One Coffee. One Conversation. Life Changing Moment....

One Coffee. One Conversation. Life Changing Moment....

Developer · Chicago · Member since 2025 · 111 posts · 103 votes

I had a coffee meeting today with a well-respected figure in real estate that turned into something far beyond what I expected. This wasn't just networking - it was a shift. He told me he sees something in me. He said he'll personally mentor me to help perfect my pitch and business plan - and he wasn't playing. He gave me real homework assignments, and we'll be meeting again to make sure I can articulate the vision, not just dream it. And the most life-changing part?

He said I don't need to worry about funding - he and his team will provide that once the vision is solid and well-crafted, he insisted that money isn't an issue. He is helping me make sure that my vision is solid. But he says he sees my potential or else he would have not taken time out of his very busy schedule to meet with me. He says I am on his radar.

He also told me something that stuck: move intentionally - and be willing to cut ties quickly with anyone who doesn't align with the mission. This journey isn't about pleasing everyone. It's about precision, purpose, and positioning. I'm still taking it all in, but I wanted to share this as a reminder: the right people will meet you where you are - if you're willing to show up prepared, focused, and open.

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Bruce WoodruffPro Member
Contractor/Investor/Consultant · San Diego / Phoenix · Member since 2021 · 12k+ posts · 15k+ votes
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Quote from @Eshe Harvey:
Quote from @Jaycee Greene:
Quote from @Eshe Harvey:

I had a coffee meeting today with a well-respected figure in real estate that turned into something far beyond what I expected. This wasn't just networking - it was a shift. He told me he sees something in me. He said he'll personally mentor me to help perfect my pitch and business plan - and he wasn't playing. He gave me real homework assignments, and we'll be meeting again to make sure I can articulate the vision, not just dream it. And the most life-changing part?

He said I don't need to worry about funding - he and his team will provide that once the vision is solid and well-crafted, he insisted that money isn't an issue. He is helping me make sure that my vision is solid. But he says he sees my potential or else he would have not taken time out of his very busy schedule to meet with me. He says I am on his radar.

He also told me something that stuck: move intentionally - and be willing to cut ties quickly with anyone who doesn't align with the mission. This journey isn't about pleasing everyone. It's about precision, purpose, and positioning. I'm still taking it all in, but I wanted to share this as a reminder: the right people will meet you where you are - if you're willing to show up prepared, focused, and open.

Hi @Eshe Harvey. As you obviously know, this is tremendously valuable for you. How did you first come in contact with this person? 


 I went to a real estate networking event. We talked for like an hour there and then he said he would love to talk more in person over some coffee and breakfast in a quiet atmosphere. So that was yesterday and he voluntarily agreed to mentor me and provide the capital, him and other wealthy people that he personally know are looking for great ideas to invest in . I am forever thankful. Now the pressure is really on. 


I hate to be the cynic here, but having been around the block a few thousand times.....have you vetted this individual? Checked his background, his past partners, employees, etc....It's easy to do nowadays online. Even though he and his pals are allegedly putting up all the money does not make this a safe deal for you...just be careful.

Not to say you should be looking a gift horse in the mouth, but you know what they say.....'if it's too good to be true....'

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  • Jaycee GreenePro Member
    Real Estate Consultant · St. Louis MSA · Member since 2024 · 3k+ posts · 727 votes
    1y
    Quote from @Eshe Harvey:

    I had a coffee meeting today with a well-respected figure in real estate that turned into something far beyond what I expected. This wasn't just networking - it was a shift. He told me he sees something in me. He said he'll personally mentor me to help perfect my pitch and business plan - and he wasn't playing. He gave me real homework assignments, and we'll be meeting again to make sure I can articulate the vision, not just dream it. And the most life-changing part?

    He said I don't need to worry about funding - he and his team will provide that once the vision is solid and well-crafted, he insisted that money isn't an issue. He is helping me make sure that my vision is solid. But he says he sees my potential or else he would have not taken time out of his very busy schedule to meet with me. He says I am on his radar.

    He also told me something that stuck: move intentionally - and be willing to cut ties quickly with anyone who doesn't align with the mission. This journey isn't about pleasing everyone. It's about precision, purpose, and positioning. I'm still taking it all in, but I wanted to share this as a reminder: the right people will meet you where you are - if you're willing to show up prepared, focused, and open.

    Hi @Eshe Harvey. As you obviously know, this is tremendously valuable for you. How did you first come in contact with this person? 

    • Developer · Chicago · Member since 2025 · 111 posts · 103 votes
      1y
      Quote from @Jaycee Greene:
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:

      I had a coffee meeting today with a well-respected figure in real estate that turned into something far beyond what I expected. This wasn't just networking - it was a shift. He told me he sees something in me. He said he'll personally mentor me to help perfect my pitch and business plan - and he wasn't playing. He gave me real homework assignments, and we'll be meeting again to make sure I can articulate the vision, not just dream it. And the most life-changing part?

      He said I don't need to worry about funding - he and his team will provide that once the vision is solid and well-crafted, he insisted that money isn't an issue. He is helping me make sure that my vision is solid. But he says he sees my potential or else he would have not taken time out of his very busy schedule to meet with me. He says I am on his radar.

      He also told me something that stuck: move intentionally - and be willing to cut ties quickly with anyone who doesn't align with the mission. This journey isn't about pleasing everyone. It's about precision, purpose, and positioning. I'm still taking it all in, but I wanted to share this as a reminder: the right people will meet you where you are - if you're willing to show up prepared, focused, and open.

      Hi @Eshe Harvey. As you obviously know, this is tremendously valuable for you. How did you first come in contact with this person? 


       I went to a real estate networking event. We talked for like an hour there and then he said he would love to talk more in person over some coffee and breakfast in a quiet atmosphere. So that was yesterday and he voluntarily agreed to mentor me and provide the capital, him and other wealthy people that he personally know are looking for great ideas to invest in . I am forever thankful. Now the pressure is really on. 

    • Bruce WoodruffPro Member
      Contractor/Investor/Consultant · San Diego / Phoenix · Member since 2021 · 12k+ posts · 15k+ votes
      1y
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:
      Quote from @Jaycee Greene:
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:

      I had a coffee meeting today with a well-respected figure in real estate that turned into something far beyond what I expected. This wasn't just networking - it was a shift. He told me he sees something in me. He said he'll personally mentor me to help perfect my pitch and business plan - and he wasn't playing. He gave me real homework assignments, and we'll be meeting again to make sure I can articulate the vision, not just dream it. And the most life-changing part?

      He said I don't need to worry about funding - he and his team will provide that once the vision is solid and well-crafted, he insisted that money isn't an issue. He is helping me make sure that my vision is solid. But he says he sees my potential or else he would have not taken time out of his very busy schedule to meet with me. He says I am on his radar.

      He also told me something that stuck: move intentionally - and be willing to cut ties quickly with anyone who doesn't align with the mission. This journey isn't about pleasing everyone. It's about precision, purpose, and positioning. I'm still taking it all in, but I wanted to share this as a reminder: the right people will meet you where you are - if you're willing to show up prepared, focused, and open.

      Hi @Eshe Harvey. As you obviously know, this is tremendously valuable for you. How did you first come in contact with this person? 


       I went to a real estate networking event. We talked for like an hour there and then he said he would love to talk more in person over some coffee and breakfast in a quiet atmosphere. So that was yesterday and he voluntarily agreed to mentor me and provide the capital, him and other wealthy people that he personally know are looking for great ideas to invest in . I am forever thankful. Now the pressure is really on. 


      I hate to be the cynic here, but having been around the block a few thousand times.....have you vetted this individual? Checked his background, his past partners, employees, etc....It's easy to do nowadays online. Even though he and his pals are allegedly putting up all the money does not make this a safe deal for you...just be careful.

      Not to say you should be looking a gift horse in the mouth, but you know what they say.....'if it's too good to be true....'

    • Jaycee GreenePro Member
      Real Estate Consultant · St. Louis MSA · Member since 2024 · 3k+ posts · 727 votes
      1y
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:
      Quote from @Jaycee Greene:
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:

      I had a coffee meeting today with a well-respected figure in real estate that turned into something far beyond what I expected. This wasn't just networking - it was a shift. He told me he sees something in me. He said he'll personally mentor me to help perfect my pitch and business plan - and he wasn't playing. He gave me real homework assignments, and we'll be meeting again to make sure I can articulate the vision, not just dream it. And the most life-changing part?

      He said I don't need to worry about funding - he and his team will provide that once the vision is solid and well-crafted, he insisted that money isn't an issue. He is helping me make sure that my vision is solid. But he says he sees my potential or else he would have not taken time out of his very busy schedule to meet with me. He says I am on his radar.

      He also told me something that stuck: move intentionally - and be willing to cut ties quickly with anyone who doesn't align with the mission. This journey isn't about pleasing everyone. It's about precision, purpose, and positioning. I'm still taking it all in, but I wanted to share this as a reminder: the right people will meet you where you are - if you're willing to show up prepared, focused, and open.

      Hi @Eshe Harvey. As you obviously know, this is tremendously valuable for you. How did you first come in contact with this person? 


       I went to a real estate networking event. We talked for like an hour there and then he said he would love to talk more in person over some coffee and breakfast in a quiet atmosphere. So that was yesterday and he voluntarily agreed to mentor me and provide the capital, him and other wealthy people that he personally know are looking for great ideas to invest in . I am forever thankful. Now the pressure is really on. 

      @Eshe Harvey What is your homework?

