A property manager told me his owners are worse than his tenants. Is he wrong?

A property manager told me his owners are worse than his tenants. Is he wrong?

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A property manager told me his owners are worse than his tenants. Is he wrong?

I've been talking to property managers for a few weeks, mostly smaller shops. I assumed tenants would be the worst part of the job. Every one of them said tenants are manageable - it's the owners that wear them down.

One gets the same question three weeks after the fact about a repair he already handled. Another said monthly reporting eats more of his week than anyone realizes. A third was blunt: the experienced investors are easy, and the hardest ones are the people with one or two doors who want to argue about every $300 invoice.

So, owners - they're basically saying you're the problem. Fair?

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Shiloh LundahlPro Member
Rental Property Investor · Gilbert, AZ · Member since 2016 · 3k+ posts · 4k+ votes
2mo

@Shai Zisman it is not the owners that is the problem. It is the lack of alignment of goals. The owner wants to minimize costs (including property management fees) and maximize profits. The property manager wants to maximize their profit and minimize their costs too. But maximizing the property manager's profits often means lessening the owner's profits.

What I find that works better than a property manager is finding a great project manager/personal assistant. But it only becomes worth it at scale meaning it only becomes cost effective when you have portfolio of 10 or more properties and that would only be part time. One thing that is great about this is that you have aligned goals. Your priority becomes the priority of your assistant. You both have the goal to maximize your profits. 

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  • Jay HinrichsBusiness Member
    Real Estate Consultant · Summerlin, NV · Member since 2014 · 45k+ posts · 66k+ votes
    2mo

    U bet I have seen this many times.. beginner investors are lazer focus on their one or two deals and want to micro manage. WE see it in the forums were an investor will make a post about a 200 or 400 dollar item like its the end of the world.

    Also keep in mind those that can afford to buy rentals generally if they are buying starter rentals have a completely different life experience than a life long renter or section 8 renter. They have no clue on how that part of society lives and gets through a typical month financially speaking.

    I mean they live in their homes and the vast majority I doubt have to change out their carpets in one year of living in their home or have pest and rodent problems within 3 months of living there or clog the plumbing up by flushing stuff we know not to flush etc etc.

    In addition on the PM side if they are of any size 500 or more doors there is not time in the day to physically view each of these homes they just have to react to tenants repair e mails or calls etc. Some PM's do charge for quarterly visits I would be interested to know of PM's on this site if they do that and how many folks actually will pay for it.. you know dont want to mess up your spreadsheet return by spending money that was not allocated when you made the investment.

    Depending on Neighborhood owners have no clue how much risk they take on for having a turn over and a vacant house.. get stubborn with tenant and PM tenant leaves and now you are vacant a target and have a turnover. we see people on this site have a fit because the tenant did not pay their 50 dollar co pay and others go to right to evict the bad tenant.. Then proceed to have a turn over a few months of vacancy and your condenser unit gets stolen.

    • Drew SygitBusiness Member
      Property Manager · Royal Oak, MI · Member since 2012 · 13k+ posts · 9k+ votes
      1mo

      Jay, recent PMC industry survey of property owners states many owners would pay for additional property inspections.

      We poll our clients quarterly and VERY few take us up on it:(

      You are mostly correct about owners.

      • Newbies take up a LOT of time because we have to explain ALL the basics to them - and then, even though we also put it in writing, they don't remember in 4 months and expect us to spoon-feed them again because they're too lazy to go read what we put in writing previously.

      • DIY investors handing off their "babies" don't trust anyone to handle them like they did. This is despite the fact their tenants are usually problematic and are actually wagging the dog.

      • Experienced investors switching PMCs are the easiest, if they truly appreciate what great management looks like and correspondingly costs.

    • Shiloh LundahlPro Member
      Rental Property Investor · Gilbert, AZ · Member since 2016 · 3k+ posts · 4k+ votes
      2mo

      @Shai Zisman it is not the owners that is the problem. It is the lack of alignment of goals. The owner wants to minimize costs (including property management fees) and maximize profits. The property manager wants to maximize their profit and minimize their costs too. But maximizing the property manager's profits often means lessening the owner's profits.

      What I find that works better than a property manager is finding a great project manager/personal assistant. But it only becomes worth it at scale meaning it only becomes cost effective when you have portfolio of 10 or more properties and that would only be part time. One thing that is great about this is that you have aligned goals. Your priority becomes the priority of your assistant. You both have the goal to maximize your profits. 

