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Hi BP world.  I am currently investing in Rochester NY and often wonder how my fellow landlords/investors deal with stress on a daily basis. It seems as grow bigger in my investment career, it has become much tougher to manager properties, tenants, family, ... and the list goes on. 

Any suggestions on how you guys are handling this because I know we all deal with the same headaches day in day out. thanks!

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It's called Bourbon

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