance- being that I have young kids we don't exactly have thousands of dollars laying around to invest these days!) But anyways, I found out about wholesaling 5 months ago and jumped right in, literally making offers on properties the week I discovered that wholesaling existed. I thought it would be a great way to make seed money for my first rental property without having to wait for a large sum of money to fall into my lap (I don't exactly want to be looking forward for family members dying and I want to kick *** and make money on my own!) and I started working with a coach who has been trying to help me build my business from the ground up and work with me through closing my first deal (which still hasn't happened yet but I am only able to work on this 8-10 hours a week so I don't know if that's too abnormal). But here's the thing I've realized in the past 5 months. I hate wholesaling. At least some of the methods I've been using with the person I'm working with. Telling people I have money I don't have, making what I feel are insultingly low offers to people on their homes, telling people I have great deals when I really don't know how great they are or aren't, having my phone ring off the hook with prospective buyers when I'm trying to take care of 2 toddlers all day and managing my other business- I just don't feel like this is the niche for me. I have really felt discouraged about it the past few weeks- I KNOW I want to be an investor and I don't have a ton of money to get started in my first rental (about $6,000-$9000 to put down if I bought in the next few months- it'd take me a while longer to come up with more than that), but I really just am uncomfortable with wholesaling. I've invested a few thousand into my education on the topic, and invested a ton of time over the past 5 months- would it be a really bad decision to stop wholesaling and just try to save up for my first rental? What do you think?

     If that's what you were taught to do in wholesaling (like 99% of all the others) then you got a scumbag guru coach! Yes, absolutely stop doing that, deceit is not the way to establish any business. 

    Obviously you have the skills to deal with people, don't be afraid to deal on the up and up, the owner won't care who buys the place. 

    Assigning contracts is not the way to do it!

    The hard part for you to swallow is that you blew money on crap, hype and got conned. Again, learn real estate before trying to deal in real estate!

    You don't need money or very much, you can take title and sell by using seller financing, you'll provide cash after you sell. You can also use a TIC in several ways or an LLC and admit your buyer to that LLC, they buy, then they can exit the LLC. Not hard to do and you can tell the truth about your dealings.

    Need to think of your reputation dealing in the non-profit arena as well.

    Good luck and I'm glad you see the light! :)  

  • Kannapolis, NC · Member since 2016 · 18 posts · 9 votes
    10y

    I'm sorry for all of the hostility this post has incited! The purpose of this post was not to bash any aspect of the industry but rather to help me as I figure out if my discouragement lately is out of temporary discomfort with a new field or if this niche is just NOT for me. I'm certainly no stranger to toughing through a new line of work (when I first worked at a nonprofit I said I'd NEVER want to be a fundraiser and here I am 9 years later with my own company dedicated to that). I think wholesaling makes perfect sense for people like Aaron who might have more on his plate at a given time than he wants to commit to, but i think I was trying to do things backwards by starting with wholesaling to get into B&H and flipping, thanks for all of the insights and experiences shared to help me figure this out for myself. But anyways, I did not mean to make a case to bash wholesalers or any "9-5" job;  I did not get into this to quit what I do for a living, but rather to make enough money someday through investing that I could do my nonprofit work for free because I love doing it. you both have careers you are proud of and  still have enough time in the end of the day to cyber bully each other – isn't that the American dream after all? :p

  • Investor · Leander, TX · Member since 2016 · 105 posts · 40 votes
    10y
    Hi Heather, I am a newbie to wholesaling. Here is my take on real estate investing. 1. Wholesaling is your own business and like any other business, you need to put in lot of work to get started and reach a break even point. 2. Once you get there, then you automate the business using Virtual assistants and acquisition managers. Then you can spend as little as 4 hours a week to make enough money. 3. However, this is still active income. Ultimately, you want to invest in rental properties, so that you get enough passive income towards your financial freedom. Do not give up. Hang in there. Be ethical and you will be successful.
  • Investor · Riverside, CA · Member since 2011 · 2k+ posts · 3k+ votes
    10y
    Originally posted by @Heather M.:

    I'm sorry for all of the hostility this post has incited!