    • Chris SeveneyBusiness Member
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      Investor · VA · Member since 2015 · 21k+ posts · 19k+ votes
      1mo

      I can believe this, as many owners think it is the property manager's problem if a tenant destroys the unit or heavy winds knock a tree down, which causes a roof fix or the 20-year-old HVAC system to clunk out. Now I have worked with some property managers who are the worst of the worst and do not respond to tickets or fix things and overcharge for everything. There are also a lot of owners who will go on the cheap and not want to fix things right so when it consistently breaks they blame the property manager 

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      • Member since 2026 · 72 posts · 30 votes
        1mo

        We have a landlord who owns a 2 million dollar home in an Upper Crest area of New Jersey. He's a "venture capitalist". He's got to be the cheapest person I ever met. We are nursing a AC system from the early 80s because he doesn't want to replace it. It's caused to ceiling leaks, which he's spend around 3.5k to repair. Sometimes, one cannot argue with cheapness.

    • Honolulu, HI · Member since 2008 · 3k+ posts · 2k+ votes
      1mo

      The biggest reason SOME owners can be a PITA, is quite simply they did not take the time to read their management agreement, or inquire about routine, yet critical processes. They did not previously look at, and get an understanding of, typical monthly financial reports that legit PM's provide. Even worse, they don't bother to study their monthly reports once they are under management. They act so shocked, and so indignant, when they find out about an expenditure months after the fact, that was quite necessary, and competitively priced when compared to other licensed and insured vendors rates.

      They fail to consider the fact that they, or their prior PM, placed the low-life tenants that trashed the place and left in the middle of the night once they figured out the new PM wasn't falling for their excuses or playing games with them.

      They fail to consider that they bought a marginal property, slapped some paint on it over the weekend, and called it "Ready to Rent" without checking actual functionality, safety, or spending much time cleaning. After all, tenants should be thrilled...no, make that grateful, to rent such a nice home!

      Sorry, but I laugh at posts by obviously confident "investors" or "managers" that don't even have a dozen units under their belt, but clearly believe they are "experienced". I hate to burst your bubble, but you are still in kindergarten, and have many years of learning ahead. Some years will be costly, some will be painful, and much will be "a total surprise", but you will learn something new about this business continually, even after you finally hang up the keys. But, only if you open your eyes and ears.

    • Real Estate Broker · Cleveland Dayton Cincinnati Toledo Columbus & Akron, OH · Member since 2013 · 31k+ posts · 20k+ votes
      1mo

      Definitely. The reality of the real eatate business is thar large percentage of people who come on this site, and or invest in a rental property, are not built for this business, or any business really.

    • Investor · Milwaukee - Mequon, WI · Member since 2010 · 5k+ posts · 7k+ votes
      1mo

      100%.

      Replace a light bulb for $200 and you will get an angry phone call. Nobody cares that you had to send out a qualified repair person with benefits and PTO fully loaded with FICA at $65/hr across town with a 65k company vehicle just to find out its not a standard E26 base but a E17 and he had to drive to a store to find one, then the tenant was in the shower, so he had to wait and the whole thing took almost an entire afternoon.

      The owner only knows a light bulb is $2 and he could have done it after work.

    • Investor · Charleston, SC · Member since 2018 · 198 posts · 87 votes
      1mo

      Not wrong, but it's not really an attitude problem either. The owners fighting every $300 invoice usually don't have a way to independently check it, so pushing back is the only tool they've got. The ones who've built a habit of tying every charge back to an actual invoice or bank line rarely argue, they either see the number holds up or catch the one that doesn't and move on.

    • Drew SygitBusiness Member
      Property Manager · Royal Oak, MI · Member since 2012 · 13k+ posts · 9k+ votes
      1mo

      What about owners that expect their PMC to "play bank" and loan them money for repairs and take it out of future rents?

      Pretty much illegal in most states.

    • Member since 2018 · 9 posts · 3 votes
      1mo

      Both things are true at once, and I say that as someone who sits on both sides of it. I run a management company and I also own and operate rentals, so I have been the owner asking the annoying question and the operator answering it.

