Should spouse get full time job or work full time on REI?

Should spouse get full time job or work full time on REI?

Rental Property Investor · Provo, UT · Member since 2021 · 4 posts · 1 vote

Hello all, my wife and I are graduating from college in April. I plan to work full time as an engineer in Texas and will be making right around $100k. My wife would be happy to either get a full time job where she could make about $50k a year or focus full time on real estate investing. We plan to live on about $25k a year and invest the rest. Ultimately our goal is to be financially independent within 10 years to spend more time doing the things we love.

What are your thoughts and insights of what will get us to our goals fastest. Thanks in advance!

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Bruce WoodruffPro Member
Contractor/Investor/Consultant · San Diego / Phoenix · Member since 2021 · 12k+ posts · 15k+ votes
3y

She should get a job first. You won't have enough to keep her busy all day....even if you had 5 properties.

Becoming a Realtor for starters is not a bad idea....IF she has the proper skills, personality and mindset. It is not an easy job at all....

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  • Rental Property Investor · Provo, UT · Member since 2021 · 4 posts · 1 vote
    3y

    Another potential option is for my wife to get her real estate license and work as a real estate agent

  • Real Estate Agent · Austin, TX · Member since 2020 · 1k+ posts · 941 votes
    3y
    Quote from @Parker Stott:

    Hello all, my wife and I are graduating from college in April. I plan to work full time as an engineer in Texas and will be making right around $100k. My wife would be happy to either get a full time job where she could make about $50k a year or focus full time on real estate investing. We plan to live on about $25k a year and invest the rest. Ultimately our goal is to be financially independent within 10 years to spend more time doing the things we love.

    What are your thoughts and insights of what will get us to our goals fastest. Thanks in advance!


    If you're just getting started, I would recommend she gets a job to maximize your DTI so you can qualify to buy as many properties as possible. You get tax benefits by having someone being a real estate professional, but that doesn't really matter if you don't have any properties. Max out your DTI with quality cash flowing properties then transition to tax strategies when you start making the big bucks.

  • Bruce WoodruffPro Member
    Contractor/Investor/Consultant · San Diego / Phoenix · Member since 2021 · 12k+ posts · 15k+ votes
    3y

    She should get a job first. You won't have enough to keep her busy all day....even if you had 5 properties.

    Becoming a Realtor for starters is not a bad idea....IF she has the proper skills, personality and mindset. It is not an easy job at all....

  • Suzanne PlayerPro Member
    Attorney · New York City / Long Island, NY · Member since 2020 · 597 posts · 248 votes
    3y

    What is the occupation that she would be making $50k/year at?  

  • Contractor · Scottsdale, AZ · Member since 2010 · 2k+ posts · 3k+ votes
    3y

    Unless you guys already have a ton of money to deploy, your wife won't have much to do for a while if she just calls herself the real estate investor of the family. Deals are few and far between. And even when you find a rental or a house to flip, they are pretty slow moving and don't require a ton of hours.

    With that being said, I think her getting a real estate license is a great idea. It will help immerse her in your market, and bring in some more money for you guys to sock away for future investments.

    Being financially independent within 10 years is an aggressive goal but if you really can survive on just $25k per year, then I think your goal is within reach. Best of luck!

  • Bruce WoodruffPro Member
    Contractor/Investor/Consultant · San Diego / Phoenix · Member since 2021 · 12k+ posts · 15k+ votes
    3y

    Wait a minute..... How do you make it on $2000 a month? Mortgage or rent alone will take most of that.....

    You might want to redo your budget......

  • Melanie ThomasBusiness Member
    Real Estate Broker · San Antonio · Member since 2022 · 1k+ posts · 489 votes
    3y

    Definitely get a job, especially just starting out. You can do both! Happy Investing! 

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  • Real Estate Agent · Kansas City · Member since 2018 · 4k+ posts · 3k+ votes
    3y

    I would encourage your wife to get licensed. Can open up so many doors. Just be conscious that it's a commission based job. The first 1-2 years won't be awesome(unless you get lucky). She can use the commissions to save and learn. As you guys get going you can start investing. 

