Are you wealthy?

Are you wealthy?

Rental Property Investor · Northern, CA · Member since 2012 · 5k+ posts · 5k+ votes

Saw this article on MSN Money today: The answer to this question will tell you if you're wealthy.  

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Excerpt from the article:

To qualify as upper class in the U.S., a family of four needs to earn an annual income of at least $144,251. To place in the top 1 percent of Americans, they would need to bring in at least $389,436.

But do either of these comparative distinctions make you wealthy? It depends on how you define wealth.

For Derek Sall, a personal finance blogger and financial analyst who paid off $116,000 in seven years, it's not about how much money you bring in each month but how much you're able to save.

He says you need to ask yourself only one simple question to determine whether you're wealthy: If you lost your job tomorrow, how long could you survive?

It's easy to judge wealth as a function of what you own, but as Sall points out, material possessions mean nothing about the real state of your finances.

"Heck, you could drive a $40,000 BMW and live in a $500,000 home, but if you're $600,000 in debt, then you're actually worth less than a 7-year-old child," he writes.

To answer his own question, Sall developed a scale for quantifying wealth. Here's how well off you are depending on how long you could last without a source of income:

  • Less than a month: Broke
  • One to three months: Teetering
  • Three to six months: Satisfactory
  • Six months to two years: Well off
  • Two to five years: Wealthy
  • Five or more years: Ultra-wealthy

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The author makes some good points.  Often times people are presumed to be wealthy because they live in a big house or drive a fancy car, but I would argue that alone usually doesn't tell you how well the person is really doing financially.  In fact, I've personally known people who live in a big house and drive a nice car and they wouldn't be able to pay their bills for a single month if their income suddenly stopped.

The one thing I would probably disagree with the author on is what seems like his interchangeable use of the questions "How long could you last if you lost your job" and "How long could you last without a source of income".  I'm sure to most of us on BP, these mean different things.  For example, if you lost your job tomorrow but still had your passive income from rentals, you may be able to survive much longer - perhaps indefinitely.  The point is, a job is just one source of income, not the only source.  (Or at least it shouldn't be.)

I'm curious what others interested in personal finance think about the author's definition of wealthy?  How about you Scott Trench....would being able to survive for five or more years without a job be considered Set for Life?

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Scott TrenchPro Member
Rental Property Investor · Denver, CO · Member since 2014 · 2k+ posts · 6k+ votes
8y

We on BiggerPockets I believe are not satisfied with these levels. Three to six months of living expenses accumulated in net worth? How is that possibly satisfactory for folks on this site that aspire to early financial freedom? 

Here's a first stab at a list for those of us that aspire to be competent and confident in the realm of personal finance:

  • Less than a month: Emergency - one bad day from homelessness
  • One to three months: Urgent - a moderate amount of bad luck from homelessness
  • Three to six months: Whew - The baseline of being able to sleep soundly at night, still in all-out hustle mode
  • Six months to two years: Satisfactory - no longer afraid continuing to support one's self/family if job/business is lost
  • Two to five years: Well-off, Investments are just starting to produce meaningful amounts of supplemental income
  • Five or more years: Confident - Investment income may be even more than most people's salaries
  • 25 Years or more: Financially Independent - even with the conservative 4% Safe Withdrawal Rate
  • $100,000 more passive income than one spends to support their lifestyle: Wealthy
  • $500,000 or more in passive income above and beyond what's needed to support one's lifestyle: Ultra Wealthy

Thoughts?

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  • Joe SplitrockPro Member
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    Rental Property Investor · Sioux Falls, SD · Member since 2015 · 9k+ posts · 18k+ votes
    8y

    @Kyle J. wealth is by definition having an abundance of resources and possessions. 

    Your career is not wealth, it is an income source. If you became disabled tomorrow, you could easily stop receiving any income. 

    Cash flow is not wealth, it is also an income source. Cash flow is future accumulation of wealth. It is not guaranteed. If you owned 1000 acres of timber, you may feel wealthy based on future forestry. However, forest fires in my state claimed over 50,000 acres of trees this week. How about rental properties? One natural disaster or financial crisis can destroy rental income for years in a given market. 

    There is only one way to measure monetary wealth and that is net worth. Net worth is total assets minus total liabilities. Even your income producing assets, such as rental properties or stocks, are only measured on their present cash value.

