Wholesaling Haters. Im bummed.

Wholesaling Haters. Im bummed.

Wyano, PA · Member since 2013 · 15 posts · 3 votes

Ive been reading most of the morning on BP. I have read of how many people here do not have any good experiences with Wholesalers. That really bums me out. I have been reading as much as I can in the past few weeks on this topic. I figured that BP would be an exciting place to learn wholesaling. What I find out is that there are some disappointing post here on wholesaling. Negative people I guess. I was so excited to start wholesaling. I do have money to buy a house but I was looking forward to making money wholesaling. Is wholesaling respectable? I have listened to all the podcast on wholesaling. The podcasts are great !! Thank you (Bigger Pockets) Please tell me the truth people. What has owning a wholesaling business done for you? Man! Im so bummed. I am going to do it anyway. I am a good truthful person and that's the way im running my WHOLESALEING BUSINESS !!!!

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Investor · Riverside, CA · Member since 2011 · 2k+ posts · 3k+ votes
12y

Here's the number one problem with the wholesaling business; it attracts complete newbs with ZERO experience and ZERO money because they think it is the best strategy to avoid any risk. The problem is, they have no clue where to find and put together a deal. SO, they find some other newb wholesaler with some crappy non-deal, then tack on $5,000 and start shopping it around to all their 'buyers.' Well, one or more of their pretender buyers with their "I buy houses all cash and close fast" business cards, who actually has never closed on any house and has zero cash thinks "I'll just wholesale this house and get some money going!" So, he tacks on $5,000 to this already marked up non-deal and starts shopping it around. Now, we have a daisy chain of pretender wholesalers all shopping around the same non-deal to every REI in the land.

I find nothing more hilarious than when somebody stands in front of a room of 100+ people at the local REIA and announces their smoking wholesale deal. Just absurd! If it is such a smoking deal, why is it being dragged from REIA to REIA and has no buyers yet?

I was at a meeting last week and this girl stands in front of 500+ people and announces she has notes 10 cents on the dollar. Not one single person stood up. Not one! If she really had notes so cheap, she'd be mobbed. Nobody is interested because we've all heard the same BS time and again.

If you are deciding you are going to be a wholesaler because:

A. You have no money and think this is the best way to get into real estate.

and/or

B. You think that if you wholesale, all the risk will pass to your buyer and you can just get checks for tying up properties...

You probably will have a few frustrating months, then decide real estate investing is a scam, doesn't work, or whatever other excuse people who fail use.

Here's the truth from a former rehabber who now wholesales (my last check was for $47K); wholesaling costs LOTS of money. I spend THOUSANDS of dollars every month on marketing in order to bring enough deals into my funnel. I hire marketing consultants. I hire copy writers. I am in mastermind groups for real estate and direct marketing.

Yes, I take down some properties, but I pass on tons of great deals to my very small list of buyers as well. I can't buy them all and nor would I want to. I pass along fat equity rehab/flips and sweet rentals. Sometimes I need the money to pay for another property I'm more interested in. Sometimes I just want my buyer to get a great deal to make up for a not-so-great deal I sold him earlier.

The key to being a great wholesaler is deal flow. If you're only finding 1 deal every few months, you're better off rehabbing it yourself (or partnering with some) because you'll make more money. It will also give you the experience you need to survive in this business. Lastly, you may ultimately decide wholesaling isn't really for you. My local investor friends who rehabbed and flipped over the last 3-4 years are MILLIONS ahead of me. Yeah, they've made MILLIONS more than I have and most of them own dozens more rentals than I own. I would put rehabbing and flipping first if I were you or anyone else reading this post thinking they are going to get into real estate and wholesale. I wholesale because I absolutely detest flipping homes. I want to do a rehab like I want to be rear-ended by an uninsured driver. I've rehabbed and flipped, and quite successfully I might add, but I just didn't enjoy it. That is why I wholesale. I prefer just to make the kill and leave the hauling, skinning, and dressing to the butchers.

I hope this helps. Happy investing!

