Bessemer, AL · Member since 2014 · 581 posts · 32 votes
My real estate partner called me up with some ideas to make some money. As always, his "idea" involves spending thousands of dollars on some real estate investing program. I want no part of that. Anyway, he now wants to get a $17000 loan using a line of credit. He recently lost his 9 to 5 job, so he's desperate for income. His credit score is bad, but my credit score is good. He is pleading with me to co-sign on the line of credit loan. My gut tells me don't do it. He goes on to say I have to take risks to make something happen. I understand that, but I am not doing great financially as far as my own income from my day job. I want to make some progress in real estate, but should co-signing for that $17000 loan be the solution? He really needs my help and I don't think I am able to be a cosigner. He make it sound so easy like the property will pay back the loan in no time. I don't know about all that.
Investor · NJ · Member since 2018 · 869 posts · 921 votes
7y
I don't think it's a bad idea, I think it's a horrible idea! He obviously has issues if he lost his 9-5, has poor credit and is desperate for income. Those are three major red flags. Maybe you should start looking for a new partner.
Investor · NJ · Member since 2018 · 869 posts · 921 votes
7y
I don't think it's a bad idea, I think it's a horrible idea! He obviously has issues if he lost his 9-5, has poor credit and is desperate for income. Those are three major red flags. Maybe you should start looking for a new partner.
Bessemer, AL · Member since 2014 · 581 posts · 32 votes
7y
@Adam Bush@Jeff Stricker I am leaning towards no too. I feel bad about his situation though, but I sleep better at night not having to worry about what happens if he can't pay off the loan then I am on the hook. I am thinking that he is thinking if the loan is not paid off at least the property is used as collateral if the debt cannot be repaid. I got a feeling that is what he is thinking and why he feels doing this is easy. I disagree with that.
Contractor · Oxford, MA · Member since 2018 · 807 posts · 745 votes
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@Tony Marcelle I will put this as bluntly as possible, get a new partner. Get rid of them ASAP, tell them the truth, tell them a lie or just say you want to pause and come back to it later. I warn you with every ounce of my being, do not go into business with this person. Anyone who not only thinks this is a good idea, but wants to take a loan and wants to put your credit at risk while not even having a job is not a good partner for any business. It is true, you need to spend money and sometimes take risks but this isn't a risk, this is falling for a scam and being willing to take your partner with you because they think it will benefit them in the future. If they're willing to do that, imagine what else they're going to risk later.
@Tony Marcelle I will put this as bluntly as possible, get a new partner. Get rid of them ASAP, tell them the truth, tell them a lie or just say you want to pause and come back to it later. I warn you with every ounce of my being, do not go into business with this person. Anyone who not only thinks this is a good idea, but wants to take a loan and wants to put your credit at risk while not even having a job is not a good partner for any business. It is true, you need to spend money and sometimes take risks but this isn't a risk, this is falling for a scam and being willing to take your partner with you because they think it will benefit them in the future. If they're willing to do that, imagine what else they're going to risk later.
I'm going with my gut on this one. This just doesn't feel right.
Real Estate Investor · Washington, DC · Member since 2014 · 236 posts · 328 votes
7y
For all the reasons above, this is HORRIBLE idea. When you say yes to someone, you say yes to all their problems. He has no job, no money, bad credit, and is about to get scammed by a real estate guru. Those are his problems. When you co-sign, now all those things are your problems too because you WILL have to pay it back when he can't.
They want you to co-sign a loan for him because lenders/banks, who loan money for a living, don't think he can pay it back, so they want you to pay it back for him. If professionals won't lend him money, why do you want to do it? (co-signing is the same as lending him money because they will come after you and you will be trying to get him to pay you back, so if you don't want to lend it him, don't co-sign)
Pittsburgh, PA · Member since 2016 · 140 posts · 119 votes
7y
I agree with everyone else on here. Run. Never partner with someone who is operating from a place of desperation.
How did you get connected with said partner anyway? Have you guys done business together in the past and he's just hit a rough patch? Or was he always a wreck and this is just the latest plan to solve all of his problems?
Investor · Birmingham, AL · Member since 2016 · 446 posts · 305 votes
7y
Y'all could do A LOT in BESSEMER with $17,000. 10 grand could buy a SFH and y'all together could spend some weekends with a case of beer and rehab it yourself.
You need to refine your own judgment abilities. You should not be "leaning" towards no. This is not only a no, but a resounding hell no.
What exactly does this "partner" bring to the table anyway? Sounds like you guys haven't even been through a deal together. That would mean this person isn't even a partner, more like "a guy you know".
I agree with everyone else on here. Run. Never partner with someone who is operating from a place of desperation.
How did you get connected with said partner anyway? Have you guys done business together in the past and he's just hit a rough patch? Or was he always a wreck and this is just the latest plan to solve all of his problems?
He found me first a few years back on Connected Investors. I did not know who he was at first until I met him. Come to find out he was an old co-worker of mine at my current job. All his ideas always came down to one thing. His whole way of thinking is spending lots of money buying some guru's push button investing program where everything can be done with the push of a button. He doesn't want to put effort into actually doing the work.
I agree with everyone else on here. Run. Never partner with someone who is operating from a place of desperation.
How did you get connected with said partner anyway? Have you guys done business together in the past and he's just hit a rough patch? Or was he always a wreck and this is just the latest plan to solve all of his problems?
He found me first a few years back on Connected Investors. I did not know who he was at first until I met him. Come to find out he was an old co-worker of mine at my current job. All his ideas always came down to one thing. His whole way of thinking is spending lots of money buying some guru's push button investing program where everything can be done with the push of a button. He doesn't want to put effort into actually doing the work.
Yeah it sounds like you just need to start over with a new partner. If there was an "easy" button, your buddy wouldn't be unemployed and broke. Good luck!
Y'all could do A LOT in BESSEMER with $17,000. 10 grand could buy a SFH and y'all together could spend some weekends with a case of beer and rehab it yourself.
I can't afford to take that risk because I worry what if he cannot repay the loan if things don't go as planned.
I agree with everyone else on here. Run. Never partner with someone who is operating from a place of desperation.
How did you get connected with said partner anyway? Have you guys done business together in the past and he's just hit a rough patch? Or was he always a wreck and this is just the latest plan to solve all of his problems?
He found me first a few years back on Connected Investors. I did not know who he was at first until I met him. Come to find out he was an old co-worker of mine at my current job. All his ideas always came down to one thing. His whole way of thinking is spending lots of money buying some guru's push button investing program where everything can be done with the push of a button. He doesn't want to put effort into actually doing the work.
Yeah it sounds like you just need to start over with a new partner. If there was an "easy" button, your buddy wouldn't be unemployed and broke. Good luck!