The Ultimate Guide to Finding Incredible Mentors

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“How can I find a mentor?”

It seems like every would-be entrepreneur I meet is looking for a “mentor” — and with good reason. Mentors can be incredible assets in building businesses and wealth, or simply in pursuing excellence in something that inspires passion.
I feel fortunate to have had such a positive experience finding mentors, and I often think that many new investors see mentors in a very different light than I do. I see mentors as valuable resources who can provide incredible insights in very specific areas of my business and personal life. On the other hand, I think that many of my peers see mentors as those who will hold their hand and walk them through all the challenges they face on their journeys to success.
Those folks aren’t looking for mentors; they’re looking for parents.
In this article, I want to explain what a mentor is and what a mentor is not. I’ll describe the various approaches that I’ve used in the past to find and work with incredible mentors and the value that these mentors have provided for me. Hopefully my experiences can benefit those looking to learn from folks more successful than themselves and to apply that education to meaningful and positive action.

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What is a Mentor?

“Mentor” is a broadly used term. As I define it, a mentor can be anything from a coach or boss with whom you interact for 8-10 hours per day, to a friend whose counsel you seek a few times per week, to a successful person that you meet with just a handful of times for specific advice.
As with any relationship, working with a mentor requires a give and take from both sides. Sometimes my contribution to a relationship with a mentor is simple attentiveness and gratitude. In other situations, my contribution is a dedicated effort and long-term commitment to helping my mentor achieve his/her higher objectives.
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A mentor is not someone who I only contact when I need something. I don’t go to my mentors with small, trivial problems, or to discuss my bad day. My mentors aren’t there to help me with vague questions or with directional life decisions (“What career should I choose?” or “Should I invest in real estate?”). I do not expect to go to a mentor and have them hand me the keys to success while I drive off into the sunset.
I go to my mentors with specific problems and seek their advice on overcoming obstacles blocking me from achieving a very targeted goal.

5 Steps to Finding a Great Real Estate Mentor

Now that we’ve defined what a mentor is, I’d like to share five steps (that I took) that I believe will help those trying to find incredible mentors.

Step 1: Become a Mentor

I believe that it is selfish to expect to find a mentor willing to help me with my problems, yet be unwilling to help others myself. Every single person reading this can mentor others and help them achieve their goals. Everyone has a skill set that others need or want to develop. Personally, I try to mentor others at least a few times per month. Here are some areas where I’ve mentored in the past while working a full-time job and pursuing my business goals:
  • Tutoring a high school student
  • Volunteering with folks in financial crisis
  • Teaching classes on basic personal finance
  • Meeting with new investors looking to buy a first property and relaying my experience
In doing this, I’ve learned very valuable information.

Related: How to Rock at Finding a Mentor in Real Estate: The Definitive Guide

First, I learned a little bit about what mentors love. There is little more rewarding than to see a student or former mentee (is that a word?) become successful. I can’t explain that other than it’s simply nice to be appreciated. It is one of my favorite things in the world to watch a motivated personality achieve what they set out to do — and for them to attribute at least some of their success to my guidance.
It’s one thing to read about that feeling of appreciation here, but it’s another to experience that as a teacher. It makes me want to produce that same feeling for my mentors in turn. To give the good old high school sports analogy, high school football coaches love coaching football. It’s rewarding for them to see hardworking teens grow, learn, and be successful. They want to help their players succeed, and it’s the same with mentors.
Second, I learned the types of behaviors mentors hate. Mentors hate answering thoughtless questions twice. Mentors hate directing those they teach to resources that will benefit them, only to have students ask questions that are obviously answered by just looking at the materials. Mentors hate laziness. Again, it’s one thing to read that here, and it’s another thing to feel it by teaching someone and watching them ask you for advice and aid, yet not bother to follow your instructions. Back to high school football — no one wants to coach a team of slackers who don’t do what they are told and show up for the first day of practice laughably out of shape.