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  • Doug SmithPro Member
    Lender · Tampa, FL · Member since 2013 · 2k+ posts · 2k+ votes
    12y

    I typically say I won't work with a broker or wholesaler, but that really isn't completely true. There are a handful of pros out there that actually make it a strong business. The trouble with us dealing with wholesalers is the vast majority of them really don't act as professionals. #1: most of them lie and tell us that they are actually the principal and not acting as a broker, #2: most recycle product "lists" that have we've seen several times and are quite dated (I recently was offered a package with several notes...3 of which I owned), #3: most try to get too greedy and try to structure the deal so that it doesn't work for us, and #4: most haven't got a clue what they are doing. Keep in mind that most principals are not rookies. It took me 22 years to get to where I am today. I personally don't mind working with a wholesaler or broker that truly brings value...not just someone that sends me tapes.

  • Wyano, PA · Member since 2013 · 15 posts · 3 votes
    12y

    points well taken people. Thanks to all of you. I will be honest in my venture because I believe God wants it that way. I believe He will reward me. So here I go and again thank you all.

  • Specialist · Houston, TX · Member since 2012 · 579 posts · 301 votes
    12y
    Originally posted by @Derreck Wells:
    Originally posted by @Aaron Mazzrillo:

    I wholesale because I absolutely detest flipping homes. I want to do a rehab like I want to be rear-ended by an uninsured driver. I've rehabbed and flipped, and quite successfully I might add, but I just didn't enjoy it. That is why I wholesale. I prefer just to make the kill and leave the hauling, skinning, and dressing to the butchers.

    I love this!

     This is a great point Derreck!  I often get investors asking why I'm selling it if it's such a good deal.  Or they want to know 'my secret' to finding such great deals and how can they do it.  Well the truth is everyone has different niches, likes and dislikes.  I do NOT want to be a landlord so wholesaling is good match for single family home deals I get.  People who are good at different areas and want different things so just because a deal seems too good to be true from a Wholesaler it's not always b/c they are hiding something it's simply not their business model.  Way too many folks look at others in the industry as their competition and they really aren't. Once you learn to Network and realize those 'competitors' can often be your best customers or point you to other resources, you really get a leg up on becoming a creative investor.

    Houston is a HUGE, spread out Metro area so there is no way I'm driving 2.5 hours or more with traffic to go see a house on the other side of town when I can partner with someone I know who works that area and let them do part of the work.  Geography plays a huge role in real estate and many investors have a small comfort zone of buying starting with where they live.  Can't tell you how many buyers pass up on awesome deals b/c it's "more than 20 minutes" from their home.  

    As for those folks who want to learn 'the secrets' of wholesaling, I steer them toward local mentors and education programs.  If they say they can't afford the programs, then I ask them why are they expecting me to give them my time and knowledge for free!  Yes, we all pay it forward when we can but asking folks to train you to Wholesale for free is not cool.  I ask them if they can train me to be {insert their day job profession; engineer, project mgr, teacher, etc.} in a few hours for free when they've taken years to become that expert in their current field.  RE is no different, time and education are the only real secrets.

  • Mike HurneyPro Member
    Real Estate Investor · Boston, MA · Member since 2009 · 2k+ posts · 542 votes
    12y

    @Aaron Mazzrillo "I find nothing more hilarious than when somebody stands in front of a room of 100+ people at the local REIA and announces their smoking wholesale deal. Just absurd! If it is such a smoking deal, why is it being dragged from REIA to REIA and has no buyers yet?"

     and they'll also say "I'll buy any house for any price, anywhere! CASH!"

    When they say these things at our Massachusetts REIA, I just bite my tongue and hope they didn't get skinned too bad from the latest "Pickie Duster" guru who came through town.

    Oh the other Newbie sign is that they want to build a TEAM and set up an LLC.

    When I do meet someone starting out, because I do engage them before and at the beginning of our meetings, and if they're sincere and willing to work at it, I'll have them speak to someone who IS doing it. Or IS where they'd like to be.

    @Christopher Mozgawa  Hey man if you're looking for people to like you, go on FaceBook or Save the Whales. Real Estate is work, smart work! Welcome!

