@Ned Carey
Thanks Ned, that means a lot!
Btw, I just don't see all the "wholesale bashing", "hate wholesalers", etc. that some wholesalers are complaining of. Yes, once in a while people can get a little riled up and say some inappropriate things or say things a little harsher than they may need to but.....
I don't think that's what the wholesalers complaining about my post or calling my post "anti wholesaler" are really complaining about.
My take on it is that when someone inexperienced, naive or even clueless about what it takes to be successful arbitraging real property asks for a critique or asks a question about the subject on this forum, there is absolutely nothing "anti wholesale" or "hating wholesalers" about telling him the TRUTH.
1. Yes, all those YouTube videos he watched, "free" weeknight meetings, almost free weekend seminars he attended, are extremely misleading regarding the success that can be obtained. They either or minimize the work required, the knowledge and experience needed, the marketing costs necessary, or greatly inflate the profitability of operating a successful wholesale business. Pointing this out is not anti anything, or biased in any way. It's what we call TRUTHFUL.
2. Pointing out that the OP needs to consider potential legal issues, does not mean that the responder is calling wholesalers illegal operators, or anything of the sort. I find that most people posting that a license may be required are very specific as to which states and which practices are be referred to. Again, this is just being truthful.
3. Pointing out that many wholesalers operate unethically is a matter of opinion. But when the responders give specific examples of what behavior they believe is unethical, they aren't hating, they're merely stating their opinion. I'm all for the free market. But....I wouldn't want my 90 year old parents "helped" by a wholesaler purchasing their property for 60c on the dollar because my father has dementia. Would you?
4. Finally, we now have entered a world less and less tolerant of "invasive marketing". Yet, this is exactly what many gurus teach and what many wholesalers practice. I don't know anybody that likes calls offering to extend a warranty on a car they no longer own; lower the interest rate on student loans that were paid off last century; or buy their investment property for 65c on the dollar. and texts are even worse. Perhaps the reason real estate brokers rarely if ever engage in this practice is that their business model is building a relationship with a defined section of the community, or neighborhood, whereas the wholesaler is more of a transactional business.