Step 2: Define & Commit to Your Objectives

Alice: “Would you tell me please, which way I ought to go from here?”
“That depends a good deal on where you want to get to,” said the Cat.
“I don’t much care where—,” said Alice.
“Then it doesn’t matter which way you go,” said the Cat.
“So long as I get somewhere,” Alice added as an explanation.
“Oh, you’re sure to do that,” said that cat, “if only you walk long enough.”
— Lewis Carroll, Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland
It’s pretty futile to attempt to mentor someone unsure of what they are attempting to do. Often, folks looking for mentors have very vague goals, or switch goals week to week and month to month. They don’t know or care where they are going. One day they want to invest in real estate, the next it’s the stock market, then next week they want to go start a blog.
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One of my favorite examples of an “Alice” moment from those looking for a mentor is, “I’ve got $100,000.  What should I do with it?”
Are you kidding me?
First of all, telling the whole world you have $100,000 and no plan is pretty darn bold and makes you fairly vulnerable to the bad guys out there. Second, there are quite a few ways to blow $100,000. Third, how the hell can anyone help you when you give them no context and don’t definitively have a plan and objective for life?
Here’s a better way to phrase that question:
“I’ve saved some money. My goal is to achieve financial freedom by producing cash flow in excess of my lifestyle’s expenses. I’d like to invest this money so as to build my net worth in the most rapid manner possible. I want to achieve that return by investing in real estate, and I’m willing to work on and in the investment. I want to achieve this while living and investing in Denver, CO. Based on my yearlong study of the Denver market and real estate investing in general, it looks like there are multiple areas nearby in which I can purchase two or potentially three properties given my current cash position and income. I’d like some help identifying which of the neighborhoods with properties in my price range offer the highest chances for success for me, both in strong cash flow and in the potential for appreciation.”
Who gets an incredible mentor in this scenario?
Figure out where you want to get to before you go asking for directions.

Step 3: Announce Your Intentions

It’s no secret; I want to achieve financial freedom as rapidly as possible, and I want to help others do the same.  That’s an objective of mine, and I want it fairly badly. I talk to anyone and everyone about ways to spend less money, make more money, and invest at higher and higher returns. I’m always seeking ways to speed up that process, to find shortcuts, and to learn from those who have been successful about where they succeeded and what set them back. My intentions are clear on Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, BiggerPockets, and everywhere else in my life.
I’m not going to lie… I annoy or turn off a lot of people who aren’t interested in financial freedom.
And I don’t care.
Announcing my intentions loudly and repeatedly to everyone I come across has opened door after door in my life. I’ve met incredible mentors, connected with professionals who have the capacity to help me (like my agent), and I even landed a pretty awesome job working at this little startup that helps others achieve financial independence through real estate (BiggerPockets!).
Announce your intentions to the world, and see who responds. Anytime you meet someone new, steer the conversation in that direction, and see if it sparks interest. Find those in your current network who secretly share your same objectives or interests. A surprising number of folks in your circles DO have similar goals to you and are not announcing them. Announcing my intentions has been critically important to me and has opened doors to mentorships that I could never have imagined.

Step 4: Identify Those Who Can (& Want to) Help You

Let’s say my goal was to get started investing in real estate. A great mentor might be a small time investor with a few properties, or someone who had just recently purchased their first investment property. On the other hand, a poor choice might have been to seek the guidance of Phil Anschutz (a billionaire real estate investor from here in Colorado).
Phil Anschutz would be a great person to network with were my goal to move from $500M to $1B in real estate. But he’s probably not the greatest resource to go to for advice in purchasing small multi-family properties one at a time and achieving a modest level of financial freedom.
Instead, I looked for a realistic mentor. Someone who had completed the next actionable step that I was looking to complete. Trying to buy a few small multi-families? How about the investor who purchases a handful of small multi-family properties every year? He’s probably a good person to learn from. It might make sense to get to know him, to ask his advice, and then to do what he says.
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Step 5: Take Action & Express Gratitude