    • Developer · Chicago · Member since 2025 · 111 posts · 103 votes
      1y
      Quote from @Jaycee Greene:
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:
      Quote from @Jaycee Greene:
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:

      I had a coffee meeting today with a well-respected figure in real estate that turned into something far beyond what I expected. This wasn't just networking - it was a shift. He told me he sees something in me. He said he'll personally mentor me to help perfect my pitch and business plan - and he wasn't playing. He gave me real homework assignments, and we'll be meeting again to make sure I can articulate the vision, not just dream it. And the most life-changing part?

      He said I don't need to worry about funding - he and his team will provide that once the vision is solid and well-crafted, he insisted that money isn't an issue. He is helping me make sure that my vision is solid. But he says he sees my potential or else he would have not taken time out of his very busy schedule to meet with me. He says I am on his radar.

      He also told me something that stuck: move intentionally - and be willing to cut ties quickly with anyone who doesn't align with the mission. This journey isn't about pleasing everyone. It's about precision, purpose, and positioning. I'm still taking it all in, but I wanted to share this as a reminder: the right people will meet you where you are - if you're willing to show up prepared, focused, and open.

      Hi @Eshe Harvey. As you obviously know, this is tremendously valuable for you. How did you first come in contact with this person? 


       I went to a real estate networking event. We talked for like an hour there and then he said he would love to talk more in person over some coffee and breakfast in a quiet atmosphere. So that was yesterday and he voluntarily agreed to mentor me and provide the capital, him and other wealthy people that he personally know are looking for great ideas to invest in . I am forever thankful. Now the pressure is really on. 

      @Eshe Harvey What is your homework?


      The first assignment I was given was to deliver a clear mission statement by a set deadline. From there, the plan is to start working on crafting my pitch and learning how to articulate it effectively. That structure pushed me to organize my vision with more clarity and gave me a real sense of accountability. It’s been helping me move with even more purpose and preparation for upcoming opportunities

    • Developer · Chicago · Member since 2025 · 111 posts · 103 votes
      1y
      Quote from @Bruce Woodruff:
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:
      Quote from @Jaycee Greene:
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:

      I had a coffee meeting today with a well-respected figure in real estate that turned into something far beyond what I expected. This wasn't just networking - it was a shift. He told me he sees something in me. He said he'll personally mentor me to help perfect my pitch and business plan - and he wasn't playing. He gave me real homework assignments, and we'll be meeting again to make sure I can articulate the vision, not just dream it. And the most life-changing part?

      He said I don't need to worry about funding - he and his team will provide that once the vision is solid and well-crafted, he insisted that money isn't an issue. He is helping me make sure that my vision is solid. But he says he sees my potential or else he would have not taken time out of his very busy schedule to meet with me. He says I am on his radar.

      He also told me something that stuck: move intentionally - and be willing to cut ties quickly with anyone who doesn't align with the mission. This journey isn't about pleasing everyone. It's about precision, purpose, and positioning. I'm still taking it all in, but I wanted to share this as a reminder: the right people will meet you where you are - if you're willing to show up prepared, focused, and open.

      Hi @Eshe Harvey. As you obviously know, this is tremendously valuable for you. How did you first come in contact with this person? 


       I went to a real estate networking event. We talked for like an hour there and then he said he would love to talk more in person over some coffee and breakfast in a quiet atmosphere. So that was yesterday and he voluntarily agreed to mentor me and provide the capital, him and other wealthy people that he personally know are looking for great ideas to invest in . I am forever thankful. Now the pressure is really on. 


      I hate to be the cynic here, but having been around the block a few thousand times.....have you vetted this individual? Checked his background, his past partners, employees, etc....It's easy to do nowadays online. Even though he and his pals are allegedly putting up all the money does not make this a safe deal for you...just be careful.

      Not to say you should be looking a gift horse in the mouth, but you know what they say.....'if it's too good to be true....'


      I completely understand your concern—due diligence is critical in this business. Fortunately, this isn’t a random opportunity. The individual I’m working with is a highly respected name in real estate who has founded and led multiple top-performing brokerages. His track record, reputation, and network speak for themselves. I’m still approaching everything with care and intention, but I also recognize when the right alignment presents itself. Trust that I’m navigating this with eyes wide open

    • Jaycee GreenePro Member
      Real Estate Consultant · St. Louis MSA · Member since 2024 · 3k+ posts · 727 votes
      1y
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:
      Quote from @Jaycee Greene:
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:
      Quote from @Jaycee Greene:
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:

      I had a coffee meeting today with a well-respected figure in real estate that turned into something far beyond what I expected. This wasn't just networking - it was a shift. He told me he sees something in me. He said he'll personally mentor me to help perfect my pitch and business plan - and he wasn't playing. He gave me real homework assignments, and we'll be meeting again to make sure I can articulate the vision, not just dream it. And the most life-changing part?

      He said I don't need to worry about funding - he and his team will provide that once the vision is solid and well-crafted, he insisted that money isn't an issue. He is helping me make sure that my vision is solid. But he says he sees my potential or else he would have not taken time out of his very busy schedule to meet with me. He says I am on his radar.

      He also told me something that stuck: move intentionally - and be willing to cut ties quickly with anyone who doesn't align with the mission. This journey isn't about pleasing everyone. It's about precision, purpose, and positioning. I'm still taking it all in, but I wanted to share this as a reminder: the right people will meet you where you are - if you're willing to show up prepared, focused, and open.

      Hi @Eshe Harvey. As you obviously know, this is tremendously valuable for you. How did you first come in contact with this person? 


       I went to a real estate networking event. We talked for like an hour there and then he said he would love to talk more in person over some coffee and breakfast in a quiet atmosphere. So that was yesterday and he voluntarily agreed to mentor me and provide the capital, him and other wealthy people that he personally know are looking for great ideas to invest in . I am forever thankful. Now the pressure is really on. 

      @Eshe Harvey What is your homework?


      The first assignment I was given was to deliver a clear mission statement by a set deadline. From there, the plan is to start working on crafting my pitch and learning how to articulate it effectively. That structure pushed me to organize my vision with more clarity and gave me a real sense of accountability. It’s been helping me move with even more purpose and preparation for upcoming opportunities

      @Eshe Harvey And how do you foresee that mission statement translating into real estate?

      I'm not just asking to add posts to my profile, but I've worked with similar developers whose mission is to give back to their community through their real estate development skills, particularly in an area/neighborhood where they grew up, they still go to church in, or have relatives that still live in...which I'm getting a slight glimmer of that with you...though I could be wrong!

    • Developer · Chicago · Member since 2025 · 111 posts · 103 votes
      1y
      Quote from @Jaycee Greene:
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:
      Quote from @Jaycee Greene:
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:
      Quote from @Jaycee Greene:
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:

      I had a coffee meeting today with a well-respected figure in real estate that turned into something far beyond what I expected. This wasn't just networking - it was a shift. He told me he sees something in me. He said he'll personally mentor me to help perfect my pitch and business plan - and he wasn't playing. He gave me real homework assignments, and we'll be meeting again to make sure I can articulate the vision, not just dream it. And the most life-changing part?

      He said I don't need to worry about funding - he and his team will provide that once the vision is solid and well-crafted, he insisted that money isn't an issue. He is helping me make sure that my vision is solid. But he says he sees my potential or else he would have not taken time out of his very busy schedule to meet with me. He says I am on his radar.

      He also told me something that stuck: move intentionally - and be willing to cut ties quickly with anyone who doesn't align with the mission. This journey isn't about pleasing everyone. It's about precision, purpose, and positioning. I'm still taking it all in, but I wanted to share this as a reminder: the right people will meet you where you are - if you're willing to show up prepared, focused, and open.

      Hi @Eshe Harvey. As you obviously know, this is tremendously valuable for you. How did you first come in contact with this person? 


       I went to a real estate networking event. We talked for like an hour there and then he said he would love to talk more in person over some coffee and breakfast in a quiet atmosphere. So that was yesterday and he voluntarily agreed to mentor me and provide the capital, him and other wealthy people that he personally know are looking for great ideas to invest in . I am forever thankful. Now the pressure is really on. 

      @Eshe Harvey What is your homework?


      The first assignment I was given was to deliver a clear mission statement by a set deadline. From there, the plan is to start working on crafting my pitch and learning how to articulate it effectively. That structure pushed me to organize my vision with more clarity and gave me a real sense of accountability. It’s been helping me move with even more purpose and preparation for upcoming opportunities

      @Eshe Harvey And how do you foresee that mission statement translating into real estate?

      I'm not just asking to add posts to my profile, but I've worked with similar developers whose mission is to give back to their community through their real estate development skills, particularly in an area/neighborhood where they grew up, they still go to church in, or have relatives that still live in...which I'm getting a slight glimmer of that with you...though I could be wrong!


      Community is definitely important to me—especially as someone who understands the power of reinvesting in areas with cultural and personal roots. At the same time, I’m also broadening my horizons and intentionally not limiting myself. I see value in expanding into emerging markets and exploring opportunities beyond just the neighborhoods I’m connected to. My mission is grounded in impact, but my vision is built for scale.

    • Developer · Chicago · Member since 2025 · 111 posts · 103 votes
      1y
      Quote from @Jaycee Greene:
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:
      Quote from @Jaycee Greene:
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:
      Quote from @Jaycee Greene:
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:

      I had a coffee meeting today with a well-respected figure in real estate that turned into something far beyond what I expected. This wasn't just networking - it was a shift. He told me he sees something in me. He said he'll personally mentor me to help perfect my pitch and business plan - and he wasn't playing. He gave me real homework assignments, and we'll be meeting again to make sure I can articulate the vision, not just dream it. And the most life-changing part?