    The author of the article is making the argument that how long you can survive with no income (including no passive income) determines your level of wealth:

    Net worth / average monthly expenses = number of months you can survive

    This formula falls short for two reasons. First of all, average monthly expenses vary greatly depending on the individual. A homeless man sleeping on a park bench can live on $10 for years. The average person couldn't survive a day on $10. That is why you can have someone in California who makes $200K and feels poor. After housing, fancy car, gas and lifestyle, they have run that $200K down to nothing. That is why people often leave expensive states when they retire. Secondly, very rarely does all income cease. Even an unemployed person can get income through government assistance. Most of us have passive income through rentals or stock market investments. Very seldom does money sit as cash, so assuming that isn't realistic when calculating how long you can last.

    Wealth is "abundance", meaning having more than you need. The problem is that wealth accumulation often causes people to want more, so the scale slides. Other people need hardly nothing. That means there is no way to create one universal standard as the author attempted. You can measure net worth, but anything beyond that is subjective.

  • Santa Rosa, CA · Member since 2017 · 325 posts · 701 votes
    8y

    The issue is that "wealth/wealthy" is a subjective term that is a combination of 3 actual financial terms

    - salary/cash flow

    - net worth (the normal definition of wealth)

    - liquidity

    Every person places a different percentage on how important each of those factors are.   Lately people have been obsessing over salary, but in actuality that is the wrong measure.

    For example, if you make more than $32,400 you are in the worldwide 1% for salary.   You own more "wealth" than the other 99% of the world.   You are responsible for the income inequality, you have wealth privilege and are generally considered an evil person, just read any blog on Medium (lol).   So if you consider salary to be the most important factor most of America is in the ultra wealthy 1%.   But in reality, if you make $40,000 and spend $60,000 you are not wealthy at all.   

    In actuality, net worth is the proper measure of wealth.  You need 770,000 to be in the 1% (worldwide).   More importantly, this is an actual measure of assets - liabilities.   BTW, this would be the proper definition of assets/liabilities not the Robert Kiyosaki definition, so the "dead equity" in your house counts.    But if you own a lot of assets with no income, this can lead to being "house poor" which is were liquidity comes in.    

    Liquidity is basically the financial equivalent of flexibility.   Flexibility = choices.   More Choices = a better chance of making more money.    This is also where emergency funds come in.   illiquid investments just are not as valuable.    They can, however, grow wealth, so holding 1 million in cash is not a great way to get to 2 million.   Hence why balance is needed.   

    Some examples, and my personal opinions

    Example 1:   Person owns 10 homes worth 1 million with cash flow of $36,000 a year ($300 per door per month) and 6 months of savings, $18,000.   They owe $800,000 in mortgage.   So they have an income of $36,000 per year and $218,000 in net worth.   Not wealthy in my opinion, probably barely able to save anything each month.  

    Example 2:   Person has $1 million in stocks/bonds, a $36,000 a year job and $18,000 in the bank.   So same as above but a net worth of 1,018,000.    Well into the top 1% worldwide, but based on US standards....middle class.   if that 1 million is in a 401k with 4% per year withdrawals they have continue their current lifestyle forever.   A much better position than example 1.   Also much more liquid, as the stocks can be converted to cash in 1 day, even in a 401k.

    Example 3:   Owner of a small hardware store.   He takes $36,000 a year in salary.   The store is worth a million dollars if sold.   same $18,000 in savings.   So basically the same as example 2 but no liquidity.    If he wants to retire he has to sell the business to convert into cash.    Better wealth than example 1 but not as good as example 2   

    So my question would be "what is your net worth, and how are you growing it/protecting it depending on your stage in life"   not "are you wealthy"

    Article the facts were taken from

    https://www.investopedia.com/articles/personal-fin...

  • Investor · Saint Paul, MN · Member since 2015 · 663 posts · 512 votes
    8y
    What a stupid way to calculate well let me give you an example an 40-year-old orthopedic surgeon making $350,000 year driving a fancy car that is leased, going on expensive vacations and live in a mansion and has $500,000 saved in retirement. The wife doesn’t work. There net worth is 800,000. Now you have a web designer and a teacher making a combined income of 150,000. Both of their vehicles are Five years old and paid for, you take very few vacations and live in a very modest house in a good school district. But at age 40 they have a net worth of $1 million. This example is very calm and just read the book millionaire next-door. The couple that only makes 150000 a year are doing way better investing their money and not buying appreciative assets or liabilities. I would consider this couple more wealthy even though their salary is $200,000 less.
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    8y

    This kind of thing is always fun - well sort of until my analysis makes me feel inadequate or gives me the "big head". I get it - the temptation to compare things is irresistible.   But it was Theodore Roosevelt who reminded us that "comparison is the thief of joy".

