My 12 year old bought his first house

My 12 year old bought his first house

Rental Property Investor · OKC, OK · Member since 2008 · 108 posts · 235 votes

My 12 year old son closed on his first rental property last month - and now he wants to buy another. 

I think every parent wants to teach their kids about finance, and my wife and I like others, have struggled with how best do that without boring them to death.  So over the past summer,we offered to pay our 3 sons to read books (thanks BP podcast for this great idea!) of our choosing.  Our 14 year old son passed on the idea because he doesn't like to read and honestly would rather spend money on clothes and shoes versus saving a single cent.  But our 12 year old is a fervent reader and quickly read "Rich Dad for Teens" while we were on a vacation to Durango.  The deal was, however, that he had to read it and be able to have an intelligent discussion about the book's core concepts.  

On the drive home he began to explain assets versus liabilities, earned income versus passive income, etc. and it seemed as though he really had a solid understanding.  Over the following weeks, he asked if he could use his "stock money" to purchase a rental home since he had seen us building our rental portfolio.  This lead to further discussions about leverage and how to make OPM work with tax savings.  Of course these were cursory discussions but I was surprised at how much he actually retained.  So we told him we would help, but he would have to do most of the heavy lifting and use his own money.   

Over the next few months, he would ask me to drive him around to go look at houses. I really think he was equally as interested in going to lunch with Dad - the boy likes to eat! - but either way, we looked at lots of properties together. He carried around a notebook and wrote down Realtors' numbers, made calls himself, made "guestimates" of repair costs, rents, how much he would need for a down payment, etc. and we practiced crunching the numbers together. I made him talk to the Realtors directly and I was amazed by how many spoke to him as if he was an adult investor and not a 12 year old. We made many offers which didn't pan out. But one evening just after he had gone to bed, I received a call from a Realtor that a HUD property that we had inquired about would go to investor status the following morning and so we put in the offer we had previously discussed and it was accepted the next morning.

We had started a DRIP (dividend reinvestment plan) when each of our boys were born and asked family to give birthday and Christmas gift with that in mind.  So they might get $100 total and $25 of it could spent on a toy and $75 went to their stocks.  And my wife and I made an automated $25 contribution monthly to each of their account.  This grew over times and was intended to be college money or retirement money or whatever they chose once they were adults.  But we agreed to let our 12 year old cash some of this in to buy this house.  So he provided the $11k down payment and $1500 or so closing costs.  Also the approximate $3k in repairs were provided by him.  I understand that there will be some naysayers who will say that it's truly not his house since the mortgage was obtained in our name and the house was titled in our name.  But we have contributed zero dollars of our own money.  And after consultation with accountants and lawyers, this seemed the best way to go about this and we will title it to him at age 18.  Any cash flow will go to replenish his stock account and potentially fund more properties.  And he's definitely involved.  We did take him out of school to attend the closing, I've taught him how to change the locks and do basic repairs, and he has to stay up to date on the financials on his house.  

So my 12 year old is already looking for his next property, my 9 year old now thinks he want to do the same but doesn't yet have the comprehension of the basics to move forward, and my 14 year old just bought another pair of shoes!  

Sorry for the long post, but I'd love to hear other people's experiences and thoughts on this strategy.

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Springfield, MA · Member since 2017 · 11 posts · 14 votes
9y
Wow I'm 23 and I want to be like your 12 year old great job on parenting and he's also doing a great job all the books I've read say to start early I guess he understood that perfectly
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  • Gabriel F.Pro Member
    Rental Property Investor · Fort Myers, FL · Member since 2014 · 22 posts · 7 votes
    9y

    I absolutely love it! Brilliant dad, great job! I actually started out reading Rich Dad Poor Dad and The Millionaire Next Door when I got started and books really get a deep understanding of relating and learning new things! The biggest problem is you either have it or you don't.. If you don't you'll need to look at things in another angle and make it work but it can work! I think you have a son who is going places and has wonderful parents guiding him :) 

  • Mindy JensenPro Member
    BiggerPockets Money Podcast Host · Longmont, CO · Member since 2014 · 7k+ posts · 10k+ votes
    9y

    Thank you for the suggestion, @Ro Maga and @Samuel Lacroix.

  • Schaghticoke, NY · Member since 2015 · 216 posts · 57 votes
    9y
    This is awesome! I started when I was 26 and wish I had started right out of high school. I'm jealous that your son has started at 12! You have really set him up for a killer future and I look forward to being able to do this with my kids in the future.
  • Rental Property Investor · OKC, OK · Member since 2008 · 108 posts · 235 votes
    9y

    Thanks again for all of the kind comments.  I wasn't sure what kind of response this would get but I was  just proud of his initiative on something that I love as well.  