  • Investor · Minneapolis, MN · Member since 2014 · 332 posts · 74 votes
    11y
    Originally posted by @Samantha M.:

    @Aaron Mazzrillo Great points, the only thing that didn't make sense to me was this comment.

    "B. You think that if you wholesale, all the risk will pass to your buyer and you can just get checks for tying up properties..."

    If you wholesale correctly, there really is no risk. Get an option period to find a buyer, and then contractually limit your liability. You can make it such that the only remedy a seller has for non performance is earnest money, no specific performance. Just be warned, if you are going to do that, be ready to put up more EM to sweeten the deal.

    @John Chapman Of course at 80% ARV here in Dallas for flips most people are going to pass. I am talking about buy and hold land lords, lots of people are salivating for 75% ARV, and many of the biggest wholesalers in town are selling the rentals at 80% ARV and the contracts dont last more than 48 hours. I would throw out some names as examples, but I don't want to go triggering the name alerts. PM me if you would like some names.

    Samantha, when you sign an option agreement with intention to wholesale a property within 1 month, do you record a memorandum of option? If you do not record it, what do you do if seller executes an agreement with other buyer while you still have a valid option. What is a typical option period that you ask for from the seller and what is the option fee that you pay to the seller?

  • Investor · DFW / Austin, TX · Member since 2013 · 188 posts · 80 votes
    11y

    @Pavel Sakurets I'm a wholesaler in Dallas and have done both double closings (buy and sell on the same day) and assignments (transfer the contract to my buyer for a fee in lieu of closing). 

    I try to have 30-45 days to close with a generous inspection period to run the deal by my buyers. 

    To answer your other question: for me, I do not file Memorandum of Options on my wholesale deals, and I would not do anything to enforce the contract if the seller went behind my back. Why? Because it's just not worth the hassle and cost. 

    The solution is to develop great rapport and good ongoing communication with your sellers to make sure you don't have this problem come up in the first place. It would be because you lack this necessary rapport that you might encounter this situation, IMHO. If you have great rapport and communication, then your seller will probably tell you that he's really tempted to take someone else's higher offer, and you can try your best to get him to stick to the contract or work out another arrangement with him. 

    I think there's a lot of misunderstandings about the best practices with wholesaling, and I agree a lot of wholesalers throw out deals that suck. I try to subscribe to their mailing lists so I see some of the issues other investors are talking about. 

    Unlike some others, I think that people wanting to get started in RE investing SHOULD consider wholesaling, but they need to study and learn directly from the pros who are currently running solid wholesaling businesses. I'm still working on building mine up, but I have been helped so much by learning from others' experience and mistakes. 

    And yes, it IS possible to start wholesaling without much money or experience (driving for dollars and dialing for dollars come to mind). The difference is to make it work that way you have to invest a lot of TIME and SWEAT EQUITY to learn the trade properly to find and recognize the deals, and market or network with buyers. 

    I think there are a lot of investors who are happy to help newbie wholesalers, as long as the newbies are willing to work and learn and bring real value (DEALS!) to them. 

  • Specialist · Memphis, TN · Member since 2012 · 1k+ posts · 1k+ votes
    11y

    Sounds like you are reading the wrong thread. This forum is full of wholesalers. You are only reading about people who have had bad experiences. These are almost universally involving either dishonest or incompetent people. The world wouldn't run without wholesalers!

  • Investor, Entrepreneur, Educator · Springfield, MO · Member since 2009 · 21k+ posts · 12k+ votes
    11y
    Originally posted by @Christopher Mozgawa:

    points well taken people. Thanks to all of you. I will be honest in my venture because I believe God wants it that way. I believe He will reward me. So here I go and again thank you all.

    Really?

    If that's really true, and I'm not doubting you at all, you're going to have a hard time reconciling the spread you plug into your contract.  You're never paying a seller the true value of what they own, you're never selling to your buyer at the lowest price they could bought it for, this win-win crap they like to talk about is nothing more than trying to justify ripping off one side or the other.  Someone loses to some extent, while the loss may be acceptable, technically, any time there is a straw-man, some facilitator, neither party on the other sides wins as much as they could have. Where did that thinking of paying an honest days wage for an honest days work go?

