Just turned 30 and i’m financially free thanks to Bigger Pockets. Hello

Just turned 30 and i’m financially free thanks to Bigger Pockets. Hello

Matt RuhlPro Member
Member since 2022 · 1 post · 2 votes

My name is Matt Ruhl I started my real estate journey in 2019 during one of the hardest times in my life — going through a bad divorce.

Luckily, I was able to keep my house and eventually sold it, making a decent profit. At 24 years old, I was young and honestly made a lot of dumb financial decisions, spending much of that money on things that didn’t matter. Girls Partying and trips.

At one point, I had moved into a friend’s house and was living in a tiny spare bedroom that barely fit my queen-size bed. I remember thinking to myself: If I don’t do something smart with the money I have left, it’s going to disappear, and I’ll be stuck working my city job picking up trash downtown for the rest of my life.

That’s when I got hooked on BiggerPockets.

Almost every day during my 50-minute drive to and from work, I listened, learned, and soaked up knowledge from so many great investors and guests on the podcast.

With only about $10,000 left from what remained of the money I hadn’t already blown, I bought my first rental property — a very old, ugly triplex in a small town near where I grew up.

My parents told me not to buy it. Some friends thought it was a bad idea too. But I did it anyway.

That decision changed my life forever.

Today, the same parents who told me not to buy that first property now ask me for financial advice.

I focused on small multifamily properties in smaller towns and cities outside of Columbus, Ohio. By doing that, I was able to buy properties far cheaper than Columbus prices while still achieving strong rents after renovations.

I recently closed on my first trailer park and made the decision to leave my W-2 job.

Today, I can honestly say I’m financially free — and a huge part of that journey started with BiggerPockets.

You never know how much one decision can change the direction of your life.

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Sam McCormackBusiness Member
Real Estate Agent · Cincinnati, OH/NKY · Member since 2021 · 1k+ posts · 834 votes
5mo
Quote from @Matt Ruhl:

My name is Matt Ruhl I started my real estate journey in 2019 during one of the hardest times in my life — going through a bad divorce.

Luckily, I was able to keep my house and eventually sold it, making a decent profit. At 24 years old, I was young and honestly made a lot of dumb financial decisions, spending much of that money on things that didn’t matter. Girls Partying and trips.

At one point, I had moved into a friend’s house and was living in a tiny spare bedroom that barely fit my queen-size bed. I remember thinking to myself: If I don’t do something smart with the money I have left, it’s going to disappear, and I’ll be stuck working my city job picking up trash downtown for the rest of my life.

That’s when I got hooked on BiggerPockets.

Almost every day during my 50-minute drive to and from work, I listened, learned, and soaked up knowledge from so many great investors and guests on the podcast.

With only about $10,000 left from what remained of the money I hadn’t already blown, I bought my first rental property — a very old, ugly triplex in a small town near where I grew up.

My parents told me not to buy it. Some friends thought it was a bad idea too. But I did it anyway.

That decision changed my life forever.

Today, the same parents who told me not to buy that first property now ask me for financial advice.

I focused on small multifamily properties in smaller towns and cities outside of Columbus, Ohio. By doing that, I was able to buy properties far cheaper than Columbus prices while still achieving strong rents after renovations.

I recently closed on my first trailer park and made the decision to leave my W-2 job.

Today, I can honestly say I’m financially free — and a huge part of that journey started with BiggerPockets.

You never know how much one decision can change the direction of your life.


 Heck yeah man, that's sick. this reminds me of the book of 1 Kings. Elijah was told by God to go to Zarephath, meaning to smelt or melt, and from there he faced king Ahab to confront him of his sin and defeat 850 prophets of false Gods. You gotta be put through the furnace/fire to get the best of yourself, love it!

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  • J CastroBusiness Member
    Lender · Florida · Member since 2025 · 755 posts · 266 votes
    5mo

    Hi @Matt Ruhl, welocme to BP!
    Great story—and a strong reminder that the turning point in most investor journeys isn’t capital, it’s decision-making under uncertainty.

    From a lending perspective, what stands out here is exactly what creates long-term success:

    • starting small in markets where basis made sense
    • forcing appreciation through rehab and management
    • and staying consistent long enough for compounding to take effect

    A lot of investors underestimate how powerful that first “imperfect” deal is when it’s executed and held properly. It becomes the blueprint for everything that follows.

