Do I invite the tenants/neighbors to the party?

Do I invite the tenants/neighbors to the party?

Flipper/Rehabber · NJ (new jersey) · Member since 2020 · 25 posts · 6 votes

Hello All,

I am currently house hacking a triplex. Do I invite the tenants/neighbors to my Greek Easter party this Sunday?

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Rental Property Investor · North Palm Beach, FL · Member since 2018 · 2k+ posts · 1k+ votes
3y

@Apostolos Karnavas

Parties/drinking with tenants really blurs the lines of the tenant/landlord relationship. When this happens, rent starts getting paid late, and landlords start relaxing parts of their leases (like 1 car per unit in the driveway, no pets (no pets over 30 lbs), or no RVs/boats on the property, etc.). It is a nice gesture however, it will most likely not end well.

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  • Rental Property Investor · North Palm Beach, FL · Member since 2018 · 2k+ posts · 1k+ votes
    3y

    @Apostolos Karnavas

    Parties/drinking with tenants really blurs the lines of the tenant/landlord relationship. When this happens, rent starts getting paid late, and landlords start relaxing parts of their leases (like 1 car per unit in the driveway, no pets (no pets over 30 lbs), or no RVs/boats on the property, etc.). It is a nice gesture however, it will most likely not end well.

  • Tanner PileBusiness Member
    Real Estate Broker · Colorado Springs, CO · Member since 2019 · 389 posts · 326 votes
    3y

    @Apostolos Karnavas 

    It is always best to keep a good tenant-landlord relationship going. Getting to close will cause problems. Even when house hacking with roommates getting too close can cause problems. I always try to just be nice and say hi when I see neighbors but not chat too much. 

    It can be difficult when they are the ones wanting to get closer to you and you have to block them off. 

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  • Austin, TX · Member since 2019 · 5k+ posts · 5k+ votes
    3y

    Do you want to mix business with pleasure?

  • Real Estate Agent · Boise, ID · Member since 2016 · 1k+ posts · 888 votes
    3y

    @Apostolos Karnavas are you the PM as well, and they know you are the owner? If so no. If you are another tenant paying rent in their eyes go for it. 

    Default is always no, if they ask why they didn't get an invite just be professional and say it was a religious party, and you don't mix business and pleasure. 

  • Rental Property Investor · Member since 2019 · 11 posts · 2 votes
    3y

    @Apostolos Karnavas

    I would not.

  • Ryan ThomsonBusiness Member
    Real Estate Agent · Colorado Springs, CO · Member since 2018 · 1k+ posts · 1k+ votes
    3y

    @Apostolos Karnavas personally I would not. I think that has strong potential to make your life more complicated and difficult. 

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