      He said I don't need to worry about funding - he and his team will provide that once the vision is solid and well-crafted, he insisted that money isn't an issue. He is helping me make sure that my vision is solid. But he says he sees my potential or else he would have not taken time out of his very busy schedule to meet with me. He says I am on his radar.

      He also told me something that stuck: move intentionally - and be willing to cut ties quickly with anyone who doesn't align with the mission. This journey isn't about pleasing everyone. It's about precision, purpose, and positioning. I'm still taking it all in, but I wanted to share this as a reminder: the right people will meet you where you are - if you're willing to show up prepared, focused, and open.

      Hi @Eshe Harvey. As you obviously know, this is tremendously valuable for you. How did you first come in contact with this person? 


       I went to a real estate networking event. We talked for like an hour there and then he said he would love to talk more in person over some coffee and breakfast in a quiet atmosphere. So that was yesterday and he voluntarily agreed to mentor me and provide the capital, him and other wealthy people that he personally know are looking for great ideas to invest in . I am forever thankful. Now the pressure is really on. 

      @Eshe Harvey What is your homework?


      The first assignment I was given was to deliver a clear mission statement by a set deadline. From there, the plan is to start working on crafting my pitch and learning how to articulate it effectively. That structure pushed me to organize my vision with more clarity and gave me a real sense of accountability. It’s been helping me move with even more purpose and preparation for upcoming opportunities

      @Eshe Harvey And how do you foresee that mission statement translating into real estate?

      I'm not just asking to add posts to my profile, but I've worked with similar developers whose mission is to give back to their community through their real estate development skills, particularly in an area/neighborhood where they grew up, they still go to church in, or have relatives that still live in...which I'm getting a slight glimmer of that with you...though I could be wrong!


      If you’re willing to connect, I’d be more than happy to share my mission statement with you. So you could get a better scope of my vision. :)

    • Jaycee GreenePro Member
      Real Estate Consultant · St. Louis MSA · Member since 2024 · 3k+ posts · 727 votes
      1y
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:
      Quote from @Jaycee Greene:
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:
      Quote from @Jaycee Greene:
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:
      Quote from @Jaycee Greene:
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:

      I had a coffee meeting today with a well-respected figure in real estate that turned into something far beyond what I expected. This wasn't just networking - it was a shift. He told me he sees something in me. He said he'll personally mentor me to help perfect my pitch and business plan - and he wasn't playing. He gave me real homework assignments, and we'll be meeting again to make sure I can articulate the vision, not just dream it. And the most life-changing part?

      He said I don't need to worry about funding - he and his team will provide that once the vision is solid and well-crafted, he insisted that money isn't an issue. He is helping me make sure that my vision is solid. But he says he sees my potential or else he would have not taken time out of his very busy schedule to meet with me. He says I am on his radar.

      He also told me something that stuck: move intentionally - and be willing to cut ties quickly with anyone who doesn't align with the mission. This journey isn't about pleasing everyone. It's about precision, purpose, and positioning. I'm still taking it all in, but I wanted to share this as a reminder: the right people will meet you where you are - if you're willing to show up prepared, focused, and open.

      Hi @Eshe Harvey. As you obviously know, this is tremendously valuable for you. How did you first come in contact with this person? 


       I went to a real estate networking event. We talked for like an hour there and then he said he would love to talk more in person over some coffee and breakfast in a quiet atmosphere. So that was yesterday and he voluntarily agreed to mentor me and provide the capital, him and other wealthy people that he personally know are looking for great ideas to invest in . I am forever thankful. Now the pressure is really on. 

      @Eshe Harvey What is your homework?


      The first assignment I was given was to deliver a clear mission statement by a set deadline. From there, the plan is to start working on crafting my pitch and learning how to articulate it effectively. That structure pushed me to organize my vision with more clarity and gave me a real sense of accountability. It’s been helping me move with even more purpose and preparation for upcoming opportunities

      @Eshe Harvey And how do you foresee that mission statement translating into real estate?

      I'm not just asking to add posts to my profile, but I've worked with similar developers whose mission is to give back to their community through their real estate development skills, particularly in an area/neighborhood where they grew up, they still go to church in, or have relatives that still live in...which I'm getting a slight glimmer of that with you...though I could be wrong!


      If you’re willing to connect, I’d be more than happy to share my mission statement with you. So you could get a better scope of my vision. :)

       @Eshe Harvey Please do!

    • Developer · Chicago · Member since 2025 · 111 posts · 103 votes
      1y
      Quote from @Jaycee Greene:
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:
      Quote from @Jaycee Greene:
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:
      Quote from @Jaycee Greene:
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:
      Quote from @Jaycee Greene:
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:

      I had a coffee meeting today with a well-respected figure in real estate that turned into something far beyond what I expected. This wasn't just networking - it was a shift. He told me he sees something in me. He said he'll personally mentor me to help perfect my pitch and business plan - and he wasn't playing. He gave me real homework assignments, and we'll be meeting again to make sure I can articulate the vision, not just dream it. And the most life-changing part?

      He said I don't need to worry about funding - he and his team will provide that once the vision is solid and well-crafted, he insisted that money isn't an issue. He is helping me make sure that my vision is solid. But he says he sees my potential or else he would have not taken time out of his very busy schedule to meet with me. He says I am on his radar.

      He also told me something that stuck: move intentionally - and be willing to cut ties quickly with anyone who doesn't align with the mission. This journey isn't about pleasing everyone. It's about precision, purpose, and positioning. I'm still taking it all in, but I wanted to share this as a reminder: the right people will meet you where you are - if you're willing to show up prepared, focused, and open.

      Hi @Eshe Harvey. As you obviously know, this is tremendously valuable for you. How did you first come in contact with this person? 


       I went to a real estate networking event. We talked for like an hour there and then he said he would love to talk more in person over some coffee and breakfast in a quiet atmosphere. So that was yesterday and he voluntarily agreed to mentor me and provide the capital, him and other wealthy people that he personally know are looking for great ideas to invest in . I am forever thankful. Now the pressure is really on. 

      @Eshe Harvey What is your homework?


      The first assignment I was given was to deliver a clear mission statement by a set deadline. From there, the plan is to start working on crafting my pitch and learning how to articulate it effectively. That structure pushed me to organize my vision with more clarity and gave me a real sense of accountability. It’s been helping me move with even more purpose and preparation for upcoming opportunities

      @Eshe Harvey And how do you foresee that mission statement translating into real estate?

      I'm not just asking to add posts to my profile, but I've worked with similar developers whose mission is to give back to their community through their real estate development skills, particularly in an area/neighborhood where they grew up, they still go to church in, or have relatives that still live in...which I'm getting a slight glimmer of that with you...though I could be wrong!


      If you’re willing to connect, I’d be more than happy to share my mission statement with you. So you could get a better scope of my vision. :)

       @Eshe Harvey Please do!


      Will do! I’ll have it over to you no later than tomorrow—can’t wait to hear your thoughts.

    • Rental Property Investor · Rocklin, CA · Member since 2018 · 42 posts · 9 votes
      1y
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:
      Quote from @Jaycee Greene:
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:
      Quote from @Jaycee Greene:
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:
      Quote from @Jaycee Greene:
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:

      I had a coffee meeting today with a well-respected figure in real estate that turned into something far beyond what I expected. This wasn't just networking - it was a shift. He told me he sees something in me. He said he'll personally mentor me to help perfect my pitch and business plan - and he wasn't playing. He gave me real homework assignments, and we'll be meeting again to make sure I can articulate the vision, not just dream it. And the most life-changing part?

      He said I don't need to worry about funding - he and his team will provide that once the vision is solid and well-crafted, he insisted that money isn't an issue. He is helping me make sure that my vision is solid. But he says he sees my potential or else he would have not taken time out of his very busy schedule to meet with me. He says I am on his radar.

      He also told me something that stuck: move intentionally - and be willing to cut ties quickly with anyone who doesn't align with the mission. This journey isn't about pleasing everyone. It's about precision, purpose, and positioning. I'm still taking it all in, but I wanted to share this as a reminder: the right people will meet you where you are - if you're willing to show up prepared, focused, and open.

      Hi @Eshe Harvey. As you obviously know, this is tremendously valuable for you. How did you first come in contact with this person? 


       I went to a real estate networking event. We talked for like an hour there and then he said he would love to talk more in person over some coffee and breakfast in a quiet atmosphere. So that was yesterday and he voluntarily agreed to mentor me and provide the capital, him and other wealthy people that he personally know are looking for great ideas to invest in . I am forever thankful. Now the pressure is really on. 

      @Eshe Harvey What is your homework?


      The first assignment I was given was to deliver a clear mission statement by a set deadline. From there, the plan is to start working on crafting my pitch and learning how to articulate it effectively. That structure pushed me to organize my vision with more clarity and gave me a real sense of accountability. It’s been helping me move with even more purpose and preparation for upcoming opportunities

      @Eshe Harvey And how do you foresee that mission statement translating into real estate?

      I'm not just asking to add posts to my profile, but I've worked with similar developers whose mission is to give back to their community through their real estate development skills, particularly in an area/neighborhood where they grew up, they still go to church in, or have relatives that still live in...which I'm getting a slight glimmer of that with you...though I could be wrong!