     We are never hostile on BP. We are all passionate about this business, what we do within it and what it has done for us!

  • Realtor · Cypress, CA · Member since 2014 · 36 posts · 14 votes
    10y
    Maybe wholesaling isn't for you or maybe you don't know that yet. There could be a lot of factors at play here. But I believe that, if you think you might like it once you make money, there are so many ways to learn without paying mentors thousands. I learned how to wholesale a little years ago when there was no Bigger Pockets or apps or all these resources. That was very difficult and pretty lonely. But I made it work and I learned so much. And the more I learned (even from the tough experiences), the more exciting it got because I could see the possibilities. There are so, so many resources available now, it's unreal. Figure out what area of real estate investing speaks to you and take advantage of the multitude of free resources. I believe that between the resources available online, BP, and the endless amount of people in the business who generously share their experiences, you can make anything happen. Tim Robbins once said on an interview that every time he wanted to quit acting, he'd hang on just a little longer, and then something wonderful would happen a few weeks later.
  • Investor, Entrepreneur, Educator · Springfield, MO · Member since 2009 · 21k+ posts · 12k+ votes
    10y

    @Heather 

    @Heather M.undefined

    I'm sorry if you thought my post was hostile, certainly not meant to be, it's short and to the point and I left out a lot of points about wholesaling. 

    An agent told me not long ago they had a big problem, she was the listing agent and her buyer accepted a cash offer. Well, the deal fell through, the buyer didn't buy. I don't know if it was a wholesaler or who it was, doesn't matter, they didn't buy as agreed.

    Usually we'd say no big deal, just say next.

    It's more about what the sellers did and I've mentioned this before.

    Sellers thought they had a cash offer, money in the bank deal and so did the agent to a 90 day closing.

    The sellers cleaned out the house, moved to a rental to purchase it later. They even put their high school kid in another school! They had also moved stuff to storage, had a couple nights at a motel between moves.

    This is not uncommon for a seller to do prior to closing, they prepare to sell and close as agreed. 

    Now, consider the stuff a wholesaler does making a seller believe they are buying, anyone see the point, what can happen when a seller is mislead?

    To say that seller was mad is an understatement and they got an attorney!

    I do know it was a cash offer and the buyer did not have the ability to buy it, sounds like a wholesale operator but again, I don't know who the buyer was.

    I do know the seller sued the buyer, the agent was afraid she was going to be next, that was her problem. 

    I do know the buyer lost and it wasn't for the price of the house but for damages, financially in thousands of dollars as well as for the emotional side, changing schools along with the hassle factor. I was told it was $100K plus attorney fees and costs. Also included damages for taking the property off the market.

    Under the circumstances the seller acted prudently following what they needed to do. This buyer knew they couldn't buy and I have no idea why they made the offer, I was told they didn't get the cash they were expecting, (lame excuse). Doesn't really matter. 

    Newbies getting into real estate need to understand what all goes on after an offer is made. You can cause a seller a financial loss, this is a "Tort" look that up and study what "tortious conduct" is.

    This is just part of the unethical side of wholesaling when offers are made by those who don't have the ability or intent to buy as agreed and disguising their true intent. 

    The agent escaped the judge and the broker kicked in to make them happy, even when the agent was really not at fault but did fail to properly advise.

    More later, gotta go, good luck :)        

  • Kannapolis, NC · Member since 2016 · 18 posts · 9 votes
    10y
    Originally posted by @Bill Gulley:

    @Heather 

    @Heather M.undefined

    I'm sorry if you thought my post was hostile, certainly not meant to be, it's short and to the point and I left out a lot of points about wholesaling. 

    An agent told me not long ago they had a big problem, she was the listing agent and her buyer accepted a cash offer. Well, the deal fell through, the buyer didn't buy. I don't know if it was a wholesaler or who it was, doesn't matter, they didn't buy as agreed.

    Usually we'd say no big deal, just say next.