    The ONLY way you can truly justify charging any fee is by adding value. That is the basis of any business,

    Realtors are straw-man types, they facilitate a transaction and the value of doing so is long standing, between 6 and 10%. Realtors bring value by providing an efficient market, by assisting their clients, hand holding walking them through the deal. They have knowledge, they have gone to school, took a test, got a license, take continuing education classes and know local experts to advise them if difficulties arise.

    Does the wholesaler do that? I think not, not nearly to that extent, a Realtor does bringing a buyer which makes the transaction possible, but they don't expose the property to an efficient market to bring the seller the highest price possible for them as a listing agent is required to do.

    A wholesaler might list a property on Craig's List, that's as close as they get to exposing the property to a market, other than that they are making phone calls or emails to prospects to buy, that is not an efficient market by definitions in business, exposing products or services to the highest price.

    Moving on, the wholesaler can add value, some, by bringing one buyer, they can also add value with knowledge (that means they can't just be green newbies) as that saves time and effort for a buyer. They might hold the hand of the seller but usually not the buyer. They can prepare rehab lists, receive and give estimates, compile materials lists and present ARV information, showing market activities. So, there are things a wholesaler can bring to the table to justify an honest fee. But, to do that, you need pretty much the same or equal knowledge of a Realtor plus the knowledge of a rehabber.

     If you have the knowledge to be a good wholesaler, you have the knowledge to rehab, flip, buy and hold even if you are broke as the Ten Commandments, because you need all of this knowledge to be a good wholesaler. If you don't you can't add value and then, you're just some scamming straw-man lying to sellers and pulling unethical deals.  The only lower form of life in RE are those who promote wholesaling basically turning people into birddogs or joining some system, they are the straw-man of the straw-men, giving stories of fantastic deals.

    We need to recognize too that there are bad people in every business, the human brain is "hardwired" to recognize ethical conduct, moral decisions, empathy for others and not everyone is "wired" the same. Some think that telling a seller they have a piece of junk and a buyer it's a castle have no concept of ethics or business thinking that collecting money is all there is to it, not by a long shot!

    So, all these younger green newbies that come in with the announcements that they are fair dealing, honest, forthright and ethical is a bag of horsefeathers, your actions will determine that, not claims, especially in RE and more so in wholesaling as it is the most corrupt area people deal in. And, the only way you can do wholesaling ethically is by having knowledge and I'm not talking about guru crap full of hype and stories. :)  

  • Investor · DFW / Austin, TX · Member since 2013 · 188 posts · 80 votes
    11y

    @Bill Gulley As a wholesaler myself, I can appreciate your opinion on the matter and I think there's a lot of truth in what you're saying. There's definitely a fine line to walk when wholesaling and I agree it's wrong to convince the seller their property is valued far lower than it is. There is a lot of gray area when negotiating great deals on properties and it is not an easy black or white by any means. 

    The way I work it is not to tell them it's a low-value property, but to tell them that based on these and these factors (comps, repairs, liens, etc) I could do ___this price. Is that something that could work for you? 

    Sometimes, sellers are simply not looking to make the absolute most out of a problem---believe it or not. Sometimes they value getting cash out of their property and getting rid of a headache for themselves more than getting more money. 

    I do think there's a need for wholesalers in certain situations and that done well we do add a lot of value to the chain. What if a seller needed to close within 7 days because they absolutely needed the money at that time? A realtor would not be able to guarantee that. A good wholesaler with a strong cash buyer network who knows exactly what their buyer can pay and that they would deliver 100% would be able to help this Seller out of their problem, where most realtors wouldn't. 

  • Investor · DFW / Austin, TX · Member since 2013 · 188 posts · 80 votes
    11y

    Here's another example:

    We can think of it as I talk with a small shop owner who has a dozen cans of green beans that they've held onto for a year and thought they could sell it, but didn't and now just wants to get rid of it. Sure, they might originally sell for $1 each but I make an offer for $0.20ea and they happily accept. This shop owner could get a higher price by putting more effort into it and actively marketing it to someone who'd pay more, but it's just not worth it enough to them. They want to get rid of it and be done with it.