      If you’re willing to connect, I’d be more than happy to share my mission statement with you. So you could get a better scope of my vision. :)


       Also interested in the mission statement!

  • Bryce JamisonPro Member
    Rental Property Investor · Mebane, NC · Member since 2015 · 494 posts · 439 votes
    1y

    I have to agree with @Bruce Woodruff on this. I genuinely hope this man has pure intentions, but as I'm sure you know, men will take advantage of disproportionate power dynamics to get with women. Telling you he "sees something special in you", "money isn't an issue", "I am on his radar", and he'll "personally mentor you" raises concerns for me.

    This forum is filled with people looking for mentors. There's not a lot of uber successful people hand holding new investors through the entire process and fully funding them. Helping folks out and giving advice here and there is one thing, but what you're describing seems beyond mentorship. 

    I truly hope this is me being paranoid, but the last part about cutting ties with people who don't align with your mission sounds like laying the ground work from cutting you off from folks who think it's weird this man wants to personally mentor you. 

    • Developer · Chicago · Member since 2025 · 111 posts · 103 votes
      1y
      Quote from @Bryce Jamison:

      I have to agree with @Bruce Woodruff on this. I genuinely hope this man has pure intentions, but as I'm sure you know, men will take advantage of disproportionate power dynamics to get with women. Telling you he "sees something special in you", "money isn't an issue", "I am on his radar", and he'll "personally mentor you" raises concerns for me.

      This forum is filled with people looking for mentors. There's not a lot of uber successful people hand holding new investors through the entire process and fully funding them. Helping folks out and giving advice here and there is one thing, but what you're describing seems beyond mentorship. 

      I truly hope this is me being paranoid, but the last part about cutting ties with people who don't align with your mission sounds like laying the ground work from cutting you off from folks who think it's weird this man wants to personally mentor you. 

      Thanks for sharing your perspective, Bryce—I genuinely appreciate you looking out. I hear you on the power dynamics, and I’m definitely keeping my boundaries strong while navigating opportunities. That said, I’ve had enough experience to know when someone’s energy is off. I’m moving with discernment, and so far, this connection has been aligned with my professional goals. I’ll continue to be mindful, but I’m also open to building with those who genuinely believe in my vision.


  • New to Real Estate · Lynchburg, VA · Member since 2017 · 2 posts · 7 votes
    1y

    Wow! This is my fist time coming on a forum here, after making the decision to start my business; and your message is the first thing I see. Impactful!

    • Developer · Chicago · Member since 2025 · 111 posts · 103 votes
      1y
      Quote from @Tomika Louissaint:

      Wow! This is my fist time coming on a forum here, after making the decision to start my business; and your message is the first thing I see. Impactful!


      Well welcome, Tomika! I’m so glad you’re here. It means a lot that my message was the first thing you saw — wishing you so much success on your new journey!

  • Joe S.Pro Member
    Investor · San Antonio · Member since 2020 · 3k+ posts · 3k+ votes
    1y
    Quote from @Eshe Harvey:

    I had a coffee meeting today with a well-respected figure in real estate that turned into something far beyond what I expected. This wasn't just networking - it was a shift. He told me he sees something in me. He said he'll personally mentor me to help perfect my pitch and business plan - and he wasn't playing. He gave me real homework assignments, and we'll be meeting again to make sure I can articulate the vision, not just dream it. And the most life-changing part?

    He said I don't need to worry about funding - he and his team will provide that once the vision is solid and well-crafted, he insisted that money isn't an issue. He is helping me make sure that my vision is solid. But he says he sees my potential or else he would have not taken time out of his very busy schedule to meet with me. He says I am on his radar.

    He also told me something that stuck: move intentionally - and be willing to cut ties quickly with anyone who doesn't align with the mission. This journey isn't about pleasing everyone. It's about precision, purpose, and positioning. I'm still taking it all in, but I wanted to share this as a reminder: the right people will meet you where you are - if you're willing to show up prepared, focused, and open.

     Well………

    We shall see, won’t we?  🧐

    I have a hard time believing anyone with lots of money is going to just turn it over to you unless it benefits them. 

    • Developer · Chicago · Member since 2025 · 111 posts · 103 votes
      1y
      Quote from @Joe S.:
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:

      I had a coffee meeting today with a well-respected figure in real estate that turned into something far beyond what I expected. This wasn't just networking - it was a shift. He told me he sees something in me. He said he'll personally mentor me to help perfect my pitch and business plan - and he wasn't playing. He gave me real homework assignments, and we'll be meeting again to make sure I can articulate the vision, not just dream it. And the most life-changing part?

      He said I don't need to worry about funding - he and his team will provide that once the vision is solid and well-crafted, he insisted that money isn't an issue. He is helping me make sure that my vision is solid. But he says he sees my potential or else he would have not taken time out of his very busy schedule to meet with me. He says I am on his radar.

      He also told me something that stuck: move intentionally - and be willing to cut ties quickly with anyone who doesn't align with the mission. This journey isn't about pleasing everyone. It's about precision, purpose, and positioning. I'm still taking it all in, but I wanted to share this as a reminder: the right people will meet you where you are - if you're willing to show up prepared, focused, and open.

       Well………

      We shall see, won’t we?  🧐

      I have a hard time believing anyone with lots of money is going to just turn it over to you unless it benefits them. 

      I respect everyone’s opinion, but again, I’m confident in my ability to discern what aligns with my purpose. Let’s keep the focus on building and elevating, not assumptions.

      Thank you 

    • Joe S.Pro Member
      Investor · San Antonio · Member since 2020 · 3k+ posts · 3k+ votes
      1y
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:
      Quote from @Joe S.:
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:

      I had a coffee meeting today with a well-respected figure in real estate that turned into something far beyond what I expected. This wasn't just networking - it was a shift. He told me he sees something in me. He said he'll personally mentor me to help perfect my pitch and business plan - and he wasn't playing. He gave me real homework assignments, and we'll be meeting again to make sure I can articulate the vision, not just dream it. And the most life-changing part?

      He said I don't need to worry about funding - he and his team will provide that once the vision is solid and well-crafted, he insisted that money isn't an issue. He is helping me make sure that my vision is solid. But he says he sees my potential or else he would have not taken time out of his very busy schedule to meet with me. He says I am on his radar.

      He also told me something that stuck: move intentionally - and be willing to cut ties quickly with anyone who doesn't align with the mission. This journey isn't about pleasing everyone. It's about precision, purpose, and positioning. I'm still taking it all in, but I wanted to share this as a reminder: the right people will meet you where you are - if you're willing to show up prepared, focused, and open.

       Well………

      We shall see, won’t we?  🧐

      I have a hard time believing anyone with lots of money is going to just turn it over to you unless it benefits them. 

      I respect everyone’s opinion, but again, I’m confident in my ability to discern what aligns with my purpose. Let’s keep the focus on building and elevating, not assumptions.

      Thank you 

       Hopefully it is as good as you are thinking.😁

      Having personally been scammed, mislead, or manipulated many times in my life has made me a bit of a skeptic. 

      Not only that, but saying that money’s no issue is broad and could be misleading for a star eyed newbie. Yeah if you find the right deal money is no problem you can bring it to me too.. 😂 

      If you find the right deal, yeah, bring it to the guy and he can wholesale it and give you a bird-dog fee. 

      For your sake hopefully it is the real deal and you attracted the help of a person that has the best motives and  God sent him your way because you are highly favored of the Lord. 😇

  • Investor · Fort Washington, MD · Member since 2014 · 1k+ posts · 1k+ votes
    1y

    This is awesome on the face of it. I have had a few like that in my time. They are partially responsible for where I am now. I try to pay it forward here and there but so many are just not that serious and it just wastes time. Sounds like you have an ace here, but still, I advise to never let your guard down. Just looking at your profile pic, if that is you, there are several people that would throw all kinds of advice to you but have other stuff in mind. One thing that sounds great is his solid, established reputation. That goes a long way. Best of luck because a true and legitimate mentor like this, with no other motive aside from helping can be very limited. 

    • Developer · Chicago · Member since 2025 · 111 posts · 103 votes
      1y
      Quote from @Mark Cruse:

      This is awesome on the face of it. I have had a few like that in my time. They are partially responsible for where I am now. I try to pay it forward here and there but so many are just not that serious and it just wastes time. Sounds like you have an ace here, but still, I advise to never let your guard down. Just looking at your profile pic, if that is you, there are several people that would throw all kinds of advice to you but have other stuff in mind. One thing that sounds great is his solid, established reputation. That goes a long way. Best of luck because a true and legitimate mentor like this, with no other motive aside from helping can be very limited. 


      Thank you so much, Mark — I really appreciate your wisdom and perspective. I’m staying focused, intentional, and cautious as I navigate new connections and opportunities. I agree, genuine mentorship is rare — and I’m learning how to vet the energy behind the offers. It means a lot that you took the time to share this. I’m committed to building with vision and discernment. Appreciate the support!

    • Patience EchemPro Member
      Member since 2024 · 68 posts · 50 votes
      1y
      Quote from @Mark Cruse:

      This is awesome on the face of it. I have had a few like that in my time. They are partially responsible for where I am now. I try to pay it forward here and there but so many are just not that serious and it just wastes time. Sounds like you have an ace here, but still, I advise to never let your guard down. Just looking at your profile pic, if that is you, there are several people that would throw all kinds of advice to you but have other stuff in mind. One thing that sounds great is his solid, established reputation. That goes a long way. Best of luck because a true and legitimate mentor like this, with no other motive aside from helping can be very limited. 