    It's more about what the sellers did and I've mentioned this before.

    Sellers thought they had a cash offer, money in the bank deal and so did the agent to a 90 day closing.

    The sellers cleaned out the house, moved to a rental to purchase it later. They even put their high school kid in another school! They had also moved stuff to storage, had a couple nights at a motel between moves.

    This is not uncommon for a seller to do prior to closing, they prepare to sell and close as agreed. 

    Now, consider the stuff a wholesaler does making a seller believe they are buying, anyone see the point, what can happen when a seller is mislead?

    To say that seller was mad is an understatement and they got an attorney!

    I do know it was a cash offer and the buyer did not have the ability to buy it, sounds like a wholesale operator but again, I don't know who the buyer was.

    I do know the seller sued the buyer, the agent was afraid she was going to be next, that was her problem. 

    I do know the buyer lost and it wasn't for the price of the house but for damages, financially in thousands of dollars as well as for the emotional side, changing schools along with the hassle factor. I was told it was $100K plus attorney fees and costs. Also included damages for taking the property off the market.

    Under the circumstances the seller acted prudently following what they needed to do. This buyer knew they couldn't buy and I have no idea why they made the offer, I was told they didn't get the cash they were expecting, (lame excuse). Doesn't really matter. 

    Newbies getting into real estate need to understand what all goes on after an offer is made. You can cause a seller a financial loss, this is a "Tort" look that up and study what "tortious conduct" is.

    This is just part of the unethical side of wholesaling when offers are made by those who don't have the ability or intent to buy as agreed and disguising their true intent. 

    The agent escaped the judge and the broker kicked in to make them happy, even when the agent was really not at fault but did fail to properly advise.

    More later, gotta go, good luck :)        

     My "hostile" comment wasn't directed to you at all! If you read the other comments you will probably understand who it was directed to :) - I appreciate and got a lot out of both of your responses! 

  • Investor, Entrepreneur, Educator · Springfield, MO · Member since 2009 · 21k+ posts · 12k+ votes
    10y

    Well, @Heather M. I agree with Don. I read this thread, usually I don't read all the posts as I've found many contribute just to add to the forum folklore.

    Most people on this forum have no clue as to what real estate or real property is, the difference between real and personal property. That especially goes to the marketing type gurus! 

    In my course at GREA (which is free BTW) I explain the difference between real and personal property, that is where REI types need to begin.

    I don't mentor or coach or have any course for sale, I really don't need to do anything, I'm retired and did so around 52, mostly because real estate was really good to me. Read my profile, it's not all there, but the highlights will tell you about my experience. Just saying, no dog in this fight, it's all about teaching RE to help those really interested in our industry. If everyone on BP sent me a buck, it would just be a tax problem I don't need. 

    3rd page of a good thread with an intelligent title that is different, that means more folks will probably read it and respond, so, here it goes.

    I don't know of any war between nations that started over building cars or any widget, many have started over land disputes or territories. Now why is that?

    Because land is scarce, we can't make more dirt to live on, all personal property can be reproduced, we can make new cars, shoes or apple sauce. Land is unique, no two parcels are alike. 

    Most on BP have no clue about real property, we never talk about the social aspects of a home, never talk about what housing means to the community, the tax revenue generated, the amenities government provides, the security that shelter provides or any of the basic needs we reap from a residence. 

    That's why real estate is regulated, laws and ordinances are put in place to protect the concept of real property that doesn't apply to personal property. We don't treat real property like personal property, because it can't be replaced. 

    By the time we are 21, we've been exposed to business transactions, give a few bucks and get a hamburger and coke, buy a car, purchase shoes or clothes. We've already dealt in personal property, we understand selling for a profit. 

    When we take this experience and attempt to apply the business of trade to real property, as most do, they fail to apply the concept of real property and the unique nature of real estate, the difference that the estate carries socially, the importance to a community, the government of society, the functions that real property plays in our security, health and well being. 