      When an owner feels like the problem, it is almost never that they are difficult people. It is that expectations were never set and the owner has no visibility, so anxiety fills the gap. The owner asking about a repair three weeks later is not trying to be a pain. They just never got told it was done, so it is still an open loop in their head. The one arguing about a $300 invoice usually is not cheap, they just cannot see the context, so every expense feels like a surprise. Those are communication and process gaps, and they are the manager's to close.

      The experienced investors are not easy because they are nicer. They are easy because they already know how this works, so the expectations are baked in. The one and two door owners have not learned that yet, and part of the job is teaching them without making them feel dumb for asking.

      Two things fix most of it. First, set expectations hard at onboarding: what we handle without asking, what needs your sign off, when you hear from us, and what reporting looks like. Second, over communicate on the small stuff early. Send the quick note that the repair is done before they ask. And the reporting that eats a manager's week is usually reporting built for the manager, not the owner. Build it so an owner opens it and immediately sees their money, and the questions drop off.

      So no, owners are not the problem. Misaligned expectations are, and closing that gap is the actual service we are selling.

    • Patrick O'SullivanBusiness Member
      Property Manager · Phoenix, AZ · Member since 2024 · 559 posts · 213 votes
      1mo

      I can definitely see both sides. A $300 repair feels very different to someone with one or two rentals than it does to someone with a large portfolio. Smaller owners naturally scrutinize expenses more because each one can materially affect that month’s cash flow. The problem starts when reasonable oversight turns into micromanagement. A good PM should provide enough transparency that the owner doesn’t have to chase answers, and a good owner should give the PM enough authority to actually manage. Most of the friction probably comes down to setting clear expectations upfront around repairs, spending limits, communication, and reporting rather than owners or PMs inherently being the problem.

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    • Kansas City · Member since 2024 · 18 posts · 1 vote
      1mo

      I can see each side of this to a large degree. When I worked for a lender, I conducted hundreds of multifamily property inspections for assets on our books. Probably the #1 complaint I heard from PM's, to there credit, was a lack of investment by the owner into the property. The PM was being forced to "do their best" to maximize revenue, increase occupancy, etc. for a property that was steadily becoming less competitive because of a lack of investment from ownership. These PM's were often glad to see us on-site; while we weren't there to advise and manage the borrower's capital expenditures plan of course, we could definitely influence and even enforce some capital investments to a degree if the property condition was not at least in-line with the condition at the time we underwrote it. Property condition was a MAJOR sticking point the last few years, particularly at the Agencies.

    • Real Estate Agent · Memphis · Member since 2026 · 629 posts · 361 votes
      1mo

      There's some truth to it, but I wouldn't say owners are "worse." Tenants and owners just create different kinds of work, A tenant calls because something needs to be fixed. An owner may want to know why it broke. why it cost $300, whether you got another quote, and why they weren't called first. None of those are unreasonable questions, but when expecations around repairs, approvals and communication aren't clear from the beginning, that relationship can become a lot more work than managing the tenant.

    • Adam BartomeoBusiness Member
      Real Estate Broker · Cape Coral, FL · Member since 2015 · 2k+ posts · 1k+ votes
      1mo

      Owners and tenants are never a problem. The problem is when a PM does not have the proper systems in place. This reduces the number of touches that are needed. Owners will normally do the research but if they cannot find the answer they have to call or text. Also, talking with three PM's is not a large enough sample size. There are lots of PM's out there and about 90% are poo...

    • Coral Springs, FL · Member since 2018 · 497 posts · 118 votes
      1mo

      i self-manage so i'm basically the owner the PMs are complaining about. and honestly? fair.

      when you only have a few doors every dollar matters a lot more. you're not looking at a $300 repair as a line item in a portfolio report. you're looking at it as the difference between cash flowing that month or not. so yeah, you ask questions. and yeah, sometimes you ask them more than once because you forgot or you want to understand the pattern, not just the one charge.

      but here's what i've noticed since i started doing this. the owners who are "the worst" are usually the ones who care the most about their business. they just don't have the systems yet. i went through a phase where i'd get a repair notice three days later and have no idea what happened. felt like i was the last to know about my own property. once i set up a simple spreadsheet tracking every request and its status, most of that anxiety went away. not because the PM changed, but because i could see what was happening.

      i think a lot of PMs mistake "owner doesn't have visibility" for "owner is difficult." if you send a two-line update after a repair - what broke, what you did, what it cost, before or after - that owner probably stops being the one who calls three times. they just want to know someone's handling it.

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