    Now, I've just offered $.20 to them because I have another shop owner across town who will give me $.30 for them because they have customers who buy them all the time.

    This is a win-win-win because there was real value that I provided to both sides. The convenience to the seller and hassle off their hands, and the great price to my buyer.

    The Seller could have gotten more from somewhere else, but it wasn't the primary factor in selling cheaper. Convenience was.

    The buyer most likely could not have gotten that product cheaper elsewhere. So they love it.

    I come out ahead because I provided real value to both sides. 

    Value is not always measured in dollars. 

  • Dawn AnastasiPro Member
    Rental Property Investor · Milwaukee, WI · Member since 2013 · 6k+ posts · 4k+ votes
    11y

    Convenience is something people will sell at a lower price for, and convenience is something people will pay a higher price for.

    Think of "convenience" stores that mark up food because you're right there.

  • Investor, Entrepreneur, Educator · Springfield, MO · Member since 2009 · 21k+ posts · 12k+ votes
    11y
    Originally posted by @Jacob Michaels:

    @Bill Gulley As a wholesaler myself, I can appreciate your opinion on the matter and I think there's a lot of truth in what you're saying. There's definitely a fine line to walk when wholesaling and I agree it's wrong to convince the seller their property is valued far lower than it is. There is a lot of gray area when negotiating great deals on properties and it is not an easy black or white by any means. 

    The way I work it is not to tell them it's a low-value property, but to tell them that based on these and these factors (comps, repairs, liens, etc) I could do ___this price. Is that something that could work for you? 

    Sometimes, sellers are simply not looking to make the absolute most out of a problem---believe it or not. Sometimes they value getting cash out of their property and getting rid of a headache for themselves more than getting more money. 

    I do think there's a need for wholesalers in certain situations and that done well we do add a lot of value to the chain. What if a seller needed to close within 7 days because they absolutely needed the money at that time? A realtor would not be able to guarantee that. A good wholesaler with a strong cash buyer network who knows exactly what their buyer can pay and that they would deliver 100% would be able to help this Seller out of their problem, where most realtors wouldn't. 

    I'd think, most of what you are saying, as do most all wholesalers, is what is referred to as cognitive bias, your physiological justifications as a defense to unethical dealing. There is no thin line or gray area. If it's what you want to do or what you do, you'll naturally justify your ways in a manner that makes it acceptable to you. It doesn't make it right.

    The way you presented your offer is just fine, asking if that works for them, however, the tricky part is the materials, comps and repair costs shown to a seller. I could ask if that is the same material shown to a buyer, but I'm not naïve. An ethical market exists when the buyer and seller are fully informed having comparable knowledge where both negotiate their best interests. A buyer who shows skewed data that only represents their interests isn't being truthful, same with a seller. Again, knowledge guides fair negotiations, show the same comps to the seller as you would a buyer, to the buyer you'll need to explain why those homes are different and may not command the same price and explain your role and what you charge as a profit. To the buyer, those comps justify the asking price, the subject may not bring the same prices, but may also bring more depending on what value the buyer adds.  

    I have no idea where wholesalers get the idea that Realtors don't have cash buyers it pretty much falls in the bias developed to justify wholesalers having some unique advantage in marketing. Not true at all, Realtors probably have a much greater network of cash buyers and capable investors than any newbie buying lists of buyers. There is no secret about who cash are.

    Generally, the reason Realtors don't get involved with distressed properties is that they take time, the market of buyers is smaller and there is more work involved. Some Realtors do mess with distressed properties, you'll see many fixer-uppers on the MLS. They have usually exhausted the cash buyer list by the time the property hits the MLS.

    We say in RE that you make the profit on the buy side, not the selling side, that's because there is a price ceiling everyone has to work under.

    If you were to go to a good attorney, you would expect to pay more than if you went to a new attorney, the difference you're paying for is more knowledge and experience. Same with a CPA, a physician who is a specialist, the same thing in RE.

    Pretty hard to say how it is without being condescending, but if people didn't have inflated egos and opinions of themselves, it wouldn't as condescending now would it.