  • Wale LawalBusiness Member
    Real Estate Broker · Houston | Dallas | Austin, TX · Member since 2018 · 5k+ posts · 2k+ votes
    3y

    @Parker Stott

    She can start by learning from a local agent or investor.

    It depends if she wants to start part time or full time.

    If you are planning to invest in Real estate then she can help with her knowledge she will be acquiring along the way.

    All the best to you both!

  • Rental Property Investor · Provo, UT · Member since 2021 · 4 posts · 1 vote
    3y
    Quote from @Bruce Woodruff:

    Wait a minute..... How do you make it on $2000 a month? Mortgage or rent alone will take most of that.....

    You might want to redo your budget......

    We are currently living on about $2k a month so we just have to avoid lifestyle creep (which will take a lot of discipline). And we are also planning to house hack to drastically reduce how much we pay each month for housing. 
  • Theresa HarrisPro Member
    Member since 2019 · 15k+ posts · 11k+ votes
    3y

    If you want to buy properties, having both of you working will get you further ahead faster especially if you want to stop working in 10 years.  What did she get her degree in?  After 4 years of college, why not put that degree to work for her?

  • Rental Property Investor · Member since 2020 · 1k+ posts · 1k+ votes
    3y

    I have 6 properties that I self manage. With proper systems in place it really doesn't take a lot of time so what would she be doing all day, personally I would be bored.  What if she does both and gets a job working for a property management company learning on someone else's dime.  She will be well versed in the law and get good at screening plus be able to create a network of contacts you may need later.  With a large company she will see more in a few years than I most likely will in a lifetime and learn how to handle challenges. 10 years is aggressive so to increase your odds of being successful you need to focus on making as much as possible and scale quickly.  Also seems like kinda a waste of a lot of money to get a degree and not even use it, that's a lot of time and money down the drain.  

  • Bruce WoodruffPro Member
    Contractor/Investor/Consultant · San Diego / Phoenix · Member since 2021 · 12k+ posts · 15k+ votes
    3y
    Quote from @Adam Martin:

    Also seems like kinda a waste of a lot of money to get a degree and not even use it, that's a lot of time and money down the drain.  

    Lol, most degrees attained nowadays are not used.....lots of English/philosophy/sociology/anthropology majors working at Starbucks....
  • Andy WebbPro Member
    Rental Property Investor · Carrollton, TX · Member since 2013 · 750 posts · 538 votes
    3y

    I agree with most of the thoughts presented so far - put her to work!  Above all, if you are planning to buy rental properties, keep in mind that you do not both have to be on the note.  You can maximize the "cheaper" money, the Fannie Mae backed loans, by doing your loans separately.  And you can each then do up to 10 loans that way.  But she will need an income to pursue those FNMA loans...

    Andy

  • Investor · Greenville, SC · Member since 2016 · 5k+ posts · 13k+ votes
    3y

    Most of us have families, jobs, and real estate portfolios.  So, do both.

  • Nathan GesnerBusiness Member
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    Real Estate Broker · Cody, WY · Member since 2010 · 28k+ posts · 41k+ votes
    3y

    I'm with the others. You both get full-time jobs and maximize savings to invest with. You can do the investing work in the evenings and weekends and should be able to get 5-10 rentals in a couple years (depends on market and prices and aggressiveness) and then she can decide whether she wants to get her license and work on investing full-time.

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  • Drew SygitBusiness Member
    Property Manager · Royal Oak, MI · Member since 2012 · 12k+ posts · 9k+ votes
    3y

    @Parker Stott if you both get jobs and can qualify for FNMA mortgages SEPARATELY, then you can each get 10 mortgages.

    Try to NEVER be on a mortgage or loan together.

  • Investor · Austin, TX · Member since 2021 · 9k+ posts · 5k+ votes
    3y

    One of you should get the full time job to show consistent income. It will be easier to qualify for loans 

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