Sometimes a Lemon Is Just a Lemon
Someone once told me something simple that has stuck with me:
"Sometimes lemons are just lemons. You don't have to make lemonade every time."
The more deals I study, the more sense that makes.
Real estate teaches us to solve problems, and that's valuable. We learn creative finance, negotiation, renovation, repositioning, different exit strategies and ways to structure opportunities that aren't immediately obvious.
Eventually though, creativity can become dangerous if we start believing every problem needs to be solved into a deal.
Sometimes we peel back the layers and discover something we didn't expect.
The rehab is considerably larger than anticipated.
The rents don't support the debt.
The seller's terms don't leave enough margin.
The title has complications.
Our original ARV was too optimistic.
The financing technically works, but leaves everyone with too little room if something changes.
That's where I think experience begins asking a different question.
Not:
"How do I make this deal work?"
But:
"What is this opportunity actually telling me?"
Those are very different questions.
One begins with the outcome already decided. We want the property, so now we're searching for a path that confirms what we want.
The other leaves room for discovery.
Maybe we restructure it.
Maybe the seller adjusts.
Maybe another investor has a strategy better suited for the property.
Maybe we keep the relationship and revisit it six months from now.
Or maybe we simply walk away.
None of those automatically mean the work was wasted.
We still underwrote the property. We practiced asking better questions. We learned something about financing, construction, the market or ourselves. We may have built relationships with lenders, agents, contractors or other investors along the way.
That's another rep.
And sometimes the rep teaches us that the lemon is simply a lemon.
We don't have to squeeze every opportunity until something profitable comes out.
Good stewardship also means knowing when not to transact.
So I'll throw this one toward the experienced investors here:
What made you walk away from a deal you initially really wanted, and what did that decision teach you?
I'd especially love for newer investors to hear those stories.
We spend plenty of time sharing what we bought.
There's probably just as much value in understanding what experienced investors chose not to buy.
Sarge
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we've made a career out of problem properties like:
failed septic test
landlocked
title problem
foreclosure
tax sale
bank reo
fire/smoke damage
water damage
mold damage
ice damage
unpermitted uses
unpermitted rehabs
wet lands
flood zone
endangered species
historic properties
stimmatized properties