       Bruce, you spoke my mind. Eshe, sorry we live in a world where we cannot let our guards and rejoice with such great news. This is because there often have been ulterior motives with cases such as yours. I am hoping he works out for you, but if he doesn't, with all the brotherly advice you are getting her, you will be unhurt. Perhaps the way you stated it is making us more cautious than grateful. One coffee meeting and one conversation is unlikely to reveal anyone's true colors much less commitment. If he is as good, please come back months later to share.  

    • Investor · Fort Washington, MD · Member since 2014 · 1k+ posts · 1k+ votes
      1y
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:
      Quote from @Mark Cruse:

      This is awesome on the face of it. I have had a few like that in my time. They are partially responsible for where I am now. I try to pay it forward here and there but so many are just not that serious and it just wastes time. Sounds like you have an ace here, but still, I advise to never let your guard down. Just looking at your profile pic, if that is you, there are several people that would throw all kinds of advice to you but have other stuff in mind. One thing that sounds great is his solid, established reputation. That goes a long way. Best of luck because a true and legitimate mentor like this, with no other motive aside from helping can be very limited. 


      Thank you so much, Mark — I really appreciate your wisdom and perspective. I’m staying focused, intentional, and cautious as I navigate new connections and opportunities. I agree, genuine mentorship is rare — and I’m learning how to vet the energy behind the offers. It means a lot that you took the time to share this. I’m committed to building with vision and discernment. Appreciate the support!

       You are welcome and you always have a network here. I hope this dude works out but please keep everything we have stated in mind. Once you start going to networking sessions and REIs more often, there's a significant chance more men will tell you the see something special in you. Just how things work. 

  • Realtor · Boulder, CO · Member since 2016 · 3k+ posts · 5k+ votes
    1y

    Sounds like this guy may be using the old Harvey Weinstein playbook. Lots of red flags here. Keep your head cool, be wary and don’t get swept off your feet with the cheap compliments, self-serving flattery and lofty promises. It’s easy to think you’re in control of a situation only to have it escalate quickly and become an entirely new situation that is out of control. Notice how alarm bells are ringing among the seasoned guys on here. They’re definitely not jealous or trying to ruin your career, they are looking out for you and have the benefit of seeing the situation from a distance. It's possible this person only has the best intentions, but also highly probably that they are attracted to you and this could get complicated quickly. Ask around about this guy, really do your due diligence, and be careful. If the "homework assignment" involves delivering your mission statement to him somewhere in private, I'd run the other direction. 

    • Bruce WoodruffPro Member
      Contractor/Investor/Consultant · San Diego / Phoenix · Member since 2021 · 12k+ posts · 15k+ votes
      1y
      Quote from @Steve K.:

      Sounds like this guy may be using the old Harvey Weinstein playbook. Lots of red flags here. Keep your head cool, be wary and don’t get swept off your feet with the cheap compliments, self-serving flattery and lofty promises. It’s easy to think you’re in control of a situation only to have it escalate quickly and become an entirely new situation that is out of control. Notice how alarm bells are ringing among the seasoned guys on here. They’re definitely not jealous or trying to ruin your career, they are looking out for you and have the benefit of seeing the situation from a distance. It's possible this person only has the best intentions, but also highly probably that they are attracted to you and this could get complicated quickly. Ask around about this guy, really do your due diligence, and be careful. If the "homework assignment" involves delivering your mission statement to him somewhere in private, I'd run the other direction. 

      Listen to @Steve K. ^^^there is a reason that all of the 'older' guys are concerned for you. We have no skin in the game, just experience.

  • Investor · Costa Mesa, CA · Member since 2016 · 1k+ posts · 1k+ votes
    1y

    “Lots of red flags here.” Agreed. Quid pro quo…

  • Developer · Chicago · Member since 2025 · 111 posts · 103 votes
    1y

    Conversation is valuable. Execution is priceless. 

  • Investor · Cleveland, OH · Member since 2025 · 23 posts · 34 votes
    1y

    1. “Don’t worry about funding” – Too Good to Be True?

    When someone promises funding early on without seeing a polished plan, execution, or traction, it can be a red flag. Real investors do due diligence. If money is promised without clear parameters, it might be:

    • A control tactic to win trust fast
    • A way to gain influence or ownership early without commitment in writing
    • An indication they’re not serious, just talking big

    2. Rapid Emotional Investment

    Saying things like “I see something in you” or “you’re on my radar” early on can feel validating—but it can also be a manipulation tactic to fast-track emotional trust. Real mentorship is earned over time, not promised after one coffee.

    3. Vague Mentorship with No Clear Terms

    While mentorship sounds great, if there’s no clarity on expectations, timeline, or intentions, it can lead to imbalance or even exploitation—especially if you start investing time and effort based on promises rather than agreements.

    4. Advice That Encourages Isolation

    “Cut ties quickly with anyone who doesn’t align with your mission” can sound powerful, but used incorrectly, it can lead to isolation, or worse, dependence on the mentor as your sole advisor. A strong founder needs a diverse set of voices—not just one.

    5. Power Dynamic

    If this person is significantly more experienced, wealthy, or connected, and is offering help without clear reciprocity or guardrails, it sets up a power imbalance. This can become problematic if boundaries aren't respected or expectations aren't matched.

    • Developer · New York City, NY · Member since 2015 · 812 posts · 718 votes
      1y
      Quote from @Tyler Palmer:

      1. “Don’t worry about funding” – Too Good to Be True?

      When someone promises funding early on without seeing a polished plan, execution, or traction, it can be a red flag. Real investors do due diligence. If money is promised without clear parameters, it might be:

      • A control tactic to win trust fast
      • A way to gain influence or ownership early without commitment in writing
      • An indication they’re not serious, just talking big

      2. Rapid Emotional Investment

      Saying things like “I see something in you” or “you’re on my radar” early on can feel validating—but it can also be a manipulation tactic to fast-track emotional trust. Real mentorship is earned over time, not promised after one coffee.

      3. Vague Mentorship with No Clear Terms

      While mentorship sounds great, if there’s no clarity on expectations, timeline, or intentions, it can lead to imbalance or even exploitation—especially if you start investing time and effort based on promises rather than agreements.

      4. Advice That Encourages Isolation

      “Cut ties quickly with anyone who doesn’t align with your mission” can sound powerful, but used incorrectly, it can lead to isolation, or worse, dependence on the mentor as your sole advisor. A strong founder needs a diverse set of voices—not just one.

      5. Power Dynamic

      If this person is significantly more experienced, wealthy, or connected, and is offering help without clear reciprocity or guardrails, it sets up a power imbalance. This can become problematic if boundaries aren't respected or expectations aren't matched.


      I believe there were TWO cups of coffee, not one.  This, of course, makes all the difference in the world...
    • Investor · Cleveland, OH · Member since 2025 · 23 posts · 34 votes
      1y

      @Calvin Thomas ... Very true, Calvin. Very true. ;)

  • Investor · Cleveland, OH · Member since 2025 · 23 posts · 34 votes
    1y

    With that being said-

    You mentioned in one of your responses that you have a knack for feeling people out. (Paraphrasing)

    Someone with a high level of intelligence that has honed their craft can easily manipulate the most discerning of people. Good manipulators don't get caught until it's too late. It's the ones who aren't very good that you've been able to spot out. 

  • Flipper/Rehabber · Rochester, NY · Member since 2014 · 1k+ posts · 1k+ votes
    1y

    I agree with others. So many red flags here. He sees something in you? You have potential?  He’ll personally mentor you? Don’t worry about funding? Be ready to break ties with important people in your life?!!

    But the biggest red flag is your homework, refining your vision / pitch. It’s all so vague, something to get you excited and dreamy, something to feel good about, but accomplishes nothing.


    In college they have classes called weeder classes early on in engineering majors. They are designed to be difficult, to see if you got what it takes to get through the next few years before wasting too much time. He should have given you something hard—like analyze 100 deals end make 10 offers. This is all feel good stuff he gave you. You’re in the R&D phase. You can develop a vision after you dip your toe into real estate, do a couple deals, and find out if it is even for you. He’s either after your pretty face or your pretty pocketbook.   

    • Developer · Chicago · Member since 2025 · 111 posts · 103 votes
      1y
      Quote from @Larry Turowski:

      I agree with others. So many red flags here. He sees something in you? You have potential?  He’ll personally mentor you? Don’t worry about funding? Be ready to break ties with important people in your life?!!

      Even if you weren’t pretty these would be red flags. 

      But the biggest red flag is your homework, refining your vision / pitch. It’s all so vague, something to get you excited and dreamy, something to feel good about, but accomplishes nothing.


      In college they have classes called weeder classes early on in engineering majors. They are designed to be difficult, to see if you got what it takes to get through the next few years before wasting too much time. He should have given you something hard—like analyze 100 deals end make 10 offers. This is all feel good stuff he gave you. You’re in the R&D phase. You can develop a vision after you dip your toe into real estate, do a couple deals, and find out if it is even for you. He’s either after your pretty face or your pretty pocketbook.   


      Thanks for your feedback. I do want to clarify that I already own a business and have been taking consistent action behind the scenes.

      I didn’t share every step word-for-word here because not all strategies are meant for public forums, but trust that I’m actively refining my pitch, building key relationships, and expanding my financial knowledge.

      Success isn’t about appearances or dreams — it’s about execution and results.