    Income - outgo - staying power - It's way more about about the attitude than the decimal point!

    I woke up today - that makes me healthy.  

    I could choose where I wanted to get a cup of coffee from - That makes me wealthy. 

    I married a fantastic woman who has provided me with 4 strong upright sons and cash flow from her own endeavors - that makes me wise.

    Feelin Lucky!

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  • Reston, VA · Member since 2014 · 74 posts · 24 votes
    8y

    I have to agree with @Anthony Gayden. While I think everyone has their own idea of what wealth is, personally I would feel much wealthier knowing I have a residual income stream coming in month after month.

  • Investor · Shakopee, MN · Member since 2014 · 219 posts · 88 votes
    8y

    I think what the discussion and article supports is that "wealth" for many is more of a state of mind than a financial number.  I think wealth has more to do with an abundance of time than an abundance of money.

    If you read about the ultra-saver groups where they are retired at age 27 living in a tent or sailing a boat, they consider themselves wealthy because they have the abundance of time on their side.  

    The abundance of time to do what you want 7 days a week is wealth.  The having huge houses, nice cars, and high salaries can create wealth, but if you aren't making yourself more able to be independent of your need to commit your time to a business or company against your free will, you aren't inching towards wealth.

    My wife and I aren't fond of raising kids in a tent though, so we aren't as wealthy as a 27 year old retired blogger, but the blogger doesn't have the wealth of the experiences my wife and kids provide me.

    Wealth is in the eye of the beholder.

  • Denver, CO · Member since 2016 · 114 posts · 99 votes
    8y
    Originally posted by @Dan D.:

    I think what the discussion and article supports is that "wealth" for many is more of a state of mind than a financial number.  I think wealth has more to do with an abundance of time than an abundance of money.

    If you read about the ultra-saver groups where they are retired at age 27 living in a tent or sailing a boat, they consider themselves wealthy because they have the abundance of time on their side.  

    The abundance of time to do what you want 7 days a week is wealth.  The having huge houses, nice cars, and high salaries can create wealth, but if you aren't making yourself more able to be independent of your need to commit your time to a business or company against your free will, you aren't inching towards wealth.

    My wife and I aren't fond of raising kids in a tent though, so we aren't as wealthy as a 27 year old retired blogger, but the blogger doesn't have the wealth of the experiences my wife and kids provide me.

    Wealth is in the eye of the beholder.

    I don't really agree wealth is a state of mind. I do think it's an actual milestone but it might differ between person to person so you may not be able to peg a specific number to it. But if we go by a time definition a bum would be wealthy he has all the time in the world.

    And extreme savers I don't really count because I think if you are wealthy you shouldn't have to make those types of compromises. Otherwise what's the point of being wealthy? I do agree that extra time comes with wealth but a lot of things that cost a ton of money actually save you time (housekeeping, private chef, eating out, etc). If you enjoy those things then fine but if you have to do a lot of things yourself just to save then I wouldn't say that is wealthy. Wealth means being able to do whatever the hell you want when you want.

    Most financial planners will tell you a net worth of $2-$10M will provide enough for retirement and financial freedom. From my experience I think that is in the right ballpark for someone living in the United States.

  • Rental Property Investor · Cincinnati, OH · Member since 2013 · 292 posts · 280 votes
    8y
    Originally posted by @Marcus Johnson:

    What a stupid way to calculate well let me give you an example an 40-year-old orthopedic surgeon making $350,000 year driving a fancy car that is leased, going on expensive vacations and live in a mansion and has $500,000 saved in retirement. The wife doesn’t work. There net worth is 800,000.

    Now you have a web designer and a teacher making a combined income of 150,000. Both of their vehicles are Five years old and paid for, you take very few vacations and live in a very modest house in a good school district. But at age 40 they have a net worth of $1 million.

    This example is very calm and just read the book millionaire next-door. The couple that only makes 150000 a year are doing way better investing their money and not buying appreciative assets or liabilities. I would consider this couple more wealthy even though their salary is $200,000 less.

    No. 

    The Surgeon's wife is a stay at home mom. The Surgeon is wealthy.

    The web designer can't even afford to raise his own kids so he has to send his wife to work. 