    Nowhere in our Constitution is there any mention of the right to own a car, but real property is addressed and the rights we enjoy from ownership. Land ownership is sacred and owner's rights are protected. With those land ownership rights also comes responsibilities.   

    So, when you have folks with a marketing background that deals in widgets they are attempting to apply personal property "thinking" to real property, treating a home as a widget or dealing with it as they would a car you have a problem. That is totally inappropriate as they ignore the social, governmental aspects and legal rights of land ownership or real estate principles. You are not dealing with plastic houses and hotels on a Monopoly board!

    When you are dealing with the average American, Harry Homeowner, you're most often dealing with their largest asset, it's generally the biggest investment they have made.  This is one of the biggest reasons that every state has licensing laws, they are in place to protect the public ensuring that those dealing in real estate have the knowledge and background to deal with the public responsibly.

    At law, the rights of an owner are favored over a buyer, a lender is favored over a borrower and consumers are favored over a dealer. 

    Ethics has been mentioned in this thread several times. Professional or business ethics are the written or unwritten rules of how we conduct business in an industry. (BTW, investors are not an industry, they deal in a niche of the real estate and finance industry.) Business ethics are the standards of conduct expected within an industry, these standards are not one person's beliefs or point of view, these standards are adopted by an industry over time, with considerations given to legal, social, economic  and governmental aspects of that industry. Conduct in one industry may be acceptable but not in another industry. 

    Again, revisit the difference between real and personal property, what may be ethical for a car dealer may well be unethical in real estate and usually is. "Puffing" on a used car lot is almost expected, it is unethical and can be illegal in real estate.

    While we all have varying degrees of personal ethics they may not be in line with industry or business ethics. Doing things that are illegal is unethical, suggesting others do something illegal is unethical as well. Deceiving another party is unethical in real estate. Ignoring ordinances, rules and laws is unethical conduct. Intentionally entering into a contract knowing your intentions and ability to perform are contrary to what was contracted is unethical, that's just lying and deceiving. You can only be an ethical wholesaler if you can pass through all of these gates, but you can't as your guru and wholesaling coaches teach it. Marketeers can put lipstick and pour perfume on a pig, but it's still a pig. Wholesaling is taken directly out of the personal property play book, be the middle man a "straw-man dealer". (BTW, I've often said that advertising is the art of deceit).

    We hear the lame justifications of "sell the contract, not the property", bottom line, you are using contracts as a "listing" to facilitate a sale for a property owner. Study the "Laws of Agency" and the different types of agencies in business transactions, how an agency relationship can be formed. What constitutes an agency relationship in any business transaction? Like it or not, if you're in the business of wholesaling you are taking on an agency relationship.

    Understand too that when you sell a contract, or any asset, there are implied warranties that what you're selling is merchantable, that the value is based on condition and usefulness in many ways. Now, if you entered into a contract without the ability or intent to perform, your contract is voidable, that means it is flawed legally, you're attempting to sell damaged goods and without disclosure of your ill conceived contract you created. That just bumps fraud. 

    Is your business based on selling voidable contracts? If you're a wholesaler assigning contracts for a fee, yes you are! And some want to talk about ethics!

    For most of our youthful members here on BP, all of this is something they don't want to hear or recognize. Desperate people do desperate things, especially when they are seeing dollar signs. The gurus are playing on your desperation, you just don't see it. 

    Well, now you know a bit more, who do you want to be?  :) 

  • Kannapolis, NC · Member since 2016 · 18 posts · 9 votes
    10y
    Originally posted by @Bill Gulley:

    Well, @Heather M. I agree with Don. I read this thread, usually I don't read all the posts as I've found many contribute just to add to the forum folklore.

    Most people on this forum have no clue as to what real estate or real property is, the difference between real and personal property. That especially goes to the marketing type gurus! 

    In my course at GREA (which is free BTW) I explain the difference between real and personal property, that is where REI types need to begin.