      I’m focused on doing the work, and I’m excited to let the results speak for themselves.

  • Austin, TX · Member since 2019 · 5k+ posts · 5k+ votes
    1y

    Ok--maybe he does like her and wants to date her--maybe it will work out ???


    With that being said I will give my thoughts on some of the things you said you were going to work on as your homework (Without any money in your pocket, and an unknown ability to borrow- which may be a leaf in the wind):

    (1)   "deliver a clear mission statement by a set deadline".      I have no mission statement. I have goals that I work towards. When I accomplished those goals, I set more goals. That's because I like achieving my goals. My goal is to live - well - and in a comfortable manner. I know real estate, I like it, and for me how I do things it is rather predictable. It has been my passion since I was a boy.

    (2)   "crafting my pitch and learning how to articulate it effectively".      I never look at something like a sales pitch. If I talk to someone about something I'll explain it to them if they're interested- if there's someone I want to do business with- which is not everyone because I'm not interested in doing business with problematic type people. Everyone is not the same in their goals in life, emotional makeup, and ethics.

    (3)   "organize my vision with more clarity and gave me a real sense of accountability".      Having a vision for something such as a particular property, lets you be in the driver's seat of it, or at least hoping to steer it in the right direction as much as possible. This is a good thing. 

    (4)   "It’s been helping me move with even more purpose and preparation for upcoming opportunities".      Realize that the opportunities are what you make out of them. In my thoughts opportunities do not come up. You have to have To be able to execute for profit yourself for it to be an opportunity.

    For instance let's say there is a 20 unit building four of the units are occupied, it has six cannibalized down units and the rest of the units are obsolete. For me there is no opportunity there because I don't want to go into a 20 unit building and rehab it at that level because of the risk involved. Although I could come up with a vision for it where I could look at it as being profitable. I don't want to have that type of real estate in my portfolio. It's too big of a risk carrying wise for me. But for someone else that may just be great for them.

    Good Luck!

  • Developer · Chicago · Member since 2025 · 111 posts · 103 votes
    1y

    Just to clarify — this wasn’t our first time meeting; it was our first one-on-one sit-down that he personally invited me to.

    I own a business with a defined mission, and I shared my strategy and experiences during our meeting.

    Cutting certain people off was based on private experiences I discussed with him — not random emotions.

    I appreciate the concerns, but please don’t accuse people without knowing the full backstory — which I still won’t be sharing.

    Some things are meant to stay offline. Thanks again.

  • Don KonipolBusiness Member
    Investor · The Woodlands TX / Avon, CT · Member since 2009 · 6k+ posts · 10k+ votes
    1y
    Quote from @Eshe Harvey:

    I had a coffee meeting today with a well-respected figure in real estate that turned into something far beyond what I expected. This wasn't just networking - it was a shift. He told me he sees something in me. He said he'll personally mentor me to help perfect my pitch and business plan - and he wasn't playing. He gave me real homework assignments, and we'll be meeting again to make sure I can articulate the vision, not just dream it. And the most life-changing part?

    He said I don't need to worry about funding - he and his team will provide that once the vision is solid and well-crafted, he insisted that money isn't an issue. He is helping me make sure that my vision is solid. But he says he sees my potential or else he would have not taken time out of his very busy schedule to meet with me. He says I am on his radar.

    He also told me something that stuck: move intentionally - and be willing to cut ties quickly with anyone who doesn't align with the mission. This journey isn't about pleasing everyone. It's about precision, purpose, and positioning. I'm still taking it all in, but I wanted to share this as a reminder: the right people will meet you where you are - if you're willing to show up prepared, focused, and open.

    So this from @Eshe Harvey page

    “This project reimagines a large, underutilized property in Chicago's South Shore neighborhood as a multi-use cultural and economic destination. Anchored in local pride but designed with global appeal, the vision includes ghost kitchens, creative studios, flexible event space, and marketplace for emerging entrepreneurs. AI driven tools will be integrated as well to assist with day-to-day operations, vendor coordination, and overall efficiency.

    Strategically positioned just minutes from the forthcoming Obama Presidential Center, the development is designed to complement the anticipated rise in tourism, investment, and foot traffic across Chicago's South Side. It presents a rare opportunity to activate an iconic site with both community impact and scalable economic returns.

    Currently in the planning phase-focused on gathering resident insight, cultivating brand partners, and aligning with forward-thinking investors and civic stakeholders ready to help shape a legacy project rooted in culture, commerce, and change.

    Due to the unique nature of this concept, additional project details may be shared upon request and may require a mutual non-disclosure agreement (NDA).

    Serious inquires only.”


    So, assuming this is the venture the OP is referring to in her post, we can see this is NOT the normal beginner investment we usually see or hear about. 

    We don’t know the education, knowledge, experience, ability, network, etc of Eshe Harvey, nor do we know the outside support this project may generate.  What we can assume from her posts is that she has great passion for the project; has a genuine belief that the project can be accomplished; and has positioned the project in a way that can attract both private and private funds, and possibly equity as well as grants. Also, Eshe Harvey appears to understand that she needs to bring in many individuals into the fold to help her achieve this projects success.

    She’s shooting for the moon; but what’s wrong with that?  She’s heeded the warnings (which I see as real concerns) but she being in the best position to judge doesn’t think the individual she’s met with has underhanded motives.  Most people wouldn’t have made it as far as she already has. 

    I hope she succeeds beyond’s her wildest dreams.  The best “American Success Story” are those who started with little or no capital and still were able to “put the deal together”.  I’ve seen a number of successes in my almost 50 years in real estate, and far too many failures, scams, and bankruptcies.  I hope this one is one of the successes.  


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    • Developer · Chicago · Member since 2025 · 111 posts · 103 votes
      1y
      Quote from @Don Konipol:
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:

      I had a coffee meeting today with a well-respected figure in real estate that turned into something far beyond what I expected. This wasn't just networking - it was a shift. He told me he sees something in me. He said he'll personally mentor me to help perfect my pitch and business plan - and he wasn't playing. He gave me real homework assignments, and we'll be meeting again to make sure I can articulate the vision, not just dream it. And the most life-changing part?

      He said I don't need to worry about funding - he and his team will provide that once the vision is solid and well-crafted, he insisted that money isn't an issue. He is helping me make sure that my vision is solid. But he says he sees my potential or else he would have not taken time out of his very busy schedule to meet with me. He says I am on his radar.

      He also told me something that stuck: move intentionally - and be willing to cut ties quickly with anyone who doesn't align with the mission. This journey isn't about pleasing everyone. It's about precision, purpose, and positioning. I'm still taking it all in, but I wanted to share this as a reminder: the right people will meet you where you are - if you're willing to show up prepared, focused, and open.

      So this from @Eshe Harvey page

      “This project reimagines a large, underutilized property in Chicago's South Shore neighborhood as a multi-use cultural and economic destination. Anchored in local pride but designed with global appeal, the vision includes ghost kitchens, creative studios, flexible event space, and marketplace for emerging entrepreneurs. AI driven tools will be integrated as well to assist with day-to-day operations, vendor coordination, and overall efficiency.

      Strategically positioned just minutes from the forthcoming Obama Presidential Center, the development is designed to complement the anticipated rise in tourism, investment, and foot traffic across Chicago's South Side. It presents a rare opportunity to activate an iconic site with both community impact and scalable economic returns.

      Currently in the planning phase-focused on gathering resident insight, cultivating brand partners, and aligning with forward-thinking investors and civic stakeholders ready to help shape a legacy project rooted in culture, commerce, and change.

      Due to the unique nature of this concept, additional project details may be shared upon request and may require a mutual non-disclosure agreement (NDA).

      Serious inquires only.”


      So, assuming this is the venture the OP is referring to in her post, we can see this is NOT the normal beginner investment we usually see or hear about. 

      We don’t know the education, knowledge, experience, ability, network, etc of Eshe Harvey, nor do we know the outside support this project may generate.  What we can assume from her posts is that she has great passion for the project; has a genuine belief that the project can be accomplished; and has positioned the project in a way that can attract both private and private funds, and possibly equity as well as grants. Also, Eshe Harvey appears to understand that she needs to bring in many individuals into the fold to help her achieve this projects success.

      She’s shooting for the moon; but what’s wrong with that?  She’s heeded the warnings (which I see as real concerns) but she being in the best position to judge doesn’t think the individual she’s met with has underhanded motives.  Most people wouldn’t have made it as far as she already has. 

      I hope she succeeds beyond’s her wildest dreams.  The best “American Success Story” are those who started with little or no capital and still were able to “put the deal together”.  I’ve seen a number of successes in my almost 50 years in real estate, and far too many failures, scams, and bankruptcies.  I hope this one is one of the successes.  



      Thank you so much for taking the time to share your thoughtful words and encouragement, Don. It truly means a lot coming from someone with your level of experience. I’m committed to continuing to push forward with passion, integrity, and strategic action. I appreciate the support and look forward to hopefully becoming one of the success stories you spoke about!

    • Patience EchemPro Member
      Member since 2024 · 68 posts · 50 votes
      1y
      Quote from @Don Konipol:
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:

      I had a coffee meeting today with a well-respected figure in real estate that turned into something far beyond what I expected. This wasn't just networking - it was a shift. He told me he sees something in me. He said he'll personally mentor me to help perfect my pitch and business plan - and he wasn't playing. He gave me real homework assignments, and we'll be meeting again to make sure I can articulate the vision, not just dream it. And the most life-changing part?