    Further, the Surgeon has incremental ownership in his Surgery and Rehab Center so he is earning both W2 income and business income, along with the tax advantages that come with it. 

    The web designer won't let his wife quit her teaching job because the greedy web designer wants the teacher's health insurance and teacher's public employee pension. 

    Now, tell me again who is wealthy?

    DL

    p.s. two of my closest friends here in Cincinnati are MD's. One a surgeon, the other an ER doc. BOTH are partners in their Medical Groups, both of their wives are Stay At Home Mom's. Trust me when I say that they have pretty nice lives. 

  • Investor · Shakopee, MN · Member since 2014 · 219 posts · 88 votes
    8y
    Originally posted by @Jerry Shen:
    Originally posted by @Dan D.:

    I think what the discussion and article supports is that "wealth" for many is more of a state of mind than a financial number.  I think wealth has more to do with an abundance of time than an abundance of money.

    If you read about the ultra-saver groups where they are retired at age 27 living in a tent or sailing a boat, they consider themselves wealthy because they have the abundance of time on their side.  

    The abundance of time to do what you want 7 days a week is wealth.  The having huge houses, nice cars, and high salaries can create wealth, but if you aren't making yourself more able to be independent of your need to commit your time to a business or company against your free will, you aren't inching towards wealth.

    My wife and I aren't fond of raising kids in a tent though, so we aren't as wealthy as a 27 year old retired blogger, but the blogger doesn't have the wealth of the experiences my wife and kids provide me.

    Wealth is in the eye of the beholder.

    I don't really agree wealth is a state of mind. I do think it's an actual milestone but it might differ between person to person so you may not be able to peg a specific number to it. But if we go by a time definition a bum would be wealthy he has all the time in the world.

    And extreme savers I don't really count because I think if you are wealthy you shouldn't have to make those types of compromises. Otherwise what's the point of being wealthy? I do agree that extra time comes with wealth but a lot of things that cost a ton of money actually save you time (housekeeping, private chef, eating out, etc). If you enjoy those things then fine but if you have to do a lot of things yourself just to save then I wouldn't say that is wealthy. Wealth means being able to do whatever the hell you want when you want.

    Most financial planners will tell you a net worth of $2-$10M will provide enough for retirement and financial freedom. From my experience I think that is in the right ballpark for someone living in the United States.

    I disagree.

    A bum likely wouldn't consider themselves wealthy.  If they do, then maybe they are fine.

    If the extreme savers are doing everything they want to be doing and enjoying the time they want to spend with the people who they want to spend time with and they are experiencing the experiences they want to, then how are they not wealthy?

    By your definition, very few will ever be wealthy enough to do whatever you want whenever you want.  You're essentially saying it's someone who could afford to acquire or achieve all of their goals.

    The only way to achieve this is that your pursuits are so limited that you can afford to buy them.

    The mind and the adventures you mind may want to pursue are infinite.

    Does one want to buy a Maserati if one doesn't know it exists?  The more limited one's mind would be, the better their options to achieve wealthy by your definition because each new thought and idea would broaden your world and make it less likely you'll achieve wealth.

    By your definition, the person with the least imaginative mind would have the best odds of being wealthy.  

    That's why the super-savers, who consciously turn off the pursuit of material goods and social experiences are often the ones with the best odds of retiring early.

  • Investor · Shakopee, MN · Member since 2014 · 219 posts · 88 votes
    8y
    Originally posted by @DL Martin:
    Originally posted by @Marcus Johnson:

    What a stupid way to calculate well let me give you an example an 40-year-old orthopedic surgeon making $350,000 year driving a fancy car that is leased, going on expensive vacations and live in a mansion and has $500,000 saved in retirement. The wife doesn’t work. There net worth is 800,000.

    Now you have a web designer and a teacher making a combined income of 150,000. Both of their vehicles are Five years old and paid for, you take very few vacations and live in a very modest house in a good school district. But at age 40 they have a net worth of $1 million.

    This example is very calm and just read the book millionaire next-door. The couple that only makes 150000 a year are doing way better investing their money and not buying appreciative assets or liabilities. I would consider this couple more wealthy even though their salary is $200,000 less.

    No. 

    The Surgeon's wife is a stay at home mom. The Surgeon is wealthy.

    The web designer can't even afford to raise his own kids so he has to send his wife to work. 

    Further, the Surgeon has incremental ownership in his Surgery and Rehab Center so he is earning both W2 income and business income, along with the tax advantages that come with it. 