    I don't mentor or coach or have any course for sale, I really don't need to do anything, I'm retired and did so around 52, mostly because real estate was really good to me. Read my profile, it's not all there, but the highlights will tell you about my experience. Just saying, no dog in this fight, it's all about teaching RE to help those really interested in our industry. If everyone on BP sent me a buck, it would just be a tax problem I don't need. 

    3rd page of a good thread with an intelligent title that is different, that means more folks will probably read it and respond, so, here it goes.

    I don't know of any war between nations that started over building cars or any widget, many have started over land disputes or territories. Now why is that?

    Because land is scarce, we can't make more dirt to live on, all personal property can be reproduced, we can make new cars, shoes or apple sauce. Land is unique, no two parcels are alike. 

    Most on BP have no clue about real property, we never talk about the social aspects of a home, never talk about what housing means to the community, the tax revenue generated, the amenities government provides, the security that shelter provides or any of the basic needs we reap from a residence. 

    That's why real estate is regulated, laws and ordinances are put in place to protect the concept of real property that doesn't apply to personal property. We don't treat real property like personal property, because it can't be replaced. 

    By the time we are 21, we've been exposed to business transactions, give a few bucks and get a hamburger and coke, buy a car, purchase shoes or clothes. We've already dealt in personal property, we understand selling for a profit. 

    When we take this experience and attempt to apply the business of trade to real property, as most do, they fail to apply the concept of real property and the unique nature of real estate, the difference that the estate carries socially, the importance to a community, the government of society, the functions that real property plays in our security, health and well being. 

    Nowhere in our Constitution is there any mention of the right to own a car, but real property is addressed and the rights we enjoy from ownership. Land ownership is sacred and owner's rights are protected. With those land ownership rights also comes responsibilities.   

    So, when you have folks with a marketing background that deals in widgets they are attempting to apply personal property "thinking" to real property, treating a home as a widget or dealing with it as they would a car you have a problem. That is totally inappropriate as they ignore the social, governmental aspects and legal rights of land ownership or real estate principles. You are not dealing with plastic houses and hotels on a Monopoly board!

    When you are dealing with the average American, Harry Homeowner, you're most often dealing with their largest asset, it's generally the biggest investment they have made.  This is one of the biggest reasons that every state has licensing laws, they are in place to protect the public ensuring that those dealing in real estate have the knowledge and background to deal with the public responsibly.

    At law, the rights of an owner are favored over a buyer, a lender is favored over a borrower and consumers are favored over a dealer. 

    Ethics has been mentioned in this thread several times. Professional or business ethics are the written or unwritten rules of how we conduct business in an industry. (BTW, investors are not an industry, they deal in a niche of the real estate and finance industry.) Business ethics are the standards of conduct expected within an industry, these standards are not one person's beliefs or point of view, these standards are adopted by an industry over time, with considerations given to legal, social, economic  and governmental aspects of that industry. Conduct in one industry may be acceptable but not in another industry. 

    Again, revisit the difference between real and personal property, what may be ethical for a car dealer may well be unethical in real estate and usually is. "Puffing" on a used car lot is almost expected, it is unethical and can be illegal in real estate.

    While we all have varying degrees of personal ethics they may not be in line with industry or business ethics. Doing things that are illegal is unethical, suggesting others do something illegal is unethical as well. Deceiving another party is unethical in real estate. Ignoring ordinances, rules and laws is unethical conduct. Intentionally entering into a contract knowing your intentions and ability to perform are contrary to what was contracted is unethical, that's just lying and deceiving. You can only be an ethical wholesaler if you can pass through all of these gates, but you can't as your guru and wholesaling coaches teach it. Marketeers can put lipstick and pour perfume on a pig, but it's still a pig. Wholesaling is taken directly out of the personal property play book, be the middle man a "straw-man dealer". (BTW, I've often said that advertising is the art of deceit).

    We hear the lame justifications of "sell the contract, not the property", bottom line, you are using contracts as a "listing" to facilitate a sale for a property owner. Study the "Laws of Agency" and the different types of agencies in business transactions, how an agency relationship can be formed. What constitutes an agency relationship in any business transaction? Like it or not, if you're in the business of wholesaling you are taking on an agency relationship.