      He said I don't need to worry about funding - he and his team will provide that once the vision is solid and well-crafted, he insisted that money isn't an issue. He is helping me make sure that my vision is solid. But he says he sees my potential or else he would have not taken time out of his very busy schedule to meet with me. He says I am on his radar.

      He also told me something that stuck: move intentionally - and be willing to cut ties quickly with anyone who doesn't align with the mission. This journey isn't about pleasing everyone. It's about precision, purpose, and positioning. I'm still taking it all in, but I wanted to share this as a reminder: the right people will meet you where you are - if you're willing to show up prepared, focused, and open.

      So this from @Eshe Harvey page

      “This project reimagines a large, underutilized property in Chicago's South Shore neighborhood as a multi-use cultural and economic destination. Anchored in local pride but designed with global appeal, the vision includes ghost kitchens, creative studios, flexible event space, and marketplace for emerging entrepreneurs. AI driven tools will be integrated as well to assist with day-to-day operations, vendor coordination, and overall efficiency.

      Strategically positioned just minutes from the forthcoming Obama Presidential Center, the development is designed to complement the anticipated rise in tourism, investment, and foot traffic across Chicago's South Side. It presents a rare opportunity to activate an iconic site with both community impact and scalable economic returns.

      Currently in the planning phase-focused on gathering resident insight, cultivating brand partners, and aligning with forward-thinking investors and civic stakeholders ready to help shape a legacy project rooted in culture, commerce, and change.

      Due to the unique nature of this concept, additional project details may be shared upon request and may require a mutual non-disclosure agreement (NDA).

      Serious inquires only.”


      So, assuming this is the venture the OP is referring to in her post, we can see this is NOT the normal beginner investment we usually see or hear about. 

      We don’t know the education, knowledge, experience, ability, network, etc of Eshe Harvey, nor do we know the outside support this project may generate.  What we can assume from her posts is that she has great passion for the project; has a genuine belief that the project can be accomplished; and has positioned the project in a way that can attract both private and private funds, and possibly equity as well as grants. Also, Eshe Harvey appears to understand that she needs to bring in many individuals into the fold to help her achieve this projects success.

      She’s shooting for the moon; but what’s wrong with that?  She’s heeded the warnings (which I see as real concerns) but she being in the best position to judge doesn’t think the individual she’s met with has underhanded motives.  Most people wouldn’t have made it as far as she already has. 

      I hope she succeeds beyond’s her wildest dreams.  The best “American Success Story” are those who started with little or no capital and still were able to “put the deal together”.  I’ve seen a number of successes in my almost 50 years in real estate, and far too many failures, scams, and bankruptcies.  I hope this one is one of the successes.  



       Great investigation. Always the best

    • Real Estate Broker · Cleveland Dayton Cincinnati Toledo Columbus & Akron, OH · Member since 2013 · 30k+ posts · 20k+ votes
      1y
      Quote from @Don Konipol:
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:

      I had a coffee meeting today with a well-respected figure in real estate that turned into something far beyond what I expected. This wasn't just networking - it was a shift. He told me he sees something in me. He said he'll personally mentor me to help perfect my pitch and business plan - and he wasn't playing. He gave me real homework assignments, and we'll be meeting again to make sure I can articulate the vision, not just dream it. And the most life-changing part?

      He said I don't need to worry about funding - he and his team will provide that once the vision is solid and well-crafted, he insisted that money isn't an issue. He is helping me make sure that my vision is solid. But he says he sees my potential or else he would have not taken time out of his very busy schedule to meet with me. He says I am on his radar.

      He also told me something that stuck: move intentionally - and be willing to cut ties quickly with anyone who doesn't align with the mission. This journey isn't about pleasing everyone. It's about precision, purpose, and positioning. I'm still taking it all in, but I wanted to share this as a reminder: the right people will meet you where you are - if you're willing to show up prepared, focused, and open.

      So this from @Eshe Harvey page

      “This project reimagines a large, underutilized property in Chicago's South Shore neighborhood as a multi-use cultural and economic destination. Anchored in local pride but designed with global appeal, the vision includes ghost kitchens, creative studios, flexible event space, and marketplace for emerging entrepreneurs. AI driven tools will be integrated as well to assist with day-to-day operations, vendor coordination, and overall efficiency.

      Strategically positioned just minutes from the forthcoming Obama Presidential Center, the development is designed to complement the anticipated rise in tourism, investment, and foot traffic across Chicago's South Side. It presents a rare opportunity to activate an iconic site with both community impact and scalable economic returns.

      Currently in the planning phase-focused on gathering resident insight, cultivating brand partners, and aligning with forward-thinking investors and civic stakeholders ready to help shape a legacy project rooted in culture, commerce, and change.

      Due to the unique nature of this concept, additional project details may be shared upon request and may require a mutual non-disclosure agreement (NDA).

      Serious inquires only.”


      So, assuming this is the venture the OP is referring to in her post, we can see this is NOT the normal beginner investment we usually see or hear about. 

      We don’t know the education, knowledge, experience, ability, network, etc of Eshe Harvey, nor do we know the outside support this project may generate.  What we can assume from her posts is that she has great passion for the project; has a genuine belief that the project can be accomplished; and has positioned the project in a way that can attract both private and private funds, and possibly equity as well as grants. Also, Eshe Harvey appears to understand that she needs to bring in many individuals into the fold to help her achieve this projects success.

      She’s shooting for the moon; but what’s wrong with that?  She’s heeded the warnings (which I see as real concerns) but she being in the best position to judge doesn’t think the individual she’s met with has underhanded motives.  Most people wouldn’t have made it as far as she already has. 

      I hope she succeeds beyond’s her wildest dreams.  The best “American Success Story” are those who started with little or no capital and still were able to “put the deal together”.  I’ve seen a number of successes in my almost 50 years in real estate, and far too many failures, scams, and bankruptcies.  I hope this one is one of the successes.  


      “This project reimagines a large, underutilized property in Chicago's South Shore neighborhood as a multi-use cultural and economic destination. Anchored in local pride but designed with global appeal, the vision includes ghost kitchens, creative studios, flexible event space, and marketplace for emerging entrepreneurs. AI driven tools will be integrated as well to assist with day-to-day operations, vendor coordination, and overall efficiency.

      Strategically positioned just minutes from the forthcoming Obama Presidential Center, the development is designed to complement the anticipated rise in tourism, investment, and foot traffic across Chicago's South Side. It presents a rare opportunity to activate an iconic site with both community impact and scalable economic returns.

      Currently in the planning phase-focused on gathering resident insight, cultivating brand partners, and aligning with forward-thinking investors and civic stakeholders ready to help shape a legacy project rooted in culture, commerce, and change.

      Due to the unique nature of this concept, additional project details may be shared upon request and may require a mutual non-disclosure agreement (NDA).

      Serious inquires only.”


      5 paragraphs about this project, and I still have no friggin idea what the hell the project is, or what it hopes to achieve, or what it is that the OP is looking for, or what it is that the person reading it is supposed to gain from being involved in it. It's a whole bunch of keywords jammed together in a nonsensical word salad. Whenever people send me emails like this asking if I want to discuss further, it's an automatic ignore. 

      I obviously don't have the details, but I would question whether or not this rich investor guy would have the same enthusiasm about meeting up for coffee if the same vague word salad was pitched to him by some dude instead of a younger woman.

    • Jay HinrichsBusiness Member
      Real Estate Consultant · Summerlin, NV · Member since 2014 · 45k+ posts · 66k+ votes
      1y
      Quote from @James Wise:
      Quote from @Don Konipol:
      Quote from @Eshe Harvey:

      I had a coffee meeting today with a well-respected figure in real estate that turned into something far beyond what I expected. This wasn't just networking - it was a shift. He told me he sees something in me. He said he'll personally mentor me to help perfect my pitch and business plan - and he wasn't playing. He gave me real homework assignments, and we'll be meeting again to make sure I can articulate the vision, not just dream it. And the most life-changing part?

      He said I don't need to worry about funding - he and his team will provide that once the vision is solid and well-crafted, he insisted that money isn't an issue. He is helping me make sure that my vision is solid. But he says he sees my potential or else he would have not taken time out of his very busy schedule to meet with me. He says I am on his radar.

      He also told me something that stuck: move intentionally - and be willing to cut ties quickly with anyone who doesn't align with the mission. This journey isn't about pleasing everyone. It's about precision, purpose, and positioning. I'm still taking it all in, but I wanted to share this as a reminder: the right people will meet you where you are - if you're willing to show up prepared, focused, and open.

      So this from @Eshe Harvey page

      “This project reimagines a large, underutilized property in Chicago's South Shore neighborhood as a multi-use cultural and economic destination. Anchored in local pride but designed with global appeal, the vision includes ghost kitchens, creative studios, flexible event space, and marketplace for emerging entrepreneurs. AI driven tools will be integrated as well to assist with day-to-day operations, vendor coordination, and overall efficiency.

      Strategically positioned just minutes from the forthcoming Obama Presidential Center, the development is designed to complement the anticipated rise in tourism, investment, and foot traffic across Chicago's South Side. It presents a rare opportunity to activate an iconic site with both community impact and scalable economic returns.

      Currently in the planning phase-focused on gathering resident insight, cultivating brand partners, and aligning with forward-thinking investors and civic stakeholders ready to help shape a legacy project rooted in culture, commerce, and change.

      Due to the unique nature of this concept, additional project details may be shared upon request and may require a mutual non-disclosure agreement (NDA).

      Serious inquires only.”