If you’ve identified who and what you want in a mentor, it shouldn’t be too hard to reach out to a few of them and ask their opinion on something. In my experience, all of the mentors that I have reached out to for guidance in the past have directed me to one or several resources.
Sometimes I look at the resources that new mentors direct me to, and other times, I’ve allowed other things to get in the way of following their advice. Without fail, those times that I thoroughly followed a mentor’s advice and took action based on their instructions, they were willing to help me with the next similar challenge that I faced. Most of the time, when I failed to follow a mentor’s instructions and heed their counsel, that relationship faded away.
Sometimes it’s OK for a relationship to fade. Not every mentor is going to work out, and it is not in your best interest to follow all advice given to you. But if you are looking for a mentor to regularly and repeatedly return to with challenges, then you must take action based on their counsel, and then express gratitude.
Remember how I mentioned that mentors love to see their students become successful? They do. They love it.  They love to see success, but even more so, they want to feel appreciated. The mentors in my life have made a huge difference for me. I am humbled and honored by their support, and I make it clear to them just how highly I value their contributions. Their advice directly impacts how I run my day to day life, and when I tell them how grateful I am of the impact they’ve had, it lets them know that they’ve been successful.
That leads to an even better relationship and more specific, thoughtful advice in the future.

Related: Everything Newbies Should Know BEFORE Seeking Out a Real Estate Mentor

Conclusion

I believe that these five steps have been instrumental for me in building incredibly valuable relationships with mentors over the years. I’m incredibly fortunate to have met some of the people that I’ve met, but many of my key relationships have formed as a result of following the processes outlined above.
I hope that my process is of value to others, and I hope that after reading this very long post, others will be able to begin the process of finding mentors to learn from.
Oh, and in case you are interested, I’m also including a case study of some very important mentors who have had a big impact on my day to day life. I have great respect for all those listed, and in most cases (Adam excepted), I met the mentor only after adopting the processes and mindset outlined above.

5 Great Mentors: How I Found Them & How They Changed My Life

Mentor #1: Adam

What sets Adam apart from other successful business owners that I’ve met is that he overcame a rocky youth to get to his current level of success. Adam is a recovering alcoholic with some past encounters with the law. His troubles began at just 13 years old and lasted for over a decade.
But Adam never let his rocky past trouble him. Twenty-two years later (and 22 years sober), Adam is the successful business owner of a reputable contracting firm. He has dozens working for his business, and his organization achieved more than $3 million in revenue in 2014. On track to do $5 million in 2015, Adam is rocking it.
Adam is the first to admit that he’s not “book-smart” in the typical sense. Instead, Adam’s greatest strength, as I see it, is in his ability to set, stick to, and achieve big goals by systematizing his goal setting process. He believes so strongly in his system that he spends tens of thousands of dollars per year on coaching for both his employees and himself. He even encourages his employees to use some of that coaching time for their personal, non-work related objectives.
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Adam is the son of my next-door neighbors back in Maryland. I had the privilege of intermittently seeing Adam while he built his business, started a wonderful family and mentored dozens of others to help them fulfill their goals. In between my sophomore and junior years of college, when I needed work, Adam offered me a handyman position in his company. It was there that he exposed me to his proven goal-setting system and encouraged me to write down and achieve my goals.
Ever since that summer, I have gone to Adam for advice on goal setting and organization in planning, tracking, achieving, and reflecting on my objectives. Largely from his example and advice, I fill out a document outlining my daily goals and objectives each morning. Adam even came out to visit Denver a few months back, and we went over my goals and organizational practices over a weekend of skiing.
I’m very lucky to have Adam as a mentor.