    Also worth noting from a financing standpoint—your path (small multifamily → forced appreciation → scaling into larger assets like mobile home parks) is very similar to what we see from operators who eventually graduate into more flexible capital structures like DSCR and portfolio lending.

    Appreciate you sharing this. Stories like this are a good reminder that timing matters far less than action and discipline once you’re in the game.

    JCREIG Capital Funding
  • Remington LymanBusiness Member
    Real Estate Agent · Columbus, OH · Member since 2017 · 6k+ posts · 7k+ votes
    5mo
    Quote from @Matt Ruhl:

    My name is Matt Ruhl I started my real estate journey in 2019 during one of the hardest times in my life — going through a bad divorce.

    Luckily, I was able to keep my house and eventually sold it, making a decent profit. At 24 years old, I was young and honestly made a lot of dumb financial decisions, spending much of that money on things that didn’t matter. Girls Partying and trips.

    At one point, I had moved into a friend’s house and was living in a tiny spare bedroom that barely fit my queen-size bed. I remember thinking to myself: If I don’t do something smart with the money I have left, it’s going to disappear, and I’ll be stuck working my city job picking up trash downtown for the rest of my life.

    That’s when I got hooked on BiggerPockets.

    Almost every day during my 50-minute drive to and from work, I listened, learned, and soaked up knowledge from so many great investors and guests on the podcast.

    With only about $10,000 left from what remained of the money I hadn’t already blown, I bought my first rental property — a very old, ugly triplex in a small town near where I grew up.

    My parents told me not to buy it. Some friends thought it was a bad idea too. But I did it anyway.

    That decision changed my life forever.

    Today, the same parents who told me not to buy that first property now ask me for financial advice.

    I focused on small multifamily properties in smaller towns and cities outside of Columbus, Ohio. By doing that, I was able to buy properties far cheaper than Columbus prices while still achieving strong rents after renovations.

    I recently closed on my first trailer park and made the decision to leave my W-2 job.

    Today, I can honestly say I’m financially free — and a huge part of that journey started with BiggerPockets.

    You never know how much one decision can change the direction of your life.


     Great story! Real estate investing has changed my life as well!

  • Sam McCormackBusiness Member
    Real Estate Agent · Cincinnati, OH/NKY · Member since 2021 · 1k+ posts · 834 votes
    5mo
    Quote from @Matt Ruhl:

    My name is Matt Ruhl I started my real estate journey in 2019 during one of the hardest times in my life — going through a bad divorce.

    Luckily, I was able to keep my house and eventually sold it, making a decent profit. At 24 years old, I was young and honestly made a lot of dumb financial decisions, spending much of that money on things that didn’t matter. Girls Partying and trips.

    At one point, I had moved into a friend’s house and was living in a tiny spare bedroom that barely fit my queen-size bed. I remember thinking to myself: If I don’t do something smart with the money I have left, it’s going to disappear, and I’ll be stuck working my city job picking up trash downtown for the rest of my life.

    That’s when I got hooked on BiggerPockets.

    Almost every day during my 50-minute drive to and from work, I listened, learned, and soaked up knowledge from so many great investors and guests on the podcast.

    With only about $10,000 left from what remained of the money I hadn’t already blown, I bought my first rental property — a very old, ugly triplex in a small town near where I grew up.

    My parents told me not to buy it. Some friends thought it was a bad idea too. But I did it anyway.

    That decision changed my life forever.

    Today, the same parents who told me not to buy that first property now ask me for financial advice.

    I focused on small multifamily properties in smaller towns and cities outside of Columbus, Ohio. By doing that, I was able to buy properties far cheaper than Columbus prices while still achieving strong rents after renovations.

    I recently closed on my first trailer park and made the decision to leave my W-2 job.

    Today, I can honestly say I’m financially free — and a huge part of that journey started with BiggerPockets.

    You never know how much one decision can change the direction of your life.


     Heck yeah man, that's sick. this reminds me of the book of 1 Kings. Elijah was told by God to go to Zarephath, meaning to smelt or melt, and from there he faced king Ahab to confront him of his sin and defeat 850 prophets of false Gods. You gotta be put through the furnace/fire to get the best of yourself, love it!

    Sam McCormack Realtor
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