      So, assuming this is the venture the OP is referring to in her post, we can see this is NOT the normal beginner investment we usually see or hear about. 

      We don’t know the education, knowledge, experience, ability, network, etc of Eshe Harvey, nor do we know the outside support this project may generate.  What we can assume from her posts is that she has great passion for the project; has a genuine belief that the project can be accomplished; and has positioned the project in a way that can attract both private and private funds, and possibly equity as well as grants. Also, Eshe Harvey appears to understand that she needs to bring in many individuals into the fold to help her achieve this projects success.

      She’s shooting for the moon; but what’s wrong with that?  She’s heeded the warnings (which I see as real concerns) but she being in the best position to judge doesn’t think the individual she’s met with has underhanded motives.  Most people wouldn’t have made it as far as she already has. 

      I hope she succeeds beyond’s her wildest dreams.  The best “American Success Story” are those who started with little or no capital and still were able to “put the deal together”.  I’ve seen a number of successes in my almost 50 years in real estate, and far too many failures, scams, and bankruptcies.  I hope this one is one of the successes.  


      “This project reimagines a large, underutilized property in Chicago's South Shore neighborhood as a multi-use cultural and economic destination. Anchored in local pride but designed with global appeal, the vision includes ghost kitchens, creative studios, flexible event space, and marketplace for emerging entrepreneurs. AI driven tools will be integrated as well to assist with day-to-day operations, vendor coordination, and overall efficiency.

      Strategically positioned just minutes from the forthcoming Obama Presidential Center, the development is designed to complement the anticipated rise in tourism, investment, and foot traffic across Chicago's South Side. It presents a rare opportunity to activate an iconic site with both community impact and scalable economic returns.

      Currently in the planning phase-focused on gathering resident insight, cultivating brand partners, and aligning with forward-thinking investors and civic stakeholders ready to help shape a legacy project rooted in culture, commerce, and change.

      Due to the unique nature of this concept, additional project details may be shared upon request and may require a mutual non-disclosure agreement (NDA).

      Serious inquires only.”


      5 paragraphs about this project, and I still have no friggin idea what the hell the project is, or what it hopes to achieve, or what it is that the OP is looking for, or what it is that the person reading it is supposed to gain from being involved in it. It's a whole bunch of keywords jammed together in a nonsensical word salad. Whenever people send me emails like this asking if I want to discuss further, it's an automatic ignore. 

      I obviously don't have the details, but I would question whether or not this rich investor guy would have the same enthusiasm about meeting up for coffee if the same vague word salad was pitched to him by some dude instead of a younger woman.


      having funded about 30 projects in south side chicago I have a very good idea what this is.
      for the motivation of the mentor who knows.. But as an agent of 50 years and my wife of 35 years women in this business need to take on another level of caution that most of them have already.. She can play along but I would recommend caution.. and if she has not real funding herself there is probably no monitary harm to her. But South side of Chicago is a pretty tough place to do any kind of development etc.. I mean just look at the Obama library fiasco.
  • Austin, TX · Member since 2019 · 5k+ posts · 5k+ votes
    1y

    Well there you go...

    Good Luck!

  • Bruce WoodruffPro Member
    Contractor/Investor/Consultant · San Diego / Phoenix · Member since 2021 · 12k+ posts · 15k+ votes
    1y

    Yes, @Eshe Harvey, we all wish you the best! Just be careful, and give us a report back on your success....

  • Chicago Area, IL · Member since 2024 · 54 posts · 49 votes
    1y

    Just as there are bad people, there are good people.

    Look over any contracts/agreements. Talk to others in real estate, as to the terms. See if a lawyer friend/family member/church member will glance at anything legal to see if it is boilerplate, or if it contains terms favorable to them and not to you.

    Don't be afraid to ask your mentor any questions you have. You can see if it matches other things you have learned from others, show that you are interested and pay attention to details, and can be a better learning experience. Eyes wide open is great for many points.

    Real estate isn't just about getting a good price. It's about all the details that affect your bottom line. Are they giving you a good interest rate, compared to what you find from other private or public loans. Are the terms stricter. What are the terms for either side to terminate the loan. Fees involved. Are they just the money, or do they want partial ownership, silent partner. Are they looking to help you find contractors. What happens if you don't use the contractors they supply. Are there kickbacks. Networking helps by finding people who can answer questions. And if it gets back to the mentor, their only response should be that they are happy you are learning and double checking. Just make sure you ask general questions, and not phrase them as if you don't trust your mentor. For instance, you could ask that if you refer a contractor, are there any finder fees, or other benefits, or a better relationship with the contractor. Just make it about your being new and wanting to know how to act.

    Best of luck on your career.

  • Member since 2025 · 1 post · 1 vote
    1y

    Literally just created this account to network.... first post I see is this one and GIRl I AM OBSESSED. Its giving main character and unbothered energy lmao. Love it! let them talk girl the silence and the professional tone speaks VOLUMES. you are teaching me a little something already lol how to act when folks try to ridicule you publicly. I sat here and read every comment lol ...very mature. 

    lowkey if you ever need a team hire me lol

    • Developer · Chicago · Member since 2025 · 111 posts · 103 votes
      1y
      Quote from @Terry Joe:

      Literally just created this account to network.... first post I see is this one and GIRl I AM OBSESSED. Its giving main character and unbothered energy lmao. Love it! let them talk girl the silence and the professional tone speaks VOLUMES. you are teaching me a little something already lol how to act when folks try to ridicule you publicly. I sat here and read every comment lol ...very mature. 

      lowkey if you ever need a team hire me lol

      Welcome to BP!

      Thank you so much! One thing about me - I am never focused on the noise. I have had people do way worse than just talk and make assumptions. Honestly, it is funny to me at this point.  They are entitled to their opinion, but I am focused behind the scenes and looking to broaden my network. Appreciate the love and positive energy.

  • Member since 2024 · 29 posts · 6 votes
    1y

    Again as the others said, sorry to be negative, but you posted this as if it was just a magical life changing conversation, but by the end of the thread you have already met several times, just not in this exact setting, and there is a lot you are that is behind this that you can't share. Not exactly understanding, if you were planning on people emulating you, they clearly don't have a majority of the facts anyway. Also not a magical moment, so what exactly.....?

    Either way, wishing you the best of luck!

    • Developer · Chicago · Member since 2025 · 111 posts · 103 votes
      1y
      Quote from @Leah Miller:

      Again as the others said, sorry to be negative, but you posted this as if it was just a magical life changing conversation, but by the end of the thread you have already met several times, just not in this exact setting, and there is a lot you are that is behind this that you can't share. Not exactly understanding, if you were planning on people emulating you, they clearly don't have a majority of the facts anyway. Also not a magical moment, so what exactly.....?

      Either way, wishing you the best of luck!


      Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Wishing you continued success! ❤️

  • Investor · Akron, OH · Member since 2016 · 2k+ posts · 4k+ votes
    1y
    That sounds like a scammer.
  • Investor · Milwaukee - Mequon, WI · Member since 2010 · 5k+ posts · 7k+ votes
    1y

    @Eshe Harvey  I love your enthusiasm, but here is a dose of reality:

    - real estate investing is NOT rocket science, it's actually pretty simple (however, not easy)

    - Robert Kyosaki said getting wealthy is pretty mundane, repetitive and boring, he was right

    - networking is totally overrated. New investors always think that's where it's at. The reality is you build your network by doing deals and AFTER you have worked with someone you both decide to do that again.

    - the only thing special you need is passion for REI, the energy to keep grinding when it gets tough

    - read books about REI until the content becomes repetitive to you, that will benefit you a lot more than meeting someone for coffee who see's "something special in you

    I remember the feeling of excitement and opportunity when I first discovered real estate investing (17 years ago). I was totally mesmerized and wanted to talk to people on the inside, who knew the "secrets". 

    So you understand why I am telling you this, because I've walked that path. 

    I had a pretty average REI career not far from you here in Milwaukee. 8 years after my first property (and a lot of BRRRRS, nights and weekends) I was able to quit my corporate W2 and we have only grown the portfolio ever since - my wife is in charge of operations now. I volunteer at our local REIA - the RPAWI .org and teach young investors.

    I do that for FREE because I feel that is paying it forward and when they need an agent, I refer them, because as a broker I work in a different price range. 

    I would never tell anyone I see something special in them or meet them for coffee one-on-one, just saying..

  • New to Real Estate · Atlanta, GA · Member since 2025 · 14 posts · 1 vote
    1y

    I love this for you! Congratulations please update us with your journey.

  • Charles ClarkBusiness Member
    Real Estate Broker · Milwaukee, WI · Member since 2020 · 306 posts · 209 votes
    1y

    @Eshe Harvey


    Wow—this is powerful and deeply inspiring! It’s amazing what can happen when preparation meets alignment. Wishing you all the success as you step boldly into this next chapter—sounds like you’re exactly where you’re meant to be! 🔥👏

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  • Real Estate Broker · Cleveland Dayton Cincinnati Toledo Columbus & Akron, OH · Member since 2013 · 30k+ posts · 20k+ votes
    1y

    Yea, this whole thing sounds weird like others have said. Could be sexual maybe. Could also be that he wants to make money off of you. Maybe he's trying to get you to become an Agent at his brokerage or something. All too vague to really know what's going on tho.

    Perfect your pitch? To whom? If he is also saying don't worry about the money who are you pitching too then? Additionally, all this vague conversation is weird. What is it that you're trying to do that he's gonna help you with?

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