Mentor #2: Ian

Ian is a successful real estate investor who has completed dozens of projects. His greatest strengths, as I perceive them, are in quickly and accurately estimating rehab costs and spotting opportunity with new properties for the highest total returns. One of Ian’s best investments came when he spotted a small five-unit property’s potential. He was able to create an enormous increase in rental income by adding one bedroom to each unit at low cost.
Ian will tell you that he’s not your typical “numbers guy” and that his strengths come in making sound, logical decisions based on common sense and years of experience.
Ian is a member of the mastermind group I regularly attend. I am fortunate enough to be a part of this particular mastermind group because of a chance meeting with the group’s organizer. As I mentioned previously, when I first got the itch to begin investing, I talked to every single person I met about it. One of those folks happened to be a gentleman who was sitting on the same bench as me while I rested during an afternoon run in a local park here in Denver. As we talked about investing and I mentioned all of the things that I was doing to get started, he suggested that I pop in on one of the mastermind meetings that he regularly hosts.
This group has been an enormous asset to me. Every meeting we discuss our progress, current situation, and goals for the future. Each time, one or two members of the group sit in the “hot-seat” and present a business problem that they currently face. The other members then speak to similar experiences on related projects. The group has supported me when I have been successful, and they have also firmly laid to rest my ambitions on some of my more ridiculous ideas for business ventures.
I mention Ian in particular because Ian was instrumental to the successful purchase of my first duplex. I met Ian for lunch early on to pick his brain regarding specific neighborhoods in Denver that he thought offered great chances at both appreciation and cash flow. With the information gleaned from that meeting, I began my hunt for property in the areas he suggested. When I finally found one where the numbers seemed to work, I invited Ian to come take a look at the property with me.
He did so and offered valuable feedback as to which repairs were immediately necessary, and which to put off for a few years. This saved me thousands of dollars and allowed me to get a tenant into the property more quickly than I might have without his guidance. Ian even had an extra washer/dryer one day — the result of a tenant moving out and leaving the appliances behind. The washer now resides in my kitchen and will remain in the property after I move out for future use by tenants.
When I thank Ian for all of his contributions, his response is always the same: “No problem — it’s great to see someone so young taking action!”
I’m very lucky to have Ian as a mentor.

Mentors #3+4: Brandon Turner and Josh Dorkin

At work, I’m able to benefit from the years of accumulated knowledge of seasoned veterans Brandon Turner and Josh Dorkin — the hosts of the BiggerPockets Real Estate Investing Podcast.
Brandon and Josh have studied real estate investing for about a decade each and have built up the very best platform in the world for educating oneself on the topic of real estate.
I met Josh and Brandon as a result of my mastermind group, mentioned previously. I made sure to meet personally with every single member of the group, one on one, and take them out for lunch or drinks. It was the least I could do in return for the privilege of learning from their expertise. During one of these lunch meetings, my colleague gave me a tour of his office building. As we walked around the building, he said to me, “This firm does accounting, that guy is a lawyer, they do graphic design, and that guy runs the largest real estate podcast in the world or something.”
Light bulbs turned on, and I walked right up to Josh’s office, said hello, told him the value that I was getting out of his platform as a would-be investor, and asked if there was any way that I could contribute for him — perhaps by working on the site on the weekends to keep the Forums free from spam.
A week later, I’m called in by Josh for an interview for a full-time position, much to my surprise. I explain my data analytics and financial background and passion for the site and its mission, and here I am today.
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Josh and Brandon have walked me through many of the issues I’ve had professionally and in my on-the-side real estate investing. They’ve been supportive of my objectives and are always ready to give me honest feedback on issues related to my business and my sales or work-related objectives, and they support my writing and growth as a content creator. I’ve learned more in the last year working at BiggerPockets than I have in all my years of schooling combined.
I’m very lucky to have Josh and Brandon as my mentors.

Related: The 3 Most Valuable Universal Truths My Mentors Taught Me

Mentor #5: Rich

A few months ago, I hired a coach to help me prioritize my objectives and streamline my thinking. This coach has already helped me change the way I view doing business and has brought back the feeling behind my goals.  I’m also seeing results from his new approach in my productivity and sales volume. Not coincidentally, this coach happens also to coach Adam, my first mentor.
Rich, unlike the other mentors on this list, does meet with me regularly to discuss my personal objectives, what I want and how I feel — and to discuss all the challenges I face regularly.
That’s because I pay him.
I wouldn’t go to the other mentors on this list and complain, “I have too much to do! How do I eliminate all these non-essential tasks from my day?” That would be a waste of their time, and they’d be unlikely to be of much value, even if they were willing to allocate time to that type of whining. My coach does hold my hand through that process, and I value that enough to take out my pocketbook and write a check. He forces me to prioritize high impact, but long-term work first.
I’m not sure a coach is for everyone, and I wouldn’t have a coach if I was struggling financially or had a lot of free time. But because I wish to tackle a large number of projects at the same time, I find his insights to be valuable, and his approach keeps me motivated. Rich has changed the way that I think about sales and value creation, and how I prioritize the projects that I tackle each and every day.
I’m very lucky to have Rich as my mentor.
Investors: What about YOU? 
  • What are your best tips for finding high quality mentors?
  • How do you give back to keep the relationship going?
  • What’s the most valuable thing a mentor has taught you?

