What to look for in a lender?

[Jarrod Murrell]

Any basic charictaristics to llok for in a good lender? I want someone who is going to work with me, not against me. Especially not make me jump through hoops for a treat, only to find another trick around the corner. I went through a broker on my first property, and it was THE MOST miserable experience of my life. The woman literally couldnt add 3+1. Sad thing is i didnt learn until about 12 hours before closing, she couldnt do the math. I realise a lot of it was on me going with her, but jesus she was bad, if not the worst. Are there any posts that can help guide me to a list of questions to ask a lender? Or any advice on how to chose one? Stay away from brokers?