    The web designer won't let his wife quit her teaching job because the greedy web designer wants the teacher's health insurance and teacher's public employee pension. 

    Now, tell me again who is wealthy?

    DL

    p.s. two of my closest friends here in Cincinnati are MD's. One a surgeon, the other an ER doc. BOTH are partners in their Medical Groups, both of their wives are Stay At Home Mom's. Trust me when I say that they have pretty nice lives. 

    Good example.  

    Wealth has more to do with time than it does money.

    The ability to have your wife at home with the kids when they come home from school is wealth.

    Having both spouse work with kids spending time in day-care or after-school programs having experiences with strangers instead of parents is the lack of wealth.

    In the end, the person working two jobs may retire with  more cash than the surgeon, but the kids who grew up with mom at home have 1,000's of more memories with their real parents.

    When both couples are 85, both could buy their dream car, but at that stage in life, one will recall the memories of greeting their kids at the bus stop.  Which has more value at that point?  The car or the memories?

  • Denver, CO · Member since 2016 · 114 posts · 99 votes
    8y
    Originally posted by @Dan D.:
    Originally posted by @Jerry Shen:
    Originally posted by @Dan D.:

    I think what the discussion and article supports is that "wealth" for many is more of a state of mind than a financial number.  I think wealth has more to do with an abundance of time than an abundance of money.

    If you read about the ultra-saver groups where they are retired at age 27 living in a tent or sailing a boat, they consider themselves wealthy because they have the abundance of time on their side.  

    The abundance of time to do what you want 7 days a week is wealth.  The having huge houses, nice cars, and high salaries can create wealth, but if you aren't making yourself more able to be independent of your need to commit your time to a business or company against your free will, you aren't inching towards wealth.

    My wife and I aren't fond of raising kids in a tent though, so we aren't as wealthy as a 27 year old retired blogger, but the blogger doesn't have the wealth of the experiences my wife and kids provide me.

    Wealth is in the eye of the beholder.

    I don't really agree wealth is a state of mind. I do think it's an actual milestone but it might differ between person to person so you may not be able to peg a specific number to it. But if we go by a time definition a bum would be wealthy he has all the time in the world.

    And extreme savers I don't really count because I think if you are wealthy you shouldn't have to make those types of compromises. Otherwise what's the point of being wealthy? I do agree that extra time comes with wealth but a lot of things that cost a ton of money actually save you time (housekeeping, private chef, eating out, etc). If you enjoy those things then fine but if you have to do a lot of things yourself just to save then I wouldn't say that is wealthy. Wealth means being able to do whatever the hell you want when you want.

    Most financial planners will tell you a net worth of $2-$10M will provide enough for retirement and financial freedom. From my experience I think that is in the right ballpark for someone living in the United States.

    I disagree.

    A bum likely wouldn't consider themselves wealthy.  If they do, then maybe they are fine.

    If the extreme savers are doing everything they want to be doing and enjoying the time they want to spend with the people who they want to spend time with and they are experiencing the experiences they want to, then how are they not wealthy?

    By your definition, very few will ever be wealthy enough to do whatever you want whenever you want.  You're essentially saying it's someone who could afford to acquire or achieve all of their goals.

    The only way to achieve this is that your pursuits are so limited that you can afford to buy them.

    The mind and the adventures you mind may want to pursue are infinite.

    Does one want to buy a Maserati if one doesn't know it exists?  The more limited one's mind would be, the better their options to achieve wealthy by your definition because each new thought and idea would broaden your world and make it less likely you'll achieve wealth.

    By your definition, the person with the least imaginative mind would have the best odds of being wealthy.  

    That's why the super-savers, who consciously turn off the pursuit of material goods and social experiences are often the ones with the best odds of retiring early.

    I get what you are saying, and I have nothing against bums or extreme savers, I just don't think you can redefine what wealthy means so it loses all meaning.

    Everyone on BP is investing in real estate to become wealthy. If all it takes is a change in "mindset" and the ability to consciously turn off material goods what's the point?

    I assumed this thread was about material wealth. That is measurable. Certainly we can disagree if that means $1M or $10M and in some ways it is subjective but I think it goes too far to say wealth is just some new-age state of mind.

