Move out condition and disposition of security deposit

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Looking for clarity on charges that may be applied to security deposit.

Tenant moved out after two years leaving an extremely dirty house ( floors, carpets, cabinets, appliances, outdoor area/yard). A very badly soiled and damaged carpet in living room had to be torn out and trashed. Carpet was about three years old and in good condition at tenant move in, but not brand new. A few other examples: only two light bulbs remained in the house - all the rest had been removed. Some sort of permanent adhesive was used to apply thick filigreed rubberized shelf liners to all kitchen cabinets shelves and needed a power tool and sander to remove them. Oven had a thick layer of congealed grease in the base, and the list goes on. The lease contains a list of estimated cleaning and repair costs beyond normal wear and tear that would apply. Tenant was reminded about this a few weeks prior to move out, but ignored it completely. Tenant had inspected and signed a move in checklist with photos, noting no deficiencies. For comparison I have documented the recent move out condition with photos and video.

The one substantial damage was to carpet and some smaller replacement costs (bulbs, burner pans and such). Most other issues are cleaning related. What items can be charged to security deposit and should these be at actual costs or per the cost sheet included in lease? Should photos and receipts be included with disposition of security deposit?

The tenant has not yet provided a new forwarding address for receiving security deposit despite two reminders before move out. What are my options if the new address is not received within 30 days from move out?

Thank you for input and suggestions.