    Understand too that when you sell a contract, or any asset, there are implied warranties that what you're selling is merchantable, that the value is based on condition and usefulness in many ways. Now, if you entered into a contract without the ability or intent to perform, your contract is voidable, that means it is flawed legally, you're attempting to sell damaged goods and without disclosure of your ill conceived contract you created. That just bumps fraud. 

    Is your business based on selling voidable contracts? If you're a wholesaler assigning contracts for a fee, yes you are! And some want to talk about ethics!

    For most of our youthful members here on BP, all of this is something they don't want to hear or recognize. Desperate people do desperate things, especially when they are seeing dollar signs. The gurus are playing on your desperation, you just don't see it. 

    Well, now you know a bit more, who do you want to be?  :) 

     Thank you Bill- you put into words so many of the points I was feeling internally about the methods I was being trained to use. I guess I have just debated as to whether I was actually doing something immoral or just making excuses to try to quit when something got hard, because I take a lot of pride in not quitting things easily but I really do feel that this is not the niche for me. I am very grateful for all of the opinions expressed in this thread and that has led me to speaking with someone else in messages about ways to get into B&H with the limited $$ I'm currently working with so I don't have to continue trying to wholesale when I just don't think it's for me. I am sure there are a lot of ethical people and circumstances in which wholesaling is used, but as a rookie posing as some saavy experienced investor with a ton of cash, it just doesn't feel right to me. I agree with your earlier point that with making a name for myself with local nonprofits, I need to make sure everything I do is on the up and up. Thanks for your input and support! 

  • Griffin, GA · Member since 2016 · 4 posts · 1 vote
    9y

    So this forum has all this info about wholesaling and from this thread it seems that wholesaling isn't a real business or is it? I'm so confused... I understand the ethical part but I'm thinking if you find a deal and just explain to the seller exactly what you do. As in I have relationships with xx amount of investors with cash. That's not a problem right? i need for somebody with some real world experience to verify wholesaling as a business or either delete the wholesaling section if it's not...

  • Investor · Fairfax, VA · Member since 2015 · 1k+ posts · 805 votes
    3y

    You need a financial partner to get started or maybe a heloc if you own your own home to get into your first rental.  Whatever it takes just find/earn the money.  I've been in your shoes to some extent.  I was a stockbroker in nineties and I had to cold call rich people and ask them for money on stocks....Yuck! I eventually got a W2 job with a steady salary and then started a business on the side for my seed money.  I also partnered with my parents on my first deal.  Surround yourself with like minded people and you can do amazing things!  

  • Investor · Austin, TX · Member since 2021 · 9k+ posts · 5k+ votes
    3y

    You hate it because you have been in it for such a short amount of time, once you get to a point where you hire out everything and build a machine that finds you deals to wholesale the process gets fun. 

  • Member since 2022 · 5 posts · 0 votes
    3y

    You are not a fool. There is nothing wrong with trying something and deciding that you want to take a different path. At least you know what it's like now. That's valuable. I know quotes are cheesy, but I'm sharing this anyways:

    “It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.” -Theodore Roosevelt

  • Investor · Montgomery, AL · Member since 2016 · 60 posts · 43 votes
    3y

    I just started working for a wholesaler, but have been in REI for 20+ years.

    Seeing the transactions happen from within the company, I see sellers that are extremely happy for the value a good wholesaler brings them allowing them to sell with no hassle, no need to fix anything up, no need to clean stuff out.  Some are happy to get rid of something they inherited that they have no idea how to take care of.  They don't want to spend any money fixing it up and marketing it.  Sometimes painful memories are attached to the properties.  I've heard amazing testimonials, so that's the perspective I see.  I totally get this idea of hating on wholesalers for being predatory, but I don't see it in my company or several others I've done business with in the past.

    I do see some shady training out there and I do see beginners in wholesaling try some whacky stuff and giving wholesaling the bad name is sometimes gets.

    Rich

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