  • Sunnyvale , CA · Member since 2017 · 373 posts · 362 votes
    8y
    I'll be blunt. We all know who the wealthy are. The are on the Forbes list. May be there are a few others who are wealthy and are not on this list. To me that's wealthy period. Other very wealthy people, as people on this thread have mentioned are those with happy lives, stable jobs, great families, great relationships and good health. They may or may not be financially wealthy but hey we all know they are very wealthy otherwise. Owning a few properties, having success doing BRRR etc (in a bull market, thanks to expansionary monetary policy) and becoming "wealthier" than when you started out or being wealthier than your buddies who don't invest or don't want to invest, that is not wealthy. It's an achievement but having it go into the head is an acquisition of arrogance and false pride. Remember if you made your first million and are dancing in the streets with an air of arrogance take some time to get grounded in the fact that the wealthiest man in the world in 1000x richer than you.
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    Qualified Intermediary for 1031 Exchanges · St. Petersburg, FL · Member since 2013 · 9k+ posts · 9k+ votes
    8y

    Well said @Jay Hinrichs, I knew the guy in Amarillo who owned the tree.  He was the richest guy in town!  

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  • Jay HinrichsBusiness Member
    Real Estate Consultant · Summerlin, NV · Member since 2014 · 45k+ posts · 66k+ votes
    8y

    @Joe Splitrock you can insure timber against fire just like any other asset..

    now beetle kill that's another matter.. that has wreaked havoc on the Western Pine.. but

    our northwest fir that is in the coastal mountains were we had our tree farms virtually never burns. and there is no beetles in fir and Cedar..   but I hear what your saying for sure.

    my old partner in the timber business his wife measured wealth ONLY ONE WAY  CASH in the BANK period end of discussion.. and even then she would say its just numbers on paper.. but I would counter those are some pretty big numbers  LOL

    @DL Martin  agreed  we sacrificed  my kids NEVER spent a day in day care.. unless it was just to socialize and play time.. Now a days my wife sells real estate at her leisure.. and of course its all about the grandkids..  Many in the medical field though are frustrated with pay systems and healthcare reimbursements.. its not all wine and roses :)  but the folks I know in medicine like you say do quite well and are intelligent enough to invest wisely.  Same with airline pilots those are some pretty savvy investors and they do well if they have not been divorced to many times :)

    End of the day Family office wealth from what I see is usually created by owning a business for a few generations, taking some idea public .. and real estate is a something to diversify into.. although of course there are many many very wealthy developer and commercial asset folks.. not so much in the SFR realm as its only been the last 20 years or so that the idea of stacking up SFR's has come into vogue.. of course if you bought SFR's In the SF bay area in the 80s and have more than 10 or so and did not leverage your net worth is north of 10 million on just ten SFrs

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    Real Estate Broker · Canton, GA · Member since 2010 · 15k+ posts · 11k+ votes
    8y

    I think some of us know very wealthy people financially.

    Some I know have 9 figures of wealth. Oddly enough they covet TIME and HAPPY  LIFE EXPERIENCES more than money.

    When they get that amount of money and age they realize whether you have 100 dollars or 100 million that clock is ticking away so you better get busy enjoying your life while you can. That is why I do not buy into the (MISER) strategy.

    I lost my dad in car wreck when I was 16, my best friend's dad to cancer, and my grandmother that same year. I have seen lots of losses in my life so I value my time a lot. Those years keep on going by. I am fixing to be 43 years old. Get busy living your happy life today and not being miserable living for decades to possibly enjoy a future time that may never come to pass. Live within your means but enjoy life today.

    Example you make 100k a year but live like 80k is no good. You make 500k a year but live like 100k then still have room to invest and enjoy life. If you make 50k a year only so much you can do and save. If that is you learn how to grow a business, learn a higher paying trade,etc. to boost your income and returns.   

    Also cost of living is huge by state. Cali 100k a year is nothing. In GA you can make it go pretty far.

  • Investor · Saint Paul, MN · Member since 2015 · 663 posts · 512 votes
    8y

    DL Martin

    You'll need to read the book Millionaire next door, because the research they did proves you wrong when .   Also, if as you say "the Web Designer is greedy because he makes his wife work."  That to me is a pretty offensive statement to a family that is making sure that their family will be able to prosper in the future with great net worth by working their butts off to achieve their goals.   The income level you make technically does make you wealthy according to the , it's determined by what you do with it.   You might want to read Robert Kiyosaki, who talks about how using assets to buy other assets makes one very wealthy.    Liabilities such as cars, toys and vacations don't make anyone wealthy or obtain a high networth.    Again, that's why my example shows how someone with a lower income can out perform a higher income earner over the long term based on their philosophies with money and obtain a higher networth.  It's all  about the ratios.   Use this calculation from the Millionaire Next door to determine what you networth should be based on your income and compare that to another person who makes more or less.  