    I wanted to thank each of you for taking the time to post the words of encouragement.  We are traveling this weekend and in an area with spotty reception so I will try to answer some of the more specific questions next week when we return.  Thanks!

  • Investor · Pensacola, FL · Member since 2017 · 2 posts · 2 votes
    9y

    Congratulations to your son. It is one thing for a parent to provide advice and support, and another for a 12 year old to have the maturity and willingness to act. He is a remarkable boy.

    And as for the 14 year old, he is me at that age. My dad tried to provide good advice and guidance but I was interested in shiny things. Once I realized that it takes time and financial knowledge and hands on investing to really get shiny things I got busy. Of course I was 44 by then, but it is never too late.

  • Hollywood, FL · Member since 2014 · 8 posts · 2 votes
    9y

    Great Story and even better parenting! I will try to do the same when my kids get around that age. 

  • Rental Property Investor · OKC, OK · Member since 2008 · 108 posts · 235 votes
    9y

    @Elizabeth Wilson Thank you.  I sent you a message.

  • Ashley WilsonPro Member
    Rental Property Investor · Radnor, PA · Member since 2015 · 178 posts · 125 votes
    9y

    This is such an incredible story on so many levels. First, it's obvious that you are terrific parents! Not only are you providing supportive, educational parenting, but also you are creating an environment around you that (via the DRIP) that enables that fostering from others as well.  Second, while I am confident all of your children will be successful, it appears your 12 year old is quite the go-getter!  I love the fact that your 12yo attended closing over school.  It was an excellent learning opportunity, and whatever he/she was going to learn today would never be as memorable as attending closing.  My daughter is 2 yo right now, and I have another one on the way.  I am definitely going to be copying your parenting on this situation! 

  • Investor · Franklin, WI · Member since 2013 · 25 posts · 11 votes
    9y

    When my son was 10 I talked to him about a flip I was investing in with a partner. I showed him pictures of the property, the purchase price, cost of rehab, and the selling price based on comps. I told him if he also wanted to invest in the flip he could, but 3 things could happen to his money: he could lose his money, he could get his money back with no profit, or he could make a profit. I told him that I believed we would make money based on the numbers so that's why I decided to invest. He decided to invest too & when we sold the flip he made a nice profit. He was a happy boy!  We will buy our second flip tomorrow & my son will invest more of his money in this one. I set up audible on his phone so he can listen to the books I have purchased. I just need to add Rich Dad, Poor Dad for him to listen to next. 

  • Investor · Oklahoma City, OK · Member since 2010 · 279 posts · 90 votes
    9y
    Originally posted by @Blake Lennon:

    @Drew Eldridge,  

    Love it!  I would only hope to instill the same investor mindset in any future offspring.  I'm a local OKC RE investor and would love to meet up to hear more of your story and talk shop.  And also to pick up a pointer or two from the up and comer! ;)  My dad gave me a copy of Rich Dad, Poor Dad when I was your son's age.  The information in that book brewed for a looong time, but I did eventually take action.  (As so many of us know), it was a game changer once it took hold.  

    Happy to buy you guys coffee should you ever want to meet up.  @Ron Harris and Angelina are my mentors so I'm familiar with Starbucks.  :)  Feel free to message me.  Cheers!

     Ha ha. You mean we live at Starbucks. We have an office but we spend more time at Starbucks. It's our real office! 

  • Investor · Miami, FL · Member since 2016 · 13 posts · 2 votes
    9y

    This is an amazing story! God bless him! I pray my kids will have the same drive as your son! My kids are toddlers right now but my husband and I work our deals in front of them hoping they will one day understand what we do and work so hard for... Congratulations! You have definitely put some tears in my eyes for such an amazing moment you have shared with your boy! Keep it up and I agree with the above statement... you should definitely make a book... I believe it will motive other children and young adults! 

  • Property Manager · Downers Grove, IL · Member since 2012 · 99 posts · 40 votes
    9y

    "And after consultation with accountants and lawyers, this seemed the best way to go about this and we will title it to him at age 18"

    I'm interested to know about any comments on the tax implication of this at the time it would happen?

  • Rental Property Investor · Norman, OK · Member since 2017 · 12 posts · 13 votes
    7y

    @Drew Eldridge this is an amazing story!!! My kids are 8, 6, and 4 and when we are scouting properties/talking to tenants/etc they complain but I'm determined to expose them to the business.  I had never thought of them becoming investors before college~but now I will :).  Do you have a recent update?  Any more acquisitions or have your other kids jumped on the band wagon?  Love that you managed to instill the entrepreneurial spirit at a young age!

  • Joshua PoitrasPro Member
    Real Estate Agent · Lowell, MA · Member since 2015 · 187 posts · 67 votes
    4y

    @Drew Eldridge Thanks for the post Drew, Wicked inspired. Didnt realize they had a rich dad for teens. Ill have to check it out. 

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