    People begin in wholesaling being lied to about it being easy and the place to start. I'm not dropping back to gurus again, but I can't believe how naïve beginners are, being sold stories of RE. When I started I didn't start by flipping contracts I bought to hold, just had a job. Later I sold the place. Wasn't rocket science. Where we get most of these wholesaler types is because they are 1. desperate to make a living, 2. have no money, 3. probably no job and 4 no credit and they are told none of that matters. Yes, there is a possibility to do a deal with none of these aspects, it's rare, yet you believe because not only do you want to believe, you're probably in a position that you have to believe. That's how you get suckered in. Did these folks ever ask themselves why they are in that position? Could it be the lack of knowledge or education? Obvious and it's obvious to those who sell simple solutions to your problems! It's marketing and phycology! Not a real estate education.

    Another attraction is "I'm a business person, I own my own business" fact is, newbies not only don't have a clue about the RE business, they don't understand business, any business, that's why they don't understand value.  Value of anything really as the basis of any business transaction. Amateurs think buy low, sell high, simplistic thought, in between those prices is added value. It's not just what the market may bear, the value of that product or service has to be there as well.  

    In RE, you may have a product that is the subject of your transaction, the property, but if you don't own it, you can't sell it. Everyone in RE has an intangible product, their knowledge, not you BS line, not you spiel from your presentation, not your suit or your car, the only thing you have as your product is your knowledge.....what you know!

    So, what do you really know? Usually, starting out, not much, ethically your knowledge isn't worth tens of thousands of dollars, not even several thousands. Mentioned way up there, the customary fee for a straw-man or facilitator for the sale of a residential property is already established between 6 to 10 % of the sale price. That is also set to someone who has gone to school and who has passed an exam to deal with the public, not some egotistical big headed pumped by gurus.

    I am NOT opposed to wholesaling, I did one last year and I'm considering doing another on a 400-500K home here. What am I worth in such a deal? 6 to 10%! I might go with 3%! Depends. Does any new investor bring the same value to a transaction that I do? Doubt there is any logical way you could justify saying yes, but there has to be some idiot out there who would think so. You're letting greed (or need) overload your perceptions.

    I mentioned above what you or a good wholesaler can bring to the table to add value, you'll need to get past what a Realtor would do to command a higher value.

    Knowing a cash buyer isn't worth zip, nothing, I know Bob Jones, he has purchased properties with cash. Any busboy can overhear a conversation, my bar tender knows cash buyers, anyone can go into a courthouse and find cash buyers with very little training and assistance from the office staff. There is no value in knowing cash buyers!

    What else do you bring to the table? That may vary, but it will be based on your education and knowledge. Just as that doctor brings value in treating you, as the CPA doe in your corporate accounting, just as that attorney does in representing the client, but for some wild haired idea, new wholesalers with less knowledge than a Realtor seem to find ways to justify their value beyond what they are really worth.

    This is primarily for the twenty something know it alls with cocky burn the world up attitudes, but applies to all who really don't understand business, basic economic concepts, why things have value and what constitutes a market. You can not deal ethically in business or RE without understanding these concepts. And, the biggest gripe of RE professionals about wholesalers is their unethical dealings. Once you really learn the basics of this industry then you can wholesale in an ethical manner and bring value to both the public and your buyers, until then, you're spitting in the wind. :)   

  • Bulawayo, Zimbabwe · Member since 2015 · 1k+ posts · 253 votes
    11y
    Originally posted by @Aaron Mazzrillo:

      ...........it attracts complete newbs with ZERO experience and ZERO money because they think it is the best strategy to avoid any risk. The problem is, they have no clue where to find and put together a deal.

    Here's the truth from a former rehabber who now wholesales (my last check was for $47K); wholesaling costs LOTS of money. I spend THOUSANDS of dollars every month on marketing in order to bring enough deals into my funnel. I hire marketing consultants. I hire copy writers. I am in mastermind groups for real estate and direct marketing.

    The key to being a great wholesaler is deal flow.

    Interesting points from those in the trenches cashing the checks.For newbies including myself ,take heed.wholesaling is a hard business but success is possible

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