    Target Net Worth = Age X Annual Pre-Tax Income / 10

  • Investor · Saint Paul, MN · Member since 2015 · 663 posts · 512 votes
    8y

    @DL Martin

    You may want to do some more reading.   The Millionaire next door compares a Doctor to someone with a blue color job making much less is what's called a UAW (underachiever of wealth).  That means someone who makes a great income, but has nothing to show for it, except liabilities.  Pretty common amongst people who make a high income.    The calculation they suggest using to see how you're using your money is

    Target Net Worth = Age X Annual Pre-Tax Income / 10

    So just because you make a lot of money doesn't mean your wealthy.  According to Webster's dictionary, wealth is defined as:  

    abundance of valuable material possessions or resources

    So although a wealthy person can have a lot of material possessions, their resources will be minimal if they choose to spend their money on leases on cars, vacations and things that are liabilities.   

    A teacher and web designer that are greedy according to you is the same as all the doctors, male and female that i  support at a major university.  I see this all the time in my work place.   So according to you, everyone is greedy to make a better life for themselves, whether you make less money or a lot of money.  

  • Rental Property Investor · St. Paul, MN · Member since 2016 · 3k+ posts · 3k+ votes
    8y

    Being wealthy is all about being able to create the life style you desire for yourself and loves ones and to be able to sustain that indefinitely. I would also say it is being able to give back to society in ways that make you whole. 

  • Rental Property Investor · Cincinnati, OH · Member since 2013 · 292 posts · 280 votes
    8y
    Originally posted by @Marcus Johnson:

    DL Martin

    You'll need to read the book Millionaire next door, because the research they did proves you wrong when .   

    I'll agree to read The Millionaire Next Door (again) if you promise to get your act together and provide for your family so that your wife can stay home and take care of your kids. 

    The Millionaire Next Door also drives an F150 pickup truck. Do you drive an F150? If not, why not??? Maybe that's why your not a millionaire? 

    For my entire adult life I was an inner city ghetto street cop. Between my regular shifts, overtime and court appearances, I worked between 50 and 60 hours a week... Nights, Holidays and for several years, every single weekend, until I gained enough seniority to have Fri Sat and Sun off. I did that for 25+ years.  My wife was a stay at home mom. She also did all of the book keeping/taxes for our little Buy and Hold rental business that I worked at on my days off. I did that for over twenty years. 

    The payoff? A big, fat, happy California Public Pension paycheck every month for the rest of my life and a 39 unit apartment complex with a monthly mortgage smaller than The Grinch's tiny, shriveled up heart. 

    Fast forward to today. 

    We seem to be financially set. Even though "we didn't live like misers" in SoCal.  Along the way I've used and abused seven (7) Porsches. My Stay at Home wife drove BMW after BMW after BMW. We are now "retired" and she "owns" (not leases) an X5 Sport twin turbo. During the "crash" in 2008, we custom built a large home in SoCal for under $600k and when we fled California in 2015 we sold it for... "quite a bit" more than that. "They" all said that we were stupid for building during the crash. I wanted a super nice home for my family to live in. I suspected that we might make a few bucks on it when we sold it but I really didn't care. I needed a nice home for my family. Having nice stuff is worth it to some people. But I didn't have to send my wife off to a job every morning in order to pay for our "stuff" OR to pay for our "retirement."  I figured it out. I paid for it. She supported me, but I paid for it. 

    The Millionaire Next Door had some good points but I gleaned nothing from that book that added to my entrepreneurial or investing skillset. As a matter of fact, my biggest take away from the book when I read it nearly 20 years ago, was that private schools are a waste of money. Simply buy a house in an excellent public school district. Boom. Use that private school tuition money to invest in Real Estate. or Bitcoin?

    Please, before you pontificate on the financial ineptness of high income earners and high net worth individuals, please get to know a few of them. Believe it or not, generally speaking, they are not idiots/jackasses. 

    Handle your business. Let your wife stay home and love on your kids. 

    DL 

  • Investor · Laurel, MD · Member since 2016 · 395 posts · 191 votes
    8y

    Congratulations. How's your health. 

    Because wealth is something you would willingly sacrifice to get healthy.

    Being wealthy is the ability to meet your obligations and attain  your desires without undue concern.

    Without that you don't have peace of mind, without piece of mind you are probably not healthy.

    One last thing.

    If the pursuit of wealth means you are willing to take s**t from someone then you are not wealthy.

  • Anthony GaydenPro Member
    Rental Property Investor · Omaha, NE · Member since 2014 · 2k+ posts · 3k+ votes
    8y
    Originally posted by @Account Closed:

    To me being "wealthy" isn't a dollar amount, or a level of savings in the bank. Rather, it's how an individual makes their money. In my eyes anyone that relies on earned income is not wealthy. Regardless of how high their income is.

    A brain surgeon making $300,000 a year is not wealthy because they have to keep their foot on the accelerator to keep the money flowing. But a person making $50,000 a year passively is wealthy. This is just how I personally define wealth.

     I have to agree with Grant Cardone here, too many people take for granted the wealth building benefits of a JOB. This image of people sitting at home doing nothing and making a fortune is a fantasy. 

    My job allows me to have enough extra cash left over to invest. In the case of the doctor, he can save and invest a far greater sum of money than the average person. There are many doctors and high income earners who invest in real estate as well as other vehicles in order to maintain and grow their wealth. This would not even be possible without those large incomes.

    I personally do not have a career with an income that high, but I have a lot of money left over to save and invest. I like my career and have no intention of giving it up, but I like real estate as well and I already have multiple sources of income.

    If someone offered me a $300,000/yr job or $50,000 in passive income, I am going for the $300,000/yr.

  • Brie SchmidtBusiness Member
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    Real Estate Broker · Chicago, IL · Member since 2013 · 6k+ posts · 5k+ votes
    8y

    Lots of good points on this thread.  I am a lifestyle investor, so to me time and experiences are more important than money.  I considered myself wealthy when I had the ability to work only when I wanted to, take 8-10 weeks of vacation a year, answer to nobody, and not worry about how my bills are paid.

    I don't profit $500k a year, but I make enough to do what I want with my life.  

    My car is 7 years old, my house is modest, I don't own a piece of clothing over $100.

    I get the opportunity to spend quality time with my loved ones and have memories that will far outweigh cash in the bank.  

    Could I make $500k next year? Yes.  But at what cost?  Cost of my marriage, cost of my health, cost of enjoying life?  In the end none of that is worth it.  I can't take the money with me and my kids will have more than I started with.  

    My parents were lower middle class, my Mom did nails and my Dad worked for the post office.  We lived in a townhouse and were able to afford a decent vacation every other year.  My parents were at dinner every night, every sporting event, and every Sunday was family quality time.  When my Dad passed 5 years ago, the day before he was supposed to retire, he wasn't concerned about providing more for his kids, he was glad that we got all those memories with him.  He died a man who lived a great life and had an impact on people.  

    Money is great, but it won't make you happy.  Mo money Mo Problems. 

  • Investor · Lebanon, OH · Member since 2014 · 14 posts · 3 votes
    8y

    Wealth to me is having a big fat Net Worth that flows enough cash to live comfortably and still continue to grow.  Real paycheck or contract work is purely optional.  No need for fancy vacations if you can live your life like a non extravagant vacation.

  • Yonah WeissPro Member
    Cost Segregation Expert and Investor · Lakewood, NJ · Member since 2017 · 1k+ posts · 1k+ votes
    8y

    Some really great posts here, especially @Dave Foster @Jay Hinrichs @Joel Owens @Brie Schmidt

    I would just add an ancient saying that I live with daily, along the lines of many of the previous posts

    "Who is wealthy? One who is happy with his lot." Being happy with what we have, is really the key to being wealthy, not focusing on what we don't have.

  • Investor · Saint Paul, MN · Member since 2015 · 663 posts · 512 votes
    8y

    @DL Martin

    As far as your opinion goes on what families should do, please stop judging people when you have no idea what you're talking about.  As for the F150 pickup truck, don't bother, I sold mine 2 years ago, because it costs so much to fix.  I bought it used with 109k miles on it and sold it with 170k.   Luckily I bought a reliable used Chevy Silverado that is very reliable and didn't cost that much.   

    As for you saying "Maybe that's why your not a millionaire?"   Again you have no clue what you're talking about.  Please tell me what my networth is since you know everything about me.

    I'm done with this conversation, it isn't worth my time.  

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