Don’t forget to leave a comment… and let’s discuss the life-changing abilities of mentorships!

About Author

Scott Trench

A longtime fan of BiggerPockets and a Real Estate Investor managing his first property, Scott is the company’s Director of Operations. BiggerPockets is a BIG website, and Scott’s background in finance and big data analysis will be instrumental in the next phases of company growth and in helping to bring the resources of BiggerPockets to more investors worldwide. Scott is passionate about helping others build wealth and serving his community in whatever ways he can. In his spare time, Scott enjoys skiing, biking, and cooking, and he is a lifelong rugger.

48 Comments

  1. Anthony Aguillard

    Scott, congratulations, u are on your way to much success. You have surrounded yourself with highly successful people. The most important thing about your interaction with your circle is that u listened and you are applying what u were taught. Thanks for the tips, they are refreshing.

  2. casey stuebs

    This is a great blog, thanks for taking the time to write it! And being a good mentee to your mentors so you had the experience to write it! 🙂

    I think one of my favorite point is when you spoke about Ian and you mastermind group putting someone in the hot seat explaining a current problem they face and members of the group sharing experiences or giving advice. I think that is extremely valuable. Even though I may not have investments yet I will bring this up at the next REI type meeting I go to and see if we can try it!

    • Scott Trench

      Thanks Casey! That Hot Seat has saved me a number of times. I remember one of my first ideas was to start a “winter tire rental” business. Very foolish. Very quickly put to rest after bringing it before smart businessmen in the hot seat.

  3. Christopher Davis

    This blog has given me perspective I did not have regarding mentoring. I never really sought one and have not thought to become one because I was thinking the wrong way about the whole concept. It’s about how you relate to others and how you can can simply help someone advance toward a goal, large or small. The reward and benefit goes both ways.

    Thank you, Scott

    • Scott Trench

      Thanks Christopher! Mentorship absolutely can go both ways, and I am fortunate enough now to be in a position to help some of my former mentors with their real estate goals by showing them how to create business using BiggerPockets!

  4. Scott Jensen

    Great article. I think your comment in comparison of Mentors and Parents is my favorite line here. Mentors are there to guide a specific action, Parents are there to hold your hand and take you step by step. Pay the parents (coaches) in your career then listen and act to those mentors whom have the expertise in the areas you are asking them questions. Don’t forget to act and let them know your outcome. Good and bad. They can help the failures and love the successes.

    • Scott Trench

      Thanks Scott – I think that sadly a lot of folks come on BP and expect a mentor to be handed to them, and then for the mentor to show them step by step, exactly how to be successful. It doesn’t work that way. That said, mentors can certainly evolve into that role down the line, but it will depend a great deal on your actions, and how much you put in to the relationship from your side.

  5. Andrew Syrios

    Great article! Speaking for myself, the best way I’ve seen to find a mentor is to offer something of value in return, even if that means working for them for free or real cheap. Hell, we’ve had two different people approach us about unpaid internships since our podcast!

  6. Brian Gibbons

    Hi Scott,

    I thought I would post this story of when I was a young man, perhaps some BP vistors can find some value and motivation in it.

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    How I met my first real estate and business mentor and coach.

    I was in a bar, and I just lost my job. I am 56 now, but at the time I was 25, fresh out of the US Marines. The year was 1984. Interest rates were high, over 10%.

    At the bar was this smiling guy, and he said,

    “Who just died?”

    I looked at him. He must have smelled the self-pity on my face.

    Here is what just happened to me.

    I worked for a small firm in Construction Engineering Products called Johnson Controls that sold air and water control equipment to large apartment and commercial building contractors. My math and science background helped me get the job and land a potentially $50,000 a year job right out of college.

    But the” J O B” paid $400 a week. Why? It an advance on future commissions.

    I had over $10K in commissions due to me after 90 days working there, and I asked my boss for my commissions now.

    He laughed, and said,

    You will get paid when I get paid.

    I got in an argument with him and he fired me.

    So this guy at the bar said to me,

    “Tough break. What are you gonna do now?”

    “Look for work I guess,” I replied.

    So he says, “You like real estate?” You like solving problems for people?”

    I was taken aback by that comment. Was this guy trying to hire me or what?

    I smiled, and asked him,

    “Are you looking hire someone?”

    He chuckled, and said, “Well, I’m always looking for great salespeople that hustle.”

    Here’s what happened. The man’s name was Glenn, and he owned a real estate investment company.

    He never called it a real estate investment company,

    he called

    ” a place where we solve problems for people.”

    The thing that was amazing about Glenn as he knew a little bit about everything and I mean everything.

    He knew about
    -business,
    -legal issues,
    -tax issues,
    -marketing,
    -sales,
    -promotion,
    -networking, and
    -most importantly he knew about people (psychology).

    The first thing he did was tell me that

    I have two ears and one mouth, and I should listen more than I talk.

    Second thing he did was have me read

    “How to Win Friends and Influence People” by Dale Carnegie.

    Then he taught me how to
    -set appointments with home sellers,
    -go out to their home, and
    -write up a “letter of intent to purchase or lease”.

    He said to me,

    “your job is to bring me potential home sellers will consider a creative offer.”

    I was very confused the first few months working there. I did know what a wraparound mortgage was, or subject to existing financing was,, or subordinating private notes, or lease option assignments.

    So I stumbled along.

    What allowed me succeed was
    -Glenn had an awesome direct mail marketing machine, and even had an appointment setter, so
    -I just needed to get my car and go talk to 3 to 4 sellers everyday.
    -I’d use the same presentation with everyone.
    -And I’ve get them all “letter of intent to buy for cash or on terms.”

    One of the things Glenn told me was…

    “some will, some won’t, so what!”

    What that means is that
    -some sellers will do what you want to them to do, and
    -some will not.

    The law of large numbers cures all problems.

    What surprised me even more is that some sellers would call the office, in 3 to 6 to even 12 months later, because they appreciated my first meeting with them.

    Especially some sellers that were very angry with me in the beginning,
    called me names,
    said things like “you just try to rip me off!!”

    In my first six months I must have seen 20 people a week, 80 a people month, almost 500 people in that six months.

    I think we closed on three to five houses a month grossing between $5,000 to $10,000 per house, and, unfortunately, I didn’t make that money, Glenn’s company did.

    The financial arrangement for pay for me was
    -I would make $500 cash every week, that’s cash.
    -No benefits and no 401(k).
    Was it legal, I don’t know.
    I didn’t own the business.
    I was a hired hand.

    After several months, Glen said…

    “you’re do a good job keep it up.
    I’m going to give you a few more duties.
    I want to be able to travel so you can run the office while I’m gone.”

    I was scared at first, having never run a business.
    I liked the security of a consistent paycheck.

    But I loved being able to make decisions, being the captain of my own ship.

    I think what made me more pissed off than anything though was making $500 a week,
    and making bank deposits of 10,000, 20,000, even 30,000 a week.

    So after years of making $500 a week cash, and living frugally, I said the following to Glenn,

    Glenn, I’ve “I learned so much here. You taught me about sellers, buyers, legal, tax, marketing, there is no way I could have learned this in school.

    “I saved up some money and start my office. I won’t compete with you. I’d like to give you four weeks’ notice.”

    Glenn leaned back in his swivel chair, smiled and said,

    “Brian, you’re irreplaceable here.
    You came to me knowing nothing and now you know everything you need to know.
    You never asked for a raise or a partnership stake in the business.

    I can honestly say that without you over the last two and half years I would not have made the kind of money that I have.
    I have two things to say to you before you go onto greener pastures.”

    My God I was really nervous. What was Glenn going on to say?

    “The first I want to ask you is, what took you so long?”
    Then he laughed.
    “I expected you to hang in there for about six months and move on.
    You’re really smart and you should have started your own business long ago.”

    “The second thing I want to tell you is I’m going to give you a bonus,
    (he takes out his checkbook, and writes this check out)

    “and I don’t want you to look at it until you sit down to car and drive away, deal?”

    I said, “deal!”

    I got to my car, exhale, and take the check out of my pocket.
    It was for $15,000.

    Back in 1986 that was a lot of money.
    In the memo I remember what was written,

    “for my good friend Brian.”

    “““““““““““““““““““““`

    With everything I learned over that 2 1/2 years, it didn’t take me long to be profitable.

    I got a modest office space, with neighbors that were white-collar professionals, and attorney and CPA.
    I had a secretary part-time for 3 months, then full time.
    And Glenn even took me to lunch every week, said he missed me.

    That first business was very special to me.
    I have had several businesses since then, but that first one was my favorite.

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    My wish for all that reads this is I hope you find your “Glenn” and you bust your tail working and reading. And learning.

  7. Mario Mormile

    Scott-

    Thank you! Your article is a great reminder to take action and bring value to the encounter/ relationship. It is a gift to have great mentors and people who want to see me succeed. Also, sharing my goals with everyone- I need to do that more. Thanks!

  8. Julie Greene

    Scott, this was a great article – it has changed my whole way of thinking about who might be an effective mentor….Especially Step 4 – to identify someone who can (and wants) to help you…right now I’m looking to purchase a few multi- family properties a year to achieve a modest level of financial freedom. It never dawned on me that I need to look for a “realistic mentor”. Someone who has completed the next step of where I want to go. A lightbulb moment! I felt like you were speaking directly to me – thank you! I heard you!

    And Brian Gibbons – I’ve read your story somewhere before on BP, and it’s just as good the second time around. Thanks for sharing your story here!!

  9. Georgia Baker

    Scott, thank you for sharing, “The Ultimate Guide to Finding Incredible Mentors”
    As you know, I am new to this site as well as this industry. In my intro. I stated that I am in search of a mentor, but thank to this article you have shared I realize that I have a few steps to clarify first. So, today I will clarify my goals; my financial goals, time period goals and which part of investing I want to began with. I have been watching & reading many webinars & books/ articles, and still am not completely sure if being a Licenced Real Estate agent is a high priority. Any opinions on this from anyone would be great as this is a portion of my goals from the perspective of having access to more properties.
    As I read this article, I realized that there are many areas I need to invest more learning and clarification time into. So I must say thank you once again for sharing these 5 essential great ways to finding mentors. I know also realize that 1 mentor is valuable, but multiple mentors for different areas are very beneficial.
    I may not have the experience to help others with real estate investing yet. However, I would love to share my why’s and what has attracted me to real estate.
    I worked in the dental field for 18 yrs. and recently, the past 2 yrs. have been helping

  10. Rick Santasiere

    Fantastic article Scott! I truly appreciate the words of wisdom. I am at the point in my investing career where I need both to be mentored, and mentor others. I know that I will learn all the way up until the day I die, so my levels of gratitude and humility are immense. I love your thoughts and your very concise messages about appreciation, and actually have some commonalities of one of your mentors. Part of being successful will ALWAYS pertain to being “others centered,” and I truly look forward to the day that I am sought to by a newcomer to share my experience. Thanks again, ad best of luck to you. Super article!!

  11. Ebony Smith

    Awesome article Scott!! I feel like I’m in a great place (BP) to grow and gain the knowledge I desire to be successful in this industry. This article really helped me understand the difference and comprehend the importance. I would absolutely LOVE TO HAVE YOU AS MY 1st official MENTOR. CONSIDER ME PLEASE.. I’m not looking for the easy road and I can commit to carrying my load and building my business and contributing to yours in any way possible THANKS SCOTT

  12. Sheika Nikole Reid

    Great article. We all need great coaches and mentors. What kind of coach (life coach, time management, etc.) is Rich? How did you find him, and how much do you pay him or what is a reasonable amount to budget for a coach of that calliber?

  13. Dio Donnie

    Scott thank you for posting, you probably saved me from a lot of mistakes that I was already doing when it comes to finding mentors. also Brian thank you for responding too, when your mentor said “some will, some won’t, so what” that really helped me realize why I have been as the say ” paralysis by analysis “. for that I thank you for posting Brain

  14. Michael Williams

    This read should be mandatory for all of those new people coming to the site seeking mentors. I am quite sure that most of them are only thinking of what the mentor could do for them and not about what they should bring to the table.

    This blog has inspired me to start back writing my affirmations and setting my goals in writing again everyday. When I was doing that in the past I was growing and learning rapidly. One of my mentors told me to “go in business were most are afraid to go” and you will prosper. Thanks for helping